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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else find it strange that faceless profiles demand faces before communication commences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ...

I find nothing odd any longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find it strange that faceless profiles demand faces before communication commences? "
i dont i say stay away

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find it strange that people don't realise the difference between public and private pictures.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not strange but we only do what we want on here so as far as we're concerned people can demand exactly what they want it doesn't mean we have to provide it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree to that. I am the kind of sucker that messages people who do ask for faces, I guess I think more of my face than they do lol

Free choice is a wonderful thing. Just like these forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I laugh when a faceless profile makes contact with me asking for my face without sending one of theirs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I agree to that. I am the kind of sucker that messages people who do ask for faces, I guess I think more of my face than they do lol

Free choice is a wonderful thing. Just like these forums "

Your choice .

We ask for clear body shots of everyone involved which given the pictures we have is only fair.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s kind of what I mean. Sometimes I’ll message a faceless profile with my face just to say Hi. It always amuses me when it gets deleted. I always think thats a bit f**king cheeky lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"That’s kind of what I mean. Sometimes I’ll message a faceless profile with my face just to say Hi. It always amuses me when it gets deleted. I always think thats a bit f**king cheeky lol "

That's kind of the point of asking for a face picture though. They can tell star off if they like the look of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s kind of what I mean. Sometimes I’ll message a faceless profile with my face just to say Hi. It always amuses me when it gets deleted. I always think thats a bit f**king cheeky lol "

Ah now i get you rejection stings

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That’s kind of what I mean. Sometimes I’ll message a faceless profile with my face just to say Hi. It always amuses me when it gets deleted. I always think thats a bit f**king cheeky lol "

Why is it cheeky? They don't want to talk to you.

Lots of people send me their faces. I don't owe them anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s kind of what I mean. Sometimes I’ll message a faceless profile with my face just to say Hi. It always amuses me when it gets deleted. I always think thats a bit f**king cheeky lol "

I think if you've done as they demanded, the least they can do is reply with a polite no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think that’s the difference between some men and some women here. I expect good grace but women often use the I get too much mail card to even reply. I do find it cheeky that those who don’t show their faces pass judgement on others who put themselves out there.

It was more a light hearted observation than a criticism of people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Demand being the right word lol I’ll get shot down for this but I think a no thanks is better than a deleted message. I’m not complaining really. Just an observation. I’ve had some proper good fun on here

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Bit cheeky isn't it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think that’s the difference between some men and some women here. I expect good grace but women often use the I get too much mail card to even reply. I do find it cheeky that those who don’t show their faces pass judgement on others who put themselves out there.

It was more a light hearted observation than a criticism of people. "

If I got good grace I'd use it myself. I don't, so I'm defensive. Them's the breaks.

I don't ask for face pictures, I don't owe anyone a conversation. The delete meaning no convention exists for very good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t do demands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get that. I’m always polite but I get not everyone is. We all deal with folk differently...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that. I’m always polite but I get not everyone is. We all deal with folk differently... "

Yeah I just tend to ignore folk I’m not interested in when they message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Demand being the right word lol I’ll get shot down for this but I think a no thanks is better than a deleted message. I’m not complaining really. Just an observation. I’ve had some proper good fun on here "

I thought that too but unfortunately once you answer sometimes it doesn’t stop. A no thanks can also get you abuse. It’s tricky no matter what. Being polite sometimes makes people think that you’re interested even if the answer is “no thank you”. It’s not like saying “no” gets you a “thanks anyway” message back lol it gets deleted too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find it a bit hypocritical, but that’s the way the cookie crumbles. There’s a lot of women on here who demand face pics without any of there own. I suppose that’s the power of having a pussy on fab. They hold all the cards

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By *art time deviantsCouple
over a year ago

The mighty fax

We ask for a face picture and don't have public face pics

The request serves many function, 1st off it s out everyone who either doesn't read or choose to ignore our profile, instant block as they are not for us, it's rude

2 it prevents investing an hour of our time t as lking only for their to be no attraction, this works both ways and we always ys put face pics in our 1st message

Thirdly it gives people a reason to not message us if they don't agree with our policies they can pass us by

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By *art time deviantsCouple
over a year ago

The mighty fax


"We ask for a face picture and don't have public face pics

The request serves many function, 1st off it s out everyone who either doesn't read or choose to ignore our profile, instant block as they are not for us, it's rude

2 it prevents investing an hour of our time t as lking only for their to be no attraction, this works both ways and we always ys put face pics in our 1st message

Thirdly it gives people a reason to not message us if they don't agree with our policies they can pass us by"

Oh and if someone does send a pic and they are not for us we do reply as that is good manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can ask for what they want. It’s up to you if you interact with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never show my face

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