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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "

No it’s a term of indearment !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if it was the other way round it would be no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

No it’s a term of indearment !"

No lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

No it’s a term of indearment !"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "

It depends on his intentions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, if it was the other way round it would be no?"

That's what I was wondering tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

It depends on his intentions.

In what way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "
no but the bitch bit isn't nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "

I’d of thought it was racist

ps:the term coloured is also classed as racist

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Probably, but then 'coloured' makes it 15 all!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Probably, but then 'coloured' makes it 15 all! "

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

It's certainly not a pleasant thing to be called

'Coloured' is equally an ill choice of adjective

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "

It depends... is it true?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I’m Irish. I get called a sissy all the time. I’m not I’m a very nice pink man called paddy

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Probably, but then 'coloured' makes it 15 all! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn it round... if you called him a 'black prick' would that be a racist?

(Before i get inbox abuse i have no issue with colour/races)

Answer to your question is yes & id say its disrespectful, and im no snowflake.. infact nothing offends me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "
actually I've reconsidered yes it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to current societal language and rules he was abusive and discriminatory. The current evolution of linguistics says that the word racism/racist now can only be applied to acts upon people of colour. This used to be about systematic racism but now covers all racism.

By old definitions, yes it is racist to throw out verbal abuse, but in the flux of language and changing definitions, it counts as discriminatory abuse.

Whatever it was, it was not nice at all. I’m sorry someone said that to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I actually have no idea how to describe anyone ... and totally didn't mean it in any way racist! Would a "black gentleman" be more acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

It depends on his intentions.

Why? How can you interpret the intention?

Is she white? Yes, is she a bitch? Probably not don’t know her to call her that so why should he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And “coloured” is a racist term too.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "

It's all about in what context it was said and were you offended ?

If he was doing you doggy style while spanking your bum and pulling your hair it might be acceptable but it's always about how you see it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"According to current societal language and rules he was abusive and discriminatory. The current evolution of linguistics says that the word racism/racist now can only be applied to acts upon people of colour. This used to be about systematic racism but now covers all racism.

By old definitions, yes it is racist to throw out verbal abuse, but in the flux of language and changing definitions, it counts as discriminatory abuse.

Whatever it was, it was not nice at all. I’m sorry someone said that to you. "

Thanks for that fantastic definition! Perfect and the answer I needed!

It all confuses me tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

No it’s a term of indearment !

This."

Errrm. This was tongue in cheek. Of course it’s not nice and an insult. Block the arsehole.

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

"I actually have no idea how to describe anyone ... and totally didn't mean it in any way racist! Would a "black gentleman" be more acceptable? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh no he meant "bitch" in a derogatory way but actually called me a "white bitch"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I actually have no idea how to describe anyone ... and totally didn't mean it in any way racist! Would a "black gentleman" be more acceptable?

Yes

Thanks! I'll not be making that mistake again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

It's all about in what context it was said and were you offended ?

If he was doing you doggy style while spanking your bum and pulling your hair it might be acceptable but it's always about how you see it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably, but then 'coloured' makes it 15 all! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

I’d of thought it was racist

ps:the term coloured is also classed as racist"
you see thats where i struggle as i grew up that was what we were taught was correct then it was pakistani or jamaican its so confusing like whats the difference between coloured and person of colour then then the music guys and movies throwing around the N word to each other and then expecting kids of all races to not mimic it or the accents its a crazy mind field people need to remember the sticks and stones song unless faced with added aggression thats all of us not any one race just chill and learn folks names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking world has gone mad

I blame Cherie Blair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like common sense flew out the window just to accommodate thin skinned easily offended folks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

I’d of thought it was racist

ps:the term coloured is also classed as racistyou see thats where i struggle as i grew up that was what we were taught was correct then it was pakistani or jamaican its so confusing like whats the difference between coloured and person of colour then then the music guys and movies throwing around the N word to each other and then expecting kids of all races to not mimic it or the accents its a crazy mind field people need to remember the sticks and stones song unless faced with added aggression thats all of us not any one race just chill and learn folks names "

I know and I'm easily confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why reference your skin colour? Why not just call you a bitch? it sounds a little racist.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

100% racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

It depends on his intentions.

