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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her"
no but i sometimes look at mine and think how did i manage that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her no but i sometimes look at mine and think how did i manage that "

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I imagine there’s lots of ways he was able to have sex with her, the verification usually explains how.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her no but i sometimes look at mine and think how did i manage that "

That tickled us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her"

No, but then I don't bother myself with what others do or who they do it with. I certainly don't ascribe value to other people, judge others by my own values or second guess their interactions.

Look to what you're doing and let others do what they are, then you might find your experience a happier one, rather than your threads focusing and complaining about how others handle theirs.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her"

Do you OP? In what way?

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By *wesomepearWoman
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her no but i sometimes look at mine and think how did i manage that "

Haha this is me too!!

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

No but I re read mine and wonder how the hell did I do that

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact."

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but most I talk to their verifications are hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types. "

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact."

I’m the same chap. When someone contacts me and I see their photos/verifications are full of buff blokes or when a couple where the male half is an Adonis, I reply that I am probably not for them, I want to meet people who I feel relaxed around and if I am not their “usual” type, I can’t see that happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her"

No, never.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her"

No normally I look at think fake verified lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her

Do you OP? In what way?"

I sometimes wonder what did average Joe do to bed a super model like her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it never crosses my mind. Usually if I am looking at Veris it’s because I fancy her, so I just think ‘lucky bugger’ and have a bit of admiration for them. Even more so if they’ve achieved something I couldn’t.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact."

That puts me off from messaging too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her"

No. Experimenting with all types is what opens us up to new experiences & knowledge. That's what's so amazing about fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her

Do you OP? In what way?

I sometimes wonder what did average Joe do to bed a super model like her. "

An average Joe to you, can be a model to someone else. And it isn’t all about looks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea"

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

That puts me off from messaging too. "

That wouldn’t stop me unless it specifically said ‘Tanned Adonises are my type’ in her profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants? "

No, as many people (like me) don’t have a certain ‘type’.

I’ve met gym fit men, men with a ‘dad bod’, chunkier men, and slim men. And I married the skinniest man I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants? "

You never know if you don't ask OP..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, as many people (like me) don’t have a certain ‘type’.

I’ve met gym fit men, men with a ‘dad bod’, chunkier men, and slim men. And I married the skinniest man I know. "

No old codgers though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, as many people (like me) don’t have a certain ‘type’.

I’ve met gym fit men, men with a ‘dad bod’, chunkier men, and slim men. And I married the skinniest man I know.

No old codgers though "

One is now 52, does that count? if not...then no, not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, as many people (like me) don’t have a certain ‘type’.

I’ve met gym fit men, men with a ‘dad bod’, chunkier men, and slim men. And I married the skinniest man I know.

No old codgers though

One is now 52, does that count? if not...then no, not yet "

52 is a young whipper snapper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, as many people (like me) don’t have a certain ‘type’.

I’ve met gym fit men, men with a ‘dad bod’, chunkier men, and slim men. And I married the skinniest man I know.

No old codgers though

One is now 52, does that count? if not...then no, not yet

52 is a young whipper snapper "

Super old when you’re 22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea"

Because I've met someone who only had pics of gym fit guys and guys with massive wangers. She proceeded to take the piss out of the size of my cock once naked. Not something I want to experience ever again so i use it as a filter 99% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Because I've met someone who only had pics of gym fit guys and guys with massive wangers. She proceeded to take the piss out of the size of my cock once naked. Not something I want to experience ever again so i use it as a filter 99% of the time."

She would have failed the personality test for me, well before I got my kit off with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants? "

No, if we got chatting and she was open to meeting then I wouldn't second guess her attraction. Your self esteem issues aren't their worry.

There are no leagues, people find different things attractive.

Why would you turn down someone that you find attractive, who says that they're interested in you, just because of who they met before?

This is another reason why verifications are ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, as many people (like me) don’t have a certain ‘type’.

I’ve met gym fit men, men with a ‘dad bod’, chunkier men, and slim men. And I married the skinniest man I know.

