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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not what you look like when you're doin what you're doin, it's what you're doin when you look like you're doin what you're doin. Express yourself

https://youtu.be/jW4VZ5J0fNQ

In what ways do you express yourself? Through the written word on forums or a blog? Do you have musical talent and let it all out through your instrument?(pardon the pun) Are you artistic/do you draw, paint or sculpt? Is dance your medium and you let yourself go to the music? Are you a builder or a Baker? An actor or a playwright? A gamer, a sportsman, or a pub quizzer? A good friend, or something else I haven't mentioned?

What avenue or avenues do you use to show the best of you?

Thinking on this about myself, my avenue has to be work strangely enough. I spend more time there than anywhere else and I work a large company with a few hundred staff. As I work as part of the maintenance team my day is spent keeping the place running, and making and strengthening personal relationships with the staff. It's like a little village here and I look forward to enjoying a joke and a catch up with my colleagues, as well as the sense of achievement I get when I a fix a problem for someone and get them going again. I'm at my best when I'm solving problems

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

Good thread!

I feel I'm at my best when I'm helping one of my sales team by developing them, visiting customers with them and helping them get things over the line. People go into sales for all kinds of reasons.... Some are told that they MUST because they're the life and soul of the party etc etc

Generally these are the ones that need the most development because they have a great personality but need to be fine tuned.... I help them achieve their goals and put food on their table and also help their customers get a better experience than dealing with a shitty salesperson.... This is what gives me my personal sense of achievement

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I work for a distance learning training provider, so my "day job" is travelling up and down the country carrying out information and enrollment sessions, so basically I am paid to talk.

Away from work, I express myself by, erm, talking for a hobby, as I am a presenter of a multi-award winning radio show. Also, I am in a band, and spend quite a lot of time on stage. I also curate and host a stage at an annual music festival.

But, when it comes to websites like this, I haven't a clue how to make a first approach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good thread!

I feel I'm at my best when I'm helping one of my sales team by developing them, visiting customers with them and helping them get things over the line. People go into sales for all kinds of reasons.... Some are told that they MUST because they're the life and soul of the party etc etc

Generally these are the ones that need the most development because they have a great personality but need to be fine tuned.... I help them achieve their goals and put food on their table and also help their customers get a better experience than dealing with a shitty salesperson.... This is what gives me my personal sense of achievement "

Awesome! You get to see the fruits of your labour blossom before your eyes. It takes a strong, intelligent and level headed person to thrive in man management and get the best out of people. Kudos sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice post-

I am at my best problem solving and organising things but also need a constant creative outlet. I write, I make things as well and working on making more time for it, but probably best achieved after summer holidays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At work

Treating each child as an individual, not just a tick on a STAT sheet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I work for a distance learning training provider, so my "day job" is travelling up and down the country carrying out information and enrollment sessions, so basically I am paid to talk.

Away from work, I express myself by, erm, talking for a hobby, as I am a presenter of a multi-award winning radio show. Also, I am in a band, and spend quite a lot of time on stage. I also curate and host a stage at an annual music festival.

But, when it comes to websites like this, I haven't a clue how to make a first approach."

Wow! You have so many ways to put your best foot forward, and they all sound great! I imagine you need to have a lot of confidence to present radio and also confidence in your ability to play in a band.

I think the difference with Fab is that a love interest wants you as a package, from looks to personality. You can be confident in your own skin and in your ability to engage someone in conversation, but it's still a bit daunting putting that first message out there to a random stranger. I like those nerves though personally, they keep us on our toes

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By *liceinWonderland38Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

I feel I’m finally in a good place in life, I have an amazing job that allows me to what I like to do the most, help people. I’ve found a niche in the organisation I work in that allows a little freedom in what I do, and I’m making headway for promotion by talking about what is important to me and the people I work with.

I also write poetry, mainly for myself but it’s a good way to get my emotions out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I express myself through music, playing guitar and singing, I write poetry when the inspiration strikes me, I express my values and beliefs through my work both paid and voluntary and through my day to day interactions. I like to engage in things I feel passionate about as that gives me purpose.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

I'm at my best on the hockey pitch. Captain and goalkeeper. Need to be vocal, giving clear instructions to my players, which they always appreciate. Also be encouraging and motivational and also being creatively insukting

I also enjoy the aggressive nature of being a keeper- needing to dominate and intimidate the opposition. Sometimes its really great getting the better of a young guy, but after the game, having a beer with him and helping him understand how he can improve.

Love being the guy who stokes the fires of the team ethic. Our club has had some problems recently, but my team has got stronger- bringing players into the club and keeping them there.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’m not the best at expressing myself as tend to stay quite private.

However, I’m a good listener which works well at work in my extra duties as a staff councillor and mental health first aider, and with friends and family. If I can help someone forget about their problems for just a little while and smiling, then that’s an achievement and a step in the right direction

For me I either write letters that don’t get delivered; or have a v&c or two; or more recently found my love for drawing again, all of which keep my mind focused rather than letting it wander

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I am at my best at work and at play. Except when I have been playing hard the night before. Then I find Netflix is the answer.

I work as a community carer. It’s rewarding in so many ways.

When I feel the need for peace and tranquility, I spend my time nurturing my garden. Sadly I have probably been spending a bit too much time on my lady garden recently and not enough on my actual garden.... sadly not sadly

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I "expressed" myself before work thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am at my best and flourish in unknown environments, sometimes very highly stressful environments, I sometimes work in a close team of between 2 and 6 depending on the clients requirements.

In my personal life I give some of my free time working with a group who help the homeless street children, feeding them giving them guidance and direction. Sometimes we personally pay for medical treatment that they may need, thankfully the Egyptian Government have started to create a much better and free medical service for the poor. I find this very rewarding.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I am at my best when making people smile.

I think it's why I am good at my job in a swinging environment as know it makes people happy.

I tend to play counsellor to a lot of friends and that's a part of it for sure - cheering them up and making them think positively again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i get the highlights pls i saw how long it was and worried ad get lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I express myself with music mostly, playing and occasionally writing.

I like making things too and can get really absorbed in a project.

I really wish I could draw though.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"I work for a distance learning training provider, so my "day job" is travelling up and down the country carrying out information and enrollment sessions, so basically I am paid to talk.

Away from work, I express myself by, erm, talking for a hobby, as I am a presenter of a multi-award winning radio show. Also, I am in a band, and spend quite a lot of time on stage. I also curate and host a stage at an annual music festival.

But, when it comes to websites like this, I haven't a clue how to make a first approach.

Wow! You have so many ways to put your best foot forward, and they all sound great! I imagine you need to have a lot of confidence to present radio and also confidence in your ability to play in a band.

I think the difference with Fab is that a love interest wants you as a package, from looks to personality. You can be confident in your own skin and in your ability to engage someone in conversation, but it's still a bit daunting putting that first message out there to a random stranger. I like those nerves though personally, they keep us on our toes "

Yes, I suppose I do have lots of confidence. I also have the perfect face for radio!

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