FabSwingers.com forum: Can you live without sex ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So speaking to a friend and she said that she couldn't care less if she had sex or not. That her and the husband were having so much sex that it had became boring and now they don't bother at all. Made me wonder could I live with out sex. Answer is I don't think I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t live without marmite

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol

Sex ?

Never heard of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could if I had to/needed to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more than two weeks is the right answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes boring but alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chose to be celibate in the past and managed 8.5 years with no problems once the initial 6 months of hell was over

actually had so much energy to put into life was amazing!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I’d rather have no sex than shit sex. I can always look after myself if need be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chose to be celibate in the past and managed 8.5 years with no problems once the initial 6 months of hell was over

actually had so much energy to put into life was amazing! "

You had no sex for 8.5 years? Did I read that correct?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Unfortunately, yes.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

As my wife is asexual she finds it easy. Everyone is different though, the problem comes when you think your own needs are normal therefore anything different is strange

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I chose to be celibate in the past and managed 8.5 years with no problems once the initial 6 months of hell was over

actually had so much energy to put into life was amazing! "

Wow that is a long time. Amazing. I'd imagine it was hard for the first while alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re with the right person sex will never get boring, however i do believe this is the reason couple swing... keep things fresh i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I chose to be celibate in the past and managed 8.5 years with no problems once the initial 6 months of hell was over

actually had so much energy to put into life was amazing!

You had no sex for 8.5 years? Did I read that correct? "

Yes lol people get so caught up in sex and having to have sex that it becomes boring so I chose to readdress it and life is way way better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could.

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By *ge_load_ladMan
over a year ago

NW & Mids

``'Can you live without sex?"

Yes easy - be a single male and join FAB

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Yes and I have done previously for 7+ years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex ? Just what one keep the spuds in ?

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By *w2thisCouple
over a year ago

haverhill

If I had to I would cope just using my toys but given the choice I would never go without sex I enjoy it way to much. I am the kinda girl that likes it more than once every day if I go more than 2 days without it I am a nightmare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was married to a military man it was easy to go without now I’m single I struggle after a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So speaking to a friend and she said that she couldn't care less if she had sex or not. That her and the husband were having so much sex that it had became boring and now they don't bother at all. Made me wonder could I live with out sex. Answer is I don't think I could. "

No fucking way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance

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By *revor1940Man
over a year ago

west of Haverfordwest

I certainly can't live without sex. Problem is getting it, I am assumed to be too old and wanking is not a satisfactory solution.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Nope...even though I am single, I go 'solo' most days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow....incredible what made you decide to bring sex back into your life though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I was married to a military man it was easy to go without now I’m single I struggle after a few weeks

That's married life for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I could!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I could! I am craving F&B so much "

I know kid

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Couldn’t survive without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I could! I am craving F&B so much

I know kid"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow....incredible what made you decide to bring sex back into your life though? "

Woke up one day and thought I'm bored ... wonder if it all still works, is it like riding a push bike? Hahahahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When working it's not a problem, it's normally the last thing on my mind, at home I have a healthy sex life so guess I would miss it, never really thought about it as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was married to a military man it was easy to go without now I’m single I struggle after a few weeks

That's married life for you "

Haha I meant when he was away. Rare wife that didn’t play away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have gone a month without it & still don’t feel like it so it’s possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have gone a month without it & still don’t feel like it so it’s possible "

A month

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I could live without shit sex.

But passionate, great sex? Nope i need that in my life.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Absolutely not, that first time for both of us when young has lead to a lifelong addiction. After all, we are here to have sex, that's the meaning of life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have gone a month without it & still don’t feel like it so it’s possible

A month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did for a lot of years, it was crap sex anyway so I just shut down that side of myself. But now I’ve discovered great sex I don’t think I could x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have gone a month without it & still don’t feel like it so it’s possible

A month

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Asexual phase I think

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I did for a good number of years because like others have said I got fed up of bad sex.I got fed up of guys who basically didn't make an effort and decided no sex was better than bad sex. Luckily that has changed and it's good fun again.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Does that include masturbation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gone over 8 years from my mid 20s to mid 30s with no sex. So I'd do without if had to. It's the intimacy I'd miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in a relationship which will never happen i couldn't go without, but being single having to mess on getting ready for meets I can't be bothered at the moment so it's been around 10 months now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did for a good number of years because like others have said I got fed up of bad sex.I got fed up of guys who basically didn't make an effort and decided no sex was better than bad sex. Luckily that has changed and it's good fun again. "

Glad to here it's changed for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I could live very easily without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a year, so yes

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By *liceinWonderland38Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes I can but I’m a much happier calmer person with it

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I lived without sex for 5 years so probably could again if I had to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could live without sex, I couldn't live without intimacy.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Have no choice.....I have to !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As my wife is asexual she finds it easy. Everyone is different though, the problem comes when you think your own needs are normal therefore anything different is strange "

When did she realise that she's asexual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did for years and I sometimes go months without it.

Maybe that's why I'm so grumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have to go 2 weeks at a time without as we live 45 miles apart and see each other for a few days every two weeks! Absolutely desperate to fuck each other every time!! Keeps it fresh but I certainly struggle past the 2 weeks point! Although we did once have to do 8 weeks as he was working away!! Nightmare!!

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm already living without sex.

Il live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't not masterbate but I've never minded masterbation instead of sex. It's like drinking diet instead of normal , you could if you had to.

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yes 15 years... didn’t miss it after a while you get used to it. Did miss the cuddles etc .. still do. But single has it’s benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still seem to be alive......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years of no release, shit you must have matured cheddar cheese in there by now...can’t imagine it even coming out lol...couple of days pass an I need to fuck again lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes, but I believe sex and intimacy are two separate things. So the former yes but the latter no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I could live very easily without it

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But not without wanking which I do once a day

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I could live without sex and did do for over 2 years at one point.

Would rather not have to though.

Nita

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sex yes, intimacy no x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not as if our balls will explode or vaginas will dry up if we don't have sex.

I think it's safe to say we will all survive.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"As my wife is asexual she finds it easy. Everyone is different though, the problem comes when you think your own needs are normal therefore anything different is strange

When did she realise that she's asexual?"

After the therapy

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"It's not as if our balls will explode or vaginas will dry up if we don't have sex.

I think it's safe to say we will all survive. "

Physically, of course. Mentally, not necessarily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not as if our balls will explode or vaginas will dry up if we don't have sex.

I think it's safe to say we will all survive.

Physically, of course. Mentally, not necessarily "

Are you being serious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not as if our balls will explode or vaginas will dry up if we don't have sex.

I think it's safe to say we will all survive. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I live with very little sex as it is. My mentality now is such that I could probably live without it completely if necessary.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

Probably could and did for a point a couple of years back which I knew was realyl sad at time. Something was wrong! But since being on fab I've caught a bug and now think about it a hell of a lot more than before. Societal norms clearly suppresses human sexuality. x

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"It's not as if our balls will explode or vaginas will dry up if we don't have sex.

I think it's safe to say we will all survive.

Physically, of course. Mentally, not necessarily

Are you being serious? "

Yes. Some people can of course, but some definitely miss the intimacy of sex. We’re not all the same

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yes, I could. I would be less me though.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm 22, have had sex a handful of times and throughout puberty I never had a rampant urge to want sex and I don't have it now either. If I find someone I'm attracted to and like spending time with I'll think about having sex with them but I don't feel like I need to have it or want to go looking for it atm as there's nobody like that in my life. I know some people guys come across as if they'll burst if they don't have sex often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to!

Regular sex stopped between us years ago.

Thank goodness for porn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been a year, so yes

Oh wow

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