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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am usually the one in control and can be cold hearted unless you actually know me well, then the ice maiden drops and you see the gem I can be (so I'm told way too much)

recently I met someone, turned my life upside down in a short while it was fantastic it kind of went sour, due to miscommunication both sides we split (No regrets) and yes i did like him a lot!

I had my sulk, I had a few weeks out of here not meeting and work was a tad tense and with the new job and the likes, I didn't know what I wanted..

BUT

It taught me a few things,

let the past go and enjoy it

Men/women are not the same as the past experiences, don't judge them on the other experiences

No-one is out to actually get you (its your insecurities nothing else)

I learnt that sometimes I pressure myself far far too much and i should give myself a break and kick back

So the weekend i'm going celebrating the new role and i may hit chams later and when i finish tomorrow at 13:15pm i'm off till Tuesday Morning

so what have you learnt lately?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this !!

I learnt that I worry too much about my wrinkles

I’m crap at flirting

But I’m ok

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Not to lend certain people money, when you know that you have a fart in a Jacuzzi's chance of getting it back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this !!

I learnt that I worry too much about my wrinkles

I’m crap at flirting

But I’m ok "

You keep mentioning these wrinkles but I couldn't find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I've learnt life is too short to be in a unhappy situation

I've also learnt that I'm better to communicate my wants rather than hope the other person knows

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"I am usually the one in control and can be cold hearted unless you actually know me well, then the ice maiden drops and you see the gem I can be (so I'm told way too much)

recently I met someone, turned my life upside down in a short while it was fantastic it kind of went sour, due to miscommunication both sides we split (No regrets) and yes i did like him a lot!

I had my sulk, I had a few weeks out of here not meeting and work was a tad tense and with the new job and the likes, I didn't know what I wanted..

BUT

It taught me a few things,

let the past go and enjoy it

Men/women are not the same as the past experiences, don't judge them on the other experiences

No-one is out to actually get you (its your insecurities nothing else)

I learnt that sometimes I pressure myself far far too much and i should give myself a break and kick back

So the weekend i'm going celebrating the new role and i may hit chams later and when i finish tomorrow at 13:15pm i'm off till Tuesday Morning

so what have you learnt lately?

"

Similar to yourself really and I think about it often. Nothing is permanent. When moved on, you gotta move on to. x

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

To analytical and crap at flirting too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That feelings happen even if you deny them. They just swell inside you and come out kicking and screaming.

Also that Milquetoast means bland and uninteresting.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I’ve learnt to ignore the nasty things that my boss says......he’s nothing but an arsehole and I do t deserve to be spoken to that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I can't help or stop it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this !!

I learnt that I worry too much about my wrinkles

I’m crap at flirting

But I’m ok

You keep mentioning these wrinkles but I couldn't find them "

I you

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

To never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learnt no everyone got the same heart as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve learnt not everyone got the same heart as you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learnt that second is really third or fourth long story but least i know

That others see me differently to how i see muself and i should just say yes and enjoy myself ....instead of analysing so much

That when i think im being dull as dish water..some people find me funny and i make them laugh( in a good way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve learnt no everyone got the same heart as you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The spirit is willing but the flesh - it is getting weaker.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Happiness should be grasped and held on to, because when things inevitably get tough those memories will help you cope. Don't worry about tomorrow if you're happy today, and kiss that person you love every time like it's the last time.

P.S don't forget that person in the mirror isn't all that bad either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are nice

Some aren’t

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

I’ve leaned not to worry about things the may not happen until they happen then move on

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By *sfleurWoman
over a year ago

wednesfield

You can’t please everyone all the time - go with the flow & stay strong

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

That happiness is only real when shared x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"That happiness is only real when shared x"

Do you have a Ken Dodd LP

www.youtube.com/watch?v=4a5vaIsaxB8

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people are nice

Some aren’t

"
that

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

My work has been quite stressful recently, new systems etc after a buy out. I've learnt that I can be adaptable, learn new things and train others to.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"That happiness is only real when shared x

Do you have a Ken Dodd LP

www.youtube.com/watch?v=4a5vaIsaxB8"

I can't even click the link ......I was quoting a guy called Chris McCandless

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Life goes on...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Life goes on..."

totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life goes on...

totally "

And enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't trust Facebook it's full of con artists..

I'm £100 pound down because I'm such a nice brother.

Sister moving house got scammed today by a van man on Facebook she lost her money so I decided to pay for a legit van man to do it for her.

Was up from half 6 this morning helping her pack boxes and stuff ... And the man with the van never came

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By *sgigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent


"I’ve learnt no everyone got the same heart as you "

This is me too. And I overthink things waaaay too much.

L x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can’t please everyone all the time "

This i have to tel myself alot

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

That life is a bit like a game of cards. You have no control over the hand you’re dealt, but it’s down to you how you play it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happiness should be grasped and held on to, because when things inevitably get tough those memories will help you cope. Don't worry about tomorrow if you're happy today, and kiss that person you love every time like it's the last time.

P.S don't forget that person in the mirror isn't all that bad either "

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

I have learned just to follow where things go.. Don't try to rush it or over think it. Just let it be, and enjoy every moment.

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