FabSwingers.com forum: Question for men and one for mums

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do men fantasise about having sex with women and their daughters.

Mums, how would you feel or react if a meet/potential meet suggested this.

Its a genuine question and I don't wish to offend anyone

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few who do think about this but for me it holds no appeal . I have two daughters and think thats just done something to my head where the words daughter and sex are at opposite ends of the scale .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had it a few times where guys have asked if my kids play with me

I dont react i just ignor them as such a question isnt even worthy of a reply

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Instant block!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I think a good few men have fantasies over it....but most would probably stay fantasies as I am thinking most women wouldn't entertain the idea.

I was asked it once, and the second word of the answer was "off"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men fantasise about having sex with women and their daughters.

Mums, how would you feel or react if a meet/potential meet suggested this.

Its a genuine question and I don't wish to offend anyone"

Ive never thought of it...

i guess its a fantasy of some men...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asked this just the other day and my language was a little blue to say the least. I was also told by a guy le wanted me to role play being his mum during sex, again he got a short reply and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

As a mum my reaction to a suggestion like that would be less than ladylike

It makes my stomach churn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy yes.

Reality, no.....there's no way it would happen unless it was with someone from the Jeremy Kyle show & that's always an instant no no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, think it's disgusting and bordering on incest even if we don't touch in anyway, would never do father and son either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily I've never been asked it.

I don't agree with it, moralistically its something I abhor. I don't agree with close family members attending swinging clubs together either or parents encouraging their adult children to swing, or parents informing their under 18 children about their meets, showing them swinging sites and profiles, messages etc, and having these kids talk about swinging sites to guys that turn up, ie knowing information about them like a username etc (which I've read on posts on this forum of people who agree and do this).

Yeah I'm judgemental in this regard

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I was asked this just the other day and my language was a little blue to say the least. I was also told by a guy le wanted me to role play being his mum during sex, again he got a short reply and block "

There is a big difference between adults role playing parental roles and someone adsking you to involve your children in your sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ****ed up thing is there a few who would...

Like I've come from working in clubs & venues around the country, i know mums who go out and pull with their daughters, go back to the house together its a fine line for them... and its an option that could happen with some.

Sad but true x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Luckily I've never been asked it.

Yeah I'm judgemental in this regard

i think you are merely sane

Boundaries are important,children need to grow and find their own way, and imposing your _iew of sex on them is wrong,just because it is liberal doesnt mean they will want to know.

Teach them to treat every equally then let them live their own lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a good deal of the response to this question will be weighted towards age.

As a teenage boy, I guess there could be some kudos scores for bedding a girl and her mum, but I think this has little to do with fantasy, more opportunity and bragging rights.

As a more mature male, I would say it may be a fantasy for some but they would be in a minority.

From a female perspective, I would say it is unlikely that either mother or daughter would find it a fantasy situation.

I think there is a big difference between shagging someone of your childs age and shagging someone who has also had sex with your child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ****ed up thing is there a few who would...

Sad but true x"

I don't doubt that for one minute as I've seen similar in vanilla clubs when I go out with girlfriends. I've seen mums and daughters in toilets, out together, discussing what men they fancy and whether they will take them home to fuck. Now I don't know details of what happens of course, but just listening to the conversation is enough. I would not act in a similar way with my children, regardless of how old they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the whole situation of a mother and daughter playing together is just wrong on every level, and dont agree whatsoever with the 'fantasy' or reality.

If you where to ask about playing with them individually on different occaisions then that would be totally different, but together is just twisted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for your replys, I was asked by a guy I have met a few times and considered a friend if I would let him play with my daughter.

I consider myself to be openminded and non judgemental but this sickened me. Also thought I was a good judge of character but there you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you everyone for your replys, I was asked by a guy I have met a few times and considered a friend if I would let him play with my daughter."

I hope he was planning on asking her permission too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mere thought turns my stomach.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

"Do men fantasise about having sex with women and their daughters."

Nope, never had that one. I think it'd be a little creepy...

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Would the same apply to father and son?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man would only ask me the once..

Now yes my two older children are very liberated.. but that was there own doing nothing to do with my influence.

but there is no way I would play with them in the same club as me let alone together.

Cali

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Would the same apply to father and son?"

yes....

altho if hung, one can come round at 1pm and leave at 2.55pm, the other at 3....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would completely freak, I could never see my daughter in any kind of sexual embrace with anyone. Walked in on her and bf once that was bad enough, I felt ill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, the father and son one's different as that's a more laddish scenario. I think for men the mother daughter would imply touching each other in some way, where with the father son the only touching would be a high five as they're spit roasting a lass. Nasty business!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Role playing yes. Reality no. Some fantasies should remain fantasies though IMO

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Do men fantasise about having sex with women and their daughters.

Mums, how would you feel or react if a meet/potential meet suggested this.

Its a genuine question and I don't wish to offend anyone"
Why people give out information about their children online is beyond me...never the twain shall meet in my opinion..each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fancy the mother daughter thing, there are just too many ways it could go wrong.

I bet that you could count on your fingers the number of young women who want to see 'mum' have sex.

Just sounds wrong.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Luckily I've never been asked it.

