FabSwingers.com forum: Do you dress according to your lover's specifications?

By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Inspired by threads on how (usually) men find certain looks or clothing combinations arousing.

Do you ever choose your clothing combinations because your partner finds it a turn on? Particularly unusual things or combinations you wouldn't otherwise wear?

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By *mandajane01TV/TS
over a year ago

Ballymena

"Inspired by threads on how (usually) men find certain looks or clothing combinations arousing.

Do you ever choose your clothing combinations because your partner finds it a turn on? Particularly unusual things or combinations you wouldn't otherwise wear? "

All the time

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I never do. I come in the flavours take it or leave it.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I have done in the past, or at least tried. However I have quite a personal style that if I change it up I often get it terribly wrong and look like a wally.

The short skirt and heels episode was just terrible and not to be repeated. If I hear the words "I'd love it if you wore..." then I shut it down. It ain't happening haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah lol just make sure I'm smartly dressed and clean, sure the clothes come off after a wee while on a meet anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do....I mean, I won't wear something I don't like for him, but I often ask his opinion and he will often help choose what I wear. I like that

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Well I choose for myself mainly but recently I have been inspired to wing it and see what clothes of hers fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I wear what I want.

They can take me or leave me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but my lovers know what to expect so are errrmmm prepared.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

When I was younger my boyfriends would dress me up "like a slut" and I felt fucking awful doing it. I might choose my outfits with a nod to someone's preferences, but if I'm asked to wear something particular or dress outside my comfort zone, I shut that down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never do. I come in the flavours take it or leave it. "

Same for me, I wear what I wear. I do ask Mr Cagey if he likes things sometimes but it doesn’t stop me wearing what I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Inspired by threads on how (usually) men find certain looks or clothing combinations arousing.

Do you ever choose your clothing combinations because your partner finds it a turn on? Particularly unusual things or combinations you wouldn't otherwise wear? "
yes I wear a swingdress

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I wear what I feel comfortable and confident in.

No one will tell me what to wear, been there done that and still has ramifications

If someone doesn’t like it, they know where the door is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol do I fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear what I’m comfortable in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, I like to please

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nope. Everything i do i do for myself, never for a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, sometimes I'll wear an outfit or underwear that my partner likes to see me in. I would be happy to try out outfits etc for him too if something tickled his fancy, but I'd never wear something I didn't feel comfortable in.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Nope but my lovers know what to expect so are errrmmm prepared."

I want more info now. You can’t just tease us like this we are men we need graphic descriptions.

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

Of course if it’s somthing that happens to be in my wardrobe and I’m comfortable wearing then I’ll certainly try and oblige the lady.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I wear red nail varnish if that counts?

Erm, I have done in the past. I don't think there has been anything I've felt uncomfortable wearing though that they have wanted me to wear so it hasn't been an issue for me as such. No themed outfits etc. Oh I did wear a body stocking once.

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I may wear a preferred style of underwear if it's in my selection. My outer clothes are always my own choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Inspired by threads on how (usually) men find certain looks or clothing combinations arousing.

Do you ever choose your clothing combinations because your partner finds it a turn on? Particularly unusual things or combinations you wouldn't otherwise wear? "

No. I dress for me

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

I have w conversation about what he wants me to see me in but I will dress to suit my body and always sexy with a hint of slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite enjoy dressing to please occasionally, but it’s only ever something I do for those who appreciate me and my normal style.

I would find it impossible to change who I am to meet someone’s expectations/preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol do I fuck "

i like everything you wear anyway so it works out

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I have done, because I like being pushed out of my comfort zone sometimes.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Nope. I wear what i want and if they dont like it then someone else will.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely i think its nice to make the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to,but now I dress to please myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will wear my top hat of requested

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I mostly wear what I like but this can be influenced by what the other person likes as it feels so good having them super aroused by how you look in it and unable to keep their hands off you.

Sometimes I choose outfits specifically for them for things like their birthday.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

No...

He fancies me in whatever I choose to wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I have my own style and like to wear what I like. If something a partner liked and it went with my style I may take that onboard. I wouldn’t wear something I felt uncomfortable in.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I do, I don't see anything wrong with wanting to please my partner. He does the same for me.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"When I was younger my boyfriends would dress me up "like a slut" and I felt fucking awful doing it. I might choose my outfits with a nod to someone's preferences, but if I'm asked to wear something particular or dress outside my comfort zone, I shut that down.

I quite like being dressed like a slut...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Definitely i think its nice to make the effort. "

I always make and effort but my clothes will always be my choice and not his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have w conversation about what he wants me to see me in but I will dress to suit my body and always sexy with a hint of slut "

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Definitely i think its nice to make the effort.

I always make and effort but my clothes will always be my choice and not his."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if it’s a certain colour or outfit I’ve got that he likes. But ultimately I wear what I feel confident in x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Inspired by threads on how (usually) men find certain looks or clothing combinations arousing.

