FabSwingers.com forum: Being Judged!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't we all get judged every day . Social media in our jobs on the tram train bus etc it's all part of being human we all have opinions , not everyone is going to like you , in my case most , but there are people who will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't we all get judged every day . Social media in our jobs on the tram train bus etc it's all part of being human we all have opinions , not everyone is going to like you , in my case most , but there are people who will "

True

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People judge us regularly because of our appearance (goth).

They have a right to an opinion. We have a right to ignore it.

“Your opinion of me is only valued by one person, you”

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Halfway through been fucked the other week the guy stopped & went home saying he didn't like been judged...it wasn't as if OH & myself were holding scorecards up...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse "

He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Halfway through been fucked the other week the guy stopped & went home saying he didn't like been judged...it wasn't as if OH & myself were holding scorecards up...

Sevvveeeeern .....lol

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

I feel like being judged all the time, but being optimist I don't give a flying sh.. If people who don't know me judging me, mostly coming to wrong conclusions. Either they like me for who I am or they are not worth worrying about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel like being judged all the time, but being optimist I don't give a flying sh.. If people who don't know me judging me, mostly coming to wrong conclusions. Either they like me for who I am or they are not worth worrying about.

On a daily basis i agree, but i was in a dungeon with about 14 people watching... i think il shut the gate next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People judge all the time, it’s a natural behaviour, how you deal with it though really depends on the individual.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Halfway through been fucked the other week the guy stopped & went home saying he didn't like been judged...it wasn't as if OH & myself were holding scorecards up...

Sevvveeeeern .....lol "

Lol. .

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I get judged because of the way I choose to look

I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead

Tbh it makes me smile lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yep and it just makes me play up. I honestly couldn't give to fucks what ppl think about me or what I do. Last thing I ever want to be is normal. I'm growing old disgracefully. Fuck them all....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get judged because of the way I choose to look

I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead

Tbh it makes me smile lol "

Good for you! You're gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think we feel we're being judged much much more than we actually are ... maybe he had lost his confidence and simply put the onus on you. Just except that the situation wasn't for him and let it pass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont mind being judged as long as its not judy shes a cunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont mind being judged as long as its not judy shes a cunt"

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People judge us regularly because of our appearance (goth).

They have a right to an opinion. We have a right to ignore it.

“Your opinion of me is only valued by one person, you”

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse

He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that "

There you are then - he probably didn’t want to be on the telly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse

He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that "

It sounds like he was intimidated by the situation and didn’t have the confidence to engage further. I’d say he was judging himself rather than you.

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By *ellytransvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead "

Sooooooooo... which one are you then?

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

"I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead

Sooooooooo... which one are you then?

Ha ha - I was going to ask that, you beat me to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

And as long as you had a good time that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"

How many guys were involved in your gang bang and when’s the next one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"

Fuck judgement...judgment comes from jealously. Enjoy whatever u enjoy doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"

Also why did he come in the first place to your gang bang if it wasn’t his thing or was it a surprise gang bang?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Everyone judges everyone. If I said someone was really nice, that’s a judgement.

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By *ack_greenfinchMan
over a year ago

bristol

"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse

He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that

There you are then - he probably didn’t want to be on the telly "

Ha ha ha! Excellent!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

...in a nutshell!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"

I love judgey people, see them all the time.

It's a great filter.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Halfway through been fucked the other week the guy stopped & went home saying he didn't like been judged...it wasn't as if OH & myself were holding scorecards up...

Sevvveeeeern .....lol "

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse

He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that

There you are then - he probably didn’t want to be on the telly

Ha ha ha! Excellent!"

You’re not so bad yourself!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Dont mind being judged as long as its not judy shes a cunt"

She's my hero...Love her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once told a girl I use massage oil on my dick when I wank and I was judged

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse

He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that

There you are then - he probably didn’t want to be on the telly "

...fabsters are on comedic form today and it not 9am yet!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?

Fuck judgement...judgment comes from jealously. Enjoy whatever u enjoy doing"

Judgement doesn't just come from jealousy.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

"I get judged because of the way I choose to look

I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead

Tbh it makes me smile lol

Good for you! You're gorgeous x"
ladies we have the power in this space ... if some guys is intimidated or unsure of himself in a group play space or open play space ... there are plenty of other fish in the sea ... embrace the erotic ... xx Anne (George is a great supporter of strong women ... look who he married)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure telling someone how they feel about the effect they have on them is judging. It’s simply an expression of how they feel. If you felt frightened in the presence of someone on a meet would you tell them and leave?

As to what caused his fear did he say?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Im always honest about what i like and what i have done to anyone i meet or chat to. Some men love it but others are horrified.

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

You certainly arent scary!! Mad maybe but scary nah...

G&D xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite enjoy being judged - especially when they're way off the mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he was happy just watching and didn't want to be kissed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he was happy just watching and didn't want to be kissed? "

Maybe she sucked all the cocks and then kissed him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he was happy just watching and didn't want to be kissed?

Maybe she sucked all the cocks and then kissed him? "

That sounds horny as fuck to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he was happy just watching and didn't want to be kissed?

