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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Know it’s been done countless times, but let’s boost each other up. Everyone has hang ups, we all have preferences, but there’s always something about ourselves that we like. Feel free to compliment anyone who posts, but please say something you like about yourself x Focus on what’s positive, no negativity allowed x Not a moan Monday, but a magnificent Monday xx

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

I have body shyness ,worry about wobbly bits and breasts going south ,no perky 25 year old here ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband comments on my weight constantly which crushes my soul...but I've learnt to just put on support knickers and rock it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have body shyness ,worry about wobbly bits and breasts going south ,no perky 25 year old here .. "

You don’t have to be a perky 25 year old, from your profile pic you have lovely curves xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My husband comments on my weight constantly which crushes my soul...but I've learnt to just put on support knickers and rock it "

With your figure you have nothing to worry about! Hello curves! Support knickers totally rock, and when they have a peachy bum like yours inside them, they can’t do anything else xx

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By *ikerswingCouple
over a year ago

mcr

turned 50 this year(mr) and always had body issues work hard in the gym but cant lose the little buddha belly.got good shoulders but long arms so biceps look small in comparison.see all these guys on here with ripped bods does make me feel old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband comments on my weight constantly which crushes my soul...but I've learnt to just put on support knickers and rock it "

Sit on his face and ch### him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"turned 50 this year(mr) and always had body issues work hard in the gym but cant lose the little buddha belly.got good shoulders but long arms so biceps look small in comparison.see all these guys on here with ripped bods does make me feel old "

Don’t forget, Buddha is revered, and that’s one fabulous bottom you have there! xx

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By *uzybabesWoman
over a year ago

manchester

Don't let him crush your soul, crush his comments and tell him that your glad his notices your gorgeous body just as much as other guys do

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Thank you my hubby loves them thank god ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't let him crush your soul, crush his comments and tell him that your glad his notices your gorgeous body just as much as other guys do "

This!! It is a gorgeous body xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you my hubby loves them thank god ..."

He obviously has fabulous taste xx

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By *r_RobertMan
over a year ago

Dagenham

You folks all have sensational bods imho.

As a slim chap, it can be rather soul destroying at times when you see the muscles and the dad bods getting all the love. But hey ho, I am what I am and have met girls out there that dig it. Currently on the look out for some here too, ha.

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By *uzybabesWoman
over a year ago

manchester

I like my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband comments on my weight constantly which crushes my soul...but I've learnt to just put on support knickers and rock it "

You just went on mw hot list, you have a stunning body

Mr R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You folks all have sensational bods imho.

As a slim chap, it can be rather soul destroying at times when you see the muscles and the dad bods getting all the love. But hey ho, I am what I am and have met girls out there that dig it. Currently on the look out for some here too, ha."

Nothing wrong with slim, great bum and legs btw xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like my eyes "

Some people have stunning eyes, and hello to anyone who dresses as sexy as your profile pics shows xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My husband comments on my weight constantly which crushes my soul...but I've learnt to just put on support knickers and rock it

You just went on mw hot list, you have a stunning body

Mr R

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As does your lovely lady Mr R, you obviously have excellent taste xx

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I like my legs and bum, the rest, well....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like my legs and bum, the rest, well.... "

You certainly have great thighs! Bum too xx

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not too keen on my Mum tum

Jo x

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By *r_RobertMan
over a year ago

Dagenham


"Know it’s been done countless times, but let’s boost each other up. Everyone has hang ups, we all have preferences, but there’s always something about ourselves that we like. Feel free to compliment anyone who posts, but please say something you like about yourself x Focus on what’s positive, no negativity allowed x Not a moan Monday, but a magnificent Monday xx"

Truly a magnificent bod on yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not too keen on my Mum tum

Jo x "

You have an amazing figure Jo xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Know it’s been done countless times, but let’s boost each other up. Everyone has hang ups, we all have preferences, but there’s always something about ourselves that we like. Feel free to compliment anyone who posts, but please say something you like about yourself x Focus on what’s positive, no negativity allowed x Not a moan Monday, but a magnificent Monday xx

Truly a magnificent bod on yourself "

Thank you xx

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By *r_RobertMan
over a year ago

Dagenham


"Not too keen on my Mum tum

Jo x "

The entire Mum package is a delight to look at

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By *uzybabesWoman
over a year ago

manchester

Your photos are stunnng. What a gorgeous woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mr) have developed a bit of a dad bod since our last daughter was born 3 years ago. Going to a club for the first time ever this week and it's playing on my mind a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very hard to be body confident but I do like my hair, my eyes and my boobs (although I wish they were perkier )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone has body hang ups, everyone should rock what they have! I'm part of the itty bitty titty committee and get a proper slagging for it

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By *r_RobertMan
over a year ago

Dagenham


"I think everyone has body hang ups, everyone should rock what they have!"

Hear, hear!

And a salute to the Itty Bitty Titty Committee!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I (Mr) have developed a bit of a dad bod since our last daughter was born 3 years ago. Going to a club for the first time ever this week and it's playing on my mind a bit "

You look great, you have a beautiful lady at your side, but it’s true, when we’re about to do something for the first time, we do worry and focus on the negatives things about ourselves. You’re going to do what a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads i dont like when i look in the mirror but i think, fuck it

just a hell of a lot more of me to love hehe..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look fantastic my dear Friend x your smile shines and eyes two old and gosh what a yummy body too..your just a wonderful csringnperson as well xx

As for me , happy Im The dad's bod I have and life is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone has body hang ups, everyone should rock what they have!

Hear, hear!

And a salute to the Itty Bitty Titty Committee!"

Well said.... i miss having itty bitty's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it very hard to be body confident but I do like my hair, my eyes and my boobs (although I wish they were perkier )"

You’re lovely! Your eyes are gorgeous, and your boobs are perfect! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my eyes & boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think everyone has body hang ups, everyone should rock what they have! I'm part of the itty bitty titty committee and get a proper slagging for it "

You look amazing!! Gorgeous figure, and perfectly proportioned. People who are mean to others because of their size etc should stop it, hence this post. We all appreciate something about a particular aesthetic, but it’s should never be shared in a manner that’s detrimental to anyone else, that’s why this is to focus on what we like about ourselves, who cares what anyone else thinks. Build ourselves up without tearing anyone else down xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"loads i dont like when i look in the mirror but i think, fuck it

just a hell of a lot more of me to love hehe.. "

The main word there is love! Rock what you have lovely, you look amazing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"loads i dont like when i look in the mirror but i think, fuck it

just a hell of a lot more of me to love hehe..

The main word there is love! Rock what you have lovely, you look amazing xx"

Right backatcha n i love your ink, soo awesome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look fantastic my dear Friend x your smile shines and eyes two old and gosh what a yummy body too..your just a wonderful csringnperson as well xx

As for me , happy Im The dad's bod I have and life is good "

Thank you. So chuffed to be able to call you my friend. Love your positive outlook, and heck, nothing wrong with your bod, I’ve Fabbed the heck out of your pics! Looking good young man xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your photos are stunnng. What a gorgeous woman "

Thank you lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like my eyes & boobs "

Can’t see your eyes, but your boobs are certainly fantastic xx

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By *.H.SMan
over a year ago

London

Make do with what i got is my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobies are just amazing no matter the size or shape really. So all you itty bitty titty ladies are still fucking amazing in our book

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"loads i dont like when i look in the mirror but i think, fuck it

just a hell of a lot more of me to love hehe..

