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It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
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"The sight of a necklace on a man ruins it for me
It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
Jo x "You too?!!!!! I can cope with a small St Christoper or similar but one of those big gold things... | |||
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 I never knew hands could creep me out until that moment, now they're one of the first things I look at before proceeding! | |||
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"The sight of a necklace on a man ruins it for me
It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
Jo x "I actually feel odd if I don't have something round my neck! Like, I won't know where my head ends and my body begins otherwise... | |||
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"id be put off if he was wearing jesus sandals even more so if hes wearing socks with them"How about crocs and novelty socks 
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"Preferences are preferences ... so no ... not shallow " Oh I agree but imagine this; you’ve flirted, swapped pics maybe even had a cheeky social then in the throws of snogging and before wildly fucking, you see his feet and...no, just no. | |||
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"Preferences are preferences ... so no ... not shallow Oh I agree but imagine this; you’ve flirted, swapped pics maybe even had a cheeky social then in the throws of snogging and before wildly fucking, you see his feet and...no, just no. " Lmao! | |||
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"Preferences are preferences ... so no ... not shallow Oh I agree but imagine this; you’ve flirted, swapped pics maybe even had a cheeky social then in the throws of snogging and before wildly fucking, you see his feet and...no, just no. " Do you mean his footwear or his feet? And what was wrong with them? | |||
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"The sight of a necklace on a man ruins it for me
It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
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I actually feel odd if I don't have something round my neck! Like, I won't know where my head ends and my body begins otherwise... "You need a pair of legs there then. | |||
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"Preferences are preferences ... so no ... not shallow Oh I agree but imagine this; you’ve flirted, swapped pics maybe even had a cheeky social then in the throws of snogging and before wildly fucking, you see his feet and...no, just no. Do you mean his footwear or his feet? And what was wrong with them? " Feet. Could be something as simple as big toe nails that have migrated into the toe flesh through over pruning. | |||
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"I’m actually embarrassed to say some of the things that have disengaged my mind when it comes to potential meets, however we all have our preferences " I double dare you. | |||
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"id be put off if he was wearing jesus sandals even more so if hes wearing socks with them"But socks where only invented to be worn with sandals!! It's only the fact that weirdos adopted the sock to be worn with regular footwear, it's loafer wearing oddballs who stole the Jesus creeper's sock wearing that changed history for ever. In the year 700bc two guy's wearing sandals and socks where attacked by a gang of loafer hoodies who had cold feet from all the marching to various martyr events saw the very normal and trendy serf's with socks and sandals. From that day onwards for the subsequent 27 centuries sandal and sock wearing has been frowned upon. True fact  | |||
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"Yep. The wrong aftershave. Dirty fingernails. Badly done tattoos..." Now the wrong aftershave is critical. There was a fragrance making the rounds about 4 years ago that would induce nausea in me, it was worse than rotting bin contents. | |||
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"Yep. The wrong aftershave. Dirty fingernails. Badly done tattoos... Now the wrong aftershave is critical. There was a fragrance making the rounds about 4 years ago that would induce nausea in me, it was worse than rotting bin contents. " Yeah, I’m really sensitive to smell too and many perfumes make me heave...  | |||
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"id be put off if he was wearing jesus sandals even more so if hes wearing socks with them
How about crocs and novelty socks
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"id be put off if he was wearing jesus sandals even more so if hes wearing socks with them"Hahahaha | |||
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"Preferences are preferences ... so no ... not shallow Oh I agree but imagine this; you’ve flirted, swapped pics maybe even had a cheeky social then in the throws of snogging and before wildly fucking, you see his feet and...no, just no. " Hobbit?? | |||
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"The sight of a necklace on a man ruins it for me
It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
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I actually feel odd if I don't have something round my neck! Like, I won't know where my head ends and my body begins otherwise...