In what way?"

You be described him as an unknown coloured gentleman, and I often wonder where the PC rules have defined the lines of racism. Are the intentions of your words any different to his?

He's said white and You be said coloured...similar.

And if he's called you bitch without white, would it be considered offensive?

A huge grey area. Grey not intentionally being ageist By the way

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I actually have no idea how to describe anyone ... and totally didn't mean it in any way racist! Would a "black gentleman" be more acceptable? "

Why don't you just use his name rather than bring colour into it as It's a lot easier.

I don't phone up my mate at his work and ask to speak to the black guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

I’d of thought it was racist

This.

Its a confusing world for example

British - brit = non offensive

Australian - ausie = non offensive

South African- safa= non offensive

But

Nigerian - ni**a = offensive

Pakistani - pa*i = offensive

Chinese - chi*k = offensive

Yet 'ni**a' is thrown about between rappers/grime artists like wwilly nilly.

i suppose its down to how the terms been used historically,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

It depends on his intentions.

In what way?

You be described him as an unknown coloured gentleman, and I often wonder where the PC rules have defined the lines of racism. Are the intentions of your words any different to his?

He's said white and You be said coloured...similar.

And if he's called you bitch without white, would it be considered offensive?

A huge grey area. Grey not intentionally being ageist By the way

There’s no grey area about it, if it were the other way round there’d be murders

It can’t be PC for one and not the other

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

It depends on his intentions.

In what way?

You be described him as an unknown coloured gentleman, and I often wonder where the PC rules have defined the lines of racism. Are the intentions of your words any different to his?

He's said white and You be said coloured...similar.

And if he's called you bitch without white, would it be considered offensive?

A huge grey area. Grey not intentionally being ageist By the way

Oh I didn't know how to describe him but have now learned the correct way!

A stranger calling me a bitch is rude but a black gentleman actually called me a white bitch ... I'm not used to being called names tbh but that kind of shocked me! I'm not particularly upset by it just more shocked! It would never occur to me to insult someone let alone include their colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By old definitions, yes it is racist to throw out verbal abuse, but in the flux of language and changing definitions, it counts as discriminatory abuse.

Whatever it was, it was not nice at all. I’m sorry someone said that to you.

Thanks for that fantastic definition! Perfect and the answer I needed!

It all confuses me tbh "

That's just not true. Anyone can be the victim of racism, not only people of colour. Whether a term is racist or not depends on the context and the interpretation, not soley the words used. See UK Crime and Disorder Act 1998 Section 28.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Fucking world has gone mad

I blame Cherie Blair "

White bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quote the late Phil Lynott

"If someone says look at that black man " it's ok if they say "look at that black bastard" then he's offensive.... so I'd say it's context regardless of your race x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I'd call that racist. Definitely would be if you were black and he called you a black bitch!

I actually kinda pity racist people, they must be so full of hate and be really fucking thick....sad really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucking world has gone mad

I blame Cherie Blair

White bitch

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If he meant it as an insult then that's horrible. I get messages calling me a sexy bitch, they don't mean that as an insult it's just misguided. Just like using the term coloured. The tone of the rest of the message would determine if there was malice in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he meant it as an insult then that's horrible. I get messages calling me a sexy bitch, they don't mean that as an insult it's just misguided. Just like using the term coloured. The tone of the rest of the message would determine if there was malice in it. "
yes exactly if he said you sexy white bitch as a thoughtless compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us white people can't claim racism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us white people can't claim racism"
didn't you get the memo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

I’d of thought it was racist

This.

Its a confusing world for example

British - brit = non offensive

Australian - ausie = non offensive

South African- safa= non offensive

But

Nigerian - ni**a = offensive

Pakistani - pa*i = offensive

Chinese - chi*k = offensive

Yet 'ni**a' is thrown about between rappers/grime artists like wwilly nilly.

i suppose its down to how the terms been used historically, "

What drives all of this more often than not is how it's recurved or interpreted. This is the reason terms once acceptable are no longer acceptable.