The main word there is love! Rock what you have lovely, you look amazing xx

Right backatcha n i love your ink, soo awesome"

Thank you, total ink addict, which has caused a few negative reactions and jibes in my direction, but I don’t get it for them anyway, so not something I get bothered about- unless it’s to question my intelligence or morality, then I get annoyed xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make do with what i got is my way "

Perfect answer and great attitude x Hopefully we can all find that in ourselves xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my eyes & boobs

Can’t see your eyes, but your boobs are certainly fantastic xx"
thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone has body hang ups, everyone should rock what they have!

Hear, hear!

And a salute to the Itty Bitty Titty Committee!"

I love mine so no hang ups there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I (Mr) have developed a bit of a dad bod since our last daughter was born 3 years ago. Going to a club for the first time ever this week and it's playing on my mind a bit

You look great, you have a beautiful lady at your side, but it’s true, when we’re about to do something for the first time, we do worry and focus on the negatives things about ourselves. You’re going to do what a lot of people

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can’t find the courage to do, and can bet lots there have felt/feel the same. Take that courage, turn it into confidence and rock it! Have fun!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"loads i dont like when i look in the mirror but i think, fuck it

just a hell of a lot more of me to love hehe..

The main word there is love! Rock what you have lovely, you look amazing xx

Right backatcha n i love your ink, soo awesome

Thank you, total ink addict, which has caused a few negative reactions and jibes in my direction, but I don’t get it for them anyway, so not something I get bothered about- unless it’s to question my intelligence or morality, then I get annoyed xx "

Same here Lol have quite a few myself.. love um!

my fav dig is what are you goin to look when ur old n wrinkly... my reply, same as you but a lot more colourful Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone has body hang ups, everyone should rock what they have! I'm part of the itty bitty titty committee and get a proper slagging for it

You look amazing!! Gorgeous figure, and perfectly proportioned. People who are mean to others because of their size etc should stop it, hence this post. We all appreciate something about a particular aesthetic, but it’s should never be shared in a manner that’s detrimental to anyone else, that’s why this is to focus on what we like about ourselves, who cares what anyone else thinks. Build ourselves up without tearing anyone else down xx "

You're very positive and sweet

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

You have a gorgeous figure OP

I am thinking of starting a burlesque dance class to give me body confidence rather than focusing on changing anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"loads i dont like when i look in the mirror but i think, fuck it

just a hell of a lot more of me to love hehe..

The main word there is love! Rock what you have lovely, you look amazing xx

Right backatcha n i love your ink, soo awesome

Thank you, total ink addict, which has caused a few negative reactions and jibes in my direction, but I don’t get it for them anyway, so not something I get bothered about- unless it’s to question my intelligence or morality, then I get annoyed xx

Same here Lol have quite a few myself.. love um!

my fav dig is what are you goin to look when ur old n wrinkly... my reply, same as you but a lot more colourful Lol"

Love it!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op gorgeous xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op gorgeous xxx"

Great bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a gorgeous figure OP

I am thinking of starting a burlesque dance class to give me body confidence rather than focusing on changing anything "

Thank you. That’s what I did. After my last child I developed PND and hated everything about myself, I joined a burlesque class and although I still have major hang ups (rely a lot on lighting and clever camera angles in my pics) I started getting my confidence back, and I got learn some shexy moves and met amazing people, so my friend pool grew too x You should definitely give it a go. The best burlesque artistes I’ve worked with have been a size 6, a guy, and a size 28, all amazing, sexy and confident xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think everyone has body hang ups, everyone should rock what they have! I'm part of the itty bitty titty committee and get a proper slagging for it

You look amazing!! Gorgeous figure, and perfectly proportioned. People who are mean to others because of their size etc should stop it, hence this post. We all appreciate something about a particular aesthetic, but it’s should never be shared in a manner that’s detrimental to anyone else, that’s why this is to focus on what we like about ourselves, who cares what anyone else thinks. Build ourselves up without tearing anyone else down xx

You're very positive and sweet "

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op gorgeous xxx"

Thank you. You guys are absolutely gorgeous!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"loads i dont like when i look in the mirror but i think, fuck it

just a hell of a lot more of me to love hehe..

The main word there is love! Rock what you have lovely, you look amazing xx

Right backatcha n i love your ink, soo awesome

Thank you, total ink addict, which has caused a few negative reactions and jibes in my direction, but I don’t get it for them anyway, so not something I get bothered about- unless it’s to question my intelligence or morality, then I get annoyed xx

Same here Lol have quite a few myself.. love um!

my fav dig is what are you goin to look when ur old n wrinkly... my reply, same as you but a lot more colourful Lol

Love it!! xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eyes and smile"

Can’t see them, but I do love gorgeous eyes and smiles. Great thighs though! xx

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Love this thread

If you have a hang up about your body,don't. Few of us are perfect. Lots of ladies on here with boob jobs who'd love some of the lush girls on display here, just as some might want their concave bellies.

Rock what you got and,ladies,from personal experience: Do burlesque. It's awesome xx

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"You have a gorgeous figure OP

I am thinking of starting a burlesque dance class to give me body confidence rather than focusing on changing anything "

Do it,do it,do it. Cat xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"turned 50 this year(mr) and always had body issues work hard in the gym but cant lose the little buddha belly.got good shoulders but long arms so biceps look small in comparison.see all these guys on here with ripped bods does make me feel old "

You look great and hot ink aswell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love this thread

If you have a hang up about your body,don't. Few of us are perfect. Lots of ladies on here with boob jobs who'd love some of the lush girls on display here, just as some might want their concave bellies.

Rock what you got and,ladies,from personal experience: Do burlesque. It's awesome xx

"

Totally agree! Don’t much like my mum tum, but I have it because of my youngest, and ironically the PND I experienced led to me doing burlesque, which gave me the confidence to start to love my body- even when I have my hang ups (which are daily, poor Mr must be sick of me whinging) I find something I like and focus on that. It works. Rock the bits you love, and no one will really notice the bits you don’t. It works, I’ve challenged a few status quo’s now, and getting stronger with my acceptance of me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look fantastic my dear Friend x your smile shines and eyes two old and gosh what a yummy body too..your just a wonderful csringnperson as well xx

As for me , happy Im The dad's bod I have and life is good "

Looking very sharp in the suit and the tux good sir

As for myself,I stopped caring what others think a very long time ago so have never had body confidence issues,I know I'm nothing special and I really don't care as for something positive about myself,I do quite like my piercings and tattoos,I don't feel like myself without my piercings in and most of my ink is quite personal to me

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By *r_RobertMan
over a year ago

Dagenham


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Totally agree! Don’t much like my mum tum, but I have it because of my youngest, and ironically the PND I experienced led to me doing burlesque, which gave me the confidence to start to love my body- even when I have my hang ups (which are daily, poor Mr must be sick of me whinging) I find something I like and focus on that. It works. Rock the bits you love, and no one will really notice the bits you don’t. It works, I’ve challenged a few status quo’s now, and getting stronger with my acceptance of me xx"

Well, you're rocking the body, and the personality. The Mr is a lucky bugger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rather adequate elbow...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look fantastic my dear Friend x your smile shines and eyes two old and gosh what a yummy body too..your just a wonderful csringnperson as well xx

As for me , happy Im The dad's bod I have and life is good

Looking very sharp in the suit and the tux good sir

As for myself,I stopped caring what others think a very long time ago so have never had body confidence issues,I know I'm nothing special and I really don't care as for something positive about myself,I do quite like my piercings and tattoos,I don't feel like myself without my piercings in and most of my ink is quite personal to me "

Love ink and piercings. Mine are a visual representation of my journey through life. Great attitude btw, would love to get to a point where I accept myself completely, working on it! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep that is me!

