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"I like a lot of couples. Special shout out to the ones who talk about WoW with me, pantries, my frizzy hair, bras, floral arrangements and Waitrose. You make my quim quiver. " I have just spent a week storing food in the most delightful of pantries. | |||
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"The irony of a "couples" thread having its first 2 posts from singles Anyway, hello! " I'm posting from my single account, yes. And the thread is about sharing love for couples also. | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. " You two are beautiful! -Mrs | |||
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"I’d send LaceyandSam some hot lurvin. " Oh those two are so bloody sexy! I'm always having a good perv at them | |||
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"I’d send LaceyandSam some hot lurvin. " I'll be right behind you. | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. " I wouldn't say all about the singles - but it does sometimes feel like the singles feel free to flirt with each other, but not with the couples as much? FWIW, I love a good old flirt. So have at it! Mrs TMN x | |||
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"The irony of a "couples" thread having its first 2 posts from singles Anyway, hello! I'm posting from my single account, yes. And the thread is about sharing love for couples also. " Fair play, I've read the op again, and never let it be said I'd want to restrict the love giving between anyone, regardless of attachment status! | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. I wouldn't say all about the singles - but it does sometimes feel like the singles feel free to flirt with each other, but not with the couples as much? FWIW, I love a good old flirt. So have at it! Mrs TMN x" I'm not sure how I'd flirt with two people at once. One is hard, two? | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. " Hello. Don't know if we catch anyone's eye...... I'm sure there are a few that will catch ours though. M | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. I wouldn't say all about the singles - but it does sometimes feel like the singles feel free to flirt with each other, but not with the couples as much? FWIW, I love a good old flirt. So have at it! Mrs TMN x I'm not sure how I'd flirt with two people at once. One is hard, two? " Well, only one of us posts at a time. I always sign off as Mrs x | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. I wouldn't say all about the singles - but it does sometimes feel like the singles feel free to flirt with each other, but not with the couples as much? FWIW, I love a good old flirt. So have at it! Mrs TMN x I'm not sure how I'd flirt with two people at once. One is hard, two? " It's just like having a chat with three people instead of two, it's really not difficult | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. I wouldn't say all about the singles - but it does sometimes feel like the singles feel free to flirt with each other, but not with the couples as much? FWIW, I love a good old flirt. So have at it! Mrs TMN x I'm not sure how I'd flirt with two people at once. One is hard, two? It's just like having a chat with three people instead of two, it's really not difficult " It's a bit trickier. My flirting is dire when it comes to one person - did I type the wrong thing? Is that weird? Will they get the subtlety? Add in another and it's whoah. Might as well give up. | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. I wouldn't say all about the singles - but it does sometimes feel like the singles feel free to flirt with each other, but not with the couples as much? FWIW, I love a good old flirt. So have at it! Mrs TMN x I'm not sure how I'd flirt with two people at once. One is hard, two? It's just like having a chat with three people instead of two, it's really not difficult It's a bit trickier. My flirting is dire when it comes to one person - did I type the wrong thing? Is that weird? Will they get the subtlety? Add in another and it's whoah. Might as well give up. " I managed it quite successfully on a number of occasions, are you saying that I can do something that you can't Meli?! | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. You two are beautiful! -Mrs " Sorry, I lost this in all the pantry talk! Thank you! | |||
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" I managed it quite successfully on a number of occasions, are you saying that I can do something that you can't Meli?! " Don't type such balderdash Tea (not including marathon running here obvs). Alright, as a couple you two are okay. Dotty definitely lifts you ken doll. | |||
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"You definitely do notice the difference in regards to attention, when you couple up. Understandable really, especially as we don't meet Holly " Well there is that, true! | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. I wouldn't say all about the singles - but it does sometimes feel like the singles feel free to flirt with each other, but not with the couples as much? FWIW, I love a good old flirt. So have at it! Mrs TMN x I'm not sure how I'd flirt with two people at once. One is hard, two? It's just like having a chat with three people instead of two, it's really not difficult It's a bit trickier. My flirting is dire when it comes to one person - did I type the wrong thing? Is that weird? Will they get the subtlety? Add in another and it's whoah. Might as well give up. " Yup. Overthinking times two. Double or more the variables. | |||
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" I managed it quite successfully on a number of occasions, are you saying that I can do something that you can't Meli?! Don't type such balderdash Tea (not including marathon running here obvs). Alright, as a couple you two are okay. Dotty definitely lifts you ken doll. " Thanks | |||