Yeah I'm judgemental in this regard

+1 you say it better than i could

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

"ive had it a few times where guys have asked if my kids play with me

I dont react i just ignor them as such a question isnt even worthy of a reply"

had the very same question asked of me today.

Shes fooking 12 fgs.....im not old enough to have a child over the age of consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question is how far do fantasies go before you need to stand in front of a mirror and have a word with yourself. You've only got to look at the way porn's gone the last 20 or so years. From the "artisticly" made films, to a bit of Razzle and Mayfair, the girls there still maintaining their beauty throughout a photoshoot. You go to a tube site now and it's all rough, gagging, humiliating stuff on the first vid!! I'm not a prude by a long shot, but these vids, and these sites (simulated or not) are there for a reason. Make sense?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Do men fantasise about having sex with women and their daughters.

Mums, how would you feel or react if a meet/potential meet suggested this.

Its a genuine question and I don't wish to offend anyoneWhy people give out information about their children online is beyond me...never the twain shall meet in my opinion..each to their own

Maybe she didn't, in our case the person assumed .

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Would the same apply to father and son?"

I couldn't go there either.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Fantasy V Reality.

Why do people say it's okay to fantasise about things ?

The only difference is that you can't be locked up for fantasy.

If you fantasise about a mother and daughter having sex it's because it turns you on and you'd like the reality of it but are fearful of social retribution.

Daddy / Daughter fantasies - Mother / daughter scenarios - Adult male / schoolgirl - If you are thinking about it and getting off on it - If you are role playing it and loving it - You want it in reality.

YOu are normalising it in your life. Normalising it in your head. You may not act it out in reality but aren't you the same sick person who want's that but has to settle for second best ?

To me ...... YES.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I don't fancy the mother daughter thing, there are just too many ways it could go wrong.

I bet that you could count on your fingers the number of young women who want to see 'mum' have sex.

Just sounds wrong."

How many fingers do you have ? Eight too many ?

Mothers and daughters don't want sex with each other.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Nope .. my Mum wouldnt approve and no one here is getting my daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to say no.on the other hand,Goldie Hawn and Kate Hudson,I'd have to give it some thought

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'd have to say no.on the other hand,Goldie Hawn and Kate Hudson,I'd have to give it some thought "

Your missing the point..... You can think about it all you like. The mother and daughter won't entertain it.

I think men should think about their Mother and their sisters. Their wife and their own daughters - then perhaps thered be a more measured reaction.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry but the very aspect of those inciting incest(at ANY age) is just wrong..I really get worried when its even just some peoples fantasies.

Some people need to separate things like the idea of beauty(lets say my good looking sister),than see it as a sexual thing.

I think we have moved on from some Freudian concepts that have basically taken away one of our uniqueness's as humans.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd have to say no.on the other hand,Goldie Hawn and Kate Hudson,I'd have to give it some thought

Your missing the point..... You can think about it all you like. The mother and daughter won't entertain it.

I think men should think about their Mother and their sisters. Their wife and their own daughters - then perhaps thered be a more measured reaction. "

That is what i would do,think about it,Because that was the question the OP asked the men..'do you fantasise about it?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think men some men do fantasize about this, but if the shoe was on the other foot, how many women fantasize about having sex with son and father (not a threesome either) know a woman who was shaggin the father, got d*unk, shagged the son and got caught by the father!

What a girl!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I think men some men do fantasize about this, but if the shoe was on the other foot, how many women fantasize about having sex with son and father (not a threesome either) know a woman who was shaggin the father, got d*unk, shagged the son and got caught by the father!

What a girl!"

How commendable. We must all look up to her, get d*unk, shag anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Point is she knew them both a very long time , so he wasnt really an 'anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would the same apply to father and son?"

And yet there was a father and son profile on here... They were at a social in Cannock... Havent seen them around the forums for a long while...;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went out with this girl back when I was 18yrs old. Her mam was about late 30s and drop dead gorgeous and I looked at her many many times and thought wow id knock the back out that given half the chance. I even knocked a wank out on strengh of her one afternoon.

Trouble was tho for all the bravado I was as a young kid if her mam had of come onto me I would have probarbly shit mi self and run a feckin mile haha

She was proper fit tho hmmmmmmmmmm wonder what she looks like these days tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it is simply disrespect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have fun younger gents, however, I draw the line of playing mum to them, as it does not sit comfortably with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men fantasise about having sex with women and their daughters."

Yes they do. Sometimes simultaneously, in reality, about 20 years apart.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Fantasy V Reality.

Why do people say it's okay to fantasise about things ?

The only difference is that you can't be locked up for fantasy.

If you fantasise about a mother and daughter having sex it's because it turns you on and you'd like the reality of it but are fearful of social retribution.

YOu are normalising it in your life. Normalising it in your head. You may not act it out in reality but aren't you the same sick person who want's that but has to settle for second best ?

To me ...... YES."

oS an ability to recognise why a fantazy may be harmful and not act on it doent matter...by your standard we might as well all go out and act on any impulse since the thought is no different from the deed

Unless we bring in thought crime it has to be the deed that matters,and the harm it causes

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Luckily I've never been asked it.

Yeah I'm judgemental in this regard

Agrees...Very well put

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