FabSwingers.com forum: Photos on people's profile

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Hope i am allowed to express this view point on here... Maybe I am being naive or overly fussy (don't shoot down a newbie please) but i really get turned off if a guy messages me with his profile photo or many other photos on his profile consisting him having sex with other women. To me, he comes across arrogant. Anyone agrees with me on this subject? As it reduces my chances of meeting the right guy straight away when I see his photos. Including profiles with just dick pics only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its arrogant.. I think it's a bit crass.. also wonder if those women have given permission to be displayed on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically he’s showing off that his penis works and he probably thinks all the Fabs the photo gets are for him, when in reality it’s just men Fabbing the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think its arrogant.. I think it's a bit crass.. also wonder if those women have given permission to be displayed on Fab."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm. Arrogant? No. Idiotic? Yes...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

The photo is mostly of the woman as well,if you're really lucky you'll get to see a brief glimpse of his penis.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It looks good though. Shows he’s experienced in sexy times

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

That's how I feel about pictures of women playing around with things like fruit and vegetables.

It makes them look so selfish, just think about all the poor starving children who would really enjoy that cucumber.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I dont think its arrogant.. I think it's a bit crass.. also wonder if those women have given permission to be displayed on Fab."

Yeah for me finding a future fwb or nsa, it doesn't turn me on at all seeing a guy's dick up someone else's arse, i can see why maybe bi sexual female who wants to do ffm....just not for me I'm afraid... But so many people's profiles are like this

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"That's how I feel about pictures of women playing around with things like fruit and vegetables.

It makes them look so selfish, just think about all the poor starving children who would really enjoy that cucumber."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But then, reverse that question, if a single woman shows photos of her sucking a bloke off, it’s not presumed she’s arrogant, it just shows she can fit a penis in her mouth.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

OP I know what you mean

More men like to see pics on a females profile having sex, sucking cock than women like to see on a mans profile

Not saying all but it seems the general view

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"OP I know what you mean

More men like to see pics on a females profile having sex, sucking cock than women like to see on a mans profile

Not saying all but it seems the general view "

Yes i think its how men's minds work as they probably get turned on seeing their potential fuck in action, i just can't get my head around it personally...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I personally don’t like it

However, everyone gets to run their profile and show what pictures they choose too. For everyone that doesn’t like something, there will be people that do

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It has never bothered me tbh, I quite like cock pics too, plus it is their profile to do with as they wish

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I dont think its arrogant.. I think it's a bit crass.. also wonder if those women have given permission to be displayed on Fab."

This

recently saw a guy displaying a picture of him receiving oral, the woman's full face showing and he'd only blanked her eyes out. As if that suddenly made her unrecognisable

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm not a fan personally. I like to have something left to the imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It looks good though. Shows he’s experienced in sexy times "

No it just shows he's had sex at least once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It looks good though. Shows he’s experienced in sexy times

No it just shows he's had sex at least once. "

At least you know he’s done it and therefore an experienced and considerate lover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think its arrogant.. I think it's a bit crass.. also wonder if those women have given permission to be displayed on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It looks good though. Shows he’s experienced in sexy times

No it just shows he's had sex at least once.

At least you know he’s done it and therefore an experienced and considerate lover."

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

We totally agree & it’s an instant delete for us, unless it’s a couples profile only one person should be in the pics

MrsB

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It looks good though. Shows he’s experienced in sexy times

No it just shows he's had sex at least once.

At least you know he’s done it and therefore an experienced and considerate lover."

Haha! If only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It looks good though. Shows he’s experienced in sexy times

No it just shows he's had sex at least once.

At least you know he’s done it and therefore an experienced and considerate lover.

Women just loooooove the eye rolling emoji!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It looks good though. Shows he’s experienced in sexy times

No it just shows he's had sex at least once.

At least you know he’s done it and therefore an experienced and considerate lover.

Women just loooooove the eye rolling emoji! "

We're just glad someone created the emoji so we can get our fix without the daily eye strain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It puts me off on male or female profiles....however FF is quite hot

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"OP I know what you mean

More men like to see pics on a females profile having sex, sucking cock than women like to see on a mans profile

Not saying all but it seems the general view

Yes i think its how men's minds work as they probably get turned on seeing their potential fuck in action, i just can't get my head around it personally...