You need a pair of legs there then. "True that! | |||
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"I’m the same with footwear as I don’t like feet and if the footwear is grubby I imagine their feet are. I’m more turned off by men in socks in clubs though, especially one who got in the jacuzzi with them still on!" That doesn't really happen does it? | |||
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"Has it all been going well until you spotted something? Something that’s made you question exactly how shallow you are? Is it shallow to be put off by footwear?" There are too many things that can put me off a good looking man, these days  | |||
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"I hate feet full stop there all hidious so it wouldnt put me off as i always direct my eyes away from feet otherwise id never have sex" They're very useful for stability when standing and walking and running though | |||
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"I’m the same with footwear as I don’t like feet and if the footwear is grubby I imagine their feet are. I’m more turned off by men in socks in clubs though, especially one who got in the jacuzzi with them still on! That doesn't really happen does it? ". Just the once, so far, at Pandora’s in Leeds! | |||
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"Preferences are preferences ... so no ... not shallow Oh I agree but imagine this; you’ve flirted, swapped pics maybe even had a cheeky social then in the throws of snogging and before wildly fucking, you see his feet and...no, just no. " why you snogging his feet!!!!! comes immediately to mind lol  | |||
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"When I saw her Adam’s apple." you be ok if your "fab straight" lol | |||
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"This thread title has now started reminding me of that damn Monkees song every time I see it... "Thanks ... now I can't!!  | |||
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"For goodness sake ..now footwear shaming as well as all the other hoops we have to jump through "You know it! I bet you don’t wear black shoes with jeans though. | |||
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"For goodness sake ..now footwear shaming as well as all the other hoops we have to jump through
You know it! I bet you don’t wear black shoes with jeans though. "But what about black jeans? | |||
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"The sight of a necklace on a man ruins it for me
It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
Jo x "I'm exactly the same and normal trainers with jeans. | |||
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"For goodness sake ..now footwear shaming as well as all the other hoops we have to jump through
You know it! I bet you don’t wear black shoes with jeans though.
But what about black jeans? "No probs but what’s even better is oxblood red brogues with black, well fitting jeans. | |||
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"For goodness sake ..now footwear shaming as well as all the other hoops we have to jump through "Yeah so take note  | |||
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"For goodness sake ..now footwear shaming as well as all the other hoops we have to jump through
You know it! I bet you don’t wear black shoes with jeans though.
But what about black jeans?
No probs but what’s even better is oxblood red brogues with black, well fitting jeans. "Monkey notes this down .. never know when it may be useful | |||
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"The sight of a necklace on a man ruins it for me
It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
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I'm exactly the same and normal trainers with jeans."Don't start me on shirt and tie with jeans!!! | |||
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"For goodness sake ..now footwear shaming as well as all the other hoops we have to jump through
Yeah so take note "
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"Preferences are preferences ... so no ... not shallow Oh I agree but imagine this; you’ve flirted, swapped pics maybe even had a cheeky social then in the throws of snogging and before wildly fucking, you see his feet and...no, just no. " I'm sensing a back story... | |||
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"Preferences are preferences ... so no ... not shallow Oh I agree but imagine this; you’ve flirted, swapped pics maybe even had a cheeky social then in the throws of snogging and before wildly fucking, you see his feet and...no, just no. I'm sensing a back story... "Nah, just pondering on my shallowness... | |||
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"Preferences are preferences ... so no ... not shallow Oh I agree but imagine this; you’ve flirted, swapped pics maybe even had a cheeky social then in the throws of snogging and before wildly fucking, you see his feet and...no, just no. I'm sensing a back story...
Nah, just pondering on my shallowness..."Puddle | |||
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Have you ever wondered that you can put people off too ? (Unless you live in your own perfect world ) | |||
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"The thread title made me laugh. I have been put off meeting someone because their feet, they weren't, let's say, very well looked after. I met a guy (bear in mind that it takes me ages to find guys I like) for a social last summer. As soon as I saw him I noticed them and it was already doomed. His shoes, not sure what they are called but his toes were divided up into 3 bits. I've never seen them before, and the worse thing was....they were bright fucking orange. Burnt my tongue on that coffee!! " Flip flops but with two ‘thong-y’ bits!? | |||
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"Hahahaha....yes clipity clopity shoes worn by men.....why would you want to clip clop guys.....really.... "Feels like I’m googling something I shouldn’t | |||
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"Hahahaha....yes clipity clopity shoes worn by men.....why would you want to clip clop guys.....really....
Feels like I’m googling something I shouldn’t "You know, guys shoes that sound like they've got a stone stuck in the heel..... | |||
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"The thread title made me laugh. I have been put off meeting someone because their feet, they weren't, let's say, very well looked after. I met a guy (bear in mind that it takes me ages to find guys I like) for a social last summer. As soon as I saw him I noticed them and it was already doomed. His shoes, not sure what they are called but his toes were divided up into 3 bits. I've never seen them before, and the worse thing was....they were bright fucking orange. Burnt my tongue on that coffee!! Flip flops but with two ‘thong-y’ bits!? "No, the whole foot was covered with 2 separater bits ~ weird. | |||
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"The sight of a necklace on a man ruins it for me
It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
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You too?!!!!!
