FabSwingers.com forum: 20 year old self

By *coxy69 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

Ok, if you could give your 20 year old self one piece of advice, what would it be?

I would tell myself to travel more, see more people and places, it’s a big world out there

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I too would travel. I planned to, I had the dreams to but my dad told me no and to carry on with university. It’s a huge regret now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should both just travel now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop eating crap

Don’t smoke

You’re gorgeous

Chill out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travel more

Enjoy life a bit more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop letting people walk all over you, move out, youth is beautiful you're not fat and ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 would be too late, the damage had been done long before.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Don’t worry, you will lose your virginity at some point

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By *coxy69 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

I don’t think we (all of us men or women) realise just how good we look at 20!, it’s not until we get older we start to understand what “we had!”

Now it seems to take a lot of effort to keep in shape

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By *coxy69 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"20 would be too late, the damage had been done long before.

Damage??

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

"Should both just travel now! "

I will, once I’ve finished this degree. I hope to one day take a year out in a campervan and travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"20 would be too late, the damage had been done long before.

Damage??

Yes, damage.

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By *coxy69 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"20 would be too late, the damage had been done long before.

Damage??

Yes, damage."

Oh dear

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Quit now, life will never be as good as it was at uni.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have trained to be a policewoman instead of marrying way to young

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Save your money don't piss it all up against a wall and have more sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years ago... hmmmm

Dont sell the mk2 escort rs2000! I dont regret things... that i do.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Don't marry her....she's a bitch

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Don't choose him to be the first man you have sex with. Stick with women a bit longer.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"I would have trained to be a policewoman instead of marrying way to young"

Same!!

I had been accepted into the police aged 19 but had to lose a wee bit of weight first and they gave me 6 months to do that. However started dating my ex and didn't lose the weight.

To my 20 year old self I would say you have done the right thing in breaking up with him, don't let him talk you round. I did and was married to him for 17 yrs!! Have 3 great boys though so no regrets

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Don't take life too seriously, its not permanent. Have fun, it will all work out.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Not one piece but three...

1. Here's how to have a good career, get started now.

2. Don't miss out on that house.

3. Don't marry that woman. In fact I wouldn't even touch her with somebody else's bargepole.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Dont fail your uni exams, they will, seemingly purposely, give you misinformation about resits causing you to fail and get kicked out of uni even if you have proof that the information they gave you was wrong

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Lottery numbers

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Your figure is fantastic, you should were a bikini.

Travel more and enjoy life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just three words. "Go for it!"

And that applies to almost situation. Was so self conscious and fearful of doing anything back then be it travel, starting something new, education, yes women of course. I feel sorry for 20 year old me and the missed opportunities lol

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Get your haircut and ignore the negative comments about being tall and slim.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I don’t think we (all of us men or women) realise just how good we look at 20!, it’s not until we get older we start to understand what “we had!”

Now it seems to take a lot of effort to keep in shape"

I look better now than I did at 20 must be like a good wine getting better as I get older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to my 20 odd year old self every day in the mirror

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nothing, I'd tell them nothing. I would have no relevant advice if I hadn't made the mistakes and successes I have and I wouldn't listen anyway.

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By *ravelling TogMan
over a year ago

sleaford

I wouldn't tell my 20 year old self to do anything different. For better or worse all the bad decisions I've made are who I am today.

Regrets force me to do things I wouldn't do

Ill choices remind me not to do certain things

And good memories remind me to do them more.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It gets better.

Also stop putting up with crap sex and selfish lovers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a few months one of your friends is gonna ask you to go out.

You’re gonna get approached by a woman in Gucci shoes....tell her your gay!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just live for fun and love. If I changed my path by going back in time I wouldn't be me...

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Stick to the 4 FFFF S ,

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By *liceinWonderland38Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Leave the relationship I was in that I knew wasn’t right, travel the world and accept who I was. And to always strive for happiness and not what others wanted for me

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Chase quality of life not money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell myself not to get rid of my first car ( Mk1 Ford Escort) they will be worth piles of money in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure my 20 year old self would have listened....

Life takes it's own paths no matter what advice I would go back and give myself.

Perhaps though always be true to what's important to you might have been a useful suggestion.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep your mouth shut and get on with it...

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By *coxy69 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"15 years ago... hmmmm

Dont sell the mk2 escort rs2000! I dont regret things... that i do."

OMG!! What idiot would sell a Mk2 RS2000,

If I could go back in time I’D kick your arse

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By *coxy69 OP Man
over a year ago

Stone

"I wouldn't tell my 20 year old self to do anything different. For better or worse all the bad decisions I've made are who I am today.

Regrets force me to do things I wouldn't do

Ill choices remind me not to do certain things

And good memories remind me to do them more."

I like this ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Head for liverpool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm I’m not sure

I was with hubs but we didn’t have our children

I’ve been with him all of my adult life

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"15 years ago... hmmmm

Dont sell the mk2 escort rs2000! I dont regret things... that i do.

OMG!! What idiot would sell a Mk2 RS2000,

If I could go back in time I’D kick your arse

I know i kick myself all the time. sold it to buy my e30 m3 off my grandad. Id sooner have the rs2000 than the m3 tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing I knew my destiny and direction, every mistake I have made along the way hasn't changed that path just made it clearer.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Take that opportunity when it gets offered x Storm x

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