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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge

So I'm 44 and one of the lasses at work has made advantages which I'm flattered with problem is shes just turned 18 although legal is she to young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think she’s too young?

You have to live with it at the end of the day. At 20 I slept with men older than you, but I was (as still am) very mature.

Is she mature? Or is she your typical 18 year old ‘girl’ ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Only you can answer that question.

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge

Typical 18 year old as a 44 year old having the attention of an 18 year old is nice my issue is shes a year younger than my daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s only just turned 18 ....

To me - it’s wrong but that’s me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical 18 year old as a 44 year old having the attention of an 18 year old is nice my issue is shes a year younger than my daughter "

Ah

Well it’s your morals, and your mind that has to be at peace with it.

Are you keen? Or is it just flattering to receive attention from someone so young?

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"She’s only just turned 18 ....

To me - it’s wrong but that’s me "

That's the way my mind is swinging to

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By *arc5t5Man
over a year ago

Chorley

Bang her

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"Typical 18 year old as a 44 year old having the attention of an 18 year old is nice my issue is shes a year younger than my daughter

Ah

Well it’s your morals, and your mind that has to be at peace with it.

Are you keen? Or is it just flattering to receive attention from someone so young?"

Its flattering just receive attention full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical 18 year old as a 44 year old having the attention of an 18 year old is nice my issue is shes a year younger than my daughter

Ah

Well it’s your morals, and your mind that has to be at peace with it.

Are you keen? Or is it just flattering to receive attention from someone so young?

Its flattering just receive attention full stop "

But are you genuinely interested in her?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Sounds like you already know what to do.

If you are having doubts, don't go there.

Sure, its flattering if she fancies you, can be a real ego boost, but if she's still a bit of a giggly teenager, rather than acting more mature, then I'd skip it.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Lucky fucker .. 18 @ 44 .. good luck ..

I’m lucky to get the attention of an 81 year old lol

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea

Mature enough to cope with an older experienced man?

Are you married?

Yes - don’t go there!!!!

No and she’s intelligent and an old head on her shoulders, go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moral dilemma for sure.

It freaks me out a little when you realise you are old enough to be their dad!

So i steer clear no matter how tempting. As most likely it would get very messy/complicated too.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"She’s only just turned 18 ....

To me - it’s wrong but that’s me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re doubting it, it’s best not to, there’s a reason you’re hesitant. -Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my 18 year old daughter bought somebody my age home I prob liven him up its the consequences from her family has well I'm looking at it from a dad's point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm 44 and one of the lasses at work has made advantages which I'm flattered with problem is shes just turned 18 although legal is she to young "

Does she have massive eye lashes?

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

We are the same, we will not play with anyone who is or are the same age as our boys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lucky fucker .. 18 @ 44 .. good luck ..

I’m lucky to get the attention of an 81 year old lol "

am sure that is not true

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Lucky fucker .. 18 @ 44 .. good luck ..

I’m lucky to get the attention of an 81 year old lol "

I very much doubt that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm 44 and one of the lasses at work has made advantages which I'm flattered with problem is shes just turned 18 although legal is she to young "

I always stick with do not mix business with pleasure it can work for some people

AGE is not important

have you fucked an 18 year old before

if it bothers you too much then no

if you have accepted her advances already then that is harder to get out of.

Only type that I attract is d*unks even on the bus!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Do you think she’s too young?

You have to live with it at the end of the day. At 20 I slept with men older than you, but I was (as still am) very mature.

Is she mature? Or is she your typical 18 year old ‘girl’ ? "

Yeah you see that's the thing at that age they may just be discovering their 'flirting' skills but that's all it is,or simply just having a bit of the word I dislike 'banter' with the opposite sex and that's as far as it goes.

It's up to you to decide if she's serious or if you're reading more into it,remember her age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you feel if a man your age was with your daughter?

Yes 18 is legal but it's still quite young to be fully considering the consequences of not only an older man but one she works with too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the extra adds to my block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you feel if a man your age was with your daughter?

Yes 18 is legal but it's still quite young to be fully considering the consequences of not only an older man but one she works with too.

"

I agree with this.

It's no doubt flattering but the fact that you're in a quandary about it would (to my mind) point to a no.

Tea

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"Thanks for the extra adds to my block list "

Sorry

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By *ack Flash400Man
over a year ago

The Bat Cave


"Thanks for the extra adds to my block list "

'Wheat from the chaff' - there are a few 'classy' responses on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think she’s too young?

You have to live with it at the end of the day. At 20 I slept with men older than you, but I was (as still am) very mature.

Is she mature? Or is she your typical 18 year old ‘girl’ ?

Yeah you see that's the thing at that age they may just be discovering their 'flirting' skills but that's all it is,or simply just having a bit of the word I dislike 'banter' with the opposite sex and that's as far as it goes.

It's up to you to decide if she's serious or if you're reading more into it,remember her age!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to update your profile then, older man

Nice fantasy or might make you feel a bit grubby afterwards . Id be more worried about having to work with her afterwards maybe than the deed itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be legal but would it be comfortable still working with her if it ended badly?

Also, are you in a more senior position than her? Could you be seen to be taking advantage even though she's making the first moves?

Personally, I wouldn't risk it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it to just flirting and ego boosting OP. As others have said, you don’t know her. What happens if she falls madly in love with you and develops a stalker mentality?

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

I'd steer clear

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Enjoy the attention;do nothing about it would be my (Mr) advice in this situation,OP.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's a work colleague and she is new to the world of work (just based on her age).

One day she may well thank you for gently, kindly turning her away.

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