I’m bulimic and a size 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look fantastic my dear Friend x your smile shines and eyes two old and gosh what a yummy body too..your just a wonderful csringnperson as well xx

As for me , happy Im The dad's bod I have and life is good

Looking very sharp in the suit and the tux good sir

As for myself,I stopped caring what others think a very long time ago so have never had body confidence issues,I know I'm nothing special and I really don't care as for something positive about myself,I do quite like my piercings and tattoos,I don't feel like myself without my piercings in and most of my ink is quite personal to me

Love ink and piercings. Mine are a visual representation of my journey through life. Great attitude btw, would love to get to a point where I accept myself completely, working on it! xx"

I have a severe weakness for inked and pierced lasses

Thank you for your kind words,and you'll get to that point where you accept yourself completely one day,it's not easy but it's the greatest reward when it happens

I love your ink,and you have my absolute favourite piercing a lass can have too

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

I feel great about myself, best shape I've been in for years and love the compliments I get after being a tad overweight for a long time..... I'm going to go through and FAB as many of the ladies pictures as I can to show you I appreciate all of your sizes and shapes... Love yourself before anyone can lust over you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Totally agree! Don’t much like my mum tum, but I have it because of my youngest, and ironically the PND I experienced led to me doing burlesque, which gave me the confidence to start to love my body- even when I have my hang ups (which are daily, poor Mr must be sick of me whinging) I find something I like and focus on that. It works. Rock the bits you love, and no one will really notice the bits you don’t. It works, I’ve challenged a few status quo’s now, and getting stronger with my acceptance of me xx

Well, you're rocking the body, and the personality. The Mr is a lucky bugger! "

Thank you. Don’t think he thought so a couple of hours ago, when I was whinging about myself, again! Comparing myself to others and how I am lacking, but afterwards I was speaking to a woman who expressed her own body confidence issues, and then saw a thread praising one particular look, so did this post. No particular look favoured, everyone invited to find something they like about themselves xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a BBC social video doing the rounds on faceache at the moment. It talks about how society teaches us to apologise for our bodies. It crushes our spirits,even our hopes that we once had as a child. The ambition and drive goes because society gives us all these hang ups .

Instead we should focus more on the person rather than the shell we live in. We should celebrate the amazing things our bodies can do. We should be empowered and empower others.

For me the self loathing is too deep. Apologising for and disliking my body is as natural to me as breathing. It's too late to change my perspective that much. However I also realise that flaws to me brought life into the world, they are signs of the life I'm living and the things I experience.

I don't rely on others for my self worth, I've realised it has to come from within and now I see my worth as about far more than how I'm looking or the size of my clothes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a rather adequate elbow..."

You can’t beat an adequate elbow!! It’s vital to the function of the arm, hence should be praised

Look great in a suit btw xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been slim, fat, fat fat, fat, slim, thin, thin thin, thin, slim, fat now im fat fat. I've realised my weight has no effect or affect (never know which one) on my mental health. Ive been happy fat fat. And incredibly sad and down thin thin.. But that was due to circumstances. Divorce etc. Now im happy and im fat fat. And be happy slim when it happens. #mentalhealthmatters

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By *ingerpopMan
over a year ago

grimsby

i like my balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been a gym freak. Always been slim, or even skinny (at school)

Now I’m happy with myself and the way I look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that is me!

I’m bulimic and a size 10 "

You're a sexy lass with a great body,a very pretty face,and I've found your forum posts to be generally interesting and insightful over the time I've been on here.You're also on my hotlist,and I think you'd be an interesting person to meet socially,although I know I'm not your type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep that is me!

I’m bulimic and a size 10 "

I had that particular friend for many years, from 13 upwards. After 17 years we parted company, but they still try to say hi every now and then xx

You have a beautiful mouth, btw xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look fantastic my dear Friend x your smile shines and eyes two old and gosh what a yummy body too..your just a wonderful csringnperson as well xx

As for me , happy Im The dad's bod I have and life is good

Looking very sharp in the suit and the tux good sir

As for myself,I stopped caring what others think a very long time ago so have never had body confidence issues,I know I'm nothing special and I really don't care as for something positive about myself,I do quite like my piercings and tattoos,I don't feel like myself without my piercings in and most of my ink is quite personal to me

Love ink and piercings. Mine are a visual representation of my journey through life. Great attitude btw, would love to get to a point where I accept myself completely, working on it! xx

I have a severe weakness for inked and pierced lasses

Thank you for your kind words,and you'll get to that point where you accept yourself completely one day,it's not easy but it's the greatest reward when it happens

I love your ink,and you have my absolute favourite piercing a lass can have too"

Thank you xx

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Love inked girls. D said he knew a Jock Army guy covered in tatts. He asked as a naive subaltern."Does it get you more girls?" Reply "No sorr, bit ah'm a wee bit crap at the sex so at least they have something to read if they get bored.."

OP we'd be all over you like a bad suit, same with all the lovely ladies and gents on this thread.

Great legs? Well just make others look at how they go all the way up and make an ass of themselves.

Fine pair of shoulders? show em off,lovely boy.

Gorgeous girls? up front and centre.

Cute ass, wear tight jeans, how do you get into those? Start by saying hello..

Wicked grin..oh yeah.

Love it.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

We are all so obsessed with dress size and weight. I dont own a pair of scales because if I did I'd belief I needed to lose at least a stone and half for my height. Dont give a dame if I'm a 6.8.10 or 12 as one persons 10 is different from another. You know how you feel for your height, age etc.

