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"Yes there is for many. You say you aren't going through it. Well, you are. You're in it together and as difficult as it may be, supporting her is generally something that helps rather than hinders. Nope, wrong person. Seems you're seeing it as HER problem rather than your problem, hence you're here getting your side of the problem sorted. P" we are getting threw it slowly lol I don’t pester waiting for her to come to me so to speak. Still have sexy baby’s but only get told to get off n u don’t understand so many times before u ask no more x | |||
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"You have to try and support her to get through this. The menopause turns sexy women into sporadic lunatics ??" Prepare yourself for a virtual kicking. | |||
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"You have to try and support her to get through this. The menopause turns sexy women into sporadic lunatics ??" Ah but thats usually cos they've spent 25 yrs living with bone idle, selfish men Who have treated them like their mothers | |||
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"You have to try and support her to get through this. The menopause turns sexy women into sporadic lunatics ?? Ah but thats usually cos they've spent 25 yrs living with bone idle, selfish men Who have treated them like their mothers" Are you calling us all mother fuckers? | |||
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"You have to try and support her to get through this. The menopause turns sexy women into sporadic lunatics ?? Ah but thats usually cos they've spent 25 yrs living with bone idle, selfish men Who have treated them like their mothers" And/or those same women have allowed them to treat them like so. One big circle really....I've been through 3 menopauses and am now thankfully done with them. Also I was being single, so didn't have to worry about upsetting or pleasing a other half. I'd say to the OP read a book, educate yourself on what females go through and maybe don't roll your eyes over it all. On the flipside, she could also be using it as an excuse, because she's on here, getting her fill, so you've become redundant. Maybe speak to your wife to know the real reasons/truth. | |||
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"You have to try and support her to get through this. The menopause turns sexy women into sporadic lunatics ?? Ah but thats usually cos they've spent 25 yrs living with bone idle, selfish men Who have treated them like their mothers And/or those same women have allowed them to treat them like so. One big circle really....I've been through 3 menopauses and am now thankfully done with them. Also I was being single, so didn't have to worry about upsetting or pleasing a other half. I'd say to the OP read a book, educate yourself on what females go through and maybe don't roll your eyes over it all. On the flipside, she could also be using it as an excuse, because she's on here, getting her fill, so you've become redundant. Maybe speak to your wife to know the real reasons/truth." The few post menopausal women I know claim to lead improved sex lives. | |||
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"You have to try and support her to get through this. The menopause turns sexy women into sporadic lunatics ??" What a charming way to describe it. | |||
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"You have to try and support her to get through this. The menopause turns sexy women into sporadic lunatics ??" Only the sexy ones? Phew. | |||
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"I bloody hope so, because life right now is hell " Take heart, there is. I'm not the same woman I was before menopause but the new version is just as good or possibly better. I've had to make a couple of adjustments physically and mentally as we have as a couple but life post menopause is good | |||
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"Perhaps she just knows you’re on here and doesn’t want to have sex with you whilst she’s biding her time to leave you. Or she’s playing you at your own game and has someone on the side. If she is going through the menopause then I’m sure she’d appreciate some patience, affection and respect. By affection I mean feeling loved, give cuddles, massage, foot rubs, make her a cup of tea, take her out for dinner etc. Without the expectation of sex. Personally, I always feel much more frisky when I feel loved. And if she’s really suffering maybe you could offer to go to her GP with her and get her some help. I bet the ladies who say their sex life spiked post-menopause didn’t have to put up with a sulky man moaning about not getting his end away whilst they were going through it. They were raring to go again because they still felt adored when they were at their ‘worst’. Lou x " | |||
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"I bloody hope so, because life right now is hell Take heart, there is. I'm not the same woman I was before menopause but the new version is just as good or possibly better. I've had to make a couple of adjustments physically and mentally as we have as a couple but life post menopause is good" Thank you, that gives me hope... Which to be honest, I really at the moment xx | |||
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"Perhaps she just knows you’re on here and doesn’t want to have sex with you whilst she’s biding her time to leave you. Or she’s playing you at your own game and has someone on the side. If she is going through the menopause then I’m sure she’d appreciate some patience, affection and respect. By affection I mean feeling loved, give cuddles, massage, foot rubs, make her a cup of tea, take her out for dinner etc. Without the expectation of sex. Personally, I always feel much more frisky when I feel loved. And if she’s really suffering maybe you could offer to go to her GP with her and get her some help. I bet the ladies who say their sex life spiked post-menopause didn’t have to put up with a sulky man moaning about not getting his end away whilst they were going through it. They were raring to go again because they still felt adored when they were at their ‘worst’. Lou x " Exactly this. x | |||
