FabSwingers.com forum: Secret Fancy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On the flip side of the other thread, how do you feel if someone you flirt with/have met/plan to meet DOESN'T name you on an I fancy you thread?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavens i dont mind at all , after all its all just a bit of fun

The secret of fab is never take it to seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they know I fancy them, I wouldn’t normally say anything on the thread and wouldn’t expect them to either. I also fully expect that most of the people I really like, like me as a friend rather than fancying my pants off, so I wouldn’t expect them to mention me either. It’s a pleasant surprise if someone does.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Doesn't bother me. I am a ninja presence in the forum.....kind comment here, help the newbies out and a bit of sarcasm now and then.. but often invisible.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't mind. Sometimes I jokingly play the wounded part because it makes me almost pee myself with my obvious wit. As long as they tell me it in private my needy bitch side is sated.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It doesn’t bother me at all as personally I keep that side between me and the individual, it’s not for everyone’s eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Understandable, don't want other people getting jealous because they are meeting this hot piece of ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have someone message me asking me to name them. So I’d say ‘sure, you can name me then’ and they’d tell me no, people get too jealous if they name someone

And I’m not fussed. There’s plenty of men on the forums admit to me that they won’t admit publicly to fancying me because I’m so young

It’s probs cause I’m hated and they don’t wanna be associated with me

I’m hardly ever named, it’s all good, I’m used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fucking fabulous!!!

It matters not , the male species are a fickle old thing and their attention spans only consist of the three previous names mentioned

Now

If my ladies didn’t mention me - they’d be no cheesecake, no cocktails and no smooches

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

Gutted... i can usually not sleep for the next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to have someone message me asking me to name them. So I’d say ‘sure, you can name me then’ and they’d tell me no, people get too jealous if they name someone

And I’m not fussed. There’s plenty of men on the forums admit to me that they won’t admit publicly to fancying me because I’m so young

It’s probs cause I’m hated and they don’t wanna be associated with me

I’m hardly ever named, it’s all good, I’m used to it

I fancy you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like they left me off because they don't want others having me?

(seems rational)

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The ones that do chat to me often so doesn't bother me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heart breaks.

Then I go weep and eat cake.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I pull up my big biy pants and get over it, not that's theres much to really get over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt surprise me to be honest

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Being completly honest sometimes I have felt the odd twinge but then I slap myself and tell myself not to be so silly... I think it depends what frame of mind I'm in..

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

I have a good cry and then go shoe shopping.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Forumites are not my thing tbh.......so dsnt phase me.....

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Fortunately we haven't been in that situation. One lady we have talked about meeting responded to one of these threads in a PM and that's VERY exciting because we both like her.

So if you're reading this, I hope you are enjoying your holiday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care as long as someone tells me I'm pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care as long as someone tells me I'm pretty"

11/10 Would bang.

That do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not bothered as I assume they’re probably busy going through profiles for new people to fancy

-Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t care really. Who takes this stuff seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gutted... i can usually not sleep for the next week

Oh. Poor love. Let me be of comfort?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I try not to get involved in that stuff and assume it's for show anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care as long as someone tells me I'm pretty"

Your pretty dear chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care as long as someone tells me I'm pretty

11/10 Would bang.

That do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care as long as someone tells me I'm pretty

Your pretty dear chap

Aww thanks Taff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t matter whatsoever. The ones I fancy, I think they know I fancy them. Regardless, whether they are named on a thread or not.

Generally, I don’t like giving out names of people I’ve met/fancy. And I’m not someone to plaster names around on the forums if we’ve met.

Not my character.

...I feel a rant coming on. Going to stop myself there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the flip side of the other thread, how do you feel if someone you flirt with/have met/plan to meet DOESN'T name you on an I fancy you thread?

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sick really I'm so let down can't tell you how let down I am, so I won't even start to tell you

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

I'm more in the background and never expect to see the name pop up.... So I don't let something like that effect me... Broad shoulders and all that

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I used to have someone message me asking me to name them. So I’d say ‘sure, you can name me then’ and they’d tell me no, people get too jealous if they name someone

And I’m not fussed. There’s plenty of men on the forums admit to me that they won’t admit publicly to fancying me because I’m so young

It’s probs cause I’m hated and they don’t wanna be associated with me

I’m hardly ever named, it’s all good, I’m used to it

I'm shocked to read that you're hated!! That's a very strong word

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"On the flip side of the other thread, how do you feel if someone you flirt with/have met/plan to meet DOESN'T name you on an I fancy you thread?

Not being named on these type of threads is an "every time" occurrence.

Maybe I should try being less of a cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to have someone message me asking me to name them. So I’d say ‘sure, you can name me then’ and they’d tell me no, people get too jealous if they name someone

And I’m not fussed. There’s plenty of men on the forums admit to me that they won’t admit publicly to fancying me because I’m so young

It’s probs cause I’m hated and they don’t wanna be associated with me

I’m hardly ever named, it’s all good, I’m used to it

I'm shocked to read that you're hated!! That's a very strong word

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pumped is a strong word to

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Doesn't bother me as I'm never named anyway hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all abit silly now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha! I will call them bastards/biatches then step the flirting up a notch until they are hooked....

