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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The opposite. People seem to think that I am approachable

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I get it all the time. I've had to pay a high price for being so beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been told by some I’m an Ice Queen and by others I’m the most approachable person. Depends on if I like you or the look of you or not...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm either inviting or anybody's, compared to who is asked. Unless I'm scowling and have a trillion volts virtual electric fence up

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By *adylydfordWoman
over a year ago

altinkum

People think im nice, people say im georgeous, wrong on both counts, i am the most bitchy person i know and im very average looking. Just words to get in to my pants i know but that just turns me right off.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have serious resting bitch face. I'm either told I'm scary or people try to cheer me up (pro tip: don't do this). It's just what my face does!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I meet people and start chatting they always say I'm not as scary as I look I'm really nice... people think I'm intimidating which I'm really not..never judge a book hehe

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By *oneDoeWoman
over a year ago

socially distanced

I’ve been told I come across as unapproachable but I’m just cautious and it takes a while for me to click with people if it’s going to be a regular thing (in any sense).

It also doesn’t help that I have a reputation for playing hard ??

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"People think im nice, people say im georgeous, wrong on both counts, i am the most bitchy person i know and im very average looking. Just words to get in to my pants i know but that just turns me right off."

Nice rack though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I meet people and start chatting they always say I'm not as scary as I look I'm really nice... people think I'm intimidating which I'm really not..never judge a book hehe"

Wow. I think you look gorgeous.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?"

Is this when they come and visit you in your volcano lair and they spot the trap door into you pool of piranhas?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?"

We would like more of this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I meet people and start chatting they always say I'm not as scary as I look I'm really nice... people think I'm intimidating which I'm really not..never judge a book hehe

Wow. I think you look gorgeous."

Thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the real world I get people come and chat to me all the time.

Old folk are my favourite

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Apparently so. Major rbf paired with a smile that I can feel but others can't see. Sometimes extra for film/tv, usually offered roles like 'intimidating male' or 'Albanian gang member'.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

People interpret what they see and make assumptions. We find that we're often perceived in a way that doesn't fit with our perception of ourselves but we have no influence over how other people see us so just continue as we are

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Yes - fuck off

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I know what you mean but at least you know how you're perceived.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People think we're well off and posh

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Don't know what people think of me as no one ever tells me. But I am a big softy at heart really

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"The opposite. People seem to think that I am approachable "

Me too, there's hardly a day goes past when I walk the 5 minutes into town before I get the "Excuse me" line.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?"

Can’t really tell from your public pics bro, but people are weird and rude haha. If they think you’re ‘menacing’ after looking at you and not meeting you, their problem. They can stay away, who wants to befriend people like that

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Yeah I have had that in the past must be my resting bitch face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get told i dont smile much. But as ive grown older i give less fucks lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get told i dont smile much. But as ive grown older i give less fucks lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been told by some I’m an Ice Queen and by others I’m the most approachable person. Depends on if I like you or the look of you or not..."

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get told i dont smile much. But as ive grown older i give less fucks lol."

You have a beautiful smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get told i dont smile much. But as ive grown older i give less fucks lol.

You have a beautiful smile "

Thank you so much

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By *ardytaketwoMan
over a year ago

STOCKPORT

I get it all the time as it happens, always have done. The usual problem I have is that I scowl when i dont wear my glasses or contacts. So people assume I'm giving them dirty looks or have a problem with them lol.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I have. I wonder why I have to look approachable. Approach at your own risk!

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By *ardytaketwoMan
over a year ago

STOCKPORT

"I have. I wonder why I have to look approachable. Approach at your own risk!

I have been known to take a few risks in my time haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socially never been told I look unapproachable. But I have been told that when working I definitely look unapproachable.

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

People think I’m quiet and shy

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes .. frequently on here, not so much in real life unless you’re one of the little ones I work with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've always been perceived as serious and aloof is the word most often used. I am picky about who I associate with but I am chilled with the few that know me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im very approachable its my eyes & my smile apparently

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By *ultrySiriWoman
over a year ago

Arundel

Oh i dont know.. i show the side of me i want to show usually so opinions are just based on that. If i dont want someone to like me i wont care about adjusting my attitude. For someone you will be just right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i am a minge magnet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have. I wonder why I have to look approachable. Approach at your own risk!

Good point. Why is looking unapproachable bad?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"I have. I wonder why I have to look approachable. Approach at your own risk!

Good point. Why is looking unapproachable bad?"

Because some men look at women as someone who owes them some kind of a service. It is subconscious, but it is there. The same mentality that makes them join this site and expect to "get" something, and getting upset when they do not.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Although my hubby jokes I have a resting bitch face. I usually find someone to chat to or who chats to me everywhere we go. I drive him mad sometimes lol

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?"

Yup, all the time. I'm shy and find it hard to chill around strangers so people think I'm really unfriendly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have. I wonder why I have to look approachable. Approach at your own risk!

Good point. Why is looking unapproachable bad?

I think you're probably right in some respects but that doesn't account for men being told they're unapproachable

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?"

I was just talking about this to somebody this morning... I get it all the time,but when they take the time to speak to me find I'm a very nice person... say I look intimidating and miserable...

But most say it's my eyes,the way I look at people they are my strongest but also weakest thing about me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t get told I’m unapproachable. I’m more likely to put people off once they get to know me.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Generally I think I am pretty approachable, but I do have a 'leave me alone' face people that know me well can see it as can strangers.

