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"Regrets are pointless,but I do have a few." Too few to mention? | |||
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"Regrets are pointless,but I do have a few. Too few to mention?" Probably to many,I've always said never to regret the decisions I've made as I made them for a reason at the time. What bollocks. | |||
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"I would have no regrets, I had a wonderful childhood, have a close family, my sons are now both married and getting on with their own lives The last few years I had with my partner were the best days of my life, sadly he passed away last year, so many good memories and definitely no regrets " That's lovely and sad all wrapped up together. | |||
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"I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life." Can you not try and find her on Facebook etc and message her? | |||
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"Would you be content with how your life turned out,any regrets?" No regrets but would have changed a few things when I was younger | |||
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"I’m ok if I die tomorrow. I’d like to think the world would come to a stand still for an international day of mourning. In reality, I doubt any one would even notice. " I have two guinea pigs,two goldfish and a teenager who would miss me. They'd be no food in. | |||
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"I’m ok if I die tomorrow. I’d like to think the world would come to a stand still for an international day of mourning. In reality, I doubt any one would even notice. I have two guinea pigs,two goldfish and a teenager who would miss me. They'd be no food in." That's one fish dish, and 2 guinea pork dinners at least .. teenager good for 3 days then | |||
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"I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life. Can you not try and find her on Facebook etc and message her?" I did, we almost got back together about 5 years ago when she moved back to the uk briefly, but there was some other guy back in New Zealand who must have also been chasing her affections and she decided going back there was what she wanted to do rather than stay in the UK. She's now back over there married to him with two kids, that ship has definitely sailed as that's twice she's broken my heart now. Part of me will always love her for that time we were together, but I'd never give her the opportunity to hurt me again if she came back. | |||
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"I’m ok if I die tomorrow. I’d like to think the world would come to a stand still for an international day of mourning. In reality, I doubt any one would even notice. I have two guinea pigs,two goldfish and a teenager who would miss me. They'd be no food in. That's one fish dish, and 2 guinea pork dinners at least .. teenager good for 3 days then " I think the child would rather die than have fish,whenever she asks what's for tea I say fish she loves it so much | |||
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"I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life. Can you not try and find her on Facebook etc and message her? I did, we almost got back together about 5 years ago when she moved back to the uk briefly, but there was some other guy back in New Zealand who must have also been chasing her affections and she decided going back there was what she wanted to do rather than stay in the UK. She's now back over there married to him with two kids, that ship has definitely sailed as that's twice she's broken my heart now. Part of me will always love her for that time we were together, but I'd never give her the opportunity to hurt me again if she came back." Life would be a damn sight easier without emotions wouldn't it. | |||
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"I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life. Can you not try and find her on Facebook etc and message her? I did, we almost got back together about 5 years ago when she moved back to the uk briefly, but there was some other guy back in New Zealand who must have also been chasing her affections and she decided going back there was what she wanted to do rather than stay in the UK. She's now back over there married to him with two kids, that ship has definitely sailed as that's twice she's broken my heart now. Part of me will always love her for that time we were together, but I'd never give her the opportunity to hurt me again if she came back. Life would be a damn sight easier without emotions wouldn't it." Wouldn't it just, I'm still the same warm person with friends that I aways have been, but I think my experience with this is why I'm now more of a commitment phobe when it comes to relationships. | |||
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"I'd rather it was over quickly so I'd no time to do any thinking. If I did thinking... it would be a very sad time. P" Wipe all thoughts of thinking out of your head | |||
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"I think most of us have some regrets and also a lot of things that worked out well, life is never all about living in a permanent perfect high. I've had a lot of experiences to make sure I don't regret not doing them when I'm old, scuba diving, skydiving, serving in the military, travelling etc. But there's things I did as a teenager I regret, I regret that things didn't work out with the only girl I've ever felt truly in love with in my mid 20's, I regret that I've lost touch with people, I regret not taking advantage of some opportunities that will never present again, that's just life. Can you not try and find her on Facebook etc and message her? I did, we almost got back together about 5 years ago when she moved back to the uk briefly, but there was some other guy back in New Zealand who must have also been chasing her affections and she decided going back there was what she wanted to do rather than stay in the UK. She's now back over there married to him with two kids, that ship has definitely sailed as that's twice she's broken my heart now. Part of me will always love her for that time we were together, but I'd never give her the opportunity to hurt me again if she came back. Life would be a damn sight easier without emotions wouldn't it. Wouldn't it just, I'm still the same warm person with friends that I aways have been, but I think my experience with this is why I'm now more of a commitment phobe when it comes to relationships." I don't blame you it's way less stress all round isn't it. | |||
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"As you know my life has been turned upside down of late and I was completely at ease with popping my clogs. Now thing have turned again and I'm not quite so ready. Lifes a funny old thing " | |||
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"Definitely not " So you're not content or you don't have regrets? | |||
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"Definitely not So you're not content or you don't have regrets?" Both | |||
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"Regrets are pointless,but I do have a few." Then again ... too few to mention. | |||