The terms we use now that are seen as non offensive will become offensive and inappropriate to the coming generations.

If we were to consider more about the intentions then we would be much more on track to something being offensive.

We've slowly become an offense taken society as a way of getting recognised and listened to in a world of obsoletism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The race card can’t be used by white people allegedly. My arse! Anyone dumb enough to use a colour of a persons skin in a derogatory manner is a racist piece of shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it’s racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is coloured less offensive than white. Aren't we all coloured

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "

Yes!

Only question is, are you offended or not?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yes it's racist and anyone can be racist regardless of skin colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The current "popular" acceptable term is "person (male/female) of colour". This basically encompasses all non-white people. Championed by the Obama's, it seems to have taken hold. It can be a bit of a minefield though. I have no problem with black guy, black dude etc but I'm part Japanese and part Nigerian so "person of colour" suits best.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Yes and I don't like him for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

Yes!

Only question is, are you offended or not?"

I think clearly she was mate but didn’t know what to do with it

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Sometimes the world saddens me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

Yes!

Only question is, are you offended or not?

I think clearly she was mate but didn’t know what to do with it "

I was just really shocked tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The current "popular" acceptable term is "person (male/female) of colour". This basically encompasses all non-white people. Championed by the Obama's, it seems to have taken hold. It can be a bit of a minefield though. I have no problem with black guy, black dude etc but I'm part Japanese and part Nigerian so "person of colour" suits best."

Championed by Obama lol, says it all then. Black & White aren’t technically colours either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism."

Sorry but what a load of old bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is raciest, calling someone a White B??tch is as raciest as calling someone a Black B??tch, report them I would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually have no idea how to describe anyone ... and totally didn't mean it in any way racist! Would a "black gentleman" be more acceptable?

Yes

Thanks! I'll not be making that mistake again!

I'm really confused, your OP said he was an unknown coloured gentleman, so why is everyone assuming he's black?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe his ego was hurt when you turned him diwn..lol..racist yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist?

It depends on his intentions.

Mmm, don't think that true these days because where I work if someone overhears something like that then "intention" doesn't come in to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism.

Sorry but what a load of old bollocks "

Not according to my solicitor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism.

Sorry but what a load of old bollocks

Not according to my solicitor "
so racism towards chinese is ok then more chinese than anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism.

Sorry but what a load of old bollocks

Not according to my solicitor "
sexism cant be a thing either until theres a world wide headcount

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Its like common sense flew out the window just to accommodate thin skinned easily offended folks"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I actually have no idea how to describe anyone ... and totally didn't mean it in any way racist! Would a "black gentleman" be more acceptable?

Yes

Thanks! I'll not be making that mistake again!

I'm really confused, your OP said he was an unknown coloured gentleman, so why is everyone assuming he's black?

I meant a stranger sorry worded badly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually have no idea how to describe anyone ... and totally didn't mean it in any way racist! Would a "black gentleman" be more acceptable?

Yes

Thanks! I'll not be making that mistake again!

I'm really confused, your OP said he was an unknown coloured gentleman, so why is everyone assuming he's black?

I meant a stranger sorry worded badly! "

Ahhh now I get it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Championed by Obama lol, says it all then. Black & White aren’t technically colours either."

So do you think it's up to white people to determine how my ethnicity is described? Like them or not, the Obama's did a lot of good for people of colour in the US and around the world. It's not perfect yet, but every little helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism.

Sorry but what a load of old bollocks "

Lol indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Championed by Obama lol, says it all then. Black & White aren’t technically colours either.

Where did we say it’s ok for white people to determine what you keep referring to as ‘colour’? Think before putting finger to keyboard. Not like your luminous orange with purple and pink stars is it ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism."

What!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Championed by Obama lol, says it all then. Black & White aren’t technically colours either.

I didn't say it was ok, I was asking you that question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually have no idea how to describe anyone ... and totally didn't mean it in any way racist! Would a "black gentleman" be more acceptable?