Maybe she sucked all the cocks and then kissed him?

That sounds horny as fuck to me

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he was happy just watching and didn't want to be kissed?

Maybe she sucked all the cocks and then kissed him?

That sounds horny as fuck to me

Me too

You two should contact her immediately

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

We're all judging people and being judged in some way

Life's to short to worry about it

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"

No in fact he lost his bottle. Don’t blame yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?

No in fact he lost his bottle. Don’t blame yourself "

What bottle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His opinion says everything about him, and nothing about you. Don’t give him another thought.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"I get judged because of the way I choose to look

I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead

Tbh it makes me smile lol

Good for you! You're gorgeous x"

Thank you

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

Our minds are either judging or perciving.

It is how we absorb information around us, then process it and act on it

We do not see the world the way it objectively is.

We see it the way we feel.

You both just felt different...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse

He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that "

I think you're perceiving what he said as a negative judgement when he could have meant that your powerful sexuality frightened him. Sometimes our judgement of ourselves makes us interpret other people's words and actions incorrectly

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Have you ever felt you're being judged when doing something? I had a gang bang , a guy told me i frightened him and walked out! TOTALLY put me of me stride! Anyone else?"

I wouldn't worry to much about it...maybe he had his own issues he was dealing with. I hope it didn't spoil it totally for you..

you can't please all the people all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get judged because of the way I choose to look

I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead

Tbh it makes me smile lol "

Wow your a stunner very sexy looking love the hair too x

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"I get judged because of the way I choose to look

I’m either in the adult entertainment industry or a complete airhead

Tbh it makes me smile lol "

Well I will judge you too. You look lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll always be judged by others whatever we do. The trick is not giving to much of a fuck about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We'll always be judged by others whatever we do. The trick is not giving to much of a fuck about it."

*too*

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

You are judged all through your life.

You need to learn which judgments are important and which you can just let wash over you as you walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all judge .... we are judged

Is your conscience clear ? Have you hurt anyone ? Are you using people ?

Only you can decide if the judgements mean anything to you or if you can let them wash over you

I have a problem with people who judge others, whilst having questionable intentions themselves

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

East London

I dont judge aint got the qualifications for it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I get judged for being bi, being married and being on here. Sometimes good, sometimes bad, often indifferent. C’est la vie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only God can judge me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only God can judge me

God says, you are a naughty naughty girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only God can judge me

God says, you are a naughty naughty girl!

I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You certainly arent scary!! Mad maybe but scary nah...

G&D xx"

Ha ha you know me ,we are there tonight how about you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I was there and that Scream mask was a bit scary

Yes OP I’ve felt judged but it’s just human nature to judge people. I maybe wouldn’t say it during a gangbang however

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its true i had sucked a lot of cock that night! My tongue hurt the next day...poor tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we observe and then persuaded by thoughts and conclude with judgment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our minds are either judging or perciving.

It is how we absorb information around us, then process it and act on it

We do not see the world the way it objectively is.

We see it the way we feel.

You both just felt different...

Love this and so true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

Especially not with watermelons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

Then you will be judged as lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

Especially not with watermelons

Depends on the seeds size tbh

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

Then you will be judged as lazy

Only if they know you exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing

At least you got noticed for something x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

Then you will be judged as lazy

Only if they know you exist "

Good point! Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing

At least you got noticed for something x"

Should get an award for doing nothing

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

judgement is all around us ..as long as you're happy within yourself it matters not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

Then you will be judged as lazy

Only if they know you exist

Good point! Thank you x"

Free of charge x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get judged if your doing good or bad! Just shrug it off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing

At least you got noticed for something x

Should get an award for doing nothing

It takes some practise to stay still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse

He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that "

Aww I dont know that he was judging you, sounds more like he was bravely admitting his own fears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

Then you will be judged as lazy

Only if they know you exist

Good point! Thank you x

Free of charge x"

No sexual favours x

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By *exyFunAshWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

I think there is always going to he people judging our actions.

I think people seem to forget that you may have a thought or opinion about something but sometimes it's best to keep it to yourself.

This idea that you should be able to say anything that comes to your mind is stupid and can damage someone.

Then if someone's pulls them up on their behaviour or option the old "snowflake" argument comes out.

In the long run it's sometimes better just to keep your thoughts and opinions to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing

At least you got noticed for something x

Should get an award for doing nothing

It takes some practise to stay still "

And the dangers of going numb

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you don't want to be judged, do not do anything.

This is my approach to life. Unfortunately this has resulted in people judging me for doing nothing

At least you got noticed for something x"

No, I get noticed for nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse

He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that

Aww I dont know that he was judging you, sounds more like he was bravely admitting his own fears."

Yes maybe, i think he was honest and incan handle that x

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

"You certainly arent scary!! Mad maybe but scary nah...

G&D xx

Ha ha you know me ,we are there tonight how about you x"

We tried but no dog sitter available - gutted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He probably realised he couldn't get it up and that was his excuse

He was only watching i happened to walk up to him and kiss him, he kissed me and then whispered it to me and walked out. There was a lot of BBC around my husband said it may have been that

I wondered that too.

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