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Sex on a first date....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you if you liked the person? Or Would you wait? Or even if you weren’t so much into them but just wanted sex would you?

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Yep

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Have done quite a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wanted to do something I'd do it. Screw "the rules"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If I wasn't in to them, I wouldn't have sex with them, regardless of how much I wanted sex. But yes, I have had sex on the first date. I don't think it's that uncommon nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t go on dates, so I’m unsure.

If for some reason my marriage ended, then probably not to begin with as I’d be such a nervous wreck

As for fab, I’ve never had a ‘social’ and I’ve always fucked on the first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I liked them ... yes

Saying that if it’s a date ‘date’ then I’m not sure. I’m pretty old and my moral high ground is epic

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

Sex on a first date, absolutely yes but only if we liked them.

Wouldn’t do it just for sake of having sex . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t go on dates, so I’m unsure.

If for some reason my marriage ended, then probably not to begin with as I’d be such a nervous wreck

As for fab, I’ve never had a ‘social’ and I’ve always fucked on the first meet "

On fabs I think fucking on the first date is the norm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucked all my GF's first date including my wife. They are up for it if you treat them nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fucked all my GF's first date including my wife. They are up for it if you treat them nice."

Yep, it’s as easy as being nice to fuck someone

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Yep would do and have done, if there is a connection and you're both horny then why hold off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have sex with anyone if I don't like them, don't fancy them or not into them. I'm not desperate. I have had sex on the same night when mutual chemistry and lust were present.

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Have turned up for a meeting and the lady was definitely not the one in her profile. I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but 15 years older than me and with straggly grey hair?!! Was not attractive and I made my excuses and left.

Am I shallow???

Maybe but not desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I used to have sex on a first date but only if I found the guy attractive.

I don't now because I've grown more cautious as I've got older

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If I fancy someone I'll have sex with them.

Same on Fab and in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, no and no. Think that covers it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep many times not changed dynamics by waiting

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

If it was a date date then no.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I fucked all my GF's first date including my wife. They are up for it if you treat them nice."

Oh my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we’re both feeling it then sure, why wait?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, sex is definitely better after getting to know someone.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If we’re both feeling it then sure, why wait?"

Cos I'm a good girl and to see if he's half serious about a relationship. Obviously if we're talking a meet date then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s a fab date then yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we want to then of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every Lady I’ve taken out on a date

I’ve ended up fucking that night lol

In the car, hers, mine or a hotel

TREAT A LADY GOOD IN PUBLIC, SHE WILL TREAT YOU EVEN BETTER IN PRIVATE!

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

If I like the person I will have sex as soon as possible. So yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m all for sex on the first meet...if she’s hot of course ??

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Why on earth would you go on a second date with someone that didn't want to shag you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr and I waited a month before we did, tbh the only time I’ve waited more than a week but now we are happily married.. maybe it has nothing to do with it, maybe it does...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not...if it was someone I thought I could have some kind of proper relationship with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not if i wanted it to progress to something more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have, never say never though. I don’t have sex just for the sake of, I’m a bit of a weirdo, i usually become good friends with a girl before it goes any further. God knows what I’m doing here

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

If it's a date then no.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I never have, never say never though. I don’t have sex just for the sake of, I’m a bit of a weirdo, i usually become good friends with a girl before it goes any further. God knows what I’m doing here "

I ask myself that question often

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Would you if you liked the person? Or Would you wait? Or even if you weren’t so much into them but just wanted sex would you?"

Even if I didn't like them... they deserve a treat, don't they?

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never have, never say never though. I don’t have sex just for the sake of, I’m a bit of a weirdo, i usually become good friends with a girl before it goes any further. God knows what I’m doing here

I ask myself that question often "

We can be weirdo’s together then eh

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have never met for a date but I have met for sex on many occasions, so yeah why not

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I never have, never say never though. I don’t have sex just for the sake of, I’m a bit of a weirdo, i usually become good friends with a girl before it goes any further. God knows what I’m doing here

I ask myself that question often

We can be weirdo’s together then eh "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex with my Mr on our first date... not looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never have, never say never though. I don’t have sex just for the sake of, I’m a bit of a weirdo, i usually become good friends with a girl before it goes any further. God knows what I’m doing here "

Could be this-

"A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we’re both feeling it then sure, why wait?

Cos I'm a good girl and to see if he's half serious about a relationship. Obviously if we're talking a meet date then yes."

Good girl turned bad then at a Fab meeting? Take note gentlemen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I've never done such a thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never have, never say never though. I don’t have sex just for the sake of, I’m a bit of a weirdo, i usually become good friends with a girl before it goes any further. God knows what I’m doing here

Could be this-

"A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships.""

Nah I’m a horny bastard, I fancy the pants off tons of people, I’m just a bit of a slow burner type guy, a bit shy I think

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Potentially, are some barbackers pox ridden.. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never have, never say never though. I don’t have sex just for the sake of, I’m a bit of a weirdo, i usually become good friends with a girl before it goes any further. God knows what I’m doing here

Could be this-

"A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships."

Nah I’m a horny bastard, I fancy the pants off tons of people, I’m just a bit of a slow burner type guy, a bit shy I think"

It doesn't mean you're not horny. Just a connection thing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a proper date then even if I really wanted to, I might not.

If it was a fab date then I wouldn't hesitate if we both wanted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t go on dates, so I’m unsure.

If for some reason my marriage ended, then probably not to begin with as I’d be such a nervous wreck

As for fab, I’ve never had a ‘social’ and I’ve always fucked on the first meet

On fabs I think fucking on the first date is the norm!

"

Not always. I’ve hardly ever done it on a first date from here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never have, never say never though. I don’t have sex just for the sake of, I’m a bit of a weirdo, i usually become good friends with a girl before it goes any further. God knows what I’m doing here

Could be this-

"A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships.""

I can be like this sometimes. Takes me ages to feel that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never have, never say never though. I don’t have sex just for the sake of, I’m a bit of a weirdo, i usually become good friends with a girl before it goes any further. God knows what I’m doing here

Could be this-

"A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships."

Nah I’m a horny bastard, I fancy the pants off tons of people, I’m just a bit of a slow burner type guy, a bit shy I think

It doesn't mean you're not horny. Just a connection thing.."

Maybe, you learn something new every day

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