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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

So, on the back of a conversation I had today, and some online chats, what do you think are the most important attributes in human beings?

For me it’s 2. Honesty and kindness. Honesty as it’s important to be able to be honest about who I am, and who you are, so I can be relaxed in my own being and at peace with who I am.

Kindness makes the world go around, I cannot understand anyone who is unkind. Even in a situation that leads to unkindness, we can still be kind. Ending a relationship? You can be kind. End of a friendship? You can be kind. Seeing someone homeless? Kindness will help, even for a moment. Talking to someone who really annoys you? You can still be kind.

We are all human beings trying to be the best version we can be (I hope).

So fabbers, what’s your most important attributes, either in yourself or others, or both?

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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

And clearly my spelling of the title is shit and I can’t work out how to alter it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"And clearly my spelling of the title is shit and I can’t work out how to alter it "

Lol we know what you mean and you can't edit your posts.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Kindness for me too.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Integrity has to be up there for me, I'd rather people stick to their principles than be simply be kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how I am using them and they are using me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty for me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Integrity has to be up there for me, I'd rather people stick to their principles than be simply be kind"

I don't think the two are mutually exclusive. It's possible to be kind with integrity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Modesty, empathy and humility are up there for me

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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Integrity has to be up there for me, I'd rather people stick to their principles than be simply be kind"

Ooh yes, I think integrity is a good one. But if you are being true to yourself, and actually you are pretentious, and selfish, is that the way you should live as a human being, or try and be less selfish?

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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Depends how I am using them and they are using me."

Ah yes, but I meant in every day life. And more about personal attributes, so you yourself as a person?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Empathy without a doubt

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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Modesty, empathy and humility are up there for me "

Oh I love these! I think empathy isn’t something that everyone can have though? Maybe I’m wrong...

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Integrity has to be up there for me, I'd rather people stick to their principles than be simply be kind

I don't think the two are mutually exclusive. It's possible to be kind with integrity. "

Couldn't agree more just saying i would rather see someone who sticks to their principles and moral compass even at the expense of kindness, i find with so many people it can be hard to respect them if they say one thing and do another which happens a lot.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Integrity has to be up there for me, I'd rather people stick to their principles than be simply be kind

Ooh yes, I think integrity is a good one. But if you are being true to yourself, and actually you are pretentious, and selfish, is that the way you should live as a human being, or try and be less selfish? "

It may not be a great example to set but if you have interactions with someone like that you know what to expect of them and juding a situation and what you can and should say to someone is made so much easier when armed with that knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, there are a few;

Honesty, openness and empathy. I don't think I need to go into it more than that.

Tea

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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Integrity has to be up there for me, I'd rather people stick to their principles than be simply be kind

Ooh yes, I think integrity is a good one. But if you are being true to yourself, and actually you are pretentious, and selfish, is that the way you should live as a human being, or try and be less selfish?

It may not be a great example to set but if you have interactions with someone like that you know what to expect of them and juding a situation and what you can and should say to someone is made so much easier when armed with that knowledge.

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So this ties in with my honesty, so being honest about who you are etc. Ok, good one

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Empathy without a doubt "

Empathy is so rare, a truly great quality to possess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empathy , kindness and a splendid sense of humour

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"So, on the back of a conversation I had today, and some online chats, what do you think are the most important attributes in human beings?"

A burning desire to fuck and openess to have as much sex with the opposite sex as consenting adults as one can possibly handle! Livelifetothefull.com!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how I am using them and they are using me.

Ah yes, but I meant in every day life. And more about personal attributes, so you yourself as a person? "

The universals would be honesty and openness. Drives me nuts having to second guess things.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"So, on the back of a conversation I had today, and some online chats, what do you think are the most important attributes in human beings?

A burning desire to fuck and openess to have as much sex with the opposite sex as consenting adults as one can possibly handle! Livelifetothefull.com! "

I’ll just slightly amend that to say, a burning desire to give as much sexual pleasure to other consenting sexual partners as possible. I know so many who have crap sex because their sex is purely for their own enjoyment. I get the best buzz from sex when I focus on giving her enjoyment! Once she’s on cloud nine, damn, that makes me feel good!

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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"So, on the back of a conversation I had today, and some online chats, what do you think are the most important attributes in human beings?

A burning desire to fuck and openess to have as much sex with the opposite sex as consenting adults as one can possibly handle! Livelifetothefull.com!

I’ll just slightly amend that to say, a burning desire to give as much sexual pleasure to other consenting sexual partners as possible. I know so many who have crap sex because their sex is purely for their own enjoyment. I get the best buzz from sex when I focus on giving her enjoyment! Once she’s on cloud nine, damn, that makes me feel good! "

So an important attribute to you is about sexual pleasure?

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By *liceinWonderland38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Depends how I am using them and they are using me.

Ah yes, but I meant in every day life. And more about personal attributes, so you yourself as a person?

The universals would be honesty and openness. Drives me nuts having to second guess things."

Yes exactly, I need to know where I stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello Rosa,

For me it's 3.

Honesty, kindness, and something I've always had drummed into me, politeness. X

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"So, on the back of a conversation I had today, and some online chats, what do you think are the most important attributes in human beings?

A burning desire to fuck and openess to have as much sex with the opposite sex as consenting adults as one can possibly handle! Livelifetothefull.com!

I’ll just slightly amend that to say, a burning desire to give as much sexual pleasure to other consenting sexual partners as possible. I know so many who have crap sex because their sex is purely for their own enjoyment. I get the best buzz from sex when I focus on giving her enjoyment! Once she’s on cloud nine, damn, that makes me feel good!

So an important attribute to you is about sexual pleasure? "

Well, of course! If we all say honesty on this thread, it’ll soon get a bit boring. I’m just giving a different attribute no-one’s mentioned yet, namely the lust-fuelled desire and willingness to give and receive sexual pleasure from other consenting adults! I wouldn’t have expected that to be all that controversial on a swingers site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tolerance of, and consideration for others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Integrity, humility & politeness for me

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