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never look at those kinda threads.

The people we fancy are mainly all on our friend list and we’re unfussed about connecting with more as we rarely get chance to hook up with the ones we already have.

We do occasionally get our heads turned at group socials though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm joking! I don't think I'd notice to be honest, too busy doing my own thing to worry about others!

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that fussy i fancy me so always one who does

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"We never look at those kinda threads.

The people we fancy are mainly all on our friend list and we’re unfussed about connecting with more as we rarely get chance to hook up with the ones we already have.

We do occasionally get our heads turned at group socials though

*runs off to check friends list.....

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Validated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't expect to be named.

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

"On the flip side of the other thread, how do you feel if someone you flirt with/have met/plan to meet DOESN'T name you on an I fancy you thread?

Still waiting Rubi

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

It doesn't bother me.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I wreak havoc on them.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I wreak havoc on them. "

I'm pretty safe then.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I wreak havoc on them.

I'm pretty safe then."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not disputing the reaction and posts of those that have answered. However, there are always an awful lot of butt hurt comments, moaning behind the scenes and various shades of envy knocking around as a result of the naming threads. Far too much for these answers of "not at all" to be the consensus of opinion.

Tea

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm not disputing the reaction and posts of those that have answered. However, there are always an awful lot of butt hurt comments, moaning behind the scenes and various shades of envy knocking around as a result of the naming threads. Far too much for these answers of "not at all" to be the consensus of opinion.

Tea"

Word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get a mention -even on my more well known old profile. I just learned never to expect it and when I did get a mention I must admit it would make me smile

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Honestly? It fucks me off.

Don’t go licking someone elses’s arse publicly when you’re sniffing around mine...on the quiet.

I don’t meet forum fellas so it’s not happened yet. Phew! But if it did guarantee i’d be hacked off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get mentioned on any of those threads.

I’m good with being forgotten about/ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this is a combination thread of Rubi's secret service and I fancy you threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get mentioned anymore on them threads, I see the same people getting named often. Just scroll by now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heavens i dont mind at all , after all its all just a bit of fun

The secret of fab is never take it to seriously

I agree with this fantastic man. I don't have any expectations on here and if those I flirt with through PM don't mention me on those type of threads, it doesn't really bother me. It's just fun at the end of the day and I know I'm not the only one they are sending messages to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give a shit, plenty I've mentioned who haven't responded, some have with a fuck off message

It's a pleasant surprise when someone does express their interest in you and you also like them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If I get a wink I expect a shag 2 days later, a fab on my photo means next day shag and a message means ‘right now’. It’s lovely in stevie-world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking livid, contemplate leaving but then remember how chilled I've become with age

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I make models of them out of old bits of soap and then stick pins in them whilst crying and tearing out my hair. Then I block them and delete all traces of correspondence between us. They become dead to me. DEAD I TELL YA!

Actually no one flirts with me and I don’t flirt with anyone so I’m hardly surprised I don’t get mentioned. I also don’t go on those threads dropping massive hints wanting to be named like some people either.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I make models of them out of old bits of soap and then stick pins in them whilst crying and tearing out my hair. Then I block them and delete all traces of correspondence between us. They become dead to me. DEAD I TELL YA!

How you doin’?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Nice norks.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"On the flip side of the other thread, how do you feel if someone you flirt with/have met/plan to meet DOESN'T name you on an I fancy you thread?

Just another day at the office for me ha!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I don't get mentioned, so I don't really mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get mentioned, so I don't really mind"

That's because you've got a silly name and meme location

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get mentioned, so I don't really mind

That's because you've got a silly name and meme location "

I think her name is funny - and she's cute.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Tea"

Tea as your observations have probably worked out, the majority on here saying it doesn’t bother them are not the ones you mention in your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never happened to me and it never will.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nah I'm a nobody. It's cool being able to sculk around the forums unnoticed like a ninja though.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Relieved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get mentioned, so I don't really mind

That's because you've got a silly name and meme location

I think her name is funny - and she's cute. "

It was a joke

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

It's just a bit of fun anyway.

I shall just flounce away when I don't get named in the next thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether I fancy them or not i never get named on threads from what I can see, I'm the chick on the forum sidelines stood awkwardly alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's just a bit of fun anyway.

I shall just flounce away when I don't get named in the next thread lol"

[Makes mental note to tell Chandra that she's gorgeous on the next thread]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tea

Tea as your observations have probably worked out, the majority on here saying it doesn’t bother them are not the ones you mention in your post

No of course not.

But then it would be *very* unlike fab folk to say one thing on a thread and something else in private...

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