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"Sending you all love and hugs, yes, even the shingles on the thread...." I'm hoping that was a typo! | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. " Hi you two. Love your pics and posts Mrs TMN x | |||
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"I hedge my bets, post from this profile but arrange meets from the couples profile. Got to use every tool available to me." Snap. | |||
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"Sending you all love and hugs, yes, even the shingles on the thread.... I'm hoping that was a typo! " Damn my sausages....they are like fingers tonight! Yes, typo.... | |||
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"The irony of a "couples" thread having its first 2 posts from singles Anyway, hello! " Oh hello Lovely to make your acquaintance! Mrs TMN x | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. I wouldn't say all about the singles - but it does sometimes feel like the singles feel free to flirt with each other, but not with the couples as much? FWIW, I love a good old flirt. So have at it! Mrs TMN x I'm not sure how I'd flirt with two people at once. One is hard, two? It's just like having a chat with three people instead of two, it's really not difficult It's a bit trickier. My flirting is dire when it comes to one person - did I type the wrong thing? Is that weird? Will they get the subtlety? Add in another and it's whoah. Might as well give up. " Tbh if you type something a bit weird we are all the more likely to enjoy it! Forums are generally fun for us - occasionally more introspective or analytical, but mostly being silly and having fun with people who we are sadly unlikely to ever meet, due to distance. That does remove the "agenda" part for us though. In short - try not to overthink it have fun. This may be my new rule for fab in general! Mrs TMN x | |||
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"I've realised of late just how much the forums are all about the singles (swingles) and the one on one action, so let's send a little love out to the couples. Come and say hello if you're a couple, if not then show your love for those that have caught your eye. Hi you two. Love your pics and posts Mrs TMN x" Thank you very much! Ditto! | |||
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"Evening all new to the site and forums,if you see us at the socials feel free to say hello we're a friendly duo " Welcome to the forums! | |||
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"In short - try not to overthink it have fun. This may be my new rule for fab in general! Mrs TMN x" I'm adopting these sage words now. | |||
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"Evening all new to the site and forums,if you see us at the socials feel free to say hello we're a friendly duo " The South Wales social scene is very friendly. I'm sure you'll be welcomed. We are hoping to get to a Newport one soon Holly | |||
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"at last a thread we can say "that's us". Its pretty difficult for couples of a "certain age" though " I always forget you're a couple. I'd make you a trifle too. | |||
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"at last a thread we can say "that's us". Its pretty difficult for couples of a "certain age" though I always forget you're a couple. I'd make you a trifle too. " thank you, could you use swiss roll instead of sponge fingers please | |||
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"Nice couple yous have the perfect name because yous are the nicest couple that I've had the pleasure of chatting to. I understand what yous mean by the ages of couples. There's not enough of couples like yourselves and you're age range on here x Jack " it doesn't matter really we're quite happy but thank you Jack | |||
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"at last a thread we can say "that's us". Its pretty difficult for couples of a "certain age" though I always forget you're a couple. I'd make you a trifle too. thank you, could you use swiss roll instead of sponge fingers please " You're posh. | |||
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"Redoriarty and Buxom Red are lovely. I'd make them both a trifle. " I love a trifle!x | |||
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"at last a thread we can say "that's us". Its pretty difficult for couples of a "certain age" though I always forget you're a couple. I'd make you a trifle too. thank you, could you use swiss roll instead of sponge fingers please You're posh. " ha ha, if only you knew | |||
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"Big kisses mwah mwah mwah " Aimed at anyone in particular? | |||
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"Big kisses mwah mwah mwah Aimed at anyone in particular? " You pair can have some. There's a few more worthy of my lippage adorning their bodies, or a firm respectful handshake | |||
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"Spreading the couple love We are yet to meet with a couple for sexual pleasures, however there are a few couples who 'I would' Who knows what the future holds. Jo.Xx " One of the cutest couples on here -Mrs | |||
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"In short - try not to overthink it have fun. This may be my new rule for fab in general! Mrs TMN x I'm adopting these sage words now. " Ha, would have been more sage with a comma in the appropriate place! That's what happens typing on a bus However - go for it! Mrs TMN x | |||
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"Hello " Hello, relatively new faces x | |||
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"Hello mrs TMN love your profile and your pics x nice to meet yous " Hi Jack. Thanks! X | |||
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"Big kisses mwah mwah mwah " Kisses to you two. I love your thoughtful posts and your photostory made me giggle Mrs TMN x | |||