Being happy with yourself comes from within. Be the best you can be with what you have. Happiness starts with loving yourself in your own skin not worrying about whatever Tom,Dick and Harry thinks about you then you set yourself free from all this bullshit. Amen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel great about myself, best shape I've been in for years and love the compliments I get after being a tad overweight for a long time..... I'm going to go through and FAB as many of the ladies pictures as I can to show you I appreciate all of your sizes and shapes... Love yourself before anyone can lust over you x"

Great attitude and love the positivity. Great on the weight loss too, as it’s obviously helped you feel better about yourself. You do look great btw xx

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By


"I feel great about myself, best shape I've been in for years and love the compliments I get after being a tad overweight for a long time..... I'm going to go through and FAB as many of the ladies pictures as I can to show you I appreciate all of your sizes and shapes... Love yourself before anyone can lust over you x

Great attitude and love the positivity. Great on the weight loss too, as it’s obviously helped you feel better about yourself. You do look great btw xx"

Thanks chuck.... Love your look too BTW, very delish!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive been slim, fat, fat fat, fat, slim, thin, thin thin, thin, slim, fat now im fat fat. I've realised my weight has no effect or affect (never know which one) on my mental health. Ive been happy fat fat. And incredibly sad and down thin thin.. But that was due to circumstances. Divorce etc. Now im happy and im fat fat. And be happy slim when it happens. #mentalhealthmatters"

Glad you’re happy, and it does indeed x

My ex used to play mind games, flirt with younger and slimmer women, not tell them he was actually with me, then enjoy it when they let me know of his interest in them. He cheated on me and actually left me for a girl much bigger than me. The problem was that as I got slimmer, because the stress was affecting my mental health and my body, he lost interest. Lost the weight- as in him, regained my self respect and found happiness xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a BBC social video doing the rounds on faceache at the moment. It talks about how society teaches us to apologise for our bodies. It crushes our spirits,even our hopes that we once had as a child. The ambition and drive goes because society gives us all these hang ups .

Instead we should focus more on the person rather than the shell we live in. We should celebrate the amazing things our bodies can do. We should be empowered and empower others.

For me the self loathing is too deep. Apologising for and disliking my body is as natural to me as breathing. It's too late to change my perspective that much. However I also realise that flaws to me brought life into the world, they are signs of the life I'm living and the things I experience.

I don't rely on others for my self worth, I've realised it has to come from within and now I see my worth as about far more than how I'm looking or the size of my clothes.

"

We all know that our self worth is more than the aesthetics of our bodies, but sometimes it’s good to focus on something we like about them as well. We can all something we like about our nature or personality, but many of us struggle to see anything attractive about us physically. This post is in response to the many posts focusing on praising one physical attribute while negating another. It’s not so much about others validating our self worth, but something positive we see when we look at ourselves.

I totally get your point though xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i like my balls "

And why not, sure lots of people do too xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve never been a gym freak. Always been slim, or even skinny (at school)

Now I’m happy with myself and the way I look "

You look great, and the best thing is how you’re happy with yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a BBC social video doing the rounds on faceache at the moment. It talks about how society teaches us to apologise for our bodies. It crushes our spirits,even our hopes that we once had as a child. The ambition and drive goes because society gives us all these hang ups .

Instead we should focus more on the person rather than the shell we live in. We should celebrate the amazing things our bodies can do. We should be empowered and empower others.

For me the self loathing is too deep. Apologising for and disliking my body is as natural to me as breathing. It's too late to change my perspective that much. However I also realise that flaws to me brought life into the world, they are signs of the life I'm living and the things I experience.

I don't rely on others for my self worth, I've realised it has to come from within and now I see my worth as about far more than how I'm looking or the size of my clothes.

We all know that our self worth is more than the aesthetics of our bodies, but sometimes it’s good to focus on something we like about them as well. We can all something we like about our nature or personality, but many of us struggle to see anything attractive about us physically. This post is in response to the many posts focusing on praising one physical attribute while negating another. It’s not so much about others validating our self worth, but something positive we see when we look at ourselves.

I totally get your point though xx"

I agree, I really wasn't trying to change the direction of your thread at all. It just felt like a relevant comment

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"There's a BBC social video doing the rounds on faceache at the moment. It talks about how society teaches us to apologise for our bodies. It crushes our spirits,even our hopes that we once had as a child. The ambition and drive goes because society gives us all these hang ups .

Instead we should focus more on the person rather than the shell we live in. We should celebrate the amazing things our bodies can do. We should be empowered and empower others.

For me the self loathing is too deep. Apologising for and disliking my body is as natural to me as breathing. It's too late to change my perspective that much. However I also realise that flaws to me brought life into the world, they are signs of the life I'm living and the things I experience.

I don't rely on others for my self worth, I've realised it has to come from within and now I see my worth as about far more than how I'm looking or the size of my clothes.

We all know that our self worth is more than the aesthetics of our bodies, but sometimes it’s good to focus on something we like about them as well. We can all something we like about our nature or personality, but many of us struggle to see anything attractive about us physically. This post is in response to the many posts focusing on praising one physical attribute while negating another. It’s not so much about others validating our self worth, but something positive we see when we look at ourselves.

I totally get your point though xx

I agree, I really wasn't trying to change the direction of your thread at all. It just felt like a relevant comment "
Sinderella ,you're delicious. We'd eat you alive x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love inked girls. D said he knew a Jock Army guy covered in tatts. He asked as a naive subaltern."Does it get you more girls?" Reply "No sorr, bit ah'm a wee bit crap at the sex so at least they have something to read if they get bored.."

OP we'd be all over you like a bad suit, same with all the lovely ladies and gents on this thread.

Great legs? Well just make others look at how they go all the way up and make an ass of themselves.

Fine pair of shoulders? show em off,lovely boy.

Gorgeous girls? up front and centre.

Cute ass, wear tight jeans, how do you get into those? Start by saying hello..

Wicked grin..oh yeah.

Love it.

"

Love this, and love the story about the army guy xx

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"

Love this, and love the story about the army guy xx "

Get your coat,you've pulled

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By *azzle-me-TazzMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

I know what you mean about body confidence. I'm a chunky monkey and I ain't the most well endowed which isn't something many seem to like on here however what I like about myself is that I don't tend to let it bother me and I'm a bit of an exhibitionist so I am happy to show anyone who is interested my full body for them to comment on

I however love all bodies of all shapes and sizes. We are all unique and that's what makes us. So let's get our kits off and enjoy life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are all so obsessed with dress size and weight. I dont own a pair of scales because if I did I'd belief I needed to lose at least a stone and half for my height. Dont give a dame if I'm a 6.8.10 or 12 as one persons 10 is different from another. You know how you feel for your height, age etc.

Being happy with yourself comes from within. Be the best you can be with what you have. Happiness starts with loving yourself in your own skin not worrying about whatever Tom,Dick and Harry thinks about you then you set yourself free from all this bullshit. Amen."

No one would disagree, but this post isn’t specific to dress size etc, it’s about identifying something people, who maybe aren’t confident in their bodies, like about themselves. It doesn’t matter if Tom, Dick or Harry likes them, it matters that they do xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a BBC social video doing the rounds on faceache at the moment. It talks about how society teaches us to apologise for our bodies. It crushes our spirits,even our hopes that we once had as a child. The ambition and drive goes because society gives us all these hang ups .

Instead we should focus more on the person rather than the shell we live in. We should celebrate the amazing things our bodies can do. We should be empowered and empower others.

For me the self loathing is too deep. Apologising for and disliking my body is as natural to me as breathing. It's too late to change my perspective that much. However I also realise that flaws to me brought life into the world, they are signs of the life I'm living and the things I experience.

