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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Some do, majority can’t. They’re instant delete if I’m not worth a few seconds of getting to know me through my bio. No way would they get to my vagina if they can’t be bothered to do such simple task

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By *sgigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

Our profile has the threat of adding to my testicle collection for one line messages. We still get "Hi" and "How are you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are not "men"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I’m pretty clear I’m straight so I’ve blocked men but still get fab’d. It’s a compliment surely?

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By *V-AliceTV/TS
over a year ago

Ayr


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"

It's the "straight" men who contact me who only want to meet women (not tv/ts) that I find most irritating.

They don't want to acknowledge their true sexuality for fear of putting off women who were born female.

Deceitful, cowardly and utterly transparent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s got a point where you say Fuck reading your comments if you’re only going to delete the damn message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ya big dyke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want

It's the "straight" men who contact me who only want to meet women (not tv/ts) that I find most irritating.

They don't want to acknowledge their true sexuality for fear of putting off women who were born female.

Deceitful, cowardly and utterly transparent."

I understand why they hide. I have sucked a lot of str8 cock and don't judge them and just enjoy it. We are what we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"
I can read I'm just not ignorant like some x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want

It's the "straight" men who contact me who only want to meet women (not tv/ts) that I find most irritating.

They don't want to acknowledge their true sexuality for fear of putting off women who were born female.

Deceitful, cowardly and utterly transparent."

Why do you let it bother you? They are obviously confused

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By *isterPepperMan
over a year ago

Central Swindon


"It’s got a point where you say Fuck reading your comments if you’re only going to delete the damn message. "

I don’t subscribe to this viewpoint but I have a lot of sympathy for it.

Also, looking through veris on a lot of profiles highlights that people don’t stick to their own stated preferences. I always filter myself out if a profile indicates that I should, and tailor my first message to its recipient. Sometimes I look at their history and wonder why I bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s got a point where you say Fuck reading your comments if you’re only going to delete the damn message.

I don’t subscribe to this viewpoint but I have a lot of sympathy for it.

Also, looking through veris on a lot of profiles highlights that people don’t stick to their own stated preferences. I always filter myself out if a profile indicates that I should, and tailor my first message to its recipient. Sometimes I look at their history and wonder why I bother "

I’ve just learned to live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"
block men in filters then, sorted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And to anyone saying to just block them i cant, id have no messages ever then. I know most guys ate polite and stuff, its mainly the ones that just tell me to come suck their dicks straight away that repulse me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And to anyone saying to just block them i cant, id have no messages ever then. I know most guys ate polite and stuff, its mainly the ones that just tell me to come suck their dicks straight away that repulse me"
you can't have it all unfortunately, you know now some guys will just come straight at you with sex so if they do and likely havnt read profile block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And to anyone saying to just block them i cant, id have no messages ever then. I know most guys ate polite and stuff, its mainly the ones that just tell me to come suck their dicks straight away that repulse me"

That’s just the way it is, you can’t generalise half the planet because a few have annoyed you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is a well known fact that although the penis had a brain, it is illiterate and that the Jap eye is a totally blind. So in answer to your question Fab men cannot read

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You're young and attractive, but also in a bit if a minority on here. Transgendered and only interested in women.

Also be aware your verification may tell some guys they have a chance with you.

As you've not asked for profile advice, I can't help there, but you are joining the ranks of finding the unicorn on here, single women that want to meet you. I'm sure there are and I truly hope you are successful, I've had (rarely but it does happen) women interested as a first step towards experimenting with their bisexuality, so don't lose hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, most men assume this is a site for insta-fucks. What’s the point in reading profiles, if you could be fucking instead?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s not just men that don’t read profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"
why not ask yourself?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just block men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"

8 hours ago... Jesus christ guys cant read. Stop letting your dicks take control and look and see im not after men. NO ACCEPTIONS!!!!

Great spelling struggled to read it

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"

You make it sound easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m pretty clear I’m straight so I’ve blocked men but still get fab’d. It’s a compliment surely?"

Is it a compliment if you dont want it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say that I have always read the full profile before sending a message and if I’m not the kind of thing they are after then I don’t bother messaging. I think some guys cast a wide net tho so just send random messages to all and sundry in the hope of getting a bite.