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"Pretty sure Manopause is also a thing. Andropause " I know, but that’s not punny. Anyway, it’s a bit shit being middle aged. Bloke hormones also change, and recovery from strenuous exercise is more difficult. It just doesn’t have such an obvious physical reaction. Less of a thing, but still a thing. At least my bits still work | |||
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"I went thru forced menopause due to hysterectomy. No slow build up, just wham hit hard with all the symptoms at once in full strength. My marriage ended around same time. But then my libido kicked in big time. Thank goodness for fab Never been hornier in my life than this last year or so. Love it " My menopause was also forced through full hysterectomy, but after 7 years of peri-menopause. My libido kicked in full throttle a year after the op. The strength was a little overwhelming and I threw myself into this world. The libido is still as strong but my opportunities have waned. OP, it does get better but, as I'm sure you know, sex with a partner/spouse isn't just about libido. | |||
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"I went thru forced menopause due to hysterectomy. No slow build up, just wham hit hard with all the symptoms at once in full strength. My marriage ended around same time. But then my libido kicked in big time. Thank goodness for fab Never been hornier in my life than this last year or so. Love it My menopause was also forced through full hysterectomy, but after 7 years of peri-menopause. My libido kicked in full throttle a year after the op. The strength was a little overwhelming and I threw myself into this world. The libido is still as strong but my opportunities have waned. OP, it does get better but, as I'm sure you know, sex with a partner/spouse isn't just about libido. " So it wasn't just me then lol. Good to know. Can i be personal and ask did you have physical size differences down below too? Definitely a silver lining for me there | |||
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"I went thru forced menopause due to hysterectomy. No slow build up, just wham hit hard with all the symptoms at once in full strength. My marriage ended around same time. But then my libido kicked in big time. Thank goodness for fab Never been hornier in my life than this last year or so. Love it My menopause was also forced through full hysterectomy, but after 7 years of peri-menopause. My libido kicked in full throttle a year after the op. The strength was a little overwhelming and I threw myself into this world. The libido is still as strong but my opportunities have waned. OP, it does get better but, as I'm sure you know, sex with a partner/spouse isn't just about libido. So it wasn't just me then lol. Good to know. Can i be personal and ask did you have physical size differences down below too? Definitely a silver lining for me there " You can be as personal as you like. I don't know if my size changed as I hadn't had sex for 14 years. I had everything removed, including the cervix and it was vaginal removal. I was back at yoga about 6 months after the op and did work on my pelvic floor as soon as I could. | |||
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"I went thru forced menopause due to hysterectomy. No slow build up, just wham hit hard with all the symptoms at once in full strength. My marriage ended around same time. But then my libido kicked in big time. Thank goodness for fab Never been hornier in my life than this last year or so. Love it My menopause was also forced through full hysterectomy, but after 7 years of peri-menopause. My libido kicked in full throttle a year after the op. The strength was a little overwhelming and I threw myself into this world. The libido is still as strong but my opportunities have waned. OP, it does get better but, as I'm sure you know, sex with a partner/spouse isn't just about libido. So it wasn't just me then lol. Good to know. Can i be personal and ask did you have physical size differences down below too? Definitely a silver lining for me there You can be as personal as you like. I don't know if my size changed as I hadn't had sex for 14 years. I had everything removed, including the cervix and it was vaginal removal. I was back at yoga about 6 months after the op and did work on my pelvic floor as soon as I could. " My size and shape changed a lot. Even my g spot moved. Became much more accessible | |||
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"Perhaps she just knows you’re on here and doesn’t want to have sex with you whilst she’s biding her time to leave you. Or she’s playing you at your own game and has someone on the side. If she is going through the menopause then I’m sure she’d appreciate some patience, affection and respect. By affection I mean feeling loved, give cuddles, massage, foot rubs, make her a cup of tea, take her out for dinner etc. Without the expectation of sex. Personally, I always feel much more frisky when I feel loved. And if she’s really suffering maybe you could offer to go to her GP with her and get her some help. I bet the ladies who say their sex life spiked post-menopause didn’t have to put up with a sulky man moaning about not getting his end away whilst they were going through it. They were raring to go again because they still felt adored when they were at their ‘worst’. Lou x " | |||
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