I don't rely on others for my self worth, I've realised it has to come from within and now I see my worth as about far more than how I'm looking or the size of my clothes.

We all know that our self worth is more than the aesthetics of our bodies, but sometimes it’s good to focus on something we like about them as well. We can all something we like about our nature or personality, but many of us struggle to see anything attractive about us physically. This post is in response to the many posts focusing on praising one physical attribute while negating another. It’s not so much about others validating our self worth, but something positive we see when we look at ourselves.

I totally get your point though xx

I agree, I really wasn't trying to change the direction of your thread at all. It just felt like a relevant comment "

It is relevant, we do tend to focus on the negative things about ourselves, and I think any response is relevant, as long as it doesn’t belittle anyone else, and turn what are positive intentions into something negative. Your response isn’t like that btw xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Love this, and love the story about the army guy xx

Get your coat,you've pulled "

Haha, I’ll just slip some heels on and be with you xx

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"

Love this, and love the story about the army guy xx

Get your coat,you've pulled

Haha, I’ll just slip some heels on and be with you xx"

With that body and face darling you won't be needing the coat for long xx

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"You have a gorgeous figure OP

I am thinking of starting a burlesque dance class to give me body confidence rather than focusing on changing anything

Thank you. That’s what I did. After my last child I developed PND and hated everything about myself, I joined a burlesque class and although I still have major hang ups (rely a lot on lighting and clever camera angles in my pics) I started getting my confidence back, and I got learn some shexy moves and met amazing people, so my friend pool grew too x You should definitely give it a go. The best burlesque artistes I’ve worked with have been a size 6, a guy, and a size 28, all amazing, sexy and confident xx "

Thanks I am definitely going to give it a try as I know it’s my own feelings and not that of others that impact on me. I’m thinking burlesque will give me that sexy feeling rather than going to a gym class to tone my body xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know what you mean about body confidence. I'm a chunky monkey and I ain't the most well endowed which isn't something many seem to like on here however what I like about myself is that I don't tend to let it bother me and I'm a bit of an exhibitionist so I am happy to show anyone who is interested my full body for them to comment on

I however love all bodies of all shapes and sizes. We are all unique and that's what makes us. So let's get our kits off and enjoy life "

Glad you’re happy in yourself. Started this post because I was chatting to someone earlier and they were talking about their body confidence issues. Came on the forums and there were threads that focused on certain physical attributes, belittling those that didn’t fit it. Of course we should focus on our inner selves, but why not also look at what we like about ourselves physically too? None of us fit a mould, so why not embrace something positive and rock the hell out of it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Love this, and love the story about the army guy xx

Get your coat,you've pulled

Haha, I’ll just slip some heels on and be with you xx

With that body and face darling you won't be needing the coat for long xx "

Haha, believe me, I will! It’s all smoke

and mirrors (well lighting, makeup

and camera angles) xx

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By *azzle-me-TazzMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"I know what you mean about body confidence. I'm a chunky monkey and I ain't the most well endowed which isn't something many seem to like on here however what I like about myself is that I don't tend to let it bother me and I'm a bit of an exhibitionist so I am happy to show anyone who is interested my full body for them to comment on

I however love all bodies of all shapes and sizes. We are all unique and that's what makes us. So let's get our kits off and enjoy life

Glad you’re happy in yourself. Started this post because I was chatting to someone earlier and they were talking about their body confidence issues. Came on the forums and there were threads that focused on certain physical attributes, belittling those that didn’t fit it. Of course we should focus on our inner selves, but why not also look at what we like about ourselves physically too? None of us fit a mould, so why not embrace something positive and rock the hell out of it xx"

Exactly that. If someone doesn't like it that is their problem and not mine although I feel that it does hinder my chances of meets unfortunately due to people wanting this well chizzled gym fit male with a ten foot willy. Unfortunately for most that ain't the case. I love seeing lasses and lads on here who don't fit that mould enjoying themselves just like I do.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"You have a gorgeous figure OP

I am thinking of starting a burlesque dance class to give me body confidence rather than focusing on changing anything

Do it,do it,do it. Cat xx"

I will!! There are so many fun sexy things I want to try but need to build my self confidence first so starting with burlesque which will hopefully lead to other things xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a gorgeous figure OP

I am thinking of starting a burlesque dance class to give me body confidence rather than focusing on changing anything

Thank you. That’s what I did. After my last child I developed PND and hated everything about myself, I joined a burlesque class and although I still have major hang ups (rely a lot on lighting and clever camera angles in my pics) I started getting my confidence back, and I got learn some shexy moves and met amazing people, so my friend pool grew too x You should definitely give it a go. The best burlesque artistes I’ve worked with have been a size 6, a guy, and a size 28, all amazing, sexy and confident xx

Thanks I am definitely going to give it a try as I know it’s my own feelings and not that of others that impact on me. I’m thinking burlesque will give me that sexy feeling rather than going to a gym class to tone my body xx"

It’s amazing! So liberating too. Works the muscles too! Arms used to kill after fan routines. My then teacher started it herself to lose weight, in a predominantly female environment (so she felt less self conscious) and learn

to dance at the same time. You’ll love it!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never been a gym freak. Always been slim, or even skinny (at school)

Now I’m happy with myself and the way I look

You look great, and the best thing is how you’re happy with yourself xx"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel great about myself, best shape I've been in for years and love the compliments I get after being a tad overweight for a long time..... I'm going to go through and FAB as many of the ladies pictures as I can to show you I appreciate all of your sizes and shapes... Love yourself before anyone can lust over you x

Great attitude and love the positivity. Great on the weight loss too, as it’s obviously helped you feel better about yourself. You do look great btw xx

Thanks chuck.... Love your look too BTW, very delish! "

Welcome, and thank you xx

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"You have a gorgeous figure OP

I am thinking of starting a burlesque dance class to give me body confidence rather than focusing on changing anything

Thank you. That’s what I did. After my last child I developed PND and hated everything about myself, I joined a burlesque class and although I still have major hang ups (rely a lot on lighting and clever camera angles in my pics) I started getting my confidence back, and I got learn some shexy moves and met amazing people, so my friend pool grew too x You should definitely give it a go. The best burlesque artistes I’ve worked with have been a size 6, a guy, and a size 28, all amazing, sexy and confident xx

Thanks I am definitely going to give it a try as I know it’s my own feelings and not that of others that impact on me. I’m thinking burlesque will give me that sexy feeling rather than going to a gym class to tone my body xx

It’s amazing! So liberating too. Works the muscles too! Arms used to kill after fan routines. My then teacher started it herself to lose weight, in a predominantly female environment (so she felt less self conscious) and learn

to dance at the same time. You’ll love it!! xx"

You will. Burlesque made a menopausal woman believe in herself again,so much so she pulled a unicorn and now we have the MOST amazing sex. Sod the lumpy tummy,just look at these girls and what an ass. Get it out there girl. Have fun.