I can cope with a small St Christoper or similar but one of those big gold things..."I’m so happy to read this.... I thought it was just me and I was a complete weirdo for being irrational about it but it’s a complete turn off! | |||
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"When I saw her Adam’s apple." Like that would put you off | |||
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"I have a very good friend who absolutely would not get into a relationship with a guy, or dump him at any point, due to his footwear. This also applies to clothes, hair, facial fluff, etc. Her attitude is "I am well groomed so if you want to date me you had better be". Firm but fair!" Until their 6 months in and she's slopping round the house in pj's with her arse crack on show, no bra, scratching her fanny on her way to the bathroom after farting her way out of bed..... | |||
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"id be put off if he was wearing jesus sandals even more so if hes wearing socks with them"What’s wrong with Sandals with socks ? Good enough for jean paul gaultier food enough for me  | |||
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"I was put off by someones anorak once, also one person had about a weeks worth of food in his beard. That didnt get past hello "This wins! | |||
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"The sight of a necklace on a man ruins it for me
It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
Jo x
You too?!!!!!
I can cope with a small St Christoper or similar but one of those big gold things...
I’m so happy to read this.... I thought it was just me and I was a complete weirdo for being irrational about it but it’s a complete turn off! "Wow... I didn't even think most people notice these things. It does seem an oddly irrational thing to be annoyed by, especially if the person getting annoyed is also wearing stuff round their neck! Perhaps next time I am in the mood for taking profile pics I'll go totally unadorned. | |||
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"The sight of a necklace on a man ruins it for me
It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
Jo x
You too?!!!!!
I can cope with a small St Christoper or similar but one of those big gold things...
I’m so happy to read this.... I thought it was just me and I was a complete weirdo for being irrational about it but it’s a complete turn off!
Wow... I didn't even think most people notice these things.
It does seem an oddly irrational thing to be annoyed by, especially if the person getting annoyed is also wearing stuff round their neck! Perhaps next time I am in the mood for taking profile pics I'll go totally unadorned. "It’s not annoying, it’s an irrational turn off. | |||
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"The sight of a necklace on a man ruins it for me
It's sort of an involuntarily reaction.....but cant be reversed!
Jo x "Ah yes this for me too! Can’t go there | |||
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"I have a very good friend who absolutely would not get into a relationship with a guy, or dump him at any point, due to his footwear. This also applies to clothes, hair, facial fluff, etc. Her attitude is "I am well groomed so if you want to date me you had better be". Firm but fair! Until their 6 months in and she's slopping round the house in pj's with her arse crack on show, no bra, scratching her fanny on her way to the bathroom after farting her way out of bed..... "LOL that really made me laugh
Not this one though. Imaculate 24 hours a day, even goes to the hairdresser 2 or 3 days a week to have her hair washed and styled. | |||
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"'Cornish pasties', no Shit flickers, no Desert docks, no " I’ve no idea what any of those are! Should I Bussy? | |||
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"'Cornish pasties', no Shit flickers, no Desert docks, no I’ve no idea what any of those are! Should I Bussy?" Well ... 'cornish pasties' are very flat sensible old mens shoes with air soles, usually in tan or a light brown. think Pavers 'shit flickers' are thin pointy mens shoes that curl up at the toe - usually worn by middle aged men with boot cut jeans (and members of romany busking bands) desert docks aka jesus sandals are basically old school crocs, best worn by men of a certain age with beige shorts and socks pulled up to just below the knee Hope that helps | |||
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"'Cornish pasties', no Shit flickers, no Desert docks, no I’ve no idea what any of those are! Should I Bussy? Well ... 'cornish pasties' are very flat sensible old mens shoes with air soles, usually in tan or a light brown. think Pavers 'shit flickers' are thin pointy mens shoes that curl up at the toe - usually worn by middle aged men with boot cut jeans (and members of romany busking bands) desert docks aka jesus sandals are basically old school crocs, best worn by men of a certain age with beige shorts and socks pulled up to just below the knee Hope that helps "If I said that I pulled a pained face after each description...especially the curled toe shoes, they usually do a weird walk with those on too. | |||
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"'Cornish pasties', no Shit flickers, no Desert docks, no I’ve no idea what any of those are! Should I Bussy? Well ... 'cornish pasties' are very flat sensible old mens shoes with air soles, usually in tan or a light brown. think Pavers 'shit flickers' are thin pointy mens shoes that curl up at the toe - usually worn by middle aged men with boot cut jeans (and members of romany busking bands) desert docks aka jesus sandals are basically old school crocs, best worn by men of a certain age with beige shorts and socks pulled up to just below the knee Hope that helps
If I said that I pulled a pained face after each description...especially the curled toe shoes, they usually do a weird walk with those on too."that's because the boots cut jeans are usually half an inch too long and drag at the heel causing the denim fray
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