FabSwingers.com forum: Straight guys meeting couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, I can't really answer this one as sexually I don't fit the brief, but ...

A question for the straight guys out there

When you are meeting MF couples, does it matter to you what the guy looks like?

Are his looks incidental to the meet as long as he seems an OK guy?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

As long as he’s ok .. attitude is so important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I answer this? I've met a few couples in 'straight mode'.

The man is of zero interest to me, unless he's being a bit of a dick.. in which case I'll likely leave.

In 'bi mode' it's yet to happen.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

All the hubbies I've met have been top blokes, up for a chuckle, and love seeing their wife having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I answer this? I've met a few couples in 'straight mode'.

The man is of zero interest to me, unless he's being a bit of a dick.. in which case I'll likely leave.

In 'bi mode' it's yet to happen. "

but I do like watching couples interact and his manner helps to set the mood of the meet.. so to say zero interest.. is a bit harsh

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

wigan

Yes, preferably not as good looking is better for my confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All the hubbies I've met have been top blokes, up for a chuckle, and love seeing their wife having fun

Yeah, but pre-meet do you size them up, try and work them out

Do you ask (or expect) to see pics of what he looks like as well as his wife ?

Or are his looks inconsequential?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I answer this? I've met a few couples in 'straight mode'.

The man is of zero interest to me, unless he's being a bit of a dick.. in which case I'll likely leave.

In 'bi mode' it's yet to happen.

but I do like watching couples interact and his manner helps to set the mood of the meet.. so to say zero interest.. is a bit harsh

Quick recovery there Ghengis

I do admire your ability to switch the bi on

If there were three horny bodies in a room and one of them had a hard cock, I'd be wanting a nibble regardless

(hence why, for me, a couple with a bi male would be a pre-requisite)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a degree. It's not that I have to be attracted to him or anything but he has to look after himself a bit; I'm not going to spend any length of time in close proximity to a thirty stone, BO-stinking, mouth breathing, sweaty, smoker for instance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To a degree. It's not that I have to be attracted to him or anything but he has to look after himself a bit; I'm not going to spend any length of time in close proximity to a thirty stone, BO-stinking, mouth breathing, sweaty, smoker for instance

That counts me out then

Thanks

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"So, I can't really answer this one as sexually I don't fit the brief, but ...

A question for the straight guys out there

When you are meeting MF couples, does it matter to you what the guy looks like?

Are his looks incidental to the meet as long as he seems an OK guy?"

If he looks a bit "fighty" I take knuckle dusters

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By *moothDocMan
over a year ago

local

I focus on the pleasure it brings the wife as she is part of his fantasy of her enjoying so I focus solely on this.

It all depends on ones effort, remember you are invited into thier relationship as fun so my advice is to really be yourself and smile and laugh as much as the soul let's you.

One life one meet and this place has more nice people than one would admit.

I love single females and couples m-f and I'm not Bi or curious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I focus on the pleasure it brings the wife as she is part of his fantasy of her enjoying so I focus solely on this.

It all depends on ones effort, remember you are invited into thier relationship as fun so my advice is to really be yourself and smile and laugh as much as the soul let's you.

One life one meet and this place has more nice people than one would admit.

I love single females and couples m-f and I'm not Bi or curious.

I like the cut of your jib

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't care what he looked like.

It's not about the man, it's about the woman.

Not that I want to meet a couple though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I answer this? I've met a few couples in 'straight mode'.

The man is of zero interest to me, unless he's being a bit of a dick.. in which case I'll likely leave.

In 'bi mode' it's yet to happen.

but I do like watching couples interact and his manner helps to set the mood of the meet.. so to say zero interest.. is a bit harsh

Quick recovery there Ghengis

I do admire your ability to switch the bi on

If there were three horny bodies in a room and one of them had a hard cock, I'd be wanting a nibble regardless

(hence why, for me, a couple with a bi male would be a pre-requisite)"

yes.. I reread what i wrote and thought.. oooh that doesn't come across how I meant it!

It's not an ability, so no need to admire it. I'm just predominantly straight. If a beautiful woman is infront of me, that's all I'm really interested in.

My bi side is more a kink, within a kink and something I only want to delve into infrequently.

It just is.

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By *moothDocMan
over a year ago

local

"I focus on the pleasure it brings the wife as she is part of his fantasy of her enjoying so I focus solely on this.

It all depends on ones effort, remember you are invited into thier relationship as fun so my advice is to really be yourself and smile and laugh as much as the soul let's you.

One life one meet and this place has more nice people than one would admit.

I love single females and couples m-f and I'm not Bi or curious.

I like the cut of your jib

Positivity brings amazing and great energy, concentrate on everything positive as that's what brings you to the top of the pack. It's hard work but that's what couples love. I view profiles and often read the profile several times and look forward to the updates on my hotlist and develop an understanding of what that couple are seeking mainly it's the male prompting on the profile with updates and messages although many couples work profiles together for the turn on in their personal lives out of fab.

Confidence building is easy once you trust your a good person and can adapt to any couples needs.

I should write a book lol

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I focus on the pleasure it brings the wife as she is part of his fantasy of her enjoying so I focus solely on this.

It all depends on ones effort, remember you are invited into thier relationship as fun so my advice is to really be yourself and smile and laugh as much as the soul let's you.

This seems about right. Perhaps I've been lucky but all the couples I've met through fabs have been nice "Ordinary" people looking for something. The men want to see their wives enjoying the visit. Sometimes they join in, sometimes they don't. Their looks are unimportant as it's their wives they want to see pleasured. Not found a gent yet that wasn't totally friendly.

One life one meet and this place has more nice people than one would admit.

I love single females and couples m-f and I'm not Bi or curious.

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