OP please friend us, we love your positivity but can't message you as we are outside your age preferences. Cat Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know what you mean about body confidence. I'm a chunky monkey and I ain't the most well endowed which isn't something many seem to like on here however what I like about myself is that I don't tend to let it bother me and I'm a bit of an exhibitionist so I am happy to show anyone who is interested my full body for them to comment on

I however love all bodies of all shapes and sizes. We are all unique and that's what makes us. So let's get our kits off and enjoy life

Glad you’re happy in yourself. Started this post because I was chatting to someone earlier and they were talking about their body confidence issues. Came on the forums and there were threads that focused on certain physical attributes, belittling those that didn’t fit it. Of course we should focus on our inner selves, but why not also look at what we like about ourselves physically too? None of us fit a mould, so why not embrace something positive and rock the hell out of it xx

Exactly that. If someone doesn't like it that is their problem and not mine although I feel that it does hinder my chances of meets unfortunately due to people wanting this well chizzled gym fit male with a ten foot willy. Unfortunately for most that ain't the case. I love seeing lasses and lads on here who don't fit that mould enjoying themselves just like I do. "

If someone came near me with a ten foot willy I’d run away terrified! Haha! I love confident people, even gym fit people have hang ups, but as long as that confidence isn’t used to belittle others then it’s all good. Confident people shouldn’t need to do that anyway, they should always build up, not break down xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to appreciate a body with my hand right now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to appreciate a body with my hand right now."

Well, this post is all about self love xx

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Night night all.

Best thread for absolutely ages.

Thanks TwilightDancerXx

Beautiful in mind as well as body.

Xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to appreciate a body with my hand right now.

Well, this post is all about self love xx"

I'm on the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not body confident but im working on it, but have been told i have a great look with my mohican and beard and my tatts and there is alot of very sexy curvy women on this thread that have nothing to worry about ur all beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Night night all.

Best thread for absolutely ages.

Thanks TwilightDancerXx

Beautiful in mind as well as body.

Xxxxxxx"

Goodnight and thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to appreciate a body with my hand right now.

Well, this post is all about self love xx

I'm on the case."

That’s positive!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And op i love ur ink very very sexy x

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

My ex husband was never one to complement me. I was to fat, to thin, boobs to small, blah, blah, blah. I had a horrible body image issue after my divorce. I woke up one morning and decided I didn't like the way I felt, I didn't like the way he made me feel. I worked out lost weight and I love the way I look. No one will ever make me feel that way again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im not body confident but im working on it, but have been told i have a great look with my mohican and beard and my tatts and there is alot of very sexy curvy women on this thread that have nothing to worry about ur all beautiful x "

You do have a great look, and you wear your clothes well, so rock that look!! Confidence comes from believing in yourself x (or do what I do, fake it! My look makes people think I am anyway, haha) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And op i love ur ink very very sexy x"

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im not body confident but im working on it, but have been told i have a great look with my mohican and beard and my tatts and there is alot of very sexy curvy women on this thread that have nothing to worry about ur all beautiful x

You do have a great look, and you wear your clothes well, so rock that look!! Confidence comes from believing in yourself x (or do what I do, fake it! My look makes people think I am anyway, haha) xx"

Owwww im good at faking most people dont realise i have issues as i tend to be quite confident anyway im always loud and noticeable in a good way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My ex husband was never one to complement me. I was to fat, to thin, boobs to small, blah, blah, blah. I had a horrible body image issue after my divorce. I woke up one morning and decided I didn't like the way I felt, I didn't like the way he made me feel. I worked out lost weight and I love the way I look. No one will ever make me feel that way again."

I’m so glad for you. No one should do that. That’s their lack of confidence and self worth doing that. Both my exes did that, my ex husband still likes to have a dig, but I ignore him and have banned him using any words that refer to body size to our girls. I suffered for years, and I’ll be damned if he’s doing that to my girls.

Best thing you did was that divorce. Freed you from him! My angel tattoo is from when I left him, hence she has broken shackles and is flying. We all have our ways of coping and finding ourselves and then healing ourselves x So glad you did xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im not body confident but im working on it, but have been told i have a great look with my mohican and beard and my tatts and there is alot of very sexy curvy women on this thread that have nothing to worry about ur all beautiful x

You do have a great look, and you wear your clothes well, so rock that look!! Confidence comes from believing in yourself x (or do what I do, fake it! My look makes people think I am anyway, haha) xx

Owwww im good at faking most people dont realise i have issues as i tend to be quite confident anyway im always loud and noticeable in a good way x"

Same here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus years of playing rugby then being a doorman for years u get to a point where u dont really care anymore about what negative things get said and its just deflects off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plus years of playing rugby then being a doorman for years u get to a point where u dont really care anymore about what negative things get said and its just deflects off "

My ex did that for me. Now it’s water off a ducks back.

I was a nurse for years, looked down upon by some of the others as I’m so heavily tattooed- we wore white uniforms so they would show at times- but I did my job and cared about my patients. I had an abusive hubby and severely autistic daughter at home, they were nothing! Now I just have the daughter (and our youngest child) and am so much happier xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus years of playing rugby then being a doorman for years u get to a point where u dont really care anymore about what negative things get said and its just deflects off

My ex did that for me. Now it’s water off a ducks back.

I was a nurse for years, looked down upon by some of the others as I’m so heavily tattooed- we wore white uniforms so they would show at times- but I did my job and cared about my patients. I had an abusive hubby and severely autistic daughter at home, they were nothing! Now I just have the daughter (and our youngest child) and am so much happier xx"

Thats awesome for u as it takes alot to turn negatives into positives and u should be proud x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all so much for your awesome responses. Obviously our self

worth shouldn’t equate to how confident we are aesthetically, but reminding ourselves, every now and then, what we do like about our looks/bodies isn’t a bad thing. If we focus on something positive, whatever it is, it reduces the effect negativity has on us x Off to sleep now, hope you all sleep well x Peace xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plus years of playing rugby then being a doorman for years u get to a point where u dont really care anymore about what negative things get said and its just deflects off

My ex did that for me. Now it’s water off a ducks back.

I was a nurse for years, looked down upon by some of the others as I’m so heavily tattooed- we wore white uniforms so they would show at times- but I did my job and cared about my patients. I had an abusive hubby and severely autistic daughter at home, they were nothing! Now I just have the daughter (and our youngest child) and am so much happier xx

Thats awesome for u as it takes alot to turn negatives into positives and u should be proud x "

Thank you. I have amazing girls, free from the negative effects of a controlled and unhappy environment. My ex is much happier too, so it’s all good xx

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"My ex husband was never one to complement me. I was to fat, to thin, boobs to small, blah, blah, blah. I had a horrible body image issue after my divorce. I woke up one morning and decided I didn't like the way I felt, I didn't like the way he made me feel. I worked out lost weight and I love the way I look. No one will ever make me feel that way again.

I’m so glad for you. No one should do that. That’s their lack of confidence and self worth doing that. Both my exes did that, my ex husband still likes to have a dig, but I ignore him and have banned him using any words that refer to body size to our girls. I suffered for years, and I’ll be damned if he’s doing that to my girls.