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"Big kisses mwah mwah mwah Kisses to you two. I love your thoughtful posts and your photostory made me giggle Mrs TMN x" Thank you We do like to give people a chuckle as well as hopefully some other thoughts too! | |||
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"Just wanted to thank all the couples that are open and honest about their experiences, struggles, amazing times. The advice you give out is priceless and it's very much appreciated. P & B" That's lovely to read, it can be hard starting out as a couple on here and sometimes reading others experiences can be a source of help. | |||
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"Well hello there " Lovely to see you both! | |||
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"There’s so many lovely couples " That's very true | |||
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"I know Holly has replied but I thought I would say hello as well I love our couples profile far more than my singles and i more of a forumite than i was as a single LJ" safety in numbers | |||
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"I find it particularly helpful when couples post on the forums that they say which one of them is talking. " I generally do, if I reply on a thread that I started then I won't but Dotty always does. | |||
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"I know Holly has replied but I thought I would say hello as well I love our couples profile far more than my singles and i more of a forumite than i was as a single LJsafety in numbers " Holly is a wild one There are three things i am afraid of greasy foot/hand holds, snakes and Holly’s wrath! LJ | |||
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"I know Holly has replied but I thought I would say hello as well I love our couples profile far more than my singles and i more of a forumite than i was as a single LJsafety in numbers Holly is a wild one There are three things i am afraid of greasy foot/hand holds, snakes and Holly’s wrath! LJ" | |||
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"Hello all xx " Good evening, nice to see you both | |||
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"I think we don't do ourselves any favours by rarely using our couples profile, despite being a couple for over 2 years we both still mainly use our singles profiles. We only use the couples one when looking for a meet on a specific date, which is probably a mistake." In what way? | |||
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"I think we don't do ourselves any favours by rarely using our couples profile, despite being a couple for over 2 years we both still mainly use our singles profiles. We only use the couples one when looking for a meet on a specific date, which is probably a mistake. In what way? " I would presume we are less visible than couples who are active on their couples profiles more regularly. We don't build up conversations or make many friends because we don't log into the couples profile much. I'm sure if we both used it more we would make a lot more connections. | |||
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" Why the sad faces? " We're not feeling the lurrrrrve. Perhaps we should post more. E | |||
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"I think we don't do ourselves any favours by rarely using our couples profile, despite being a couple for over 2 years we both still mainly use our singles profiles. We only use the couples one when looking for a meet on a specific date, which is probably a mistake." We do the same thing but that's because we are not really looking to meet anyone at the moment. So we use our single profiles for the forums and our couples one for socials. If and when we choose to meet anyone for more than that we would be more active on the LornAsh one. | |||
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" Why the sad faces? We're not feeling the lurrrrrve. Perhaps we should post more. E" Maybe, that was the point of the thread though. | |||
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"I think we don't do ourselves any favours by rarely using our couples profile, despite being a couple for over 2 years we both still mainly use our singles profiles. We only use the couples one when looking for a meet on a specific date, which is probably a mistake. In what way? I would presume we are less visible than couples who are active on their couples profiles more regularly. We don't build up conversations or make many friends because we don't log into the couples profile much. I'm sure if we both used it more we would make a lot more connections." That's a very valid line of argument. | |||
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"Marc.Courtney never forget " Yep, that's very true. There are lots of other lovely couples around though... | |||
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" Why the sad faces? We're not feeling the lurrrrrve. Perhaps we should post more. E Maybe, that was the point of the thread though. " We've tryers. E | |||
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"Spreading the couple love We are yet to meet with a couple for sexual pleasures, however there are a few couples who 'I would' Who knows what the future holds. Jo.Xx One of the cutest couples on here -Mrs " You too Jo.Xx | |||
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"Marc.Courtney never forget Yep, that's very true. There are lots of other lovely couples around though... " I agree, some are on my hotlist too | |||
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"You’re trying to tell us swinging is not about singles. They invented it. We know it." I didn't say anything of the sort! I just think that couples can get a bit of love too | |||
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"Marc.Courtney never forget Yep, that's very true. There are lots of other lovely couples around though... I agree, some are on my hotlist too " We don't have anyone on our hotlist, nor our friends list either for that matter! | |||
