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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long do you chat with someone for, before meeting up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A long time "

How long lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I'm chatting to someone I want to meet them for a social asap.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It really depends. I've met someone 12 hours after the first message before, I've also been chatting to people for months before meeting. Lots of factors come into play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A long time

How long lol"

If you tell me if your balls are really blue, I’ll tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a while as i dont get much free time at the moment

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Prefer a short time, otherwise you tend to imagine what they are like, its often pretty inaccurate!

Jo x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Minimum weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends

My first meet on here I met him the next day, we spoke all day and evening and arranged for the next morning.

Second meet was a couple of months; but I had a miscarriage in those months so maybe it would have been sooner.

All my meets after that I’ve actually known them beforehand so it doesn’t really apply.

But I’ve been chatting to some people for over a year and have never met them, even though we both want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest was about 10 months, the shortest was about 2. I wanted to get to know people first and build a connection before meeting.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A long time

How long lol

If you tell me if your balls are really blue, I’ll tell you "

they've actually changed purple in this heat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A long time

How long lol

If you tell me if your balls are really blue, I’ll tell you

they've actually changed purple in this heat "

Really, are they a bit like disco balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 2 weeks.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

All depends what n circumstances, location and my limited availability. Most my meets are normally 3-6 weeks away from a date being set

Need patience and understand that’s not always possible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A long time

How long lol

If you tell me if your balls are really blue, I’ll tell you

they've actually changed purple in this heat

Really, are they a bit like disco balls "

Feels that way since joining this app lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to chat for quite a while, I would say a few months at least, to get a better feel for the lady and what she's really like. No-one hides their true self for ever..If she's interested she's happy to do that..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I admire how people can keep a conversation going.

Its never lasted long on this site for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies a lot!

There's been people I've spoken to for years before meeting. Others, days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/08/19 21:15:48]"

Lol I’ve noticed woman are giving all the advice. Try and meet asap buddy otherwise you are just a statistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/08/19 21:15:48]

Lol I’ve noticed woman are giving all the advice. Try and meet asap buddy otherwise you are just a statistic "

Isn't his mindset why so many guys are super pushy?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"[Removed by poster at 02/08/19 21:15:48]

Lol I’ve noticed woman are giving all the advice. Try and meet asap buddy otherwise you are just a statistic "

Nobody's given advice. He hasn't asked for advice, just info on how long people chat for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/08/19 21:15:48]

Lol I’ve noticed woman are giving all the advice. Try and meet asap buddy otherwise you are just a statistic

Isn't his mindset why so many guys are super pushy?"

I was joking, but men on here generally don’t decide how long things take.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/08/19 21:15:48]

Lol I’ve noticed woman are giving all the advice. Try and meet asap buddy otherwise you are just a statistic

Isn't his mindset why so many guys are super pushy?"

My mindset?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/08/19 21:15:48]

Lol I’ve noticed woman are giving all the advice. Try and meet asap buddy otherwise you are just a statistic

Nobody's given advice. He hasn't asked for advice, just info on how long people chat for. "

I was only kidding on, sorry no offence meant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/08/19 21:15:48]

Lol I’ve noticed woman are giving all the advice. Try and meet asap buddy otherwise you are just a statistic "

That's what I find, some women want to meet when they're horny and then it's all about the moment or not at all and I never hear from them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long do you chat with someone for, before meeting up? "
two weeks and two days max

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"A long time "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/08/19 21:15:48]

Lol I’ve noticed woman are giving all the advice. Try and meet asap buddy otherwise you are just a statistic

That's what I find, some women want to meet when they're horny and then it's all about the moment or not at all and I never hear from them again.

Lol that’s why I said what I said, if it’s in a pub you can gauge the situation on here it’s maybe 1 woman too 50 men so you either need thick skin or a quick brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes 5 or 6 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long do you chat with someone for, before meeting up? "

Have met people within hours or days or weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes 5 or 6 minutes "

You do have a beautiful hand so I can understand that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week I'd say. Different blokes different strokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway I’m going to the pub, I’ve maybe met maybe 30 people on here some good some bad. That’s just like life in general. I just put it down to experience and learn to see signs that won’t be for me. I can only think through my head though we’re all different x best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes 5 or 6 minutes

You do have a beautiful hand so I can understand that "

thank you my thumbs have attracted many women

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