Best thing you did was that divorce. Freed you from him! My angel tattoo is from when I left him, hence she has broken shackles and is flying. We all have our ways of coping and finding ourselves and then healing ourselves x So glad you did xx "

It's a great feeling isn't it?

To unshackle yourself from someone so negative.

I've never felt better and I'm very happy for you as well.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"My ex husband was never one to complement me. I was to fat, to thin, boobs to small, blah, blah, blah. I had a horrible body image issue after my divorce. I woke up one morning and decided I didn't like the way I felt, I didn't like the way he made me feel. I worked out lost weight and I love the way I look. No one will ever make me feel that way again."

And you look amazing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op gorgeous xxx"

Amazing bum ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know it’s been done countless times, but let’s boost each other up. Everyone has hang ups, we all have preferences, but there’s always something about ourselves that we like. Feel free to compliment anyone who posts, but please say something you like about yourself x Focus on what’s positive, no negativity allowed x Not a moan Monday, but a magnificent Monday xx"

Blinking heck you’re pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really unconfident with my body at the moment after gaining weight. But I have a wonderful fwb who tells me all the time that I'm beautiful and he's helped me feel more confident in stripping off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my body and still do but don’t really give a fuck what other people think of my size , being on here has given me confidence as there seem to be men that do find me attractive and D is amazing at boosting my confidence x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My ex husband was never one to complement me. I was to fat, to thin, boobs to small, blah, blah, blah. I had a horrible body image issue after my divorce. I woke up one morning and decided I didn't like the way I felt, I didn't like the way he made me feel. I worked out lost weight and I love the way I look. No one will ever make me feel that way again.

I’m so glad for you. No one should do that. That’s their lack of confidence and self worth doing that. Both my exes did that, my ex husband still likes to have a dig, but I ignore him and have banned him using any words that refer to body size to our girls. I suffered for years, and I’ll be damned if he’s doing that to my girls.

Best thing you did was that divorce. Freed you from him! My angel tattoo is from when I left him, hence she has broken shackles and is flying. We all have our ways of coping and finding ourselves and then healing ourselves x So glad you did xx

It's a great feeling isn't it?

To unshackle yourself from someone so negative.

I've never felt better and I'm very happy for you as well."

You deserve that happiness.

It’s an amazing feeling, and thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 3 buttocks and a tail after an unfortunate skiing accident so im shy of pulling a moony out of busses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my eyes - Mrs

Now going to see which beautiful people I can compliment because there are lots of you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Know it’s been done countless times, but let’s boost each other up. Everyone has hang ups, we all have preferences, but there’s always something about ourselves that we like. Feel free to compliment anyone who posts, but please say something you like about yourself x Focus on what’s positive, no negativity allowed x Not a moan Monday, but a magnificent Monday xx

Blinking heck you’re pretty "

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate my body and still do but don’t really give a fuck what other people think of my size , being on here has given me confidence as there seem to be men that do find me attractive and D is amazing at boosting my confidence x"

L from a quick glance at your photos your body is lovely - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really unconfident with my body at the moment after gaining weight. But I have a wonderful fwb who tells me all the time that I'm beautiful and he's helped me feel more confident in stripping off"

I always see your little eye on the avatar in the forums and think you have beautiful eyes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm really unconfident with my body at the moment after gaining weight. But I have a wonderful fwb who tells me all the time that I'm beautiful and he's helped me feel more confident in stripping off"

You are beautiful, he’s right, your eyes on your profile pic are gorgeous! Hope that confidence continues to grow xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate my body and still do but don’t really give a fuck what other people think of my size , being on here has given me confidence as there seem to be men that do find me attractive and D is amazing at boosting my confidence x

L from a quick glance at your photos your body is lovely - Mrs "

Awwww thank you so much ! That’s made my day already x

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By *sland_kidMan
over a year ago

london, manchester, liverpool

I like my „shy“ smile

Let‘s see if i can send at least a compliment to each one of you (challenge of the morning?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know it’s been done countless times, but let’s boost each other up. Everyone has hang ups, we all have preferences, but there’s always something about ourselves that we like. Feel free to compliment anyone who posts, but please say something you like about yourself x Focus on what’s positive, no negativity allowed x Not a moan Monday, but a magnificent Monday xx"
you have a gorgeous smile Op

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By *sland_kidMan
over a year ago

london, manchester, liverpool


"I hate my body and still do but don’t really give a fuck what other people think of my size , being on here has given me confidence as there seem to be men that do find me attractive and D is amazing at boosting my confidence x"

Be proud of those beautiful curves-L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my „shy“ smile

Let‘s see if i can send at least a compliment to each one of you (challenge of the morning?)"

This is what I’d like to do. My initial self challenge was to not say anything negative about myself and I did that, so now on to spread happy. You have a lovely smile!!

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By *sland_kidMan
over a year ago

london, manchester, liverpool


"I love my eyes - Mrs

Now going to see which beautiful people I can compliment because there are lots of you! "

Beautiful legs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate my body and still do but don’t really give a fuck what other people think of my size , being on here has given me confidence as there seem to be men that do find me attractive and D is amazing at boosting my confidence x"

That’s brilliant! Size isn’t an indicator of beauty and there’s always someone who appreciate that x

Great bum btw xx

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Good thread this

There are some beautiful people here, body confidence can be a fragile thing, goes up and down for me. Need to remember that it can be unlearnt as much as it can be learnt so letting go of negative thoughts is as possible as gaining them, it just seems harder at times.

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By *unstar_MMan
over a year ago

dudley

I'm not confident about my body!

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By *sland_kidMan
over a year ago

london, manchester, liverpool


"Good thread this

There are some beautiful people here, body confidence can be a fragile thing, goes up and down for me. Need to remember that it can be unlearnt as much as it can be learnt so letting go of negative thoughts is as possible as gaining them, it just seems harder at times. "

Very well said mate. Raise my glass to toast on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero body confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the thread OP. You’re very sexy yourself and I love you pretty face.

I’m personally the fittest I have ever been in my entire life hence enjoy my 40s. Nothing is ever perfect but I can’t complain.

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

I like my buns. And take pride of my thighs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have 3 buttocks and a tail after an unfortunate skiing accident so im shy of pulling a moony out of busses "

Probably a good thing you don’t pull a moony on a bus, can get a bit cramped on them, and if it stops suddenly, you could fall and end up with your bum in the face of some poor old dear x

Great bum btw, I looked, haha xx

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By *sland_kidMan
over a year ago

london, manchester, liverpool


"Know it’s been done countless times, but let’s boost each other up. Everyone has hang ups, we all have preferences, but there’s always something about ourselves that we like. Feel free to compliment anyone who posts, but please say something you like about yourself x Focus on what’s positive, no negativity allowed x Not a moan Monday, but a magnificent Monday xx"

Gorgeous lips and a smile to melt an iceberg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 3 buttocks and a tail after an unfortunate skiing accident so im shy of pulling a moony out of busses

Probably a good thing you don’t pull a moony on a bus, can get a bit cramped on them, and if it stops suddenly, you could fall and end up with your bum in the face of some poor old dear x

Great bum btw, I looked, haha xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate my body and still do but don’t really give a fuck what other people think of my size , being on here has given me confidence as there seem to be men that do find me attractive and D is amazing at boosting my confidence x

That’s brilliant! Size isn’t an indicator of beauty and there’s always someone who appreciate that x

Great bum btw xx"

Thank you so much, you are totally gorgeous! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love my eyes - Mrs

Now going to see which beautiful people I can compliment because there are lots of you! "

You have a gorgeous bum! I love my eyes too, even when I’m feeling crap about the rest of me, I still like them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like my buns. And take pride of my thighs

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Very nice buns and thighs!!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the thread OP. You’re very sexy yourself and I love you pretty face.

