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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

It's a common lament on the forums that the ones we fancy the most are miles away.

Let’s not let a bit of distance get in the way of a sexy adventure.

If there’s someone you like that’s miles away, and it’s mutual, then let them know and get creative about bridging the gap.

Who would you go the extra mile for?

Let them know below or by pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They know

I don’t drive so it makes it tricky but I’m worth the visit

I think

I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do miles.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Happy to travel. Hotels no problem. Distance is never a barrier. Some people even come visit.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

They know

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

You tried travelling ‘miles’ in a 1983 Capri OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled quite a distance once for a meet. Which was very much worth it at the time.

I love travel though, and don't see it as a barrier, provided the situation is right of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they’re worth it I will and am travelling.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"If they’re worth it I will and am travelling. "

Monkey adds to his notes

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Agree distance is not a barrier if you know somebody. We drove to London last weekend to meet a couple and had a fantastic night but we had met and played before.

Would be reluctant to do the same for somebody who I only knew through messages on here and maybe a video or phone chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they’re worth it I will and am travelling.

Monkey adds to his notes "

Monkey is back on form I see

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"If they’re worth it I will and am travelling.

Monkey adds to his notes

Monkey is back on form I see "

Temporary blip

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I've traveled and I would do it again...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I live in Derby which is probably the most central part of the country that you can get. I've had 3 ladies who have traveled up from the South Coast to come and stop at mine, one even came twice, but nobody local or from ooop North yet

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Travelling makes it more exciting

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"You tried travelling ‘miles’ in a 1983 Capri OP? "

Nope, but there are other methods

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I don’t drive, I’ve travelled and I’ll be on my travels again soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree distance is not a barrier if you know somebody. We drove to London last weekend to meet a couple and had a fantastic night but we had met and played before.

Would be reluctant to do the same for somebody who I only knew through messages on here and maybe a video or phone chat."

That's my issue. Some people are not easy to read via messages and video calls alone. They may feel the same.. I dont really fancy making a shit load of effort only to find its weird, awkward and little actual chemistry.

An hours radius, give or take.. for travelling and accommodation.

Takes a lot of pressure off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone happens to be nearby through chance.. it's different.. no pressure.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Will always travel if it feels right, don’t let mileage get in the way

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have travelled some distances to meet, obviously I was sure they were worth meeting before I set out, it’s not anything I would do if I had any sort of uncertainty

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Wouldn't have a problem travelling, it's all about the timing too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to travel many miles for the right person. I'm bloody fussy, though...

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I've had some fantastic meets with people from many miles away...it takes a bit more planning than a local meet, but there's a bigger sense of adventure. You can always overcome distance if you really want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They travelled to meet me coz I'm worth it

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Happy to travel many miles for the right person. I'm bloody fussy, though..."

So I hear!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't see miles as being that much of an issue. Work affords me a certain luxury which makes travelling enjoyable. Anyway, I think we were meant to say on thread or pm so I'll say Floro and Incandescent, I'm looking forward to travelling to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where there’s a strong enough will there’s a way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they’re worth it I will and am travelling. "

Southport is very nice this time of year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see miles as being that much of an issue. Work affords me a certain luxury which makes travelling enjoyable. Anyway, I think we were meant to say on thread or pm so I'll say Floro and Incandescent, I'm looking forward to travelling to meet you."

*cough cough

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't see miles as being that much of an issue. Work affords me a certain luxury which makes travelling enjoyable. Anyway, I think we were meant to say on thread or pm so I'll say Floro and Incandescent, I'm looking forward to travelling to meet you.

*cough cough "

Alright, alright. Rubi, I'm counting down the days until we meet. You're on my wall planner (you are!) and whenever I see your name I think Ru take control? Pah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see miles as being that much of an issue. Work affords me a certain luxury which makes travelling enjoyable. Anyway, I think we were meant to say on thread or pm so I'll say Floro and Incandescent, I'm looking forward to travelling to meet you."

I can’t wait

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"They travelled to meet me coz I'm worth it "

Are you David Ginola in disguise?

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol."

Our problem always seems to be timing rather than distance! One day though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see miles as being that much of an issue. Work affords me a certain luxury which makes travelling enjoyable. Anyway, I think we were meant to say on thread or pm so I'll say Floro and Incandescent, I'm looking forward to travelling to meet you.

*cough cough

Alright, alright. Rubi, I'm counting down the days until we meet. You're on my wall planner (you are!) and whenever I see your name I think Ru take control? Pah. "

*smiles at Meli's teasing and adds a note to the "things Meli needs punished for" list.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

For a one off meet distance isn't an issue at all, for a regular thing it makes it more of a challenge. You can make it work but both people need to be committed to it and really want it, that's my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol.

