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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

Weddings or Funerals?

This might sound odd but unless there’s been a really tragic circumstance, I generally prefer funerals. (Apart from the obvious down side that someone had to die).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re a barrel of fucking laughs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funeral every time!!

I understand exactly what you mean

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

A joint one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, both usually involve a large group of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A joint one"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean,,they tend to be better piss ups than weddings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A joint one"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Four of One and One of the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer weddings, I always can feel everyone’s sadness and cry at a funeral even if I don’t know the person well and it feels quite dramatic of me - Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not funerals thats for bluddy sure

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"A joint one

"

Murder at the ‘does anyone object’ moment would be fun.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Four of One and One of the other"

You’re so Hugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I would like funerals if I didn’t have to go to the eulogy part. Then it would be better. Both are celebrations of the most idealised part of life really, through rose coloured glasses.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Funerals. I find it depressing to think that people willingly fork out thousands for what is essentially a contract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A joint one

Murder at the ‘does anyone object’ moment would be fun. "

Is there anyone here who can think of any lawful impediment why Charlie here can’t have his head cut off?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"A joint one

Murder at the ‘does anyone object’ moment would be fun.

Is there anyone here who can think of any lawful impediment why Charlie here can’t have his head cut off? "

Nope.

*schweeeeep*

*thud*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey! Weddings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A joint one

Murder at the ‘does anyone object’ moment would be fun.

Is there anyone here who can think of any lawful impediment why Charlie here can’t have his head cut off?

Nope.

*schweeeeep*

*thud*"

Right well done everyone off to the bar!

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"You’re a barrel of fucking laughs

"

I find funerals confront me with the reality that life is short and I should live it well. I often come away inspired and or challenged.

While weddings can be fun, they seem to be expensive distractions from reality. I feel like the boy in the story of the emperor’s new clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re a barrel of fucking laughs

I find funerals confront me with the reality that life is short and I should live it well. I often come away inspired and or challenged.

While weddings can be fun, they seem to be expensive distractions from reality. I feel like the boy in the story of the emperor’s new clothes. "

Plenty of time on your hands this afternoon ??

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"You’re a barrel of fucking laughs

I find funerals confront me with the reality that life is short and I should live it well. I often come away inspired and or challenged.

While weddings can be fun, they seem to be expensive distractions from reality. I feel like the boy in the story of the emperor’s new clothes.

Plenty of time on your hands this afternoon ?? "

Hahaha, yes!! How did you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re a barrel of fucking laughs

I find funerals confront me with the reality that life is short and I should live it well. I often come away inspired and or challenged.

While weddings can be fun, they seem to be expensive distractions from reality. I feel like the boy in the story of the emperor’s new clothes.

Plenty of time on your hands this afternoon ??

Hahaha, yes!! How did you know? "

I’m a hilarious genius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good wedding. A good excuse to dress up in a pretty dress and dance the night away.

Hate funerals as means I've lost another person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weddings. I've only been to 3 funerals and they were all of close family memebers. Although some view it as a celebration of life, i see it as the realisation of never seeing that person again, spending time with them. Hugging them. Very depressing. Weddings are a celebration for a potential new future together. I'd prefer to celebrate something filled with promise, than filled with loss.

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Weddings. I've only been to 3 funerals and they were all of close family memebers. Although some view it as a celebration of life, i see it as the realisation of never seeing that person again, spending time with them. Hugging them. Very depressing. Weddings are a celebration for a potential new future together. I'd prefer to celebrate something filled with promise, than filled with loss.

Holly"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funerals.

Not the actual funeral but the wake. I think because people are emotional and are reflective then alcohol gets added it feels like such a loving environment and really inclusive.

Whereas with a wedding I don't really get emotional, I'm happy for the couple but their love doesn't capture me. I find the day drags so I drink but not enough to get d*unk, I just get tired. Plus I don't know half the people there and have no deeper connection with them like I do with those who have lost someone important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get to my age you find both to be reprehensible vanity shows

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Funerals.

Not the actual funeral but the wake. I think because people are emotional and are reflective then alcohol gets added it feels like such a loving environment and really inclusive.

Whereas with a wedding I don't really get emotional, I'm happy for the couple but their love doesn't capture me. I find the day drags so I drink but not enough to get d*unk, I just get tired. Plus I don't know half the people there and have no deeper connection with them like I do with those who have lost someone important. "

Yes, that’s what I mean.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"When you get to my age you find both to be reprehensible vanity shows "

36 is a tough age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you get to my age you find both to be reprehensible vanity shows

36 is a tough age. "

Speak up lassie

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't dislike funerals but I'd much rather a wedding.

Perhaps it's the circle of people I'm in but aside from a couple of wankfests of a society weddings, the weddings I have been to have been intimate, close friend and family affairs that celebrate the union of two people both dear to me. Or at least one who is very dear to me.

The last one I went to the entire family pitched in; it was held at the parents' pile, the auntie did the catering and it ended up with us sitting around a large fire, drinking whisky, sharing tales of uni escapades and laughing at how far we've come and remembering those who we've lost.

It was happy and filled with love and not the extravagant displays of false love and grandeur often associated with weddings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you get to my age you find both to be reprehensible vanity shows

36 is a tough age.

Speak up lassie"

You're Scottish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you get to my age you find both to be reprehensible vanity shows

36 is a tough age.

Speak up lassie

You're Scottish? "

Living here for so long rubs off

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve only been to three weddings and one of them had a lot of drama involved so will go with this. Plus there is usually a disco .

Funerals make me sad and i don’t like seeing people visably upset.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'd probably say funerals because I do like a good buffet.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Neither I dont do crowds.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Funerals, cuz I find tears make the best lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re a barrel of fucking laughs

I find funerals confront me with the reality that life is short and I should live it well. I often come away inspired and or challenged.

While weddings can be fun, they seem to be expensive distractions from reality. I feel like the boy in the story of the emperor’s new clothes. "

I agree with this. Love your description!

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