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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

did you choose your female name?

Most of us use the name 'given' to us by our parents

You lucky people get to choose again

So what was it about the name you gave yourself that made that the right choice for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort of different but my friend was born female and we all knew for years that that just wasn’t him. When he did come out to us all and tell us he was male, he asked me to help find a suitable name. I ended up naming him. He’s stuck with the name for three years now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sort of different but my friend was born female and we all knew for years that that just wasn’t him. When he did come out to us all and tell us he was male, he asked me to help find a suitable name. I ended up naming him. He’s stuck with the name for three years now

I don't think any of my friends would trust my warped mind that intimately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think any of my friends would trust my warped mind that intimately

I suggested Noah. I didn’t think he’d go with any names anyone suggested - I thought it would be a totally personal decision he’d come to himself. But I’m super chuffed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't think any of my friends would trust my warped mind that intimately

I suggested Noah. I didn’t think he’d go with any names anyone suggested - I thought it would be a totally personal decision he’d come to himself. But I’m super chuffed

It's a cool name

I can see why he went with it

What a great bond you have

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When ma mate's missus applied some lippy and eyeliner to me and squeezed me into one of her dresses after a night on the lush, I became Alice Winger

I didn't bother having a shave

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When ma mate's missus applied some lippy and eyeliner to me and squeezed me into one of her dresses after a night on the lush, I became Alice Winger

I didn't bother having a shave

I wouldn't worry, neither do some women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When ma mate's missus applied some lippy and eyeliner to me and squeezed me into one of her dresses after a night on the lush, I became Alice Winger

I didn't bother having a shave

I wouldn't worry, neither do some women

I didn’t even shave before my wedding

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

In the throws of choosing a new name for myself, for domestic issues

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the throws of choosing a new name for myself, for domestic issues"

Oooh

Have you drawn up a shortlist?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"In the throws of choosing a new name for myself, for domestic issues

Oooh

Have you drawn up a shortlist?"

MrQuickSpaff

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the throws of choosing a new name for myself, for domestic issues

Oooh

Have you drawn up a shortlist?

MrQuickSpaff

It suits you

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Getting back to the original question,there was no particular reason but I just felt I looked like a Clare.Even before I started dressing, I had an imaginary alter ego called Clare so it was always gonna be that

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"In the throws of choosing a new name for myself, for domestic issues

Oooh

Have you drawn up a shortlist?

MrQuickSpaff

It suits you

Cheers Bussy, I have my moments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Getting back to the original question,there was no particular reason but I just felt I looked like a Clare.Even before I started dressing, I had an imaginary alter ego called Clare so it was always gonna be that"

Thank You Clare

I had imagined as much

As a teenager, I had an imaginary female alter ego, though she was never named and I never had the urge to dress

I did wonder whether the 'alter ego' effect influenced name choices

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Around 20 years ago there was a song about two lesbians called Chelsea and Lisa. In the song is a line that goes "who needs boys when Lisa's around" and straight away I knew that was my name. The song is called "She's losing it", the band Belle and Sebastian. Hence, Lisa Belle x

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Thank You Clare

I had imagined as much

As a teenager, I had an imaginary female alter ego, though she was never named and I never had the urge to dress

I did wonder whether the 'alter ego' effect influenced name choices

Of course,whether the name actually suits me is totally subjective.A female friend who knows I dress,before she knew I called myself Clare,imagined I would be a Raquel or a Sabrina lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Around 20 years ago there was a song about two lesbians called Chelsea and Lisa. In the song is a line that goes "who needs boys when Lisa's around" and straight away I knew that was my name. The song is called "She's losing it", the band Belle and Sebastian. Hence, Lisa Belle x "

That's fab, love it

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

That's fab, love it

There is a saying with trans girls, and Clare will identify with this is that the name chooses you, you don't choose the name x

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

That's fab, love it

There is a saying with trans girls, and Clare will identify with this is that the name chooses you, you don't choose the name x"

Yes,I'd agree with that totally! I would have expected to want to name myself after some hottie I'd lusted over but it didn't work like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An old girlfriend who got me started with dressing she gave me the name, Rebecca

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"An old girlfriend who got me started with dressing she gave me the name, Rebecca "

That's sweet ... and how great that you had that support

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's fab, love it

There is a saying with trans girls, and Clare will identify with this is that the name chooses you, you don't choose the name x

Yes,I'd agree with that totally! I would have expected to want to name myself after some hottie I'd lusted over but it didn't work like that "

I like that

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Zali is 2/3 of my real name and that is how I'm called by my parents, siblings and close friends.

