FabSwingers.com forum: Why do women not reply to me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its messed up and rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're not interested??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says:

"Please only be pleasure and leave your baggage at home."

Take your own advice, no one owes you anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not rude, maybe the don't like what they see or didn't read on your profile.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If you check the FAQ you'll find this;

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"They're not interested?? "

Simple as that.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

G why you gettin frustrated over fab?

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Your profile header says so many mail so how u got a problem?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

You have quite a restricted age range as well maybe widening it may help.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Negative profile? Maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't silence better than constantly getting put down? I don't imagine the woman I message are going "too good looking for me" but you never know.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Your profile header says so many mail so how u got a problem?"

Well spotted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its messed up and rude"

If you message a stranger and they choose not to reply why is that rude?

What specifically would you like? A reply detailing why they aren't interested?

Also why would they owe you a reply? You chose to message them of your own free volition so they owe you nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its messed up and rude"

How is it though?

We're not allowed to give profile advice as you've not asked for it and we don't know the content of your messages, but if they're as loquacious as your thread and profile text, then I can have a good guess as to why.

The simple answer is; no reply means no thanks. It's not rude. No one owes you anything.

Tea

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Its messed up and rude"

1) no one is obligated to reply... you aren't owed just for being here....

2) think of your profile as your shop window... ask yourself this:

"would you reply to you?"....

if not, why not! then change it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they don’t want to

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Another self entitled single bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile says:

"Please only be pleasure and leave your baggage at home."

Take your own advice, no one owes you anything."

Well said! Also welcome to my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile header says so many mail so how u got a problem?"

Well spotted

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Maybe your messages are not appealing. We've had various messages we wouldn't bother replying to.

It takes more than having a profile and sending messages to be worth replying to. You have to be somebody they want yo reply to. Nobody is obliged to respond.

Give us an example of the sort of message you send to start up a conversation and we might be able to give you more specific advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its messed up and rude"

Same reason they don’t reply to me, they’re not interested. It’s not rude, they don’t have to read the FAQ buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its messed up and rude"

Get use to it, not many do. It’s just the way it is on here.

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

Most won't from one message, only way to get on is to get out there to clubs and socials and get yourself known!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask yourself, do you stand out from the thousands of single guys on here?

alot of guys get meets, look at what they are doing, as a single guy you are in at a huge disadvantage due to numbers, you need to stans out, and sorry but you dont

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Sorry I wouldn't reply. Your not interested in women, the hole is the goal, that's very obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile header says so many mail so how u got a problem?"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not that hard really

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

OP has not replied to one single post on his thread - rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP has not replied to one single post on his thread - rude! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I want to bring my baggage with me. My biggage baggage contains my wand, dildos, restraints, condoms, lube and all of my undies.

Many men talk the talkie but don't walk the walkie so extra help in reaching climax (my wandage from my baggage) is often a necessity.

Other than that, maybe people are afraid to talk to you about anything other than sex, just in case you see it as baggage rather than pleasure, and the majority of people prefer to be seen as a person who has more to them than just their genitals. A brain for one starters.

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