Btw OP, if they message you saying “I know it says no men but....” that suggests they have read your profile but just chose to ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m pretty clear I’m straight so I’ve blocked men but still get fab’d. It’s a compliment surely?

Is it a compliment if you dont want it?"

Yes otherwise you get annoyed and it doesn’t make things any better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m pretty clear I’m straight so I’ve blocked men but still get fab’d. It’s a compliment surely?

Is it a compliment if you dont want it?

Yes otherwise you get annoyed and it doesn’t make things any better "
secretly wishing for pitty fabs i see

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

They can, they often can't be bothered. If you're not looking for them, block them from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can, they often can't be bothered. If you're not looking for them, block them from messaging you. "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And people in all categories will take their chances. "I know you're not looking for X, but..." boils my piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"

Block men then. Next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can, they often can't be bothered. If you're not looking for them, block them from messaging you. "

This.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid the problem isn't limited to just men.

I've had messages from women and couples before who clearly haven't read my profile

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm afraid the problem isn't limited to just men.

I've had messages from women and couples before who clearly haven't read my profile"

Oh indeed.

I also keep going back and forth on TV/TS because some really don't take no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"

They can. Some choose not to. It's time saving for them to bulk message sometimes and hope for a bite....

Holly

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

...and to think that you made yourself so clear OP by stating 'no exceptions'

Or did you??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"...and to think that you made yourself so clear OP by stating 'no exceptions'

Or did you??"

Profile: I don't want X, no matter how good it is, no exceptions.

Messages: my X is amazing, I'll convert you! Pester pester.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"...and to think that you made yourself so clear OP by stating 'no exceptions'

Or did you??

Profile: I don't want X, no matter how good it is, no exceptions.

Messages: my X is amazing, I'll convert you! Pester pester.

"

agree totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They've probably read 'bi-curious' and thought they'd try their luck

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By *tevetwiceMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

What’s this post about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Majority of those who message me obviously cannot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can spin a yarn ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many women lack the skill also

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want

It's the "straight" men who contact me who only want to meet women (not tv/ts) that I find most irritating.

They don't want to acknowledge their true sexuality for fear of putting off women who were born female.

Deceitful, cowardly and utterly transparent."

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t understand why you let it bother you, life isn’t a fairytale, squirrels don’t wash our dishes. If people say or do things you don’t like then don’t communicate with them again.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

It’s not just men. I’ve seen some of the messages male friends get, even from women forumites who post on these threads complaining about men not reading profiles

I get messages too from men, women and couples who haven’t read my profile. I ignore their messages like they ignore my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not just men. I’ve seen some of the messages male friends get, even from women forumites who post on these threads complaining about men not reading profiles

I get messages too from men, women and couples who haven’t read my profile. I ignore their messages like they ignore my profile. "

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Normally if I say, I know u ain’t looking for guys, I respect that but I only write to give a compliment ... that’s not so bad is it ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Normally if I say, I know u ain’t looking for guys, I respect that but I only write to give a compliment ... that’s not so bad is it ? "

Personally I'd rather you didn't. One, a compliment isn't always "just" a compliment, and two, it's more stuff for me to sort through.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

See can even give an innocent compliment anymore .... u say can men read, but what about women and negative attitudes? Why has everything got to have an hidden agenda ? So that’s told me something ... no more innocent compliments to be handed out ... dammed if we do and dammed if we don’t ... lol .. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can, but I prefer a picture book to one with lots of words

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"See can even give an innocent compliment anymore .... u say can men read, but what about women and negative attitudes? Why has everything got to have an hidden agenda ? So that’s told me something ... no more innocent compliments to be handed out ... dammed if we do and dammed if we don’t ... lol .. x"

Because a lot of compliments aren't innocent and wariness around here is sensible.

If I'm sent a "no agenda" compliment I'll usually just delete it. If it's really no agenda, I've seen it, job done, yes?

If it's like the 100 "no agenda" compliments before it where he's such a nice guy and I should give him a chance, blah blah, then I've got rid of it. Win/win.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"See can even give an innocent compliment anymore .... u say can men read, but what about women and negative attitudes? Why has everything got to have an hidden agenda ? So that’s told me something ... no more innocent compliments to be handed out ... dammed if we do and dammed if we don’t ... lol .. x

Because a lot of compliments aren't innocent and wariness around here is sensible.

