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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.. Meeting someone from fab just for a chat and a coffee or do you want and expect more on the first meet?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


".. Meeting someone from fab just for a chat and a coffee or do you want and expect more on the first meet? "

Ideal first meet for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm well aware I'm not holding the cards at the table. I'll take what I can get. Plus I love hanging out with women, much more interesting than my guy friends.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

More than happy

Social aspect is just as good here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a coffee and natter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have meet three ladies from Fab for just a social and never expected anything other than it would be just a social meet. From these meets was happy one never went to a further meet, unhappy one didn't and more than happy one social ended in kissing and cuddling, not sure the other people in the carpark were though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly happy. I would not expect more because we may not click right. -Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good social can be just as exciting as a meet!

I love going for a coffee with someone new!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that’s known as a social

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Coffee and a chat are a great way to get to know people.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I enjoy the social aspect and if it doesn't lead to a meet then that's fine also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met lots of people for coffee and chat without expecting or wanting anything more.

I think that socials are a fantastic thing on their own and they can help build anticipation for another meeting.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anything more than a social is expected we absolutely dont go any further. If you dont get in socially then we won get on doing anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social, for lunch or drinks, is usually our preferred ‘first time’. However, if we were invited to their house, we may do more, if the mood takes us...

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yep. I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2/3 of the opportunities for me to meet since I started meeting again have simply been this type of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer a social first, there has to be an attraction

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't want or expect more from a first meet. Sometimes it's nice to just meet people for who they are without thinking x, y and z needs to happen. I quite like making friends on here as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd be happy meeting for a coffee first. I'd probably feel more comfortable. I'm not looking for many encounters on here, just one regular one would be fine, so it's important that there's a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sound good to me.. I’ll have to swap the coffee for a good cuppa instead .. I’m not a fan of coffee

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I actually would just want a coffee and chat on first meeting with someone. I like a good natter and hope there is a "connection".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. I do."

I've got a half d*unk plastic bottle of Perry, sorry cider, in the garage if I could interest you in a social?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I met someone recently and I felt abit awkward because she wanted more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a bit of a misery really for the social side of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'd be happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I/we do that all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is, mostly, all I do at the mo, so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of my meets this time round have been social

I actually find cafes and coffee shops and think 'this'd be a great place to have a Fab social'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want or expect more from a first meet. Sometimes it's nice to just meet people for who they are without thinking x, y and z needs to happen. I quite like making friends on here as well. "

This for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people just have to be honest with what they want from the first meet.

I would be just as happy with a social chat as I would be with something more happening.

I am good like that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always social first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You all seem like a nice chilled out lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a social first,and never expect more.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

That would be a nice first meet. Coffee, cake, getting to know eachother..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want or expect more from a first meet. Sometimes it's nice to just meet people for who they are without thinking x, y and z needs to happen. I quite like making friends on here as well.

This for me too. "

And me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never expect anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be a nice first meet. Coffee, cake, getting to know eachother.."

Cake is always good.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I always have a social first, great way to tell if there is a spark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be a nice first meet. Coffee, cake, getting to know eachother..

Cake is always good. "

No cake. No deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To each their own, but for me a social meet seems like a perfectly acceptable/sensible thing to do, for alot of reasons.

The wonders of the internet do not always relate directly to the real world, despite what some people seem to think.

That said, I can understand the attraction of a meet solely for sex, so, whatever floats yer boat I suppose!

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Always social first. My first social was taking my dogs for a walk and it was great, totally took the pressure off x

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


".. Meeting someone from fab just for a chat and a coffee or do you want and expect more on the first meet? "

Absolutely. Coffee no problem. Coffee with friends already made and coffee with potential friends to be made. Never say never either AND I never assume anything. Most important to me is that everyone having this coffee is relaxed and cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be a nice first meet. Coffee, cake, getting to know eachother..

Cake is always good.

No cake. No deal"

That's my new life motto.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"I don't want or expect more from a first meet. Sometimes it's nice to just meet people for who they are without thinking x, y and z needs to happen. I quite like making friends on here as well.

This for me too.

And me! "

Same!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I prefer a social first. On the odd occasion it’s become more but I prefer to make arrangements for more later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. Meeting someone from fab just for a chat and a coffee or do you want and expect more on the first meet?

Absolutely. Coffee no problem. Coffee with friends already made and coffee with potential friends to be made. Never say never either AND I never assume anything. Most important to me is that everyone having this coffee is relaxed and cool. "

Or ridiculously priced cocktails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like my first meet with someone from fab to be a laid back social like you've described. I wouldn't mind a coffee and chat at all. I think it's good to find out if there's an attraction and make yourself a little more comfortable before going any further.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


".. Meeting someone from fab just for a chat and a coffee or do you want and expect more on the first meet?

Absolutely. Coffee no problem. Coffee with friends already made and coffee with potential friends to be made. Never say never either AND I never assume anything. Most important to me is that everyone having this coffee is relaxed and cool.

Or ridiculously priced cocktails. "

Ooooh. Now. That's where I draw the line and swiftly apply my crafty seduction techniques.

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By *hyKentGuyMan
over a year ago

sheerness

I’d be happy with coffee and a chat. Oh and cake!!!! Think social meetings are best ice breakers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. Meeting someone from fab just for a chat and a coffee or do you want and expect more on the first meet?

Absolutely. Coffee no problem. Coffee with friends already made and coffee with potential friends to be made. Never say never either AND I never assume anything. Most important to me is that everyone having this coffee is relaxed and cool.

Or ridiculously priced cocktails.

Ooooh. Now. That's where I draw the line and swiftly apply my crafty seduction techniques. "

Hahahaha.

I quite agree.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we only meet for a chat and a drink the first time we meet someone.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Now that would be great and a good old conversation

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

If we have traveled a bit for the chat meet and we have had good chats online if we all click we will when possible go to the next step as time is limited for most people and being Spontaneous can be more fun ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could spend a day happily staring into her eyes without coffee so yes

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


".. Meeting someone from fab just for a chat and a coffee or do you want and expect more on the first meet? "
happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first up works just fine for us, if we didn't click then fine, hopefully still had a good night out, but if we did, then a bit of sexual tension in the air is a thrill

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have played it all ways social no meet. straight to a meet and social which turns into a meet. I think a social first for me is the way to go but there are always the exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just chat & having a coffee would suit me fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect a three-course meal at IKEA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is be furious! Coffee is awful I like milk shake

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