No old codgers though

One is now 52, does that count? if not...then no, not yet

52 is a young whipper snapper

Super old when you’re 22 "

Now I feel ancient not just olde

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Because I've met someone who only had pics of gym fit guys and guys with massive wangers. She proceeded to take the piss out of the size of my cock once naked. Not something I want to experience ever again so i use it as a filter 99% of the time."

I'm sorry to hear about that, she sounds like a prime douchecanoe.

On the contrary side, my ex had a big thing for fit, toned, gym fit guys, I met her when I was 2 1/2 stone heavier than I am now. If I'd followed this principle I would've talked myself out of a 2 year relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, if we got chatting and she was open to meeting then I wouldn't second guess her attraction. Your self esteem issues aren't their worry.

There are no leagues, people find different things attractive.

Why would you turn down someone that you find attractive, who says that they're interested in you, just because of who they met before?

This is another reason why verifications are ridiculous. "

Now you are twisting what I said. I'm not talking about someone who says they're interested in me.

That's a different thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, as many people (like me) don’t have a certain ‘type’.

I’ve met gym fit men, men with a ‘dad bod’, chunkier men, and slim men. And I married the skinniest man I know.

No old codgers though

One is now 52, does that count? if not...then no, not yet

52 is a young whipper snapper

Super old when you’re 22

Now I feel ancient not just olde "

You two need to get a room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, if we got chatting and she was open to meeting then I wouldn't second guess her attraction. Your self esteem issues aren't their worry.

There are no leagues, people find different things attractive.

Why would you turn down someone that you find attractive, who says that they're interested in you, just because of who they met before?

This is another reason why verifications are ridiculous.

Now you are twisting what I said. I'm not talking about someone who says they're interested in me.

That's a different thing. "

I'm not twisting anything, I never send cold messages so the only interactions that I have are with people as I've stated.

My point is that you don't know. If you don't match the criteria that they set out then that's fair enough but if you do, why make the choice for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her"

yeh i fantasise about what positions they were in during the sexy times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, as many people (like me) don’t have a certain ‘type’.

I’ve met gym fit men, men with a ‘dad bod’, chunkier men, and slim men. And I married the skinniest man I know.

No old codgers though

One is now 52, does that count? if not...then no, not yet

52 is a young whipper snapper

Super old when you’re 22

Now I feel ancient not just olde

You two need to get a room "

It was a struggle to fit it in before the baby was born, but we’ve got a hostel in Glasgow booked - thanks for the suggestion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, if we got chatting and she was open to meeting then I wouldn't second guess her attraction. Your self esteem issues aren't their worry.

There are no leagues, people find different things attractive.

Why would you turn down someone that you find attractive, who says that they're interested in you, just because of who they met before?

This is another reason why verifications are ridiculous.

Now you are twisting what I said. I'm not talking about someone who says they're interested in me.

That's a different thing.

I'm not twisting anything, I never send cold messages so the only interactions that I have are with people as I've stated.

My point is that you don't know. If you don't match the criteria that they set out then that's fair enough but if you do, why make the choice for them?"

So you don't send out cold messages. Is that because you don't think you will fit their criteria?

I'm not making a choice for them. It's just a bit of common sense thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So you don't send out cold messages. Is that because you don't think you will fit their criteria?

I'm not making a choice for them. It's just a bit of common sense thinking. "

No, I didn't send out cold messages because it's probably the hardest and most pointless way of trying to make contact with someone.

I haven't sent out a cold message in about 4/5 years.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So you don't send out cold messages. Is that because you don't think you will fit their criteria?

I'm not making a choice for them. It's just a bit of common sense thinking.

No, I didn't send out cold messages because it's probably the hardest and most pointless way of trying to make contact with someone.

I haven't sent out a cold message in about 4/5 years.

Tea

"

I agree. I don’t send cold call messages either. They either contact me first or it is on the back of a different type of interaction in the forum or occasionally in a chat room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I have never done that OP

Speaking for myself i am attracted to many different types of women, I don’t have a set type and stick to that type exclusively.