Do you ever choose your clothing combinations because your partner finds it a turn on? Particularly unusual things or combinations you wouldn't otherwise wear? "

Yes and no. I try to but ultimately she tells me what to wear.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have done... When asked if I would wear a basque.. Suspenders and heels... Or my uniform... Its sexy to know the other person is turned on by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never make requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah get what you get here

usually not a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my meets recently I've been naked so no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but if they had something they'd like to see me in I'd consider it, unless it was a gimp costume or something.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

I did last night. The leopard print dress was requested and worn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but if they had something they'd like to see me in I'd consider it, unless it was a gimp costume or something. "
can I see you in dungarees and wellies please with a straw hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have normally said no, however I've found myself feeling like I'm lacking in certain areas. I know B likes a "classy lady" which couldn't be further from me, so yes, I've been looking at clothes I think he'll like to try and cover all bases I guess. Maybe that's my insecurities rearing their head.

If we're going out I normally ask him to choose from a couple of outfits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but if they had something they'd like to see me in I'd consider it, unless it was a gimp costume or something. can I see you in dungarees and wellies please with a straw hat

Only if you wear a leopard print leotard and deely boppers with penises on.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Nope... But I do know which of my outfits are his favourites and will sometimes surprise him with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but if they had something they'd like to see me in I'd consider it, unless it was a gimp costume or something. can I see you in dungarees and wellies please with a straw hat

Only if you wear a leopard print leotard and deely boppers with penises on.

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lol omg I'll only do it for you where do I find this outfit........ Lovehoney I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope... But I do know which of my outfits are his favourites and will sometimes surprise him with them

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really which one?

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I did dress to a requested theme once, but it was a funeral i was going to...

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I would have normally said no, however I've found myself feeling like I'm lacking in certain areas. I know B likes a "classy lady" which couldn't be further from me, so yes, I've been looking at clothes I think he'll like to try and cover all bases I guess. Maybe that's my insecurities rearing their head.

If we're going out I normally ask him to choose from a couple of outfits.

Come to the dark side. We have swing dresses

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

"I have done... When asked if I would wear a basque.. Suspenders and heels... Or my uniform... Its sexy to know the other person is turned on by it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we're going out I normally ask him to choose from a couple of outfits.

Come to the dark side. We have swing dresses

I adore swing dresses

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If we're going out I normally ask him to choose from a couple of outfits.

Come to the dark side. We have swing dresses

I adore swing dresses

It's one of those outfit choices where people assume you're classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to, but my man doesn't have any particular kinks that way. Would it be wrong to let a potential meet request a dress code?

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I would love to, but my man doesn't have any particular kinks that way. Would it be wrong to let a potential meet request a dress code?

As long as everyone's happy, have at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did dress to a requested theme once, but it was a funeral i was going to..."

Same for me, oh and also my job. That’s about it.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I would never request anybody to dress in a certain way in public.. in private I think anything goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear what makes me feel confident and sexy..if i don't feel good about the way i look it's not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting that the comments focus around ladies being asked by gents to wear certain outfits.

Ladies, do you never ask your men to wear something - like a particular suit you like to see them in if you are going out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting that the comments focus around ladies being asked by gents to wear certain outfits.

Ladies, do you never ask your men to wear something - like a particular suit you like to see them in if you are going out?"

I personally like a guy that has his own unique style and owns it. Wouldn’t dream of requesting anything to be worn as I like them to think for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do. I’d wear something that I know would turn him on, through choice though. If someone demanded I wear something then no chance.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Interesting that the comments focus around ladies being asked by gents to wear certain outfits.

Ladies, do you never ask your men to wear something - like a particular suit you like to see them in if you are going out?"

God no. I'd never be so presumptuous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never make requests "

I have never had a request to wear anything specific although I do make mental notes of things that potential partners say they particularly like, should I get the opportunity to meet them.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Interesting that the comments focus around ladies being asked by gents to wear certain outfits.

Ladies, do you never ask your men to wear something - like a particular suit you like to see them in if you are going out?"

No, I trust that they'll be able to dress themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never make requests

I have never had a request to wear anything specific although I do make mental notes of things that potential partners say they particularly like, should I get the opportunity to meet them."

That said I have a style of dressing and usually wear whatever I feel like, although the choice may be influenced by who I am meeting.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I try to wear shirts with the top two buttons undone ..and I have special button fly jeans

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Clothes turn me on, so I wear (girl mode) what I find sexy. If I was bought some lingerie with my style of clothing I'd consider it, also if someone said they liked an outfit I'm wearing in my pictures, no problem. However I couldn't wear something I didn't feel comfortable in or found exciting to wear.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I never make requests

I have never had a request to wear anything specific although I do make mental notes of things that potential partners say they particularly like, should I get the opportunity to meet them."

I do this, and appreciate when others do for me. But if it becomes a request, particularly outside what I own or like, the answer is no.

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