Why don't you just use his name rather than bring colour into it as It's a lot easier.

I don't phone up my mate at his work and ask to speak to the black guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Championed by Obama lol, says it all then. Black & White aren’t technically colours either.

I didn't say it was ok, I was asking you that question."

Would it help if we brought out the speak and spell?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism.

What!?"
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Yes, it's racist, op. He's used your race in a derogatory manner to insult you, doesn't matter what colour you are, if someone does that to anyone it's a racially motivated insult and therefore racist. Report him for that it's totally unacceptable.

Mr N

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism."

Oh My God!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism."

I had to scroll back just to see who wrote that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism.

I had to scroll back just to see who wrote that

Pmsl

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Racism is a matter of opinion, what one finds hurtful another might not.

If you do find it offensive, and that's the worst that ever happens to you then you're doing well in life.

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism.

Sorry but what a load of old bollocks "

Technically right but as youost eloquently state completely wrong too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting reading confused opinions on this, some say it's racist only if you are offended others say it can be resist irrespective of offence taken.

It's not how it's taken that makes something right or wrong.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Louis Wirth defined a minority group as "a group of people who, because of their physical or cultural characteristics, are singled out from the others in the society in which they live for differential and unequal treatment, and who therefore regard themselves as objects of collective discrimination".

Racism is the belief in the superiority of one race over another. It may also include prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against other people because they are of a different race or ethnicity, or the belief that members of different races or ethnicities should be treated differently.

Discrimination means treating a person unfairly because of who they are or because they possess certain characteristics. If you have been treated differently from other people only because of who you are or because you possess certain characteristics, you may have been discriminated against.

Racism is based on a couple of things—historical, systemic oppression and power, Morgan explained. And as far as history goes, white people have never been persecuted for the colour of their skin—so there's no point comparing their experiences to those of black, brown, and Indigenous folks.

"It's slavery, colonialism, theft all kinds of violations on systemic proportions... versus feelings being hurt."

There's a difference, he noted, when white people who are in a position of power espouse a hatred of minorities than when it's done the other way around.

But Morgan said even if all people of colour straight up said they hate white people, it wouldn't affect a white person's ability to get a job, an education, or increase the odds that they'd get carded or charged for a crime. "If all white people had that view [of black people], that would have a very dramatic life impact on the material reality of all those people."

yeah c&p from several sources while i am playing an online game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Prejudice can only be against a minority, therefore as whites are a majority they cannot bea victim of racism.

Sorry but what a load of old bollocks

Not according to my solicitor so racism towards chinese is ok then more chinese than anyone"

If you're in China apparently it is

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

It’s a criminal offence in Scotland. I’ll let others advise if it is in England etc but can’t see why it should be different. And by criminal offence, I mean a racially aggravated offence. Put simply, morally (in my view) and legally, it’s racist. Mr.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Just say You Bitch!

No need colour. Easier.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "

How do you perceive it, whether something is racist, sexist abusive is down to how it is interpreted by the recipient or those who hear it if it is verbal.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Louis Wirth defined a minority group as "a group of people who, because of their physical or cultural characteristics, are singled out from the others in the society in which they live for differential and unequal treatment, and who therefore regard themselves as objects of collective discrimination".

"It's slavery, colonialism, theft all kinds of violations on systemic proportions... versus feelings being hurt."

There's a difference, he noted, when white people who are in a position of power espouse a hatred of minorities than when it's done the other way around.

yeah c&p from several sources while i am playing an online game.

Still racist....

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

If you switch it around and gave it back to him.... im sure he would shout alot more.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "

I think too many people scream racist at any given time this includes black and white folks. I wouldn't say it was racist rather rude—except if you two are into those type of play than play on. To me, racist need a bigger context.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Just like the coloured statement, some people find it rude or racist, but I did neither however if I was in a public space and you refer to me as coloured I probably will find it odd, rude or racist or just general lack of social cue.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Some people on here are crazy, white people can't be victims of racism, who comes up with this nonsense?