It is masculine in my country but I think it sounds feminine in the western world so I use it.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"did you choose your female name?

Most of us use the name 'given' to us by our parents

You lucky people get to choose again

So what was it about the name you gave yourself that made that the right choice for you?"
My names Yasmeen and I love my name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey _asmeen is a beautiful name it suits you x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Hey _asmeen is a beautiful name it suits you x"
Thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Zali is 2/3 of my real name and that is how I'm called by my parents, siblings and close friends.

It is masculine in my country but I think it sounds feminine in the western world so I use it.

Where are you from originally?

A touch of the 'exotic' about a name is never a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"did you choose your female name?

Most of us use the name 'given' to us by our parents

You lucky people get to choose again

So what was it about the name you gave yourself that made that the right choice for you?My names Yasmeen and I love my name."

Did you choose Yasmeen?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Zali is 2/3 of my real name and that is how I'm called by my parents, siblings and close friends.

It is masculine in my country but I think it sounds feminine in the western world so I use it.

Where are you from originally?

A touch of the 'exotic' about a name is never a bad thing

South East Asia

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"did you choose your female name?

Most of us use the name 'given' to us by our parents

You lucky people get to choose again

So what was it about the name you gave yourself that made that the right choice for you?My names Yasmeen and I love my name.

Did you choose Yasmeen? "
I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good choice

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I originally called myself Penny, because I liked it. Many years ago when I started ‘dressing’ fully I used to go to a dressing service. The lovely lady who ran it said I looked more like a Rachel than a Penny .... and so Rachel was born xxx

R xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Zali is 2/3 of my real name and that is how I'm called by my parents, siblings and close friends.

It is masculine in my country but I think it sounds feminine in the western world so I use it.

Where are you from originally?

A touch of the 'exotic' about a name is never a bad thing

South East Asia

I was wrong then

I had Eurasia in my head (based purely on your pic)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I originally called myself Penny, because I liked it. Many years ago when I started ‘dressing’ fully I used to go to a dressing service. The lovely lady who ran it said I looked more like a Rachel than a Penny .... and so Rachel was born xxx

R xx"

Does Rachel dress differently to Penny? Are they different people / personas?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I shorten my male name in normal life, so it's just as easy to do in femme life as well. Unfortunately unlike some of the girls on here, no fantastic story how I got my name

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I shorten my male name in normal life, so it's just as easy to do in femme life as well. Unfortunately unlike some of the girls on here, no fantastic story how I got my name

Just like mine and I think that is equally fantastic - to be able to use your original name.

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By *mandajane01TV/TS
over a year ago

Ballymena

I got my name from visiting my next door neighbor

““You had better put this on so you don’t make a mess on the dress. It was Patricia’s too” She said holding out an apron. She helped me put it on tying it round my waist. “There you look quite a proper little girl, perhaps we should give you a new name, what would you like to be called?” she asked. I thought for a moment then it came to me I was wearing Jane’s dress. “Jane is a nice name I like it” I said. “Mmm it is nice but that’s my niece’s name, if I had had a second daughter I was going to call her Amanda. I think we should call you Amanda Jane, what do you think?” asked Mrs Morley. “I like it very much” I replied. “That’s it then, you shall be Amanda Jane.””

Full story “Amanda Jane is born” on tvchix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was given to me by a lady who used to model on the internet years ago. We met by accident and got chatting over a few months, eventually she asked me to call myself Christine after her, that was 2002 and that's me now

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

R xx

Does Rachel dress differently to Penny? Are they different people / personas?"

No not really ..... Same lady, different name, but Rachel has evolved over time.

R x

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Me I was lazy and just changed a couple of letters in my name. I'm Billie when I'm dressed, nice n simple, just like me.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I always liked the name Rachel, so it has sort of stuck.

I didn't like the female version of my name, as it was too close to my own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love all these stories

Thank You for being open

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