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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trust them and listen to the voice ?

Or

Not - throw caution and everything else to the wind and say ‘fuck it’

I listen to mine a lot more than I used to ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instincts definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust them and listen to the voice ?

Or

Not - throw caution and everything else to the wind and say ‘fuck it’

I listen to mine a lot more than I used to ... "

Wish i did listen more. But 18 months on i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trusting is good but checking is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to them and bear them in mind but mostly proceed with caution anyway.

9/10 times I prove my instincts were right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Instincts definitely"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trust them and listen to the voice ?

Or

Not - throw caution and everything else to the wind and say ‘fuck it’

I listen to mine a lot more than I used to ...

Wish i did listen more. But 18 months on i do"

We live and we learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust them all the time. My spider senses are, for the most part, very reliable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trusting is good but checking is better "

Do you think ??

Maybe I’m old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instincts always.

Whenever I ignore them I’m annoyed with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trusting is good but checking is better

Do you think ??

Maybe I’m old "

Id still do you though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Listen to them and bear them in mind but mostly proceed with caution anyway.

9/10 times I prove my instincts were right "

As are mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trust them all the time. My spider senses are, for the most part, very reliable."

Funny thing isn’t it ?? Instinct

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Instincts play a big part for me but I can also be a little impulsive at times too and that's a difficult mix as it can lead to problems when they are at odds with one another - usually though instincts are pretty spot on and I often realise after the event that I should have listened to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Instincts always.

Whenever I ignore them I’m annoyed with myself. "

Yes, me too

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Mmm reached an age now where caution has certainly been thrown to the wind!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trusting is good but checking is better

Do you think ??

Maybe I’m old

Id still do you though "

Care in the community ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Instincts play a big part for me but I can also be a little impulsive at times too and that's a difficult mix as it can lead to problems when they are at odds with one another - usually though instincts are pretty spot on and I often realise after the event that I should have listened to them."

Trust your instincts yet impulsively?

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Trust them and listen to the voice ?

Or

Not - throw caution and everything else to the wind and say ‘fuck it’

I listen to mine a lot more than I used to ... "

Pretty much always try to listen to my gut, those rare occasions i don't i normally end up regretting it. Think your subconscious has a way of picking up on cues that you otherwise miss/ignore.

That said if the risk reward balance is acceptable then every now and then it doesn't hurt to throw caution to the wind and just go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trusting is good but checking is better

Do you think ??

Maybe I’m old

Id still do you though

Care in the community ?"

Always. Especially for the edlery x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My voices just give up and say 'fuck it!'....I'm doomed..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mmm reached an age now where caution has certainly been thrown to the wind!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trusting is good but checking is better

Do you think ??

Maybe I’m old

Id still do you though

Care in the community ?

Always. Especially for the edlery x"

Cheers love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trust instincts for most things. Sometimes I hear them and feel them but still go into a murky situation, just with my eyes wide open.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My voices just give up and say 'fuck it!'....I'm doomed.. "

Scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno about instincts but im a decent people reader comes with the job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I trust instincts for most things. Sometimes I hear them and feel them but still go into a murky situation, just with my eyes wide open. "

I don’t necessarily mean for meets either ... I mean in general

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I have ignored them when my horn got the better of me. It always turns out badly. I now listen to them - my gut instincts really do know best despite the protests of my faff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely instincts. There's always a reason that something feels off or for the hairs sticking up on the back of your neck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to the devil sitting on your shoulder, listen to the angel sitting on the other shoulder, weigh up the alternatives, then procrastinate, then toss a coin and make a rash decision and regret it, then repeat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I trust instincts for most things. Sometimes I hear them and feel them but still go into a murky situation, just with my eyes wide open.

I don’t necessarily mean for meets either ... I mean in general "

Yep same here. Gather as much info as possible abiut a situation, get the feels for what is right or not, and still slide in and have a dabble just incase, or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My instincts have never let me down and the few times I haven’t listened? Disaster. Like that one time I met someone from Fab....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Instincts play a big part for me but I can also be a little impulsive at times too and that's a difficult mix as it can lead to problems when they are at odds with one another - usually though instincts are pretty spot on and I often realise after the event that I should have listened to them.

Trust your instincts yet impulsively?"

When that works it's great - it's when they are at odds with one another the problems come in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brain overthinks and I am naturally untrusting which can blur my instincts. When it comes to fab the one time I didnt go with my gut i ended up in an awful situation so now its instinct all the way.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

My initial gut instincts are normally spot on.

However, not everything is as it seems so sometimes I disregard it and see, a few times I’ve been pleasantly surprised

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I tend to trust my instinct. Throwing caution to the wind may come with consequences I didn’t bargain for, avoid!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Surely it's a balance between instinct and assessment? Some considerations are going to lean more in one direction than the other. Some things are easy to confirm without requiring instincts (like a bank balance) and others are going to be more instinct (like relationships). Instincts can be right and wrong.

I think that the best time to use instinct is if a romantic or sexual relationship (or potential) feels wrong. It's possible for it to feel right but for it to be anything but.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Always my instincts. Whenever I’ve thought fuck it, I’ve got hurt

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Coin toss if I should listen to them. And then maybe listen to them.

They have been wrong just as many, if not more, times than they have been right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust them and listen to the voice ?

Or

Not - throw caution and everything else to the wind and say ‘fuck it’

I listen to mine a lot more than I used to ...

Wish i did listen more. But 18 months on i do

We live and we learn "

We learn every day x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I trust my instinct 100%

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to have devils shoulder more than angels it seems

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Always go with instincts.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Good instincts usually tell you what to do long before your head has figured it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My voices just give up and say 'fuck it!'....I'm doomed..

Scary "

Keeps me focused....

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Sometimes my first instinct is triggered by a more base part of my psyche, sometimes that’s good but in many cases a more considered review will provide a better outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

n the voices argue while instinctively i go with my cock...

Jokin aside, gut is always right.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Instinct particularly if I feel I could come to harm!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Have people seen any of the cats with cucumbers videos on YouTube?

It’s understandable why they have the instinctive response that they do. They are very funny and they do look like dicks! (The cats not the cucumbers).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gut feeling every time. Never been wrong yet. Have thrown caution to the wind a couple times and regretted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gut is large and in charge, I trust that

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've only ignored that little voice a couple of times.

Both times, I really should have listened.

My gut is never wrong!

Head v Heart though, that's a new one that I'm still trying to figure out.

Might have to resort to the trusty, toss a coin method

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Instinct "

Basic....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instinct first

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Always instinct

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Instinct is strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My instincts have often turned out to be right in the past so I try. A few times I have ignored them I have been burnt. So I shall keep on listening.

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