Only one thing would completely exclude a woman for me and that’s an unattractive personality.

I am sure many others are the same including the women in the verifications you have been checking up on.

I am I sensing a little of the green eyed monster OP?

LJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope I have never done that OP

Speaking for myself i am attracted to many different types of women, I don’t have a set type and stick to that type exclusively.

Only one thing would completely exclude a woman for me and that’s an unattractive personality.

I am sure many others are the same including the women in the verifications you have been checking up on.

I am I sensing a little of the green eyed monster OP?

LJ"

green eyed monster ugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her

No, but then I don't bother myself with what others do or who they do it with. I certainly don't ascribe value to other people, judge others by my own values or second guess their interactions.

Look to what you're doing and let others do what they are, then you might find your experience a happier one, rather than your threads focusing and complaining about how others handle theirs.

Tea"

Spot on - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her no but i sometimes look at mine and think how did i manage that "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Don't you think when you see a ladies verifications are all from VWE gym rats then that's the type she wants?

No, as many people (like me) don’t have a certain ‘type’.

I’ve met gym fit men, men with a ‘dad bod’, chunkier men, and slim men. And I married the skinniest man I know.

No old codgers though

One is now 52, does that count? if not...then no, not yet

52 is a young whipper snapper

Super old when you’re 22

Now I feel ancient not just olde

You two need to get a room

It was a struggle to fit it in before the baby was born, but we’ve got a hostel in Glasgow booked - thanks for the suggestion "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"look at verifications and think to yourself how did he manage to have sex with her

No, but then I don't bother myself with what others do or who they do it with. I certainly don't ascribe value to other people, judge others by my own values or second guess their interactions.

Look to what you're doing and let others do what they are, then you might find your experience a happier one, rather than your threads focusing and complaining about how others handle theirs.

Tea

Spot on - Mrs "

I'm not stopping anyone from doing anything.

When did I complain about others handling theirs?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

People like who they like, not all of us meet purely on aesthetics and even if I did my idea of good looking wouldn’t appeal to every other woman on here, so no I have never wondered how connections are made between two people

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over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Because I've met someone who only had pics of gym fit guys and guys with massive wangers. She proceeded to take the piss out of the size of my cock once naked. Not something I want to experience ever again so i use it as a filter 99% of the time.

I'm sorry to hear about that, she sounds like a prime douchecanoe.

On the contrary side, my ex had a big thing for fit, toned, gym fit guys, I met her when I was 2 1/2 stone heavier than I am now. If I'd followed this principle I would've talked myself out of a 2 year relationship. "

Yeah I get that but what she did was deeply hurtful and took a long time for me to get over, rebuild my confidence etc.

That sort if thing isn't easily forgotten.

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over a year ago


"People like who they like, not all of us meet purely on aesthetics and even if I did my idea of good looking wouldn’t appeal to every other woman on here, so no I have never wondered how connections are made between two people "

Well I can't help wondering how connections are made sometimes.

Especially when some are living in Scotland and they have fwbs in Kent.

It makes me curious.

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over a year ago

I'm good arnt i dont be jealous of me op im just awesome at fucking

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over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Because I've met someone who only had pics of gym fit guys and guys with massive wangers. She proceeded to take the piss out of the size of my cock once naked. Not something I want to experience ever again so i use it as a filter 99% of the time.

I'm sorry to hear about that, she sounds like a prime douchecanoe.

On the contrary side, my ex had a big thing for fit, toned, gym fit guys, I met her when I was 2 1/2 stone heavier than I am now. If I'd followed this principle I would've talked myself out of a 2 year relationship.

Yeah I get that but what she did was deeply hurtful and took a long time for me to get over, rebuild my confidence etc.

That sort if thing isn't easily forgotten."

I can imagine. I would of walked away from her.

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over a year ago


"Nope I have never done that OP

Speaking for myself i am attracted to many different types of women, I don’t have a set type and stick to that type exclusively.

