FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie

By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I feel like a little fish in the big ocean... Any other newbies or veterans give any good wize words as i really want my sexual desires fulfilled but most men who message me sound too aggressive...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning! Just join in and don’t take things said on here too seriously x

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Where was you yesterday when I was getting shot down for trying to help newbies

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Morning and welcome. Come on in. Crap a nice comfy chair and join in when you want. We are all friendly in here we don’t bite unless bitten

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Follow your gut instinct, if it’s not right then move on

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Relax, and remember what you are looking for, don't mould yourself to what others want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello, OP, and welcome to the crazy world of Fab.

First of all, have a good think about what you would like from the site, though looking at your profile, you seem to have a good idea.

Filters are your friends - you can block everyone from mailing you, and do your own search, only message people you are interested in.

I'd suggest always meet for a social first, as many people on here are very economical with the truth, especially regarding how they look like. Some 'borrow' other people's pictures, while others post photos from years ago and conveniently 'forget' to update them.

Whenever you feel like Fab is getting too much, take a break by hiding your profile.

And have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome. I think it just takes a bit of time to find the people you can really click with on here. I guess there’s a lot of frogs to kiss before you find a Prince.

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Take your time, be picky and never ever feel pushed or coerced into anything your not totally comfortable and safe with. Good luck with your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello, OP, and welcome to the crazy world of Fab.

First of all, have a good think about what you would like from the site, though looking at your profile, you seem to have a good idea.

Filters are your friends - you can block everyone from mailing you, and do your own search, only message people you are interested in.

Whenever you feel like Fab is getting too much, take a break by hiding your profile.

And have fun

. "

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like a little fish in the big ocean... Any other newbies or veterans give any good wize words as i really want my sexual desires fulfilled but most men who message me sound too aggressive...

Welcome Jasmine....delete theirs messages and go on...hope you can satisfy your desire

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Completely of topic and of no help whatsoever.....but i like your hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like a little fish in the big ocean... Any other newbies or veterans give any good wize words as i really want my sexual desires fulfilled but most men who message me sound too aggressive...

Enjoy the forums and get to know people, head along to socials to meet them in person, tag along to a club with those new friends and have lot of fun

Oh, and don't feel guilty for blocking people who can't take no for an answer or are just being too aggressive - you don't have to justify how you run your profile to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing that I will say is that you've only just began, a ladies experience initially is very different from a guys but I would say that both require a degree of patience to find your feet.

New ladies get bombarded when they first join as 'fresh meat'. I would say to put your filters up and go looking yourself for what you want, if only at first.

It can be a little overwhelming at first so don't rush into anything, judging from your threads yesterday you've already encountered a little of the underbelly. There are good folks out there, the respectful ones will be the ones that don't jump down your throat as soon as you join, working out how to find them and sort out the good from the bad is what takes time.

Good luck OP

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Follow your gut instinct, if it’s not right then move on

Thank you... But its omitting 99.9% of men who message me. Is it worth finding the ones i like myself? I personally prefer a man to approach me first

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Put your filters up and go looking for what you want rather than being bombarded with spam

And enjoy yourself

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"The thing that I will say is that you've only just began, a ladies experience initially is very different from a guys but I would say that both require a degree of patience to find your feet.

New ladies get bombarded when they first join as 'fresh meat'. I would say to put your filters up and go looking yourself for what you want, if only at first.

Good luck OP"

Thanks. Yes the nasty members are putting me off meeting anyone as i been getting quite afew nasty messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try each penis

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Completely of topic and of no help whatsoever.....but i like your hair.

Aw thanks. Its typical long straight asian hair... Great for gentle pulling doggy style

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Never take anything I say seriously

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"The thing that I will say is that you've only just began, a ladies experience initially is very different from a guys but I would say that both require a degree of patience to find your feet.

New ladies get bombarded when they first join as 'fresh meat'. I would say to put your filters up and go looking yourself for what you want, if only at first.

Good luck OP"

So i won't get many messages in a month's time

Being old meat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing that I will say is that you've only just began, a ladies experience initially is very different from a guys but I would say that both require a degree of patience to find your feet.

New ladies get bombarded when they first join as 'fresh meat'. I would say to put your filters up and go looking yourself for what you want, if only at first.

Good luck OP

Thanks. Yes the nasty members are putting me off meeting anyone as i been getting quite afew nasty messages "

Yeah...

It's not the same volume but when we opened this account we received a glut of messages from guys who hadn't read the profile or cared what we wanted.

It does calm down and there are some good ones out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing that I will say is that you've only just began, a ladies experience initially is very different from a guys but I would say that both require a degree of patience to find your feet.

New ladies get bombarded when they first join as 'fresh meat'. I would say to put your filters up and go looking yourself for what you want, if only at first.

Good luck OP

So i won't get many messages in a month's time

Being old meat?

Well you'll probably hear less from the guys who creep on new users

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Give it time to suss out and don't get put off by the no doubt hounding you'll receive.

Chat in the forums and get to know the regular folks on fab.

Attend social gatherings or even the clubs.

Loads of meet ups are posted.

Don't do anything you don't want to do and most of all have fun.

A very big welcome from myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing that I will say is that you've only just began, a ladies experience initially is very different from a guys but I would say that both require a degree of patience to find your feet.

New ladies get bombarded when they first join as 'fresh meat'. I would say to put your filters up and go looking yourself for what you want, if only at first.

Good luck OP

So i won't get many messages in a month's time

Being old meat?

If you want to wait for guys to message you first then there are downsides to that and will require a degree of resilience to the dross you will receive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a touch concerned that you're only eating cucumber and gherkin, I've recently found toasted watermelon seeds which have an amazing protein content, I recommend them to help you with your dietary requirements.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Thanks. Yes the nasty members are putting me off meeting anyone as i been getting quite afew nasty messages "

Don't get disheartened too quickly. There are some genuine, nice guys on here. Remember that they are probably not the ones who are going to leap in aggressively as soon as you join. They are much more likely to take their time and be a lot less pressuring.

They take a while to find. It can be a bit like hunting for a needle in a haystack (but hopefully not that bad), so you need some patience.

Having had your experiences here so far, I imagine when you come across a guy who treats you with respect it should be pretty easy to spot.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Welcome, just join in, comment on what you feel like, but most of all have fun

Just ignore the aggressive men, you’ll find the block button might come in handy

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