Our problem always seems to be timing rather than distance! One day though "

There’s always London...

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol.

Our problem always seems to be timing rather than distance! One day though

There’s always London..."

True! That’s doable!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I was working in Stranraer and caught a ferry to meet a lady in Belfast a few years back, what a weekend that was

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"*smiles at Meli's teasing and adds a note to the "things Meli needs punished for" list. "

Keep thinking that. I quite like a challenge.

So distance is clearly not an issue OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My travels would take me North of the wall, South of the gap and East of the hills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance has never been an issue for me, I like travelling and my local area has always been rather bereft anyway. If I liked someone and the chemistry was there then making plans was fun.

In terms of the OP; Dotty. She lives 300 miles away and is always worth the journey.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol.

Our problem always seems to be timing rather than distance! One day though

There’s always London...

True! That’s doable! "

Doable is always good.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I don't do miles."

This. I just can’t see anybody being that amazing a shag that i’d want to go to all the effort of driving on a Motorway. Motorways are full of shit drivers.

And if they were amazing at the sex, i’d get fed up that they lived so far away.

Nope. I’ll stick to the local men.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I don't do miles.

This. I just can’t see anybody being that amazing a shag that i’d want to go to all the effort of driving on a Motorway. Motorways are full of shit drivers.

And if they were amazing at the sex, i’d get fed up that they lived so far away.

Nope. I’ll stick to the local men.

"

*gives up smoking, knocks a few years off his age, and moves to South Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is nothing!

Mr and I met online while living 5000 miles apart. Leap if they’re worth it, even if just for a good time even if we hadn’t ended up together, he was the best sex I’d ever had, well worth the trip haha

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By *owithflow321Man
over a year ago

Molesey


"If they’re worth it I will and am travelling. "

I would be there in an instant x

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"We’d travel to, say, Cheltenham or Gloucester for a weekend if that included some kinky action. OP may be familiar with nearby places like Bristol.

Our problem always seems to be timing rather than distance! One day though

There’s always London...

True! That’s doable!

Doable is always good. "

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Always the way for me too - in!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

They know, at least the ones who are far away. I suspect there's somebody closer who is a little unsure but I (Luke) certainly do and Hannah is yet to provide an important update.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Distance is my curse that's for sure. Thinking about it, if someone was looking for the same as me as per my profile and they ticked some of my interest boxes (I'm not talking sexual) now. Then I think yes I'd be happy to made that investment in time. However I cant travel that far due to my commitments at home but maybe they can.

For just sex nope I'm not your girl. If you have to think about choosing me then I'm also not your girl.

So if you think I'm worth it you know where I am

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I don't do miles."

Same well I may do a mile,mile and a half at the most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Distance is my curse that's for sure. Thinking about it, if someone was looking for the same as me as per my profile and they ticked some of my interest boxes (I'm not talking sexual) now. Then I think yes I'd be happy to made that investment in time. However I cant travel that far due to my commitments at home but maybe they can.

For just sex nope I'm not your girl. If you have to think about choosing me then I'm also not your girl.

So if you think I'm worth it you know where I am "

True. I’ve always said that. If I’m part of a choice there’s no longer a choice. Always go for the other one

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't travel far because I generally can't for various reasons. Happy for someone to come and visit me though

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Distance is my curse that's for sure. Thinking about it, if someone was looking for the same as me as per my profile and they ticked some of my interest boxes (I'm not talking sexual) now. Then I think yes I'd be happy to made that investment in time. However I cant travel that far due to my commitments at home but maybe they can.

For just sex nope I'm not your girl. If you have to think about choosing me then I'm also not your girl.

So if you think I'm worth it you know where I am

True. I’ve always said that. If I’m part of a choice there’s no longer a choice. Always go for the other one

"

Absolutely Nora.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy a few road trips in the near future

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"I don't travel far because I generally can't for various reasons. Happy for someone to come and visit me though "

But you live on a hillside desolate!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Distance isn't a problem for me, i regularly visit Yorkshire and he comes south.

A weekend away can be fun ?

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

There's a few I'd be willing to travel for....just spotted them

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By *ent and bratCouple
over a year ago

here there everywhere

If was making a weekend of it we would travel for the right people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its unlikely I would forge any kinda connection with someone who lived miles away.

Real life would make it difficult to see them on any kind of regular basis and a virtual relationship would be unfulfilling for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love travelling around the UK. And I don’t mind travelling for a meet. I see it as visiting friends.

But, I don’t actually know if that actually puts people off.

There’s someone on here I fancy, but I think they know I do (well, hopefully).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I'd do for the right person but not for an initial meeting

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