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By *dam1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Obviously we like to portray a certain amount of confidence here but some characteristics make it so difficult.

For me it’s a woman who’s cleverer than me (not to do with formal education, just really sharp) and I also dribble a bit at a woman who makes me laugh.

Throw in a body that they’re mostly comfortable in and eyes that dance with mine as we talk and I’m an incoherent mess. I mean even more incoherent than usual.

What’s your Kryptonite?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I like passionate people. I don't mind what it's about particularly, I just like to see there's some there. Add in intellectual curiosity and the ability to call me on my nonsense in a witty way and I swoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fun police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Articulation.... faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite a simple creature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody that can totally captivate me in conversation, with a sparkle in their eyes and a confidence that they know I can be in their arms at the drop of a hat !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know properly, but I’m drawn into a nice pair of eyes and good conversation. X

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By *az080378Woman
over a year ago

Cromer


"I like passionate people. I don't mind what it's about particularly, I just like to see there's some there. Add in intellectual curiosity and the ability to call me on my nonsense in a witty way and I swoon. "

Absolutely agree with all these!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Dimples

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"The fun police"

Nobody expects the Fun Police !!

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

A pert bottom and a personality to match and I’m made up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sparkly eyes and strong eye contact from a woman I fancy and my mind and my mouth stop communicating

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I like passionate people. I don't mind what it's about particularly, I just like to see there's some there. Add in intellectual curiosity and the ability to call me on my nonsense in a witty way and I swoon. "

Ooh yes. That intellectual sparkle. Not necessarily, for me, intelligent or highly educated, but a willingness to question or engage.

Other things for me, too, but that's huge.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

A working credit card and an apartment overlooking the beach at ipanima

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By *dam1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Articulation.... faces "

I read that as faeces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we like to portray a certain amount of confidence here but some characteristics make it so difficult.

For me it’s a woman who’s cleverer than me (not to do with formal education, just really sharp) and I also dribble a bit at a woman who makes me laugh.

Throw in a body that they’re mostly comfortable in and eyes that dance with mine as we talk and I’m an incoherent mess. I mean even more incoherent than usual.

What’s your Kryptonite?"

You paint a lovely picture

Well mine is someone with a dry sense of humour who can frankly laugh my knickers off, if they have the ability to snog like a teenager too I’m hooked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naughty glint in their eyes and them wanting me ....helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The timbre of his voice, his ability to make me laugh and he must be interested and interesting.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I like passionate people. I don't mind what it's about particularly, I just like to see there's some there. Add in intellectual curiosity and the ability to call me on my nonsense in a witty way and I swoon. "

Oh you put it so well - absolutely this!

Mrs TMN x

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton

The eyes are the windows to the soul!

But a wicked smile also works wonders!!

Other looks are a lot lower down the list!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"...must be interested and interesting. "

I like this a lot. Yes, I've discussed it with a few people recently; how attracted I am to a person, does, to some degree, depend on how much I think they are attracted to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who challenges my bullshit in an articulate, witty way will always catch my eye.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Someone bent over in front of me, with stockings on and a backwards come hither look... thats my perfect storm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously we like to portray a certain amount of confidence here but some characteristics make it so difficult.

For me it’s a woman who’s cleverer than me (not to do with formal education, just really sharp) and I also dribble a bit at a woman who makes me laugh.

Throw in a body that they’re mostly comfortable in and eyes that dance with mine as we talk and I’m an incoherent mess. I mean even more incoherent than usual.

What’s your Kryptonite?"

that all sounds so dreamy OP

what flips it for me is the passion to stay talking the attention he gives he does not have to talk about biochemistry but he has to have chemistry an that is not litmus paper but could be bunsen burner to see if there is spark to ignite me from within and want him. Skill to keep me interested the rest of him will follow like the big band leader of swing himself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone bent over in front of me, with stockings on and a backwards come hither look... thats my perfect storm"

Damn. Nearly made it. Always wanted to cause a storm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one who loves the hills and has the s me lust for life as I do

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I love a great smile,a sense of the ridiculous and a twinkle in their winkle

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By *dam1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I love a great smile,a sense of the ridiculous and a twinkle in their winkle "

Is that like a male version of a vajazzle?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"The timbre of his voice, his ability to make me laugh and he must be interested and interesting. "

Timbre great word

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"I love a great smile,a sense of the ridiculous and a twinkle in their winkle "

Have never noticed my winkle twinkle, am I defective?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Someone with a fun loving personality who doesn't mind making a fool of themselves. Team that with cheeky glint and big thighs and I'm sold!

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

An honest man who can make me laugh.. everything else blends in to insignificance...

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

Someone who is intelligent and can laugh at himself and at me!! That connection is what makes the sex bit great for me!!

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Eyes, smile, good conversation and good shoes. If he looks after his shoes he looks after the rest!

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Someone who is witty enough to keep me on my toes, challenge me when needed and to be able to see the fun in most things xT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who can actually smile... a real, genuine smile

You'd be surprised how many people cant do this!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Someone who actually gives you a chance rather than writing you off.

Bit much to hope for but hey ho

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