It’s an instant turn off for me if I move off here to WhatsApp and then the guy keeps sending sex vids

I hate that

What if the girl in them didn’t know that dickhead is passing it round

Yes - it happened to me last year .... girls on here messaging me to tell me some prick was showboating our sex vid that was supposed to be kept between us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about target audience.

There are women who love seeing those kinds of pics and even some that request vids of you fucking another girl.

Personally it's not for me but if others like, good on them. (Assuming they have permission of the person in the pic)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It looks good though. Shows he’s experienced in sexy times

No it just shows he's had sex at least once.

At least you know he’s done it and therefore an experienced and considerate lover.

Women just loooooove the eye rolling emoji!

We're just glad someone created the emoji so we can get our fix without the daily eye strain."

Exactly.

Plus some posts don't deserve words.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Everyone's different

It's not my favourite on a single man's profile, but it wouldn't put me off. We have a few action pics in our friends gallery - but would never put up anything without the other people's consent, and even then nothing with faces.

Mrs TMN x

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"It has never bothered me tbh, I quite like cock pics too, plus it is their profile to do with as they wish

Works like that for us too. Each to their own and if you don't like it the block button's always there for you.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The problem is most blokes have a bigger cock than they do brain. The bonus though is they make other user look fantastic compared to themself and In return blokes like me never go short on meets. So if I may I'd like to thank all the users with cock avatars all the ppl that have pic of them hanging out there ex gf back side and anyone who's ever come on here being a complete tool I thank you all. Because you think with you little willy that your so proud of I've had my up some beautiful pussy and lots of it. I honestly cant thank you enough. Mr average aka up to my eye in gash

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"The problem is most blokes have a bigger cock than they do brain. The bonus though is they make other user look fantastic compared to themself and In return blokes like me never go short on meets. So if I may I'd like to thank all the users with cock avatars all the ppl that have pic of them hanging out there ex gf back side and anyone who's ever come on here being a complete tool I thank you all. Because you think with you little willy that your so proud of I've had my up some beautiful pussy and lots of it. I honestly cant thank you enough. Mr average aka up to my eye in gash

yes puts things in perceptive, eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures sent to me that contain a man with another woman get deleted. I'm not interested in any action shots.

Cock pictures sent to me get a user blocked. It says in my profile. Not many men read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures sent to me that contain a man with another woman get deleted. I'm not interested in any action shots.

Cock pictures sent to me get a user blocked. It says in my profile. Not many men read profiles."

Don’t we know it, we get told enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures sent to me that contain a man with another woman get deleted. I'm not interested in any action shots.

Cock pictures sent to me get a user blocked. It says in my profile. Not many men read profiles.

Don’t we know it, we get told enough."

Seems not. As it keeps on happening on a daily basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I know what you mean

More men like to see pics on a females profile having sex, sucking cock than women like to see on a mans profile

Not saying all but it seems the general view

Yes i think its how men's minds work as they probably get turned on seeing their potential fuck in action, i just can't get my head around it personally...

I don't, I'd rather not see action pics and just see some nice pics of the lady in question. Tastefully done nudes, lingerie that sort of thing.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

On a swingers site, but being put off by pictures of people having sex.

Weird much? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tough one

I have a couple of public ones of me and a (male) friend

Whilst they might put some off, it is those images that seem to generate the most messages

So, where's the balance?

I think it comes in those pics vs the number and content of the other pics

For others, there may be no balance

I think, as I generally don't post (a lot of) sexual content in the forums, it is good for others to see that I have a sexual side too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hope i am allowed to express this view point on here... Maybe I am being naive or overly fussy (don't shoot down a newbie please) but i really get turned off if a guy messages me with his profile photo or many other photos on his profile consisting him having sex with other women. To me, he comes across arrogant. Anyone agrees with me on this subject? As it reduces my chances of meeting the right guy straight away when I see his photos. Including profiles with just dick pics only. "

I totally agree with you and if though it states that on my profile I still get guys sending me pics of women performing sex acts with them,seriously does any woman want to see that,huge turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it doesn’t come across as arrogant, but more that he’s probably not very discrete at all.

And I also wonder if he’s had permission from the women to post the photos.

Besides, I’m seeking to meet a man, not a couple or a woman, so I only want to see pictures of him!

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