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By *heobearjumanji OP   Man
over a year ago

london

So I'm getting back into this whole forum posting thing. I'm sure many of us have been put off fab for one reason or another. So the question is what makes one decide to come back despite all the bullshit one can find on it? (I suppose I'm looking more to women because guys let's be honest... Not many men deactivate their accounts on here hahaha)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Because despite the utter wank, sometimes you meet great people. Really great people. You have eye rolling, sheets clenching sex. You can find a good outlet to explore that really fucking odd thing that makes your toes curl in pleasure. You can talk freely about sex without adopting a more societally acceptable guise of dating and other malarkey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why'd you come back OP?

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I've had way more of a good time on here than abad time. I joined up to sign up for events, only been to one so far and hoping to go to mysecond one this month.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

For some it's just the social interaction on line for others it's the private meets and for some the club and event invites.

Why do we keep coming back? Well you just dont get this sort of like mindedness at the local cafe

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Because despite the utter wank, sometimes you meet great people. Really great people. You have eye rolling, sheets clenching sex. You can find a good outlet to explore that really fucking odd thing that makes your toes curl in pleasure. You can talk freely about sex without adopting a more societally acceptable guise of dating and other malarkey. "

I concur. Apart from I’ve never left.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Because despite the utter wank, sometimes you meet great people. Really great people. You have eye rolling, sheets clenching sex. You can find a good outlet to explore that really fucking odd thing that makes your toes curl in pleasure. You can talk freely about sex without adopting a more societally acceptable guise of dating and other malarkey.

I concur. Apart from I’ve never left. "

And ya better not we loved your photos too much

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Because despite the utter wank, sometimes you meet great people. Really great people. You have eye rolling, sheets clenching sex. You can find a good outlet to explore that really fucking odd thing that makes your toes curl in pleasure. You can talk freely about sex without adopting a more societally acceptable guise of dating and other malarkey.

I concur. Apart from I’ve never left.

And ya better not we loved your photos too much "

Is that the ones I post on here or the ones I stick on Birthday cards?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Because despite the utter wank, sometimes you meet great people. Really great people. You have eye rolling, sheets clenching sex. You can find a good outlet to explore that really fucking odd thing that makes your toes curl in pleasure. You can talk freely about sex without adopting a more societally acceptable guise of dating and other malarkey. "

This.

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

I've met amazing guys on fab. One of them became my very good friend, and we talk everyday. Even planning our holiday.

I enjoy fab, and only reason I leave, would be normal relationship with a lot of sex.

Fab is my source of entertainment, and I would come back if my "normal lifestyle" would end for some reason.

I simply learned how to avoid dickheads.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because despite the utter wank, sometimes you meet great people. Really great people. You have eye rolling, sheets clenching sex. You can find a good outlet to explore that really fucking odd thing that makes your toes curl in pleasure. You can talk freely about sex without adopting a more societally acceptable guise of dating and other malarkey.

This. "

Yep, couldn't have said it better myself

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By *heobearjumanji OP   Man
over a year ago

london

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By *heobearjumanji OP   Man
over a year ago

london

So what advice would you give someone who wanted to avoid dick heads?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So what advice would you give someone who wanted to avoid dick heads?"

You can't avoid them. Tolerate no crap, none at all. Be firm before polite. Be quick to delete and almost as quick to block. Save your sympathy for those who earn it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what advice would you give someone who wanted to avoid dick heads?"
leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what advice would you give someone who wanted to avoid dick heads?"

Don't speak to anyone in the world ever.

Other than that tough, you'll come across them. It's how you deal with them that can make or break ya.

P

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich


"Because despite the utter wank, sometimes you meet great people. Really great people. You have eye rolling, sheets clenching sex. You can find a good outlet to explore that really fucking odd thing that makes your toes curl in pleasure. You can talk freely about sex without adopting a more societally acceptable guise of dating and other malarkey. "

Exactly this!

And also have great conversations about other things with like minded people.

I haven’t left, but I have taken time out when “normal” life became difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time was a shocker, second time round i knew what to expect so was able to focus on getting the best out of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I missed being told I'm pretty. That's the only reason I came back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed being told I'm pretty. That's the only reason I came back."

But you really are

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I missed being told I'm pretty. That's the only reason I came back.

But you really are

P"

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