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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

regularly with those on your friends list?

Asking for a friend

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I talk to a few but not all of them. Most mainly on forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I talk to a few but not all of them. Most mainly on forums "

Hello stranger

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Some yes. With others I think I’m only there as their charity case so I don’t much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I talk to a few but not all of them. Most mainly on forums

Hello stranger "

I was naughty say no more lol. How's cheeky

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

Yes. I have a couple of people i chat to regularly & one very good friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some yes. With others I think I’m only there as their charity case so I don’t much "

I always check what they’re up to, recent photos and status updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Morning "

Morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as much as i did tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 10/08/19 10:48:39]"

Friends removed by poster

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Some I swap messages with regularly, others less frequently and there are a few I rarely speak to but have the occasional catch up with - same as real life friends really

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Some yes. With others I think I’m only there as their charity case so I don’t much

I always check what they’re up to, recent photos and status updates "

Yes, it does make your stalking a lot easier, I know you’re busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily but they're people I've met, like, or am planning to make some filthy plans with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning

Morning "
hello cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the only one on my friend list but I'm not talking to myself at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a couple of people I speak to regularly that I consider as friends x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We send a message every few weeks, just to keep in touch.

Most reply, still waiting for some.

If we have no response within a month, and can see they have been, or are, on,one, we send another to say “goodbye”. In our humble opinion, a month is long enough to reply, and if none by then, they obviously are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to a few. I seem to have a bunch who don’t know who a conversation goes.

I really need to have a clear out

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

In the last week, four on my friends list have contacted or I messaged them. I had a big clear out a few weeks ago, due to those I didn't feel were actually intending to meet or contact.

I now only accept friend request if I know that person is genuinely going to be a part of my 'fab life', not try and get access to my hidden photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Online, not on one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that often via here, sometimes on other platforms. There's only 8 so not in abundance.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Speak to a few yes

Keep an eye on updates sometimes

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not that often via here, sometimes on other platforms. There's only 8 so not in abundance."

I was just going to ask if people spoke to their friends list offline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to delete if we've not chatted in a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I talk to a few but not all of them. Most mainly on forums

Hello stranger

I was naughty say no more lol. How's cheeky "

I’m good . I’ll not mention being naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a friends list - primarily cos I'm shit at keeping in touch

Even my friends in real life go unnoticed for weeks on end

I am pretty much happy in my little cocoon

I'm not a loner, I'm just not very social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. I have a couple of people i chat to regularly & one very good friend."

That’s good to hear

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Some I’m in regular contact with; others we check in occasionally and say hi

I have a clear out every so often and those I haven’t talked to or met (or unlikely to) get removed

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I don't pm them but chat in cam rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Most of them are in the Forum and given most regular users ard pretty open and vocal. I don't feel the need.

One or two have made it onto Facebook and again.. we don't have to communicate on the regular to stay friends. I'm not needy (believe it or not) and I'm not attracted to needy people.

Having said that, I did video call a fellow fab fridnd last night for a chin wag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With some I do and some I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just had a friends list cull. I don’t see the point of having someone on a friends list you don’t communicate with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other day I deleted a few people purely because we don't communicate. My friends list is very short and I chat to most of them daily.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm the only one on my friend list but I'm not talking to myself at the moment. "

I don't blame you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do try. Probably not very well. If you are on our friends list drop us a message, you’re on there for a reason.

G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Most of them are in the Forum and given most regular users ard pretty open and vocal. I don't feel the need.

One or two have made it onto Facebook and again.. we don't have to communicate on the regular to stay friends. I'm not needy (believe it or not) and I'm not attracted to needy people.

Having said that, I did video call a fellow fab fridnd last night for a chin wag.

"

I think this is why I communicate less with my friends than I might do otherwise.

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes. I only have a very select few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Most of them are in the Forum and given most regular users ard pretty open and vocal. I don't feel the need.

One or two have made it onto Facebook and again.. we don't have to communicate on the regular to stay friends. I'm not needy (believe it or not) and I'm not attracted to needy people.

Having said that, I did video call a fellow fab fridnd last night for a chin wag.

I think this is why I communicate less with my friends than I might do otherwise. "

If I left fab.. then there are a few folks,like your good self, who I'd ask to remain friends with. Given I see you online as much as I am.. comment on alot of similar threads.. there's no real need to spam you with PMs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not that often via here, sometimes on other platforms. There's only 8 so not in abundance.

I was just going to ask if people spoke to their friends list offline "

Three of my friends are Kik contacts but we don’t chat on there normally and haven’t for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Most of them are in the Forum and given most regular users ard pretty open and vocal. I don't feel the need.

One or two have made it onto Facebook and again.. we don't have to communicate on the regular to stay friends. I'm not needy (believe it or not) and I'm not attracted to needy people.

Having said that, I did video call a fellow fab fridnd last night for a chin wag.

I think this is why I communicate less with my friends than I might do otherwise.

If I left fab.. then there are a few folks,like your good self, who I'd ask to remain friends with. Given I see you online as much as I am.. comment on alot of similar threads.. there's no real need to spam you with PMs."