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

"Some people on here are crazy, white people can't be victims of racism, who comes up with this nonsense? "

There are levels especially to any minority in a group or society.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Some people on here are crazy, white people can't be victims of racism, who comes up with this nonsense?

There are levels especially to any minority in a group or society."

Agreed but to say it is impossible for a white person to be a victim of racism is ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my English teacher telling us, using white in an abusive manner is not racist as we aren't the minority.

So maybe its racist in the Caribbean, using his theory

I don't like "ist" or "ism" words, I think everyone picks out someone's attribute when abusing someone.

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By *usicman1980Man
over a year ago

malvern

You need to edit your post. Nobody us coloured.

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By *usicman1980Man
over a year ago

malvern

Actually is a proven face that a white hetro male cannot feel discrimination for the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not racist I have a coloured tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I find this happens relatively often when I tell a "person of colour" they just aren't my type. They assume it's racism. No mate... Your just effing ugly and get over yourself! Never had a similar issue with white guys, and also many trannies only into black or Asian men and white guys just accept that but if its the other way around... Oh dear!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just say You Bitch!

No need colour. Easier."

I thought that tbh just a straight forward insult from a rude person no need for anyone's colour to be brought into it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of stupidity on this thread.

Highlights being..

Nigger/Nigga.. being used in same context as Brit and Chink. Really? That makes no sense whatsoever, "Cracker" Would make a better comparison.

Ask any educated person and they'll tell you nobody should throw around the N word, whatever skin colour they have. Black Rapper, or not.

Another ridiculous comment being racism can't be applicable when committed against white people!

I've been a victim of racism, I'm white. Been in fights because Arabs and Africans took exception to me British. Made to wait longer for appointments in hospitals, civil centres and shops.. In Europe, Africa, South America and Asia.

People are racist all over the world. Some show differing levels of racism. The moment you treat someone differently based on ethnicity ALONE.. Positively or negatively.. you are displaying racist tendencies.

If said in jest? If it's roleplay? Acting? Then it's not racist.. Provided people can recognise the difference.. So best not to, unless you're sure of your audience.

I said my piece yesterday. So I'm not going into detail onto this one. Preference is who you prefer, Racist is exclusion based on ethnicity. If you want to argue about it with me on this thread, you're shit out of luck. Read yesterday's "Black or White ONLY" Thread, before responding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lot of stupidity on this thread.

Highlights being..

Nigger/Nigga.. being used in same context as Brit and Chink. Really? That makes no sense whatsoever, "Cracker" Would make a better comparison.

Ask any educated person and they'll tell you nobody should throw around the N word, whatever skin colour they have. Black Rapper, or not.

Another ridiculous comment being racism can't be applicable when committed against white people!

If said in jest? If it's roleplay? Acting? Then it's not racist.. Provided people can recognise the difference.. So best not to, unless you're sure of your audience.

It pays to learn other languages and keep quiet about it.. play dumb. People say some pretty nasty shit when they don't think you can understand them.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Definitely racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Championed by Obama lol, says it all then. Black & White aren’t technically colours either.

I didn't say it was ok, I was asking you that question.

Would it help if we brought out the speak and spell?"

There's no call to be rude, English isn't my first or even second language, I was just trying to understand your point of view.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

I see a lot of black men refer to white women as white bitches check out the veris of certain members and they say things like this dirty white bitch took my big black cock blah blah blah tbh I don’t think it is racist the original post just shows how he views women he probably says that to black women would he say that to her in the street ? Probably not but as it’s on fab it’s ok to call some one a bitch if he said that to her in a pub I think he might get a slap around the chops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's not ok.. anywhere, unless its roleplay.. in which case, it's best to make it clear it's just roleplay.

I am quite happy to roleplay things I don't do, or feel in real life...

I view women as total equals in every respect. I view all people as equals.

Yet I'll happily be Domineering, degrading and disgusting to a woman during sex.

Provided I know she knows it's just roleplay, provided I like her, provided she likes me, provided I know she thinks of herself as an equal, provided I know she knows it's just roleplay.

Would I post that kind of stuff in a veri? On my profile? In the Forum? No. I dont want the grief, dont need to explain myself, its private between her and I.

