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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

What were you doing a year ago?

I had just been diagnosed with the big C so it was a life changing moment, things will never be the same as they once were, but I’m surviving cancer..

What were you doing a year ago, has anything changed your life since?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just starting to get to grips with parenthood

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I can't remember so I doubt it was anything interesting and exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill health and heartbreak.

Now I'm healthy and strong and I have faith in myself.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Ill health and heartbreak.

Now I'm healthy and strong and I have faith in myself. "

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A year ago to day was my daughters 21st so had plenty family stuff going on.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"What were you doing a year ago?

I had just been diagnosed with the big C so it was a life changing moment, things will never be the same as they once were, but I’m surviving cancer..

What were you doing a year ago, has anything changed your life since?"

Hugs to you 0P. Stay strong.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was two stone heavier and hadn’t met anyone for a very very long time

Now I’m here - a bit lighter and still not meeting a lot to be fair

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"I was two stone heavier and hadn’t met anyone for a very very long time

Now I’m here - a bit lighter and still not meeting a lot to be fair "

Looking good though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was two stone heavier and hadn’t met anyone for a very very long time

Now I’m here - a bit lighter and still not meeting a lot to be fair

Looking good though xx"

Long way to go yet ... thank you honey

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I was 3 stone heavier and had T2 diabetes

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

"A year ago to day was my daughters 21st so had plenty family stuff going on."

Snap, a year ago today was my son's 21st also !!

So happy 22nd to them both today

Rabbit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs OP,a year ago a piece of my heart was broken and life wasn't easy but with the support of family and friends today life is good again

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Hugs OP,a year ago a piece of my heart was broken and life wasn't easy but with the support of family and friends today life is good again

Sorry you had a tough time, but glad to see you’re doing ok now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This time last year I returned from Gran Canaria holiday to get back to work. This time I returned from Turkey holiday and when I got back to work I handed in my notice after I talked to my boss. Worked there since April 2012.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year ago. My mum had moved into a care home and we were just selling her home to pay for her care.

What’s changed in that year is that my mum passed away a couple of months back.

She was my best friend.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Was facing redundancy for the second time , fell hard for a lady and crashed my car. All good considering it could have been worse

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"I was 3 stone heavier and had T2 diabetes

Well done you!!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"I was 3 stone heavier and had T2 diabetes

Well done you!!

Thank you

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"A year ago. My mum had moved into a care home and we were just selling her home to pay for her care.

What’s changed in that year is that my mum passed away a couple of months back.

She was my best friend. "

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A year ago. My mum had moved into a care home and we were just selling her home to pay for her care.

What’s changed in that year is that my mum passed away a couple of months back.

She was my best friend. "

It gets better - I promise you

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Enjoying the surf

...to escape from an unhappy marriage. I've since escaped for real.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"Enjoying the surf

...to escape from an unhappy marriage. I've since escaped for real."

Wish I was in the surf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A year ago. My mum had moved into a care home and we were just selling her home to pay for her care.

What’s changed in that year is that my mum passed away a couple of months back.

She was my best friend.

It gets better - I promise you "

I hope so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs OP,a year ago a piece of my heart was broken and life wasn't easy but with the support of family and friends today life is good again

Sorry you had a tough time, but glad to see you’re doing ok now xx"

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A year ago. My mum had moved into a care home and we were just selling her home to pay for her care.

What’s changed in that year is that my mum passed away a couple of months back.

She was my best friend. "

Big hugs hun ,it's still very raw for you but in time you will smile again when you think of your mam xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you get through the battle with cancer op lost family and friends because of it.

Yet another one who’s daughter was 21 around this time last year. I had nervous breakdown so was feeling very low. Year on feeling much better and joined a gym so fitter too.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

A year ago we were just realising that that we meant more to each other than just being playmates.

We were spending more and more time together and not wanting to be apart.

B&J

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Probably working and chatting hear on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Health wasn't great.

Relationship was.

Pretty much the same now tbh...hopefully a year closer to being settled properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started a new relationship and moved into a house after nearly two years homeless, living in my vehicle or on the beach, or in the woods.. I d had a major meltdown over child issues and this was my first time within four walls in some time.. Wasn t sure how to adapt back after so long in the wilderness.. Funny a year on from moving into the house i still have quirks from my homelessness that won t go away, ny gf accepts them and all is good.. A foot in the world of houses and bills, another in the freedom of the wild places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes almost a year ago today I found religion........ Somebody gave me a bible I put it down obviously couldn't find it and there it was

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Just checked my veris and it would appear that on 31st July last year I was having hot trans-lesbian sex with another Tgirl.

And, OP, I'm another cancer survivor. 10 years ago in my case. Wish you all the best of luck from my heart darling xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was wearing my ‘Daddy’ t-shirt and videoed myself playing with myself.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Seeing day after day of a 3 month heatwave. Maybe people have forgotten all the gardens and grass we’re completely brown through lack off rain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was running a business, working way too many hours a week, burnt out and hated my own face a bit, and fighting some health issues. I’ve had a monumental year for a year where everything stopped and slowed down. My mind changed about a lot of things, lots of growth.

I’m glad you’re surviving the C xx

-Mrs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I was starting to plan a wedding, wondering about doing a course and dealing with my close friend's recent diagnosis. She's not here any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was starting to plan a wedding, wondering about doing a course and dealing with my close friend's recent diagnosis. She's not here any more."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lying on a beach wondering why the gorgeous fit Mediterranean men parading on the beach totally spoil my enjoyment by wearing a thong.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Preparing for my mums funeral and diverting myself by chatting sh@t on here.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

A year ago, I would have been parading on a Mediterranean beach in nothing but a little thong. There will have been women onlookers revelling in the moment I'm sure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A year ago, I would have been parading on a Mediterranean beach in nothing but a little thong. There will have been women onlookers revelling in the moment I'm sure..."