Its great on a train when the local village idiot or d*unk decides that they need to talk to someone on the 4 hour trip; the face rarely means it is me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have adults say I look intimidating, yet kids who feed of vibe rather than looks gravitate towards me whether that's at work, on the bus etc.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I get it from time to time with my resting bitch face

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?

Yup, all the time. I'm shy and find it hard to chill around strangers so people think I'm really unfriendly."

Same,my resting miserable face doesn't help either,I'm not I just look it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I'm not what they expected when they meet me in person. Don't know if I should be chuffed or offended.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I need to be more unapproachable I think. I might acquire a cattle prod.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I need to be more unapproachable I think. I might acquire a cattle prod. "

A cattle prod would keep me away, even from you !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Loving some of the replies to this. Lovely to know I’m not alone.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m very tall and *cough* well built so can understand folk keeping their distance. I was told by someone that i look stand offish and aloof.

In reality i’m just painfully shy and i’m not very sociable.

That said, old people and d*unk men seem to gravitate towards me like bees to flowers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, all the time... I've got a mega resting bitch face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m told I’m unapproachable, I am nice really though once you get to know me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You sound lovey. Do you do the cliche thing and go for tall men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m very tall and *cough* well built so can understand folk keeping their distance. I was told by someone that i look stand offish and aloof.

In reality i’m just painfully shy and i’m not very sociable.

That said, old people and d*unk men seem to gravitate towards me like bees to flowers.

Do you do the Cliche thing and go for tall men?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?

Yup, all the time. I'm shy and find it hard to chill around strangers so people think I'm really unfriendly.

Same,my resting miserable face doesn't help either,I'm not I just look it

I think we need smile classes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

H seems to gather and attract weirdos, we were selling at a car boot and and guy started talking with her, within minutes getting to life story, hanging around to the point people thought he was with us and tried paying him for things. If there is a mental anywhere in a place, within minutes they are near H.

I’m told give off an unapproachable vibe, with friends telling me they thought I didn’t like them for weeks when we first met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like being approached by people who walk in a certain way. I can't stand the ones who put the right leg first, followed by the left one.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

If Spurschick thinks you’re OK that’s gotta be a good thing

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I need to be more unapproachable I think. I might acquire a cattle prod. "

Can you still get those?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If Spurschick thinks you’re OK that’s gotta be a good thing

Hah thanks. Yeah she’s lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm unapproachable, I'm covered in sweet sweet love urine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm unapproachable, I'm covered in sweet sweet love urine."

Sorry about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like being approached by people who walk in a certain way. I can't stand the ones who put the right leg first, followed by the left one. "

But I do that and you adore me F&B!! Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get it all the time. I've had to pay a high price for being so beautiful. "
ahhhh but beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *ambsLad2Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Yeah I have had that in the past must be my resting bitch face

I have a resting angry face, or so my wife tells me.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"If Spurschick thinks you’re OK that’s gotta be a good thing

Hah thanks. Yeah she’s lovely. "

Too kind London and Diamond

just a normal lass and a good listener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told i look unapproachable all the time...no idea why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?"

I’ve only seen your crotch so I can’t judge

I get told I look very innocent a lot - which is very misleading!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get it all the time. I've had to pay a high price for being so beautiful. "

Why do you hide your profile, if your beautiful. if you don't mind me asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I have a naturally happy face. Even when I'm grumpy I look friendly.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?"

Yes I get told by guys they are too intimidated to approach me ... I don’t think I’m that scary lol

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I seem to attract allsorts when out, but the northerner in me will have me talking to anyone.

My meets have experienced this whether I take to long at the bar as I’m chatting and have to come and get me or they go to the bar and I’m chatting to others when they return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to attract allsorts when out, but the northerner in me will have me talking to anyone.

My meets have experienced this whether I take to long at the bar as I’m chatting and have to come and get me or they go to the bar and I’m chatting to others when they return

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exactly what I was saying earlier

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I seem to attract allsorts when out, but the northerner in me will have me talking to anyone.

My meets have experienced this whether I take to long at the bar as I’m chatting and have to come and get me or they go to the bar and I’m chatting to others when they return

exactly what I was saying earlier

After a little misunderstanding lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I unapproachable spurs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I hang around the washing line dressed as michael Myers no one ever approaches me .... Except the police, then I do that fast walk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I unapproachable spurs?"

You are not unapproachable but you do over think things and worry too much. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be unapproachable as I never get winks or messages or friend requests .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else get gold they look unapproachable? It couldn’t be further from the truth when you know me.. yet I’m told I look serious and menacing... who else has misconceptions made about them?"

I am the definition of unapproachable so I'm.told hah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stunning pics . You would certainly catch my eye if you walked past ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stunning pics . You would certainly catch my eye if you walked past ??"

Cheers bro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stunning pics . You would certainly catch my eye if you walked past ??

Cheers bro."

I was talking to sunshine lol ??

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

If you approached me you would only confirm that I’m unapproachable

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Am I unapproachable spurs?

You are not unapproachable but you do over think things and worry too much. x"

Agree with Poochie

You know the circumstances of our drink and why I met you spur of the moment. You just need to relax a little and go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be unapproachable but im rubbish at it

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