Only one thing would completely exclude a woman for me and that’s an unattractive personality.

I am sure many others are the same including the women in the verifications you have been checking up on.

I am I sensing a little of the green eyed monster OP?

LJ"

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

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"People like who they like, not all of us meet purely on aesthetics and even if I did my idea of good looking wouldn’t appeal to every other woman on here, so no I have never wondered how connections are made between two people

Well I can't help wondering how connections are made sometimes.

Especially when some are living in Scotland and they have fwbs in Kent.

It makes me curious. "

That just means they aren’t afraid to travel for the right person

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over a year ago


" I'm good arnt i dont be jealous of me op im just awesome at fucking "

Fair play to you, Lord of orgasms

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over a year ago


" I'm good arnt i dont be jealous of me op im just awesome at fucking

Fair play to you, Lord of orgasms "

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

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"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Because I've met someone who only had pics of gym fit guys and guys with massive wangers. She proceeded to take the piss out of the size of my cock once naked. Not something I want to experience ever again so i use it as a filter 99% of the time.

I'm sorry to hear about that, she sounds like a prime douchecanoe.

On the contrary side, my ex had a big thing for fit, toned, gym fit guys, I met her when I was 2 1/2 stone heavier than I am now. If I'd followed this principle I would've talked myself out of a 2 year relationship.

Yeah I get that but what she did was deeply hurtful and took a long time for me to get over, rebuild my confidence etc.

That sort if thing isn't easily forgotten."

OMG that is a terrible thing to do to someone, that is very disrespectful and quite childish behaviour

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over a year ago


"Nope I have never done that OP

Speaking for myself i am attracted to many different types of women, I don’t have a set type and stick to that type exclusively.

Only one thing would completely exclude a woman for me and that’s an unattractive personality.

I am sure many others are the same including the women in the verifications you have been checking up on.

I am I sensing a little of the green eyed monster OP?

LJ "

If green eyed monster means jealousy, then I am nothing like that in reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, but I do look to see the veris of people I like and click them to see if the blokes have the same "body type" as me.

If they are all tanned, six-packed adonises then even if the profile indicates I'm in their "search zone" I don't bother making contact.

You shouldn't let that put you off, people can be attracted to lots of different types.

I agree with this. I don't understand why people think that they know someone else's interest better than that person does.

Tea

Because I've met someone who only had pics of gym fit guys and guys with massive wangers. She proceeded to take the piss out of the size of my cock once naked. Not something I want to experience ever again so i use it as a filter 99% of the time.

I'm sorry to hear about that, she sounds like a prime douchecanoe.

On the contrary side, my ex had a big thing for fit, toned, gym fit guys, I met her when I was 2 1/2 stone heavier than I am now. If I'd followed this principle I would've talked myself out of a 2 year relationship.

Yeah I get that but what she did was deeply hurtful and took a long time for me to get over, rebuild my confidence etc.

That sort if thing isn't easily forgotten."

She sounds horrendous. Hope you're ok now. X

Hope karma bites her.

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over a year ago


"Nope I have never done that OP

Speaking for myself i am attracted to many different types of women, I don’t have a set type and stick to that type exclusively.

Only one thing would completely exclude a woman for me and that’s an unattractive personality.

I am sure many others are the same including the women in the verifications you have been checking up on.

I am I sensing a little of the green eyed monster OP?

LJ

If green eyed monster means jealousy, then I am nothing like that in reality. "

Nah it’s a character off Scooby Doo!

LJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope I have never done that OP

Speaking for myself i am attracted to many different types of women, I don’t have a set type and stick to that type exclusively.

Only one thing would completely exclude a woman for me and that’s an unattractive personality.

I am sure many others are the same including the women in the verifications you have been checking up on.

I am I sensing a little of the green eyed monster OP?

LJ

If green eyed monster means jealousy, then I am nothing like that in reality.

Nah it’s a character off Scooby Doo!

LJ

"

I never heard that expression before

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