I agree. I’d be happy to find another way to continue should one of us decide to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Most of them are in the Forum and given most regular users ard pretty open and vocal. I don't feel the need.

One or two have made it onto Facebook and again.. we don't have to communicate on the regular to stay friends. I'm not needy (believe it or not) and I'm not attracted to needy people.

Having said that, I did video call a fellow fab fridnd last night for a chin wag.

I think this is why I communicate less with my friends than I might do otherwise.

If I left fab.. then there are a few folks,like your good self, who I'd ask to remain friends with. Given I see you online as much as I am.. comment on alot of similar threads.. there's no real need to spam you with PMs.

I agree. I’d be happy to find another way to continue should one of us decide to go "

Fucking love you man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few I chat to regularly. Have made friends here and now friends outside fab so very rarely chat here. If I add someone as a friend and than no contact they usually get kicked to the curb after a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But few on this thread added to my hot list

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I just wish I some frwends to communicate with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the only one on my friend list but I'm not talking to myself at the moment.

I don't blame you "

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just wish I some frwends to communicate with "

Go teeth collecting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with a few who are also into watermelon fucking

#youknowwhoyouate

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I just wish I some frwends to communicate with

Go teeth collecting "

I cut the pastry off my pie with mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There’s some very good answers on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only with a few who are also into watermelon fucking

#youknowwhoyouate "

I really enjoy doing that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just wish I some frwends to communicate with

Go teeth collecting

I cut the pastry off my pie with mine "

Why am I thinking “ little house on the prairie “

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I just wish I some frwends to communicate with

Go teeth collecting

I cut the pastry off my pie with mine

Why am I thinking “ little house on the prairie “ "

What goes on in the house stays in the little house

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s a select list. Some I chat with regularly, some not but they are all there for a reason - we’ve met or I would like to meet

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

On and off. Some more regularly than others. But they wouldn't be on friends list if we didnt speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On and off. Some more regularly than others. But they wouldn't be on friends list if we didnt speak. "

Bet you are happy to chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of them yes! More so than with those who aren't on my friends list.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

Being pretty new to the forum I'm just starting out

If I got to know someone better, I do love a road trip

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On and off. Some more regularly than others. But they wouldn't be on friends list if we didnt speak.

Bet you are happy to chat x"

I think he is

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Some more than others if i’m honest. I tend to have more men who message me regularly who aren’t on any of my lists. Not for sexual chit chat either, just random stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some more than others if i’m honest. I tend to have more men who message me regularly who aren’t on any of my lists. Not for sexual chit chat either, just random stuff.

"

Do you sell a red carpet by any chance?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Some more than others if i’m honest. I tend to have more men who message me regularly who aren’t on any of my lists. Not for sexual chit chat either, just random stuff.

Do you sell a red carpet by any chance? "

No. I don’t sell anything foxy - i give it away for free

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I talk to a few but not all of them. Most mainly on forums

Hello stranger

I was naughty say no more lol. How's cheeky

I’m good . I’ll not mention being naughty "

Good to hear. I'll behave today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends list is pretty much people I've met and meet in person with an added few who I will met when time and distance align in our favour.

Really only do real time chats ie in person or on the phone as never been into online messaging as it's without the nuances of body language so not really for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some yes . Some no

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

We chat to a couple but most of them not really xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Three are best friends I see regularly. One is a friend I see now and again. Three I send the odd message to and one has gone awol lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah some I chat too! Not loads though as it’s too time consuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One are two are due the chop

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"On and off. Some more regularly than others. But they wouldn't be on friends list if we didnt speak.

Bet you are happy to chat x

I think he is "

He is and glad to call him a friend

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Think so, it’s good to chat could be about most things, I like the friends I have if I’ve not heard from them in a while I will check in.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Some of them I do. Not always on this site. On the same hand the people I talk to most aren't always on my friends list. It's odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some I do, I’m a terrible friend x

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Only a few

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Yes. I have a couple of people i chat to regularly & one very good friend.

That’s good to hear "

Love your pics by the way Cheeky69

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"regularly with those on your friends list?

Asking for a friend "

Usually only when they want a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day ,message ,in person , by phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't bother adding anyone to my fiends, because I never hear from them.

I deleted them.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Some more than others and also when offline

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have some good friends on there others are some who I have met or might meet in future. I need to clear it out again soon tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One are two are due the chop "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I talk to a few but not all of them. Most mainly on forums

Hello stranger

I was naughty say no more lol. How's cheeky

I’m good . I’ll not mention being naughty

Good to hear. I'll behave today "

Of course you will sunshine

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Some I do. Some of them are my regular meets as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it when people drop off my friends list without explanation. I make a point of being honest and approachable, but polite and reasonable. Hide next to nothing.

If I was going to drop off someone's friends list, I think I'd feel obliged to explain.

We're all different I guess.

I'm quick to make friends and be friendly, unless someone gives me reason not to be.

When they drop off without telling me, it makes me wonder what you said or did wrong to lose them. For all of five minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of them yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have that many ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should probably communicate more .. and I think that’s what I shall do today

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