I’m personally the fittest I have ever been in my entire life hence enjoy my 40s. Nothing is ever perfect but I can’t complain."

You certainly are fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I am generally a confident guy in almost everything I do but I used to have no confidence in my body. In fact I was pretty shy. However, when I was in a relationship where I was significantly punching above my weight (no pun intended) she helped me find my confidence. Now swingle, they creep in every now and again now but I just remember I am awesome at making tea now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like my „shy“ smile

Let‘s see if i can send at least a compliment to each one of you (challenge of the morning?)"

You do have a gorgeous smile. It’s infectious, would make others smile too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 3 buttocks and a tail after an unfortunate skiing accident so im shy of pulling a moony out of busses "

You have a moony worthy butt!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Lovely thread OP, you have a beautiful face and a sexy figure. I really like my arse and boobs. Yes, I'm a work in progress (fat) but I've still got a nice shape. Just a lot of it.

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By *ikerswingCouple
over a year ago

mcr


"turned 50 this year(mr) and always had body issues work hard in the gym but cant lose the little buddha belly.got good shoulders but long arms so biceps look small in comparison.see all these guys on here with ripped bods does make me feel old

Don’t forget, Buddha is revered, and that’s one fabulous bottom you have there! xx"
thanks coming from you ill take that .mind if we pm you re bukkake ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lovely thread OP, you have a beautiful face and a sexy figure. I really like my arse and boobs. Yes, I'm a work in progress (fat) but I've still got a nice shape. Just a lot of it. "

Meli your body is perfect!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 3 buttocks and a tail after an unfortunate skiing accident so im shy of pulling a moony out of busses

You have a moony worthy butt!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my eyes - Mrs

Now going to see which beautiful people I can compliment because there are lots of you!

You have a gorgeous bum! I love my eyes too, even when I’m feeling crap about the rest of me, I still like them xx"

Thank you . My eyes never let me down haha the rest of me it depends on the day.

I love positive posts. You’ve done a beautiful job of making sure everyone is acknowledged here, and you’re beautiful. Clearly your personality and positivity are also assets!! -Mrs

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By *ood luking looserMan
over a year ago

Town

I could do with a little fattening up. Looking for someone to take me under their wing and feed me. Wish I learnt how to cook. Not bad stage of my life at the moment. A job I love and a few close friends. Just carnt seem to shake off this shyness. Love the confidence of all these women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good thread this

There are some beautiful people here, body confidence can be a fragile thing, goes up and down for me. Need to remember that it can be unlearnt as much as it can be learnt so letting go of negative thoughts is as possible as gaining them, it just seems harder at times. "

It is! I spent my teenage years and early twenties being told I was pretty enough, just needed to lose weight- that obsession to be accepted, and other issues, led the eating disorder I’d developed to get out of control. Eventually I was helped to overcome it, it was seeing my daughter do what I did. It shocked me and when we had to help her get over worrying weight loss, I vowed to recover. Now words that are negative about the body are banned in my house, my youngest has a healthy attitude to her size. She is very petite, my oldest a bigger girl due to medication, and her dad caused her to focus on it, but in a negative way. Stopped that! When she goes to his, if he says anything now, she tells him that words like that are swear words in our house, and he shouldn’t swear. I love her confidence. xx

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By *axo25Man
over a year ago

lightwater

Twilight you’re incredibly sexy. Some girls are pretty and some are just Hot, and you love are HOT!! I’d definitely walk into a lamppost 4 seconds after passing you in the street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive nice kissable lips,( face)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Know it’s been done countless times, but let’s boost each other up. Everyone has hang ups, we all have preferences, but there’s always something about ourselves that we like. Feel free to compliment anyone who posts, but please say something you like about yourself x Focus on what’s positive, no negativity allowed x Not a moan Monday, but a magnificent Monday xxyou have a gorgeous smile Op "

Thank you. Great thighs! Look great in a suit btw xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good thread this

There are some beautiful people here, body confidence can be a fragile thing, goes up and down for me. Need to remember that it can be unlearnt as much as it can be learnt so letting go of negative thoughts is as possible as gaining them, it just seems harder at times.

It is! I spent my teenage years and early twenties being told I was pretty enough, just needed to lose weight- that obsession to be accepted, and other issues, led the eating disorder I’d developed to get out of control. Eventually I was helped to overcome it, it was seeing my daughter do what I did. It shocked me and when we had to help her get over worrying weight loss, I vowed to recover. Now words that are negative about the body are banned in my house, my youngest has a healthy attitude to her size. She is very petite, my oldest a bigger girl due to medication, and her dad caused her to focus on it, but in a negative way. Stopped that! When she goes to his, if he says anything now, she tells him that words like that are swear words in our house, and he shouldn’t swear. I love her confidence. xx"

My early life influenced me very negatively as well. As mean as I am to myself, my daughter hasn’t heard my negative self talk because I hope she stays free of that. My mother was horrific and my ex husband not much better. Always was told I was fat and picked apart. Mr. Cagey is wonderful, and very good about boosting me, but it’s hard work, I’m my own enemy and changing those messages is hard work. It’s great that you’ve broken those messages and empowered your children. My daughter is 7 and I hope we can make it easier for her to have less hang ups. This site has been good for my confidence for sure

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Good thread this

There are some beautiful people here, body confidence can be a fragile thing, goes up and down for me. Need to remember that it can be unlearnt as much as it can be learnt so letting go of negative thoughts is as possible as gaining them, it just seems harder at times.

It is! I spent my teenage years and early twenties being told I was pretty enough, just needed to lose weight- that obsession to be accepted, and other issues, led the eating disorder I’d developed to get out of control. Eventually I was helped to overcome it, it was seeing my daughter do what I did. It shocked me and when we had to help her get over worrying weight loss, I vowed to recover. Now words that are negative about the body are banned in my house, my youngest has a healthy attitude to her size. She is very petite, my oldest a bigger girl due to medication, and her dad caused her to focus on it, but in a negative way. Stopped that! When she goes to his, if he says anything now, she tells him that words like that are swear words in our house, and he shouldn’t swear. I love her confidence. xx"

Love that! Well done to you. It’s easy to focus on what we don’t have (I do) but it’s the perception / judgement of others who should know better which sparks. People should take a few mins before realising the power of their words.

Sounds like you’re cultivating the right environment. You have a great figure and I hope you’re comfortable with it ok bad days and rockin’ it on others

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