FabSwingers.com forum: The Truth ...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Behind the unread message. That sits in the inbox for days, weeks and months.

Fabbers please discuss...

I want your truth ?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

They are shite and get deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It got lost in the ether. That's why it's best to send messages hourly when they're online

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't want to read most of them, so I don't.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Behind the unread message. That sits in the inbox for days, weeks and months.

Fabbers please discuss...

I want your truth ?

You can't handle the truth.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

It is what it is. I dont have any unread messages but if people dont want to read mine then so be it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

They died.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

They are working through everyone one by one and you are number 364

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Their dog chewed the message up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw the first line of it, and could be arsed to open it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Behind the unread message. That sits in the inbox for days, weeks and months.

Fabbers please discuss...

I want your truth ?

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well if you can't write a great message, write a great profile and take great pics what does anyone expect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means they haven’t read it and it’s still in their inbox. Or they’ve read it and marked it as ‘unread’

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Behind the unread message. That sits in the inbox for days, weeks and months.

Fabbers please discuss...

I want your truth ?

You can't handle the truth."

Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me.

Try me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

...is out there somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Behind the unread message. That sits in the inbox for days, weeks and months.

Fabbers please discuss...

I want your truth ?

You can't handle the truth.

Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me.

Try me

With the truth that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They died."

I wish they would give me some idea of where I go and offer my respect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't want to read most of them, so I don't. "

Because you can

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I don't want to read most of them, so I don't.

Because you can

Because I don't want to

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Behind the unread message. That sits in the inbox for days, weeks and months.

Fabbers please discuss...

I want your truth ?

You can't handle the truth.

Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me.

Try me

With the truth that is

In our case we aren't inundated so we can keep our clean. If we're not interested we'll delete or reply with an explanation. We don't keep unread messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't want to read most of them, so I don't.

Because you can

Because I don't want to"

Who am I to question a pretty mind like yours

Because I can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can read the first couple of lines before you even open it & if nothing of interest is on it well I don’t open it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 31/07/19 16:57:48]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can read the first couple of lines before you even open it & if nothing of interest is on it well I don’t open it

So start all messages with "you've just won a free pamper day at a luxury spa..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can read the first couple of lines before you even open it & if nothing of interest is on it well I don’t open it

So start all messages with "you've just won a free pamper day at a luxury spa..."

Nah.

Start it with "I'm Chris Hemsworths doppelgänger...."

would get my attention. But woe betide you if your aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can read the first couple of lines before you even open it & if nothing of interest is on it well I don’t open it

So start all messages with "you've just won a free pamper day at a luxury spa..."

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That has been tryed “You’ve won”

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Message read but no reply

A sense of excitement just rushed through me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have unread messages in your inbox!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been unusually popular at the moment so I’ve a fair few there

I’ve not gone through them either yet

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Why worry about the unread messages... concentrate on the replied to ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of reasons.

Sometimes it's because I just can't be arsed to open and read them all.

Sometimes I'm chatting to friends or on the forums.

Sometimes I read the first line and don't want to open it.

Sometimes I do want to read it but know that it will result in a chat and I'm eithr busy or not in the mood to chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many to read and reply to, the first line didn’t catch my attention enough to want to open it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Message read but no reply

A sense of excitement just rushed through me

Do I follow up with another and risk being thought of as a pushy git or do I wait forever for reply ?

Help fabbers...

Decisions, decisions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She replied and I am lost for words ...

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Some I mark as unread to go back to and decide then if I want to reply. As done to a guy apparently 2 weeks ago and had a rather snotty message from him this evening because of it then blocked me. Didn’t know I meant so much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Message read but no reply

A sense of excitement just rushed through me

Read, deleted and no reply. Excitement turns to a sinking feeling with a wry smile.

It's fab don't take it so serious he says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which one?

It's a secret

A wise person of fab (if there is such a thing haha) ) once told me when she deletes your message. It's finished. The flame does not exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's coz I can't be arsed.

Sometimes it's coz I'm not in the mood to converse privately.

I know at times (usually if something is on my mind/tired etc) my mojo/libido is pretty much like a dodo and flirting doesn't come naturally at all during that time, so it would feel awkward and unnatural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's coz I can't be arsed.

Sometimes it's coz I'm not in the mood to converse privately.

P"
Too much of a good thing maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Breaking the unwritten rule.

F**k it what's the worst that can happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Read but not deleted

Still avoiding the 'B' word

Is there hope

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"I saw the first line of it, and could be arsed to open it."

With that in mind , is it the first line or is it a character count that we can see initially?

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