FabSwingers.com forum: What do you think

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of men who have been on fab for awhile with no verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me as some guys I’ve met have had none but they have had meets before. Some don’t like verifications just like myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think nothing. Just because there's no veri' doesn't say he's not met anyone.

They're not the be all and end all of fab'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I was on fab I thought that verifications were important, that they made a difference with regards to who would meet or gave others proof of who I am.

Over time I realised that verifications count for very little and actually the people that I wanted to meet don't need an arbitrary opinion of who I am, they make their own minds up.

Verifications count for very little other than that you're real, anything else is just another person's opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It seems to be the be all and end all for many women on here.

I've been called a messer because I have no veris and I have read lots! Of profiles like this..

"if you are not meet verified don't contact me"

This annoys me because it's not my fault that I'm not meet verified on my profile.

Women say it as if it's so easy for men to get meet verified.

It's like a full time job just to get a message, nevermind get meet verified!! Ffs

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It seems to be the be all and end all for many women on here.

I've been called a messer because I have no veris and I have read lots! Of profiles like this..

"if you are not meet verified don't contact me"

This annoys me because it's not my fault that I'm not meet verified on my profile.

Women say it as if it's so easy for men to get meet verified.

It's like a full time job just to get a message, nevermind get meet verified!! Ffs

Look at it this way - the profiles that expect that aren't for you and it's a good filter. People aren't going to change what they're looking for and are entitled to use whatever criteria they want.

So rather than worrying about how other people choose to use the site, surely it's better to focus on how you can use it to get the maximum enjoyment from it that you can.

You've mentioned on other threads about people you've met, have none of them verified you?

Interested to know too, if it's not your fault you've not been verified (which you're right, it's not directly your fault), whose fault it is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It seems to be the be all and end all for many women on here.

I've been called a messer because I have no veris and I have read lots! Of profiles like this..

"if you are not meet verified don't contact me"

This annoys me because it's not my fault that I'm not meet verified on my profile.

Women say it as if it's so easy for men to get meet verified.

It's like a full time job just to get a message, nevermind get meet verified!! Ffs

Look at it this way - the profiles that expect that aren't for you and it's a good filter. People aren't going to change what they're looking for and are entitled to use whatever criteria they want.

So rather than worrying about how other people choose to use the site, surely it's better to focus on how you can use it to get the maximum enjoyment from it that you can.

You've mentioned on other threads about people you've met, have none of them verified you?

Interested to know too, if it's not your fault you've not been verified (which you're right, it's not directly your fault), whose fault it is? "

I met one lady from this site. We couldn't verity each other because we both didn't have any veris.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It seems to be the be all and end all for many women on here.

I've been called a messer because I have no veris and I have read lots! Of profiles like this..

"if you are not meet verified don't contact me"

This annoys me because it's not my fault that I'm not meet verified on my profile.

Women say it as if it's so easy for men to get meet verified.

It's like a full time job just to get a message, nevermind get meet verified!! Ffs

Look at it this way - the profiles that expect that aren't for you and it's a good filter. People aren't going to change what they're looking for and are entitled to use whatever criteria they want.

So rather than worrying about how other people choose to use the site, surely it's better to focus on how you can use it to get the maximum enjoyment from it that you can.

You've mentioned on other threads about people you've met, have none of them verified you?

Interested to know too, if it's not your fault you've not been verified (which you're right, it's not directly your fault), whose fault it is?

I met one lady from this site. We couldn't verity each other because we both didn't have any veris. "

If one of you for cam verified then you could verify each other

Either way my point about not worrying about how others choose to use the site and focussing on how you do stands

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