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"Regrets are pointless,but I do have a few. Then again ... too few to mention." Tsk ... read back ... been done | |||
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"Regrets are pointless,but I do have a few. Then again ... too few to mention. Tsk ... read back ... been done " I knowwwwwwwwww It was Hatter..... I tend to read UP .... It's a habit i've got to stop. Maybe i'll put reading up on the regrets page ....... fnarrrr ! | |||
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"But i do regret not taking my chances bk in the day and being shy... way to shy ...x " Did you say the things you truly feel ? | |||
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"I regret situations. I regret meeting some people. But it is my journey not my destination. If I died tomorrow I would be sad to leave the people I love, for them to be sad I wasn't here anymore. Do I think I have lived my best life? No, I think I have lived, at times survived and 75% has been pretty shit. But. You have to make the best of it. And that is what I am doing. I hope I don't die tomorrow. I have plans, for the first time. " It would be interesting to see if we did get another chance at life how differently we would do it or whether we'd still do the same things,procrastinate,wait for tomorrow to be better etc. | |||
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"Regrets I didn’t tell more people to F off instead of allowing them to treat me like a door mat " Will you tell them now? | |||
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"Would you be content with how your life turned out,any regrets?" I would be content. I would regret how I reacted to certain things. But if those things happened again I'd still react the same... so..... | |||
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"My whole life is one long regret. Got a big anniversary coming up soon, and all I can really see in it is evidence of two lives wasted. Hoping to feel better about whatever little remains, hence Fab. Although thus far it hasn't cheered me up a lot." That's sad to read,I hope you find you slice of contentment soon. | |||
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"My whole life is one long regret. Got a big anniversary coming up soon, and all I can really see in it is evidence of two lives wasted. Hoping to feel better about whatever little remains, hence Fab. Although thus far it hasn't cheered me up a lot." Sending some good vibes. It’s difficult when you’re in a rut. If you’re really struggling there’s always a way out without tapping out. Not saying it’s easy though. | |||
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"Regrets I didn’t tell more people to F off instead of allowing them to treat me like a door mat Will you tell them now?" yes hun I have & there deleted blocked on all social platforms feeling a lot happier to | |||
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"My whole life is one long regret. Got a big anniversary coming up soon, and all I can really see in it is evidence of two lives wasted. Hoping to feel better about whatever little remains, hence Fab. Although thus far it hasn't cheered me up a lot. That's sad to read,I hope you find you slice of contentment soon." Many thanks for the kind thoughts. Much appreciated. | |||
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"My whole life is one long regret. Got a big anniversary coming up soon, and all I can really see in it is evidence of two lives wasted. Hoping to feel better about whatever little remains, hence Fab. Although thus far it hasn't cheered me up a lot. Sending some good vibes. It’s difficult when you’re in a rut. If you’re really struggling there’s always a way out without tapping out. Not saying it’s easy though. " Never tap out. I'm a whinger but never a quitter. Thanks for the thought. | |||
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"I regret situations. I regret meeting some people. But it is my journey not my destination. If I died tomorrow I would be sad to leave the people I love, for them to be sad I wasn't here anymore. Do I think I have lived my best life? No, I think I have lived, at times survived and 75% has been pretty shit. But. You have to make the best of it. And that is what I am doing. I hope I don't die tomorrow. I have plans, for the first time. " I love you - not as in I want your babies mind. P | |||
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"Regrets I didn’t tell more people to F off instead of allowing them to treat me like a door mat Will you tell them now? yes hun I have & there deleted blocked on all social platforms feeling a lot happier to " Yay! | |||
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"I regret situations. I regret meeting some people. But it is my journey not my destination. If I died tomorrow I would be sad to leave the people I love, for them to be sad I wasn't here anymore. Do I think I have lived my best life? No, I think I have lived, at times survived and 75% has been pretty shit. But. You have to make the best of it. And that is what I am doing. I hope I don't die tomorrow. I have plans, for the first time. I love you - not as in I want your babies mind. P" That's just as well . No to be serious that is one of my regrets not trying a surrogate but it was hard as we lived in Germany at the time. I love the bundles I have now,it's been a rollercoaster of emotions but they're 95% mine. It would have been great to see what my children looked like. | |||
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"Regrets I didn’t tell more people to F off instead of allowing them to treat me like a door mat Will you tell them now? yes hun I have & there deleted blocked on all social platforms feeling a lot happier to Yay! " x | |||
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"If you're dead it's too late to have regrets. You wouldn't be around to have them, would you? " Exactly | |||
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"If you're dead it's too late to have regrets. You wouldn't be around to have them, would you? " Heaven may not let you in so you get stuck somewhere on the way up giving you time to think before you make the journey to hell...you know. | |||
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"If you're dead it's too late to have regrets. You wouldn't be around to have them, would you? Exactly " That's not an answer. | |||
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"I've had a good life. Still want to do more. Never any regrets. I'm happy " Not even just a little tiny weeny regret? | |||
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"I've had a good life. Still want to do more. Never any regrets. I'm happy Not even just a little tiny weeny regret?" I'm sure with honesty and deep thought , I could reason something worthy of regret however , I generally dont not spend time regretting or any other emotion that will not change the outcome Most events where another course could have occurred even if not always considered positive have led to learning understanding something , often an insight into me and help construct who I am now , and who I maybe So regrets almost non | |||
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