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"If you can't handle me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do any women subscribe to this, cause I mean how much of the worst is there and how long does the best bit last, cause to be honest it sounds more hassle than it’s worth ?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

FFS I thought you were talking about yourself......

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"FFS I thought you were talking about yourself...... "

Thought exactly this

Jo x

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border

Whaaaa...? Nope nope nope.

Sounds like drama with bells on.

For the avoidance of doubt, nope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"FFS I thought you were talking about yourself...... "

Fuck no, only women can get away with saying that. If a bloke says it, you’d be like ‘Shut the fuck up dude!’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"FFS I thought you were talking about yourself......

Thought exactly this

Jo x"

It’s in quotes ladies!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Sounds like a damn relationship to me

No thanks, no drama needed !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That quote is mainly used by lasses that are trying to justify acting like a massive irrational twat

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"FFS I thought you were talking about yourself......

Thought exactly this

Jo x

It’s in quotes ladies! "

Oh lighten up it's Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I think this applies to all relationships, men and women and just is about not wanting someone who is a “fair weather friend”.

I think fab can just be about sex and not all the best or worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That quote is mainly used by lasses that are trying to justify acting like a massive irrational twat"

Yep

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"FFS I thought you were talking about yourself......

Fuck no, only women can get away with saying that. If a bloke says it, you’d be like ‘Shut the fuck up dude!’"

I only read the thread title and my next post was going to be.....* Stfu Tame you fanny*

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By *cousesubsallyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere out there

You can tell the people who say this early on - just check if they’ve got “live, laugh, love” on their wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think it’s like the other quotes that are mysteriously put on memes of Marilyn Monroe and don’t mean anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can tell the people who say this early on - just check if they’ve got “live, laugh, love” on their wall "
. I was going to say this but used mockery of that quote just yesterday on another thread

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By *liceinWonderland38Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

If this is in real life, and it’s someone you care about that’s ok to a point. What I mean is this attitude is ok for a while but actually friendships and relationships have to be equal. Sometimes one person needs a bit more, that’s ok. But you as a person don’t have to carry someone else always.

If this is fab, run a fucking mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The issue comes when the worst outweighs the best

I've put up with, absorbed and forgiven some utter bullshit from previous partners, but no more

I want your best, I want to know you're giving it your best even when you feel at your worst

I am supportive, generous, emotionally open, tolerant, caring and would go to the ends of the world for those I love, but it has to be a two way street

I'm not an easy guy to live with either to provide some balance - for all my good points, I can be anxiety ridden, sarcastic, petulant, cold, aloof, awkward and stubborn to the point of stupidity

I recognise these traits and have taken steps to eliminate and reduce them from my daily life

That's kinda what I ask for in return really - that if you have faults, that you recognise them, own them and manage them

Don't expect that because I am your partner that I will put up with your shit because you are hormonal or a moody, snappy bastard with an awful side

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"FFS I thought you were talking about yourself......

Thought exactly this

Jo x

It’s in quotes ladies!

Oh lighten up it's Sunday "

I only use the eye rolling emoji ironically, you lighten up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The issue comes when the worst outweighs the best

I've put up with, absorbed and forgiven some utter bullshit from previous partners, but no more

I want your best, I want to know you're giving it your best even when you feel at your worst

I am supportive, generous, emotionally open, tolerant, caring and would go to the ends of the world for those I love, but it has to be a two way street

I'm not an easy guy to live with either to provide some balance - for all my good points, I can be anxiety ridden, sarcastic, petulant, cold, aloof, awkward and stubborn to the point of stupidity

I recognise these traits and have taken steps to eliminate and reduce them from my daily life

That's kinda what I ask for in return really - that if you have faults, that you recognise them, own them and manage them

Don't expect that because I am your partner that I will put up with your shit because you are hormonal or a moody, snappy bastard with an awful side "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can tell the people who say this early on - just check if they’ve got “live, laugh, love” on their wall "

That proper made me laugh,mainly because it's so accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can tell the people who say this early on - just check if they’ve got “live, laugh, love” on their wall

That proper made me laugh,mainly because it's so accurate "

I prefer women who have "live, laugh, lube" on their ceiling

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