Acting out a taboo doesn't make you racist. It makes you human. In fucked up societies that don't put tibal human happiness first.. there is no wonder we have fucked up taboos we like to act out and act on.

Chasing that taboo and ONLY that taboo, simply because its taboo. May suggest some underlying.. issues. Be it sexuality, race, gender, body type, profession, whatever..

Play, explore, learn, grow..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see a lot of black men refer to white women as white bitches check out the veris of certain members and they say things like this dirty white bitch took my big black cock blah blah blah tbh I don’t think it is racist the original post just shows how he views women he probably says that to black women would he say that to her in the street ? Probably not but as it’s on fab it’s ok to call some one a bitch if he said that to her in a pub I think he might get a slap around the chops "

I never said it was on fab!

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

I never said it was on fab! "
what difference does that make ? I was just pointing out how some view others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's not ok.. anywhere, unless its roleplay.. in which case, it's best to make it clear it's just roleplay.

I am quite happy to roleplay things I don't do, or feel in real life...

I view women as total equals in every respect. I view all people as equals.

Yet I'll happily be Domineering, degrading and disgusting to a woman during sex.

Provided I know she knows it's just roleplay, provided I like her, provided she likes me, provided I know she thinks of herself as an equal, provided I know she knows it's just roleplay.

Would I post that kind of stuff in a veri? On my profile? In the Forum? No. I dont want the grief, dont need to explain myself, its private between her and I.

Chasing that taboo and ONLY that taboo, simply because its taboo. May suggest some underlying.. issues. Be it sexuality, race, gender, body type, profession, whatever..

Play, explore, learn, grow.."

Yes role play is different and I have done racial domination and degradation role play with men of many races (unsurprisingly, mainly with Turks as I'm Greek

) but of course in real life its different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreign football teams referring to english fans as hooligans racist?

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By *abbitft23Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Personally id say yes definitely.

Doesn't matter the colour or creed of the responsible party! Been called a white bitch is unacceptable unless the relationship is of the sort where that kind of talk is a kink/turn on and agreed between both parties involved.

Its derogatory and should not be accepted.

Rant over lol

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

In law anybody can be subjected to racism there does not have to be a historical context to it just a person of different race/colour acting or using language which the other person finds offensive. The key is the person on the receiving end finding it offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably, but then 'coloured' makes it 15 all! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is being called a white bitch by an unknown coloured gentleman actually racist? "

It is racist ,whether a minority or not . If Deb found it offensive and racially driven

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

What an absolute car crash of a thread! It's the worst grasp of the understandanding of racism I've ever seen on a forum, and that includes 4Chan. Astounded!!

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

For me it's just rather unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I called someone a black bitch, I'm sure I'd be labelled a racist by many on here.

When it's a black man or woman saying it about a white person then it doesn't seem to have the same affect.

Hmm i wonder why

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"If I called someone a black bitch, I'm sure I'd be labelled a racist by many on here.

When it's a black man or woman saying it about a white person then it doesn't seem to have the same affect.

Hmm i wonder why

What's your thoughts on that then, is what he said to the op racist to you? Pretty clear cut to me.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"What an absolute car crash of a thread! It's the worst grasp of the understandanding of racism I've ever seen on a forum, and that includes 4Chan. Astounded!!

Well said. Surely a community of free spirited , open minded, grown up liberated swingers are better than this?

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

wigan

I’d normally say yes, but it got me thinking.. If someone of a different race called me a “white so and so” (I left out some bad words there) I found myself asking, would I be offended? Well highly unlikely, I’d just say whatever and laugh it off, yes that’s just me and don’t expect everyone to be the same, but surely there’s some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I called someone a black bitch, I'm sure I'd be labelled a racist by many on here.

When it's a black man or woman saying it about a white person then it doesn't seem to have the same affect.

Hmm i wonder why

What's your thoughts on that then, is what he said to the op racist to you? Pretty clear cut to me.

Mr"

In a way yes it is racist. I have to say its racist, because if it was the other way around.. People would scream out racist.

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