If I'm sent a "no agenda" compliment I'll usually just delete it. If it's really no agenda, I've seen it, job done, yes?

If it's like the 100 "no agenda" compliments before it where he's such a nice guy and I should give him a chance, blah blah, then I've got rid of it. Win/win. "

Ok nuff said ... I av a distrust in people and I’m wary .. but a compliment is a little pick me up .. and being polite isn’t hard ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See can even give an innocent compliment anymore .... u say can men read, but what about women and negative attitudes? Why has everything got to have an hidden agenda ? So that’s told me something ... no more innocent compliments to be handed out ... dammed if we do and dammed if we don’t ... lol .. x

Because a lot of compliments aren't innocent and wariness around here is sensible.

If I'm sent a "no agenda" compliment I'll usually just delete it. If it's really no agenda, I've seen it, job done, yes?

If it's like the 100 "no agenda" compliments before it where he's such a nice guy and I should give him a chance, blah blah, then I've got rid of it. Win/win. "

Lol that’s just what everyone on this site is going through, it’s difficult being friendly and getting ignored.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"See can even give an innocent compliment anymore .... u say can men read, but what about women and negative attitudes? Why has everything got to have an hidden agenda ? So that’s told me something ... no more innocent compliments to be handed out ... dammed if we do and dammed if we don’t ... lol .. x

Because a lot of compliments aren't innocent and wariness around here is sensible.

If I'm sent a "no agenda" compliment I'll usually just delete it. If it's really no agenda, I've seen it, job done, yes?

If it's like the 100 "no agenda" compliments before it where he's such a nice guy and I should give him a chance, blah blah, then I've got rid of it. Win/win.

Ok nuff said ... I av a distrust in people and I’m wary .. but a compliment is a little pick me up .. and being polite isn’t hard ... "

It is on here, on this side of the fence.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Most" men ( I am beginning to fucking detest this phrase) can read. But that is in their day to day life, what you aren't realising it is not men who are logging in to fab.

It is their libido and by default their penis. A penis cannot read but it can get it excited, when egged on by the libido, the penis then telepathically communicates with part of the brain reserved for low base functions, which in turn communicates with the nervous system, which then engages the hands to type.

Because the limbic system (the part of the brain responsible for sexual desire) is one of the oldest parts of the brain (in developmental terms) it is rather cave manish and has a limited ability to communicate and a limited ability to reason or understand.

This is why you get rather simplistic messages (suck my cock) from men that would on a day to day basis consider themselves "straight"

Blame the limbic system not the man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Most" men ( I am beginning to fucking detest this phrase) can read. But that is in their day to day life, what you aren't realising it is not men who are logging in to fab.

It is their libido and by default their penis. A penis cannot read but it can get it excited, when egged on by the libido, the penis then telepathically communicates with part of the brain reserved for low base functions, which in turn communicates with the nervous system, which then engages the hands to type.

Because the limbic system (the part of the brain responsible for sexual desire) is one of the oldest parts of the brain (in developmental terms) it is rather cave manish and has a limited ability to communicate and a limited ability to reason or understand.

This is why you get rather simplistic messages (suck my cock) from men that would on a day to day basis consider themselves "straight"

Blame the limbic system not the man"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they can’t and don’t as I we get messages to meet them all day long yet state we’re not looking for them and also the same ones will message week after week with the same message and get the same answer yet still keep doing it lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If my murder rate during horrific PMS stands at zero (and it does), you guys can increase your chances by wanking before Fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If my murder rate during horrific PMS stands at zero (and it does), you guys can increase your chances by wanking before Fabbing. "

Hahahahahahahaha brilliant!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

TV's couples and women can't read sometimes either. It's never gender specific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And to anyone saying to just block them i cant, id have no messages ever then. I know most guys ate polite and stuff, its mainly the ones that just tell me to come suck their dicks straight away that repulse me"

So you don't want to block men, even though your not planning on meeting them.... because you will get no messages?

