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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You receive a message from a black guy, who refers to himself as "BBC". You look at his pics, out of curiosity. His penis is average sized at best. Nothing wrong with that of course, but he's misrepresented himself there.

Do you point this out to him (especially as he didn't read your profile and sent you an explicit mesaage) or do you just say no thanks/ignore?

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"You receive a message from a black guy, who refers to himself as "BBC". You look at his pics, out of curiosity. His penis is average sized at best. Nothing wrong with that of course, but he's misrepresented himself there.

Do you point this out to him (especially as he didn't read your profile and sent you an explicit mesaage) or do you just say no thanks/ignore? "

Yea why not lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I would say are you sure you're a BBC like really really sure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's stuff like this that I spend half of my time on Fab doing when guys message me. So I say go for it

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By *ubcdbigcockTV/TS
over a year ago

woking

Most guys say that have a big cock or tell your its 8" . Turns out most of them must measure from there Ahole to tip ha ha. I never like to offend anyone but it does get quite annoying Lol x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

You could ask him if he means he works in broadcasting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does pointing out that he doesn't in fact have a "BBC", but in fact is simply a black man with an average sized penis make me a grade A cunt?

Will he respond abusively?

If so is he justified? Even if I've been polite in pointing out his mistake?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It's black

It's a cock

If you're comparing it too a mouse, then yes it's big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could ask him if he means he works in broadcasting."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's black

It's a cock

If you're comparing it too a mouse, then yes it's big

"

I knew you'd have the same mindset as me!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"It's black

It's a cock

If you're comparing it too a mouse, then yes it's big

I knew you'd have the same mindset as me! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does pointing out that he doesn't in fact have a "BBC", but in fact is simply a black man with an average sized penis make me a grade A cunt? "

Depends how you word it I guess. As long as it's not in a mocking tone it's not rude. Men are sensitive about the size of their dick.


" Will he respond abusively?

If so is he justified? Even if I've been polite in pointing out his mistake? "

Maybe. Like I said men are sensitive about that kind of thing. As long as you're polite about it it's fine. No one is justified in responding abusively. Ever. If he is just block him and move on.

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

If he refers to himself as a BBC I'm instantly not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If he refers to himself as a BBC I'm instantly not interested "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

"

Evening if his first message was offensive to me?

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone


"You receive a message from a black guy, who refers to himself as "BBC". You look at his pics, out of curiosity. His penis is average sized at best. Nothing wrong with that of course, but he's misrepresented himself there.

Do you point this out to him (especially as he didn't read your profile and sent you an explicit mesaage) or do you just say no thanks/ignore? "

Well, let’s ignore the size and colour of his cock just for a moment...

I just read your profile and to be honest it’s abundantly clear that if you are a man you’re not interested

No ambiguity there!

What’s the point of sending the message? He was just waisting his time!!

What a dick!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

Evening if his first message was offensive to me?

"

It's up to you what you do.

I reply politely. Many times they apologise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You receive a message from a black guy, who refers to himself as "BBC". You look at his pics, out of curiosity. His penis is average sized at best. Nothing wrong with that of course, but he's misrepresented himself there.

Do you point this out to him (especially as he didn't read your profile and sent you an explicit mesaage) or do you just say no thanks/ignore?

Well, let’s ignore the size and colour of his cock just for a moment...

I just read your profile and to be honest it’s abundantly clear that if you are a man you’re not interested

No ambiguity there!

What’s the point of sending the message? He was just waisting his time!!

What a dick!!!"

I agree!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

Evening if his first message was offensive to me?

It's up to you what you do.

I reply politely. Many times they apologise. "

Oh I know, I'm just asking out of curiosity.

Sometimes they do apologise. Other times they're utter cock wombles.

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone


"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

"

I would agree if he had messaged a woman that asked for men to message, in this case it was the polar opposite

Can’t even use the excuse that he can’t read or write and he managed to message her in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

I would agree if he had messaged a woman that asked for men to message, in this case it was the polar opposite

Can’t even use the excuse that he can’t read or write and he managed to message her in the first place "

See I'm of the same opinion.

Anyone who messages me having ignored my profile has opened themselves up for me to be brutally honest. If they don't respect me, why should I respect them?

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone


"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

I would agree if he had messaged a woman that asked for men to message, in this case it was the polar opposite

Can’t even use the excuse that he can’t read or write and he managed to message her in the first place

See I'm of the same opinion.

Anyone who messages me having ignored my profile has opened themselves up for me to be brutally honest. If they don't respect me, why should I respect them?

"

Absolutely!

I mean FFS! Read the profile first to see if you have any compatibility, then and only then send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

Evening if his first message was offensive to me?

It's up to you what you do.

I reply politely. Many times they apologise.

Oh I know, I'm just asking out of curiosity.

Sometimes they do apologise. Other times they're utter cock wombles. "

But if you're mean back and they're a cock womble you're just proving what they believe anyway. That women are terrible and they are denying them sex and it's not their fault.

When they are mean/ abusive etc it's because they want a reaction. They want to hurt you. If you're nice back they don't get what they want.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

personally i find it easier just to simply "delete and block" that way you dont open yourself up to nasty responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him if he has any pets x

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I would ask him where he stopped while reading my profile. As I am no size queen (within reason, but I am tiny), it would not bother me. I would just ask for a proper introduction, and if I do not get that, the person is discounted as someone with no manners and blocked.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

Evening if his first message was offensive to me?

It's up to you what you do.

I reply politely. Many times they apologise.

Oh I know, I'm just asking out of curiosity.

Sometimes they do apologise. Other times they're utter cock wombles. "

They apologise more often than not. Some new people genuinely think this is the way of talking to people on here. That they may be rejected for being "too nice". I have come across only a few wombles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

Evening if his first message was offensive to me?

It's up to you what you do.

I reply politely. Many times they apologise.

Oh I know, I'm just asking out of curiosity.

Sometimes they do apologise. Other times they're utter cock wombles.

They apologise more often than not. Some new people genuinely think this is the way of talking to people on here. That they may be rejected for being "too nice". I have come across only a few wombles."

We've had very different experiences then.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

So he's an ABC

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So he's an ABC"

I like this.

But honestly, I'd rather these guys were just people. Even if i was looking for men, the size and colour of their dick is of very little importance to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point it out can't be spreading misinformation I'm happy with my ABC average black cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I wasn't interested I'd say no thank you. No need to be mean. Women go mad when people point out that they disagree with the body size description they put on their profiles.

Men are human too.

Evening if his first message was offensive to me?

It's up to you what you do.

I reply politely. Many times they apologise.

Oh I know, I'm just asking out of curiosity.

Sometimes they do apologise. Other times they're utter cock wombles.

They apologise more often than not. Some new people genuinely think this is the way of talking to people on here. That they may be rejected for being "too nice". I have come across only a few wombles."

I agree, many new people think that's how it works. Same as thinking they must have cock pics or be on their 'friends' list just to get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your spirit

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