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Also 1 year ago separately I was diagnosed with spinal stenosis

That’s s bit of a painful bitch to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also 1 year ago separately I was diagnosed with spinal stenosis

That’s s bit of a painful bitch to be honest "

How you doing Stella? Where are you at now? Haven’t seen you on here for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the death throes of a divorce!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow.

Cant remember tbh... but to those who have said

You have lost. It will get easier give yourself time

For those with medical issue. There is love and suppport on here for you.

Forthose with relationship storys . Your on Fab soooo its all good.

Be kind to yourself folks xx

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Also 1 year ago separately I was diagnosed with spinal stenosis

That’s s bit of a painful bitch to be honest

How you doing Stella? Where are you at now? Haven’t seen you on here for a while. "

I’m good thanks Nora, having treatment on my back in a weeks time, so hopefully that’ll be sorted fingers crossed, in remission so all good so far there, put a bit of weight on which pleases the doctors but I’m not happy about it lol ...

Thanks for asking xxx

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Wow.

Cant remember tbh... but to those who have said

You have lost. It will get easier give yourself time

For those with medical issue. There is love and suppport on here for you.

Forthose with relationship storys . Your on Fab soooo its all good.

Be kind to yourself folks xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the same as tonight....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just checked my pictures .

One year ago this eveing I was watching a beautiful sunset with my best pal pooch.

He influenced my life in so many ways , I went from 17 stones back to 11 . Walked the beautiful hills and beaches here.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"I've just checked my pictures .

One year ago this eveing I was watching a beautiful sunset with my best pal pooch.

He influenced my life in so many ways , I went from 17 stones back to 11 . Walked the beautiful hills and beaches here.

Sounds perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to my records I had just returned from working three weeks in South Sudan. (sh*t hole)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going through a recent bereavement

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I think it’s important to think about how things were and think about how things are now, 12 months ago I though I was dying, everyone I knew who had what I had were either dead or terminally ill, so to have survived for now I’m eternally grateful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year ago today I decided I would learn the piano and practice everyday till I was the best I could be. I didn’t buy that piano or practice, but what I did learn is that pianos are way out of my price range.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"A year ago today I decided I would learn the piano and practice everyday till I was the best I could be. I didn’t buy that piano or practice, but what I did learn is that pianos are way out of my price range."
love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also 1 year ago separately I was diagnosed with spinal stenosis

That’s s bit of a painful bitch to be honest

How you doing Stella? Where are you at now? Haven’t seen you on here for a while.

Thanks for asking xxx"

Ah good! Positive then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year ago, I was told I had diabetes, so changed lifestyle. Started diet, started exercising, started meds, etc.

Now blood sugar is back to normal, I'm 20lb lighter (lost 4" around my waist) and I've got actual muscles - feeling much healthier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This time last year I was having a breakdown. I didn't realise at the time, I mean I knew I wasn't right but just assumed it was a blip and I'd come out the other side. It was a few more weeks before I finally broke in quite spectacular fashion and realised how unwell I had become

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last July, dad was recovering from an op for bowel cancer but had a fall and banged his head - resulting in a chronic bilateral subdural haematoma.

They rushed him to Coventry for surgery and drilled 2 holes in his skull, to relieve the pressure.

A year ago, I was driving from Chelt to Cov hospital every day, for 11 days. (Didn't tell parents about the diabetes, until 6 months later)

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By *liceinWonderland38Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

This time last year I was just coming out of a pretty significant mental health blip and realising I needed counselling after a shocking end to a marriage. Here I am now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was exactly a month away from meeting the man who temporarily restored my faith in relationships and then went on to destroy it 10 months later. I feel I had a lucky escape.

However in that time my career has been very unsettled and I lost my mum in February. So in this last year a lot has changed.

To everyone going through things I wish you well and hope you continue to get stronger.

To anyone struggling remember the small steps take us to the bigger goals.

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By *inxybWoman
over a year ago

Durham

A year ago yesterday was my husband’s funeral...it’s been a long year

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"A year ago yesterday was my husband’s funeral...it’s been a long year"

I am sorry this must be very hard for you, it’s not easy to loose loved ones.. keep strong x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was employed, around 26 weeks pregnant and just starting to show and get a little bump. I think I was travelling around Ireland this time last year actually. My life has changed a ridiculous amount now my little one is here. I was about three stone lighter too! *sigh*

Keep kicking cancers ass OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A year ago yesterday was my husband’s funeral...it’s been a long year"

Nobody can prepare you, for just how crap it feels, in that first year after losing a spouse (and the second/third, tbh).

Anniversaries can be hard but things do get better eventually.

Hope time is kind to you.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Some awful stories in this thread, but also tales of fine human spirit and defeating the odds.

This time last year I was pretty ill, in the midst of depression, anxiety and generally feeling useless.

12 months on I've done a bit of traveling, lots of self-reflection, got myself better, motivated and am 7 weeks into a new challenge that has resulted in further employment on a short term contract.

I've also lost about a stone in weight and generally feel better, although not visiting here even half as regularly as I was.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Some awful stories in this thread, but also tales of fine human spirit and defeating the odds.

This time last year I was pretty ill, in the midst of depression, anxiety and generally feeling useless.

12 months on I've done a bit of traveling, lots of self-reflection, got myself better, motivated and am 7 weeks into a new challenge that has resulted in further employment on a short term contract.

I've also lost about a stone in weight and generally feel better, although not visiting here even half as regularly as I was."

I think depression and stress were what bought on my cancer to be honest, so I know what you feel like and what you have been through

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Going by my photos...1 year ago I was having a rather nice bi mmf

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