Confused.com

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

They can but I'm not sure very many bother

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"And to anyone saying to just block them i cant, id have no messages ever then. I know most guys ate polite and stuff, its mainly the ones that just tell me to come suck their dicks straight away that repulse me

So you don't want to block men, even though your not planning on meeting them.... because you will get no messages?

Confused.com "

Yes, very strange.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"It’s got a point where you say Fuck reading your comments if you’re only going to delete the damn message.

I don’t subscribe to this viewpoint but I have a lot of sympathy for it.

Also, looking through veris on a lot of profiles highlights that people don’t stick to their own stated preferences. I always filter myself out if a profile indicates that I should, and tailor my first message to its recipient. Sometimes I look at their history and wonder why I bother "

Verifications mean very little.

I’m straight and like single men but I have lots of veris from couples. When a couple messages me and I refer them to my profile, they get all shirty because I have veris from couples, it’s not my fault they don’t understand the verification system.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'll delete the damn message if I want to. If you don't read my profile, I'll definitely delete the damn message.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Misandry alive and kicking again

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It’s got a point where you say Fuck reading your comments if you’re only going to delete the damn message.

I don’t subscribe to this viewpoint but I have a lot of sympathy for it.

Also, looking through veris on a lot of profiles highlights that people don’t stick to their own stated preferences. I always filter myself out if a profile indicates that I should, and tailor my first message to its recipient. Sometimes I look at their history and wonder why I bother "

And the veris may well be from clubs, parties or socials. A lot of mine are. Out of my control as to who attends these events. People need to look at the content, not just the summary.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Misandry alive and kicking again"

Perhaps you'd like to reply and quote the relevant post before posting a random sentence accusing someone of this.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

That my friend is a 2 way street. Obviously I'm a straight guy as it say on my bio I've no bi side I am 100% straight and am not interested in changing that but I've often thought because of that I'm seen as a kind of challenge in some way and I'm sorry to say it but the most likely to be unwilling to except no as an answer are mostly tv/ts. I don't expect you to agree as from your post I'm presuming your the exception to this but it is true. This is purely my own opinion so I'm hoping I couse no offense.....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s got a point where you say Fuck reading your comments if you’re only going to delete the damn message.

I don’t subscribe to this viewpoint but I have a lot of sympathy for it.

Also, looking through veris on a lot of profiles highlights that people don’t stick to their own stated preferences. I always filter myself out if a profile indicates that I should, and tailor my first message to its recipient. Sometimes I look at their history and wonder why I bother

And the veris may well be from clubs, parties or socials. A lot of mine are. Out of my control as to who attends these events. People need to look at the content, not just the summary.

"

Looking at veris to judge preferences is stupid.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It’s got a point where you say Fuck reading your comments if you’re only going to delete the damn message.

I don’t subscribe to this viewpoint but I have a lot of sympathy for it.

Also, looking through veris on a lot of profiles highlights that people don’t stick to their own stated preferences. I always filter myself out if a profile indicates that I should, and tailor my first message to its recipient. Sometimes I look at their history and wonder why I bother

And the veris may well be from clubs, parties or socials. A lot of mine are. Out of my control as to who attends these events. People need to look at the content, not just the summary.

Looking at veris to judge preferences is stupid. "

Exactly my point.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've been called out on mine.

My current preferences are in my profile. If my veris contradict my profile, tough shit.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"

Men? They ?

Answer your own question as you are a man , can you read

Just think how foolish, insensitive and annoying it would be if I started a thread ,

TVs do they not understand how to block messages from men they dont want ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh theres plenty of women too.

Her 'fancy a coming round'

Me 'im taken but thanks for the offer'

Her 'yeh i wont say anything'

????

blokes are a pest...

him 'discreet bj'

Me 'no thanks im straight'

Him 'Thats why i said discreet'

*block block block*

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"It’s got a point where you say Fuck reading your comments if you’re only going to delete the damn message.

I don’t subscribe to this viewpoint but I have a lot of sympathy for it.

Also, looking through veris on a lot of profiles highlights that people don’t stick to their own stated preferences. I always filter myself out if a profile indicates that I should, and tailor my first message to its recipient. Sometimes I look at their history and wonder why I bother

And the veris may well be from clubs, parties or socials. A lot of mine are. Out of my control as to who attends these events. People need to look at the content, not just the summary.