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"You’re trying to tell us swinging is not about singles. They invented it. We know it. I didn't say anything of the sort! I just think that couples can get a bit of love too" Wasn’t refering to your postthank you very much. | |||
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"You’re trying to tell us swinging is not about singles. They invented it. We know it. I didn't say anything of the sort! I just think that couples can get a bit of love too Wasn’t refering to your postthank you very much. " Well then you need to use quote and reply otherwise noone knows who you are referring to! | |||
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"Marc.Courtney never forget Yep, that's very true. There are lots of other lovely couples around though... I agree, some are on my hotlist too We don't have anyone on our hotlist, nor our friends list either for that matter! " Really? Why not OP? If you don't mind me asking. Jo.Xx | |||
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"You’re trying to tell us swinging is not about singles. They invented it. We know it. I didn't say anything of the sort! I just think that couples can get a bit of love too Wasn’t refering to your postthank you very much. Well then you need to use quote and reply otherwise noone knows who you are referring to! " Do we? | |||
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"You’re trying to tell us swinging is not about singles. They invented it. We know it. I didn't say anything of the sort! I just think that couples can get a bit of love too Wasn’t refering to your postthank you very much. Well then you need to use quote and reply otherwise noone knows who you are referring to! Do we?" Of course not, just don't expect anyone to understand you! | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS " Iv found it exactly the same. | |||
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"You’re trying to tell us swinging is not about singles. They invented it. We know it. I didn't say anything of the sort! I just think that couples can get a bit of love too Wasn’t refering to your postthank you very much. Well then you need to use quote and reply otherwise noone knows who you are referring to! Do we?" It helps | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS " I can relate. It's like I've lost my mojo a smidge unless it's with B. P | |||
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"You’re trying to tell us swinging is not about singles. They invented it. We know it. I didn't say anything of the sort! I just think that couples can get a bit of love too Wasn’t refering to your postthank you very much. Well then you need to use quote and reply otherwise noone knows who you are referring to! Do we? Of course not, just don't expect anyone to understand you! " Exactly, hence my assumption that you were answering my OP! | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS Iv found it exactly the same. " Same here too. That was my intent with starting the thread, couples seem to be left out of the fancy threads or one partner at any rate. I thought it would be nice to send a little love the couples way. | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS Iv found it exactly the same. Same here too. That was my intent with starting the thread, couples seem to be left out of the fancy threads or one partner at any rate. I thought it would be nice to send a little love the couples way. " It has been more of an adjustment than we thought. We thought about taking a break or coming off completely but love the social side. It is much harder to get noticed as a couple but then maybe it's because people are used to us as singles. | |||
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"Marc.Courtney never forget Yep, that's very true. There are lots of other lovely couples around though... I agree, some are on my hotlist too We don't have anyone on our hotlist, nor our friends list either for that matter! Really? Why not OP? If you don't mind me asking. Jo.Xx " A mixture of things I guess. The requests that we've had have all been random and folks don't really chat. Although we haven't been hugely active recently so perhaps it's a two way thing. I'm not really sure! | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS Iv found it exactly the same. Same here too. That was my intent with starting the thread, couples seem to be left out of the fancy threads or one partner at any rate. I thought it would be nice to send a little love the couples way. " Do you think it's because people think they will offend one half of the couple if they say they only fancy one of them? Or that they're not sure of the dynamic within the couple so don't want to offend? Mrs TMN x | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS Iv found it exactly the same. Same here too. That was my intent with starting the thread, couples seem to be left out of the fancy threads or one partner at any rate. I thought it would be nice to send a little love the couples way. It has been more of an adjustment than we thought. We thought about taking a break or coming off completely but love the social side. It is much harder to get noticed as a couple but then maybe it's because people are used to us as singles. " I do wonder that. I have noticed that people don't respond in the same way to us as they did on single profiles. Why that is, I'm not sure. | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS Iv found it exactly the same. Same here too. That was my intent with starting the thread, couples seem to be left out of the fancy threads or one partner at any rate. I thought it would be nice to send a little love the couples way. Do you think it's because people think they will offend one half of the couple if they say they only fancy one of them? Or that they're not sure of the dynamic within the couple so don't want to offend? Mrs