FabSwingers.com forum: 3 times, yep 3 times

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have arranged to meet a couple. They were due to come to my place.. all arranged via text,phone and Whatsapp. And yep, 3 times they cancelled. Each meet was set up with at least 2 weeks notice.. now i see there profile says 'Find it hard to meet genuine people'. There is a Pot a kettle and it is Black.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Playas. Block and move on I’m afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we only meet at clubs these days...

I'd have blocked them after the second cancellation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t give them a 4th chance!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is why we only meet at clubs these days...

I'd have blocked them after the second cancellation."

I know. Gave them benefit of doubt.. reasons for cancellations could have been genuine...but i guess i was too green under the gills

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t give them a 4th chance!"

Like the first comment. They have been blocked and i am moving on.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Plenty more etc etc etc......learn and move on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo just move on OP think they might have been toying with the idea of meeting you ... makes them most unattractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually cancelled on someone that many times before.

. Although I had met him for socials. The first time I was poorly. The second time other circumstances got in the way but the last and final time was because of my own doubts about him. I like connections to build and I also want someone being truthful to me. He was being very cagey over some stuff and I decided to cut my losses and cancel so it's not always as black and white as things seem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had to cancel twice before

Sometimes things happen in my life and it can be anything up to 1/2 hour before on occasion. I’m not going to go into on here but my home life will always ALWAYS take priority.

Not only that, I’ve cancelled before when my gut instinct kicks in too. If I have an uneasy feeling, I’ll cancel and won’t continue.

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

I see profiles that say 'always horny, if on here then looking and available.' Me - you free now? Them - 'not this week, maybe next.'

Right I'll hotlist for now and have the same conversation in two weeks leading to a blocking, yeah?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of time wasters and dreamers on here. We always insist on a phone call before hand and never arrange anything more than a few hours in advance. We also get them to call us on arrival without giving them name/number of the property. Sometimes helps out the wankers!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We give one chance only now. It might sound harsh but meh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We give one chance only now. It might sound harsh but meh!"

Gonna do that myself now. It's the single males that get a bad rep yet some females/couples are equally as bad..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We give one chance only now. It might sound harsh but meh!

Gonna do that myself now. It's the single males that get a bad rep yet some females/couples are equally as bad.."

Everyone (singles and couples) can be time wasters. Arranging anything way in advance is generally hit and miss at best, for both parties, especially when you haven’t even had a phone chat. After all, who really knows they’ll be horny and totally in the mood for a meet on the 12th October at 7.32pm? We just stick a meet up a few hours before stating what we’re looking for. People usually know their availability within a few hours and whether or not they’re horny. Most we win, but have lost a few due to time wasters. It’s not fool proof but works out long term.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We give one chance only now. It might sound harsh but meh!

Gonna do that myself now. It's the single males that get a bad rep yet some females/couples are equally as bad.."

Yes you're right.

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

You asked them 2 times too many imo!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

3 times!! that's rather bad form. fuck em (or not) and move on.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I only ever give one chance now for a last minute cancellation, ghosting or no show. If its been a reschedule with plenty of notice then that's a bit different. I always speak to them on the phone or cam first and never engage in wank chat or pic swapping, I also arrange to meet in a public place for a social first. This helps to get rid of the dreamers and cheaters. I have the same rules for men women and couples as they can all potentially be like this. It's not gender specific.

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