Looking at veris to judge preferences is stupid.

Exactly my point. "

I'm also in full agreement with this. I have veri from 2 or maybe 3 tv/ts sorry I'm really not that familiar with the differences between all the different types and that a nightmare I'm not getting into but because of them veri which are from friends of mine so I wont hide them I'm often accused of lying. Well you must be lying because you've veri off these ppl. No that not true read the bloody thing they are veri from socials not private meets. Huge difference folks huge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block men then. Problem solved.

You’re welcome

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ooooh theres plenty of women too.

Her 'fancy a coming round'

Me 'im taken but thanks for the offer'

Her 'yeh i wont say anything'

????

blokes are a pest...

him 'discreet bj'

Me 'no thanks im straight'

Him 'Thats why i said discreet'

*block block block*

"

It is pervasive, isn't it?

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"So I’m pretty clear I’m straight so I’ve blocked men but still get fab’d. It’s a compliment surely?"
No its time wasting and annoying! Not a compliment at all its creepy & ignorant ..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I've been called out on mine.

My current preferences are in my profile. If my veris contradict my profile, tough shit. "

Yes, likewise, I get sick of the "you met x y z, why not me" messages. I only display a couple of recent ones now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're young and attractive, but also in a bit if a minority on here. Transgendered and only interested in women.

Also be aware your verification may tell some guys they have a chance with you.

As you've not asked for profile advice, I can't help there, but you are joining the ranks of finding the unicorn on here, single women that want to meet you. I'm sure there are and I truly hope you are successful, I've had (rarely but it does happen) women interested as a first step towards experimenting with their bisexuality, so don't lose hope "

Great advice x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've been called out on mine.

My current preferences are in my profile. If my veris contradict my profile, tough shit.

Yes, likewise, I get sick of the "you met x y z, why not me" messages. I only display a couple of recent ones now. "

I display mine, and if anyone tries to argue based on them, I block.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"It’s got a point where you say Fuck reading your comments if you’re only going to delete the damn message.

I don’t subscribe to this viewpoint but I have a lot of sympathy for it.

Also, looking through veris on a lot of profiles highlights that people don’t stick to their own stated preferences. I always filter myself out if a profile indicates that I should, and tailor my first message to its recipient. Sometimes I look at their history and wonder why I bother "

Oh good grief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooh theres plenty of women too.

Her 'fancy a coming round'

Me 'im taken but thanks for the offer'

Her 'yeh i wont say anything'

blokes are a pest...

him 'discreet bj'

Me 'no thanks im straight'

Him 'Thats why i said discreet'

*block block block*

It is pervasive, isn't it? "

Oh it really is. I just delete now rather than reply. Its expected that most men dont read or see what the want to see but didnt think women would be like it, the thing is with women most of the time it makes them want you more

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Ooooh theres plenty of women too.

Her 'fancy a coming round'

Me 'im taken but thanks for the offer'

Her 'yeh i wont say anything'

blokes are a pest...

him 'discreet bj'

Me 'no thanks im straight'

Him 'Thats why i said discreet'

*block block block*

It is pervasive, isn't it?

Oh it really is. I just delete now rather than reply. Its expected that most men dont read or see what the want to see but didnt think women would be like it, the thing is with women most of the time it makes them want you more "

Filters are your friend then if you dont want to receive messages from women. Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I can read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want"

Technically man's can read when something visually hot appealing pics in front of their eyes, part of mind which reads is blackout for few seconds and this is the dangerous time to send message.. so please lady put nom appealing pics to avoid. Advisory in public interest

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

lol a game of numbers for them! The more you say you 'don't want' that's all you get, they like the chase!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

My favourite one is "I like your profile" or "nice profile". Plus a photo that tells me that he has not even tried reading.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Seriously wondering if they can read at all as i keep getting messages from them even though it says in my bio that i dont want men. Also whats with guys that read my bio and say "i know it says no men but...", life ffs this is not what i want

Technically man's can read when something visually hot appealing pics in front of their eyes, part of mind which reads is blackout for few seconds and this is the dangerous time to send message.. so please lady put nom appealing pics to avoid. Advisory in public interest"

"Man's" is the word.

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