TMN x" Maybe. Although I've seen one half of couples get singled out for praise or flirting fairly often. Perhaps it is the case though. | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS Iv found it exactly the same. Same here too. That was my intent with starting the thread, couples seem to be left out of the fancy threads or one partner at any rate. I thought it would be nice to send a little love the couples way. Do you think it's because people think they will offend one half of the couple if they say they only fancy one of them? Or that they're not sure of the dynamic within the couple so don't want to offend? Mrs TMN x Maybe. Although I've seen one half of couples get singled out for praise or flirting fairly often. Perhaps it is the case though. " Perhaps that's to do with the balance of the profile, and the way each half posts? I'm more flirty, Mr more jokey... More pics of me on the profile even though I keep telling him we should put up more of him too | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS Iv found it exactly the same. Same here too. That was my intent with starting the thread, couples seem to be left out of the fancy threads or one partner at any rate. I thought it would be nice to send a little love the couples way. It has been more of an adjustment than we thought. We thought about taking a break or coming off completely but love the social side. It is much harder to get noticed as a couple but then maybe it's because people are used to us as singles. I do wonder that. I have noticed that people don't respond in the same way to us as they did on single profiles. Why that is, I'm not sure. " We are not sure either. I think it's a bit like moriarty said, we don't really have a presence as a couple. But then when we do post on our couples profile we get ignored. I think it's simply people get used to one way and it takes to time to adjust. But I really don't know. | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS Iv found it exactly the same. Same here too. That was my intent with starting the thread, couples seem to be left out of the fancy threads or one partner at any rate. I thought it would be nice to send a little love the couples way. Do you think it's because people think they will offend one half of the couple if they say they only fancy one of them? Or that they're not sure of the dynamic within the couple so don't want to offend? Mrs TMN x Maybe. Although I've seen one half of couples get singled out for praise or flirting fairly often. Perhaps it is the case though. Perhaps that's to do with the balance of the profile, and the way each half posts? I'm more flirty, Mr more jokey... More pics of me on the profile even though I keep telling him we should put up more of him too " I think that the balance of the pictures matters. Personally we think that they should be even on our profile, I also think that people assume that they're talking to whoever the avatar is, that's why we're both on ours. If people meet us, they will get us both so they should be aware it's both of us they're talking to. Dotty will naturally get more attention (why wouldn't she) but I think pictures should be balanced. | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS Iv found it exactly the same. Same here too. That was my intent with starting the thread, couples seem to be left out of the fancy threads or one partner at any rate. I thought it would be nice to send a little love the couples way. It has been more of an adjustment than we thought. We thought about taking a break or coming off completely but love the social side. It is much harder to get noticed as a couple but then maybe it's because people are used to us as singles. I do wonder that. I have noticed that people don't respond in the same way to us as they did on single profiles. Why that is, I'm not sure. We are not sure either. I think it's a bit like moriarty said, we don't really have a presence as a couple. But then when we do post on our couples profile we get ignored. I think it's simply people get used to one way and it takes to time to adjust. But I really don't know. " Maybe that's part of it, I think that some also don't like/know how to talk to couples. | |||
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"I found it was a lot harder to get involved with all the flirting after meeting TB and becoming a couple shame as we love a bit of saucy banter SSS Iv found it exactly the same. Same here too. That was my intent with starting the thread, couples seem to be left out of the fancy threads or one partner at any rate. I thought it would be nice to send a little love the couples way. It has been more of an adjustment than we thought. We thought about taking a break or coming off completely but love the social side. It is much harder to get noticed as a couple but then maybe it's because people are used to us as singles. I do wonder that. I have noticed that people don't respond in the same way to us as they did on single profiles. Why that is, I'm not sure. We are not sure either. I think it's a bit like moriarty said, we don't really have a presence as a couple. But then when we do post on our couples profile we get ignored. I think it's simply people get used to one way and it takes to time to adjust. But I really don't know. Maybe that's part of it, I think that some also don't like/know how to talk to couples. " I think you have hit the nail on the head. We both have a lot of the same friends but they interact with us separately but then to be fair so do we. | |||
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"Good evening everyone, living the couple appreciation xx lots of lovely looking couples on here tonight xx " Agreed! | |||
