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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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A good friend rings you and asks if you can meet for coffee as they need an ear to bend.

A football, rugby, F1 or even a much anticipated film is about to start....

What would you do

a) make an excuse, a total lie

b) tell the truth and say no

c) stick the recorder on and dash out the door

d) suggest they come to you, so you can watch and listen at the same time

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"A good friend rings you and asks if you can meet for coffee as they need an ear to bend.

A football, rugby, F1 or even a much anticipated film is about to start....

What would you do

a) make an excuse, a total lie

b) tell the truth and say no

c) stick the recorder on and dash out the door

d) suggest they come to you, so you can watch and listen at the same time"

(C) every time

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

C

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

c) every time (there are many catch-up mechanisms)...

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

d) suggest they come to you, so you can watch and listen at the same time

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

to be totally honest, it would depend the mood I was in.

If I thought I could add value, I would cancel everything for them. I can be very intolerant at times, so if I thought I wouldn't be able to give good advice on this occasion, I would say so.

and check in with them the next day.

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Unfortunately I don't have a recorder but I would still say C. Friends who need you are worth missing any TV for x

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

d

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

people come first always

Drop everything for a friend in need but NOTHING for a pain in the ass....

Course... you have to be sensible. I wouldn't walk out of work to listen to a pal they'd have to wait till after work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is a good friend, then I would drop everything, as I know he/she would do the same for me.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

always there for my friends no question

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Even the people we all probably know one of... The ones who go from crisis to crisis to crisis, from one bad judgement to another.. With little or no ownership of resolution....

I know people like that, I like them greatly but many times I will have heard it all before ?

if yes, I admire you all.

I couldn't guarantee it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

really depends lol...I wouldnt ask anyone to drop what they are doing cos of me...I can deal with my stuff on my own...then maybe organise an earbending... just not out the blue

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

We have actually covered things like this on my course...no tv programme means very much to me but a couple of years ago i would have said yes and given up the me time activity...now i would expl ain i had plans but suggest a variety of time i wass free...that way i would be fully engaged when they were there and a better friend for it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"We have actually covered things like this on my course...no tv programme means very much to me but a couple of years ago i would have said yes and given up the me time activity...now i would expl ain i had plans but suggest a variety of time i wass free...that way i would be fully engaged when they were there and a better friend for it."

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I'd say C as I could sky plus or record something. If a friend I knew from here or else where I would try my best to be there as I know some people who wouldnt give a flying fig if it was vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have actually covered things like this on my course...no tv programme means very much to me but a couple of years ago i would have said yes and given up the me time activity...now i would expl ain i had plans but suggest a variety of time i wass free...that way i would be fully engaged when they were there and a better friend for it."

I suffered with depression a few years ago and part of my problem was I use to take on others problems as on outside I was life and soul of everything while on inside I just couldn't cope as I then felt I couldn't unload on anyone else. Now I value me time and if it sounds harsh so be it I would have to tell them would see them another day and have infact had to tell a friend a cpl yrs ago that I couldn't talk to her as her beinging depressed was pulling me down as well. I know heartless bitch me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good friends know not to call when f1 is on.....but any other time im there....just no crisis whilst im in the f1 zone

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

I'd hit record,ask for a brief description of the problem,tell them I was sorry,but I'd got Botswanan licorice fever or something,tell them to cheer up and then phone all our mutual friends saying "youll never guess whats up with that dick head again ?" A friend in need,is a pain in the duodenum !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell 'em to 'Fuck off'.

If they were any kind of friend they'd take your feelings into consideration and do one............

(Joking)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know the old expression :

'a friend in need is ........ a fkin nuisance'

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By *etillante OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"You know the old expression :

'a friend in need is ........ a fkin nuisance' "

a pain in the arse

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