FabSwingers.com forum: How much do you spend on a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How much would a typical meet cost you and what is the breakdown of that cost?

For example-

Hair cut £30

Nails £30

Lingerie £90

New boxers £20

Back sack & crack wax £20

Hotel £100

Etc....

Is it worth the money spent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its irrelevant if i want her il spend what i have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its irrelevant if i want her il spend what i have to "
shes worth all the money il ever have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't spend any money on having a shower and getting dressed.

Sometimes I don't bother

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

That's an expensive meet and they mightn't even show up..I would just rock up in casuals and get them a drink and go from there so cheap enough x

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Wow.....who you meeting the Queen...Sod that,

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Always worth the money spent. Hotel costs vary a lot. From free upwards. My hair I might as well give up on but normally less than £20 for a blowdry and trim.

I enjoy meeting so I don't really think too much about the cost etc. I buy lingerie for myself not for others. I get my hair done whether I am meeting or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As little as possible

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't buy anything special for it. Train fare and the cost of a couple of drinks maybe. Half a hotel room if that's where we're going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly don’t do all that

Although there are some who do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just rock up ... shower etc goes without saying but none of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How much would a typical meet cost you and what is the breakdown of that cost?

For example-

Hair cut £30

Nails £30

Lingerie £90

New boxers £20

Back sack & crack wax £20

Hotel £100

Etc....

Is it worth the money spent?"

My last meet was in a hotel room that I was already paying for as I work away from home. I bought a packet of condoms, snacks and drinks, that was all, I think.

I’m not sure I need a new pair of boxers every time I meet someone!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Bloody hell no!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Its irrelevant if i want her il spend what i have to shes worth all the money il ever have"

I'm sure if she likes you that much she wouldn't want you spending any money on her.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Cost of club entry plus whatever we eat and drink there....we stay naked so no cost for clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its irrelevant if i want her il spend what i have to shes worth all the money il ever have"

Blimey, i wish someone would say that about me

I'm not even worth a cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its irrelevant if i want her il spend what i have to shes worth all the money il ever have

I'm sure if she likes you that much she wouldn't want you spending any money on her."

Definitely

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Travel cost only as long as am clean well dressed respectfull that's all that's needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a fiver on coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn up clean and polite. ,not that expensive lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

All depends on the type of meet, it’s normally travel, half the social costs and half the hotel, if needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do club meets, so just the cost of fuel and club entry.

If I buy new lingerie then it's for me, not specifically for a meet so I don't consider that a cost.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It varies. I often meet when I’m away with work, so generally the hotel is paid for, although I do occasionally make extra curricular excursions. In which case I have to pay for the hotel.

Or I’ll meet at a friends house.

So, generally just travel expenses.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t get my hair done before a meet because if it ends up dishevelled and covered in cum, that would really piss me off!

I just shower, slap on nice clothes from wardrobe, makeup, perfume and good to go.

So the price of petrol, a coffee or halves on a hotel is the most i’d pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend max of one drink's worth if he doesn't buy me one.. To get a shower and put clean clothes on doesn't cost me anything.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Hair, waxing etc is something I do all the time so is never a factor in the cost of a meet. I’d be doing it anyway.

Trust me, I have drawers and drawers of lingerie that I’m always buying. If there’s not something suitable there, we have a problem.

The cost generally comes down to the event itself. What we’re doing, where we’re at.

And I never enter into anything unless I’m certain it’s going to be worth it.

Lex

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

First meet a coffee or two. Get to know each other with some decent chat. For me, there has to be a mental connection first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't meet anyone of Fab, so that bits irrelevant. Prefer my luck in real world but would spend anything up to 6000 EGP on a date.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"How much would a typical meet cost you and what is the breakdown of that cost?

For example-

Hair cut £30

Nails £30

Lingerie £90

New boxers £20

Back sack & crack wax £20

Hotel £100

Etc....

Is it worth the money spent?"

I have never done any of that, hair is cut by my cousin, my nails are my own, wear whatever lingerie I felt comfy in and I have never paid more that £50 for a hotel room, even less if you go Dutch

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Don't meet anyone of Fab, so that bits irrelevant. Prefer my luck in real world but would spend anything up to 6000 EGP on a date."

What’s that about £3.49

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't meet anyone of Fab, so that bits irrelevant. Prefer my luck in real world but would spend anything up to 6000 EGP on a date.

What’s that about £3.49

Close its around £3.99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaving in-home -0£

Shower-0£

Dress-0£

Travel -up to 20£

Hotel sharing - depends

Lunch/drink -again depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always worth the money spent. Hotel costs vary a lot. From free upwards. My hair I might as well give up on but normally less than £20 for a blowdry and trim.

I enjoy meeting so I don't really think too much about the cost etc. I buy lingerie for myself not for others. I get my hair done whether I am meeting or not."

Free hotels!

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By *eekaboobsWoman
over a year ago

North East

Don’t spend anything, well not unless you count keeping stock of the essentials like packs of condoms and plenty of lube. Haha

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"How much would a typical meet cost you and what is the breakdown of that cost?

For example-

Hair cut £30

Nails £30

Lingerie £90

New boxers £20

Back sack & crack wax £20

Hotel £100

Etc....

Is it worth the money spent?"

That sound more like getting ready for a Date than a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got clothes and boxers I like, I can also shower and shave and manscape at home too for free. Maybe a haircut at 20 quid and if need be a hotel room though I can accommodate at mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How much would a typical meet cost you and what is the breakdown of that cost?

For example-

Hair cut £30

Nails £30

Lingerie £90

New boxers £20

Back sack & crack wax £20

Hotel £100

Etc....

Is it worth the money spent?

That sound more like getting ready for a Date than a meet?"

On another thread a comment was made about how much money women spend on getting ready for meets. I was interested to find out how common it was.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I have huge amounts of lingerie that I or Mr N buy so that's £0

I get a cut and colour every six weeks so that's £0

We don't use hotels.

I usually do my own nails.

If we're going to someone's home we'll take a bottle and some chocolates. So about £20/30 for that.

If it's a social we will stand our round so anything from a fiver for coffee to twenty for drinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Travel expenses, fuel or fares

Half a hotel bill

Drinks and snacks

It’s not usually more than £100. I’d spend more to meet some of my friends because of the distance.

I’ve never bought anything new because I was meeting someone and my DIY topiary is free

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think it really depends on the type of meet and where. After so many years on here we have quite a good collection of sexy underwear/lingerie and clothes so for local meets it is really just the cost of drinks and if at a club the price of entry.

Modesty prevents us from saying how much our recent trip down south cost but with hotel costs, petrol and then food and drink cost it was more than a couple of hundred pounds.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

About £7 on desiel getting there and back... Sometimes I go another £3quid if I have you call at a pub on route to raid the rubber Jonny machine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never thought about it tbh

I don't buy new clothes for a meet

I shave my own head

I don't meet in hotels or clubs

So I guess cost wise, it's minimal

That's not to say I don't make considerations beforehand or don't make an effort

I tend not to get over excited by them, I am pretty come day, go day about meeting new people

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