FabSwingers.com forum: How do I

By *hezu OP Man
over a year ago

East London

Ayy, I didn't know how many tv/ts there were in UK till I joined this site; always thought LGBT stuff was more of a USA thing.

In real life only seen one crossdresser in ilford under the bridge and (s)he's a homeless drug addict, but here I seen theres some proper ladylike ones no lie I be checking these profiles out of curiosity and I'm gobsmacked fr it's amazing.

Some of these profiles message me and I like talking to them but this is where I get stuck, how do I say i'm not interested in tv/ts?

If I say i'm interested in women is that offensive since i get that they probably would like to identify as women too

Nice site btw so many different people I wouldn't have met in my real socials.

- Reza

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Rite ok that’s cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ayy, I didn't know how many tv/ts there were in UK till I joined this site; always thought LGBT stuff was more of a USA thing.

Some of these profiles message me and I like talking to them but this is where I get stuck, how do I say i'm not interested in tv/ts?

If I say i'm interested in women is that offensive since i get that they probably would like to identify as women too

Nice site btw so many different people I wouldn't have met in my real socials.

- Reza"
Why are you showing interest and chatting to them out of interest?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Just checking out the profiles out of curiosity, gobsmacked and amazed! Go on, admit it, you're thinking about going there aren't you. Nothing wrong with that, it's all good here, pal.

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By *hezu OP Man
over a year ago

East London

"Why are you showing interest and chatting to them out of interest?

I don't like leaving messages on read and If someone's put the effort to message me ill put the same effort in regardless + most of them are nice to talk to

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By *hezu OP Man
over a year ago

East London

"Just checking out the profiles out of curiosity, gobsmacked and amazed! Go on, admit it, you're thinking about going there aren't you. Nothing wrong with that, it's all good here, pal.

Lol I been tempted by some but it's a no go for me

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Why not just block them from messaging you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LGBT people exist everywhere haha it’s not cultural. It seems you’re more curious than you’re ready to admit.

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By *hezu OP Man
over a year ago

East London

"Why not just block them from messaging you?"

Same reason I dont block guys i get chill messages sometimes

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Just checking out the profiles out of curiosity, gobsmacked and amazed! Go on, admit it, you're thinking about going there aren't you. Nothing wrong with that, it's all good here, pal.

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By *hezu OP Man
over a year ago

East London

"LGBT people exist everywhere haha it’s not cultural. It seems you’re more curious than you’re ready to admit. "

I am curious mostly from fascination that I can be tricked by clothes and makeup but the bumhole dick combo aint for me

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By *akboyMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Just say what u said, you're not interested in tv/ts, be direct so the other person is aware. Curiosity is allowed btw aha

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By *hezu OP Man
over a year ago

East London

"Just say what u said, you're not interested in tv/ts, be direct so the other person is aware. Curiosity is allowed btw aha"

I hear that

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

You know you want to, that arm just needs a little more twisting

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I too love chatting with anyone and everyone on here but don't intend to sleep with everyone, our filters and bio are almost non existent lol for this reason but you could just pop a paragraph into your bio that states happy to chat but not interested in.....then you can refer to that paragraph as an easy opt out if the messages you receive go down the wrong worm hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are in orbit to a temptation you will never escape. Chuck your phone away, escape to a monastery, go and live on the Isle of Wight,..one day soon you will be burying your boner into the tight arse of a man who looks like Kim Kardashian...

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Just say what u said, you're not interested in tv/ts, be direct so the other person is aware. Curiosity is allowed btw aha"

In that case just wait until you see the post OPs you're gonna think Christmas has come early.

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By *hezu OP Man
over a year ago

East London

"I too love chatting with anyone and everyone on here but don't intend to sleep with everyone, our filters and bio are almost non existent lol for this reason but you could just pop a paragraph into your bio that states happy to chat but not interested in.....then you can refer to that paragraph as an easy opt out if the messages you receive go down the wrong worm hole"

Ayy I appreciate that

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By *hezu OP Man
over a year ago

East London

"You are in orbit to a temptation you will never escape. Chuck your phone away, escape to a monastery, go and live on the Isle of Wight,..one day soon you will be burying your boner into the tight arse of a man who looks like Kim Kardashian..."

Loooool u got banter

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

You never know wots around the corner and life's to short not to explore, take me for instance 3 yrs ago I'd never dreamt that I would be dressing and turn bi but out of the blue and and unexplainable I'm now part time Lexi and still scratching my head but also I'd never look back now

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By *jEuphoriaCouple
over a year ago

north kent

"Ayy, I didn't know how many tv/ts there were in UK till I joined this site; always thought LGBT stuff was more of a USA thing.

Some of these profiles message me and I like talking to them but this is where I get stuck, how do I say i'm not interested in tv/ts?

If I say i'm interested in women is that offensive since i get that they probably would like to identify as women too

Nice site btw so many different people I wouldn't have met in my real socials.

- Reza"

Just be friends with both types. You only have to mention your sexual preference so everyone knows where they stand. No problem.

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By *hezu OP Man
over a year ago

East London

"You never know wots around the corner and life's to short not to explore, take me for instance 3 yrs ago I'd never dreamt that I would be dressing and turn bi but out of the blue and and unexplainable I'm now part time Lexi and still scratching my head but also I'd never look back now "

I'm happy for you, see how u said you're part time lexi thats what confuses me so do I refer to u as a guy or a girl

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By *exi_LexiTV/TS
over a year ago

caerphilly

I see your your point but as I'm on this profile tv/ts then most girls would prefer to be seen as she and not him but yeah can be a little confusing to some but I also have a male profile for when I'm not in femme x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you genuinely aren't interested just say so! Don't feel bad about it. If someone gets offended because you're not into them, that's their problem.

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