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"I always used to get the most attention on our old profile and D never really posted but after some talking and encouraging he now posts. The increase in attention he has received since has been massive. We always sign our names off when speaking to anyone both privately and in the forums. D likes to put his picture as our profile picture if he is more active than me to cause less confusion. I hope we come across as a non complicated couple. Jo.Xx " Personally I think that you're getting it right, you both look fantastic and come across very well on the forums | |||
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"I always used to get the most attention on our old profile and D never really posted but after some talking and encouraging he now posts. The increase in attention he has received since has been massive. We always sign our names off when speaking to anyone both privately and in the forums. D likes to put his picture as our profile picture if he is more active than me to cause less confusion. I hope we come across as a non complicated couple. Jo.Xx Personally I think that you're getting it right, you both look fantastic and come across very well on the forums" I concur. | |||
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"Evening another couple here " Good to see you both! | |||
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"I always used to get the most attention on our old profile and D never really posted but after some talking and encouraging he now posts. The increase in attention he has received since has been massive. We always sign our names off when speaking to anyone both privately and in the forums. D likes to put his picture as our profile picture if he is more active than me to cause less confusion. I hope we come across as a non complicated couple. Jo.Xx Personally I think that you're getting it right, you both look fantastic and come across very well on the forums" 100% agree. P | |||
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"As it's a couples thread thought I better make a token post from this account M" Ha! Good to see you P | |||
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"Evening another couple here Good to see you both! " Thanks | |||
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"As it's a couples thread thought I better make a token post from this account M" Yay! | |||
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"I always used to get the most attention on our old profile and D never really posted but after some talking and encouraging he now posts. The increase in attention he has received since has been massive. We always sign our names off when speaking to anyone both privately and in the forums. D likes to put his picture as our profile picture if he is more active than me to cause less confusion. I hope we come across as a non complicated couple. Jo.Xx Personally I think that you're getting it right, you both look fantastic and come across very well on the forums 100% agree. P" | |||
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"I always used to get the most attention on our old profile and D never really posted but after some talking and encouraging he now posts. The increase in attention he has received since has been massive. We always sign our names off when speaking to anyone both privately and in the forums. D likes to put his picture as our profile picture if he is more active than me to cause less confusion. I hope we come across as a non complicated couple. Jo.Xx Personally I think that you're getting it right, you both look fantastic and come across very well on the forums I concur. " | |||
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"I always used to get the most attention on our old profile and D never really posted but after some talking and encouraging he now posts. The increase in attention he has received since has been massive. We always sign our names off when speaking to anyone both privately and in the forums. D likes to put his picture as our profile picture if he is more active than me to cause less confusion. I hope we come across as a non complicated couple. Jo.Xx Personally I think that you're getting it right, you both look fantastic and come across very well on the forums" Well, we take that as a massive compliment coming from you two, thank you. Jo.Xx | |||
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"You’re trying to tell us swinging is not about singles. They invented it. We know it. I didn't say anything of the sort! I just think that couples can get a bit of love too Wasn’t refering to your postthank you very much. Well then you need to use quote and reply otherwise noone knows who you are referring to! Do we?" You don't "have" to, theres no rule that compels you to, other than forum ettiquette. It's what the quote+reply function is for. Posts that don't use it appear random on the thread and no-one knows who you've talking to, or what about. Your fellow posters were trying to help you. Happy posting. E | |||
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"Morning all. E" Good morning you 2. Jo.Xx | |||
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"As it's a couples thread thought I better make a token post from this account M Ha! Good to see you P" Morning | |||
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"Probably the recent LPP from some couples has put people off interacting with them. Too much drama. " What did I miss? | |||
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"Morning all. E Good morning you 2. Jo.Xx " Morning Jo & D. | |||
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"Probably the recent LPP from some couples has put people off interacting with them. Too much drama. " Is that worse than any other that's been seen? | |||
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"Probably the recent LPP from some couples has put people off interacting with them. Too much drama. " Er, What's LPP? E | |||
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"Probably the recent LPP from some couples has put people off interacting with them. Too much drama. What did I miss?" Not a clue, I've not seen anything | |||
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