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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Since the 80s, groups of ladies, somtimes mums, aunts, daughters have held parties where sex toys and sexy clothes have been passed around, examined, discussed and ultimately bought. We have shops on the high street and in malls selling toys in all shapes and sizes for ladys to enjoy alone or with their partner.

Now it may just be my imagination, but is the whole sex toy for men industry still seen as seedy and a joke? Aww he cant get a real woman so has to make do with a toy...etc

Ladies will recommend their favourite toy to their friends.

Men, would you even admit to your best mates that you owned a fleshlight?

Im just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I lend mine out from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was d*unk probably yes.

Thing is, I don't need to spend £100 on something my hand does perfectly well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The double standards are ridiculous! Imagine a group of men all sat around comparing fleshlights and discussing who they'd imagine they were fucking when they used it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real men use their hands...failing that they use willing hands at the urinal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The double standards are ridiculous! Imagine a group of men all sat around comparing fleshlights and discussing who they'd imagine they were fucking when they used it. "

Could get awkward if one of the fellas said the other fellas mom

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


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The double standards are ridiculous! Imagine a group of men all sat around comparing fleshlights and discussing who they'd imagine they were fucking when they used it. "

Is that what women do? Ooh. I'm a little bit turned on now! Luke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Real men use their hands...failing that they use willing hands at the urinal "

So do "real women" only use their fingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men use their hands...failing that they use willing hands at the urinal

So do "real women" only use their fingers?"

Yes.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Real men use their hands...failing that they use willing hands at the urinal

So do "real women" only use their fingers?"

Dunno tbh! Does little for me when I put my own fingers inside me - or on my clit! My clit likes it much more when something is vibrating on it at several thousand times per minute!

And in answer to the op - yes I think it’s seen as far more acceptable when women buy/discuss toys than men! Men’s toys are still seen as somehow sordid - which is silly!

That being said- as a bloke you could walk round the corner of my house to my really great local - buy a pint and chat to everyone! As a woman I still can’t do that - even in 2019!

Double standards are weird and unnecessary - but sadly they’re still very much there!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

There's nothing really stopping men doing it except their own social embarrassment. I told lots of people about my fleshlight as I certainly dont see it as something to be embarrassed about.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Blackrock

I still use Henry and occasionally my dyno rod set with the spiral. I find the new sex toys for men far too inadequate I be better off with a woman’s fist than a flashlight besides I eat enough carrots so I can’t be arsed really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Real men use their hands...failing that they use willing hands at the urinal

So do "real women" only use their fingers?

Yes."

There must be thousands of "fake" women on here then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's nothing really stopping men doing it except their own social embarrassment. I told lots of people about my fleshlight as I certainly dont see it as something to be embarrassed about."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Real men use their hands...failing that they use willing hands at the urinal

So do "real women" only use their fingers?

Yes.

There must be thousands of "fake" women on here then. "

Probably a 40/60 ratio. I prefer men to toys.

Boys like toys, so it's win win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought men just sat on their hand until it goes numb so it feels like someone else

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Op, it's more likely that men, just like they do with their feelings, health and anything that they perceive will demasculate them will be kept to themselves. Women generally talk about things that matter to them. Sex is definitely an issue for men to honestly speak about in a group setting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s just that in general ladies are more social and MLM companies play on that since the first days of the Tupperware party. I don’t think men would get together to discuss boxers or thongs and fleshlights. Our toys are better and more versatile haha maybe that’s the area to focus on, lack of variety.

And the jokes go both ways, battery operated boyfriend springs to mind. Everybody knows that everybody wanks and I think post school most sensible people don’t make fun of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op, it's more likely that men, just like they do with their feelings, health and anything that they perceive will demasculate them will be kept to themselves. Women generally talk about things that matter to them. Sex is definitely an issue for men to honestly speak about in a group setting. "

I agree, it shouldn’t be hidden like everything else because of fear of not being manly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s just that in general ladies are more social and MLM companies play on that since the first days of the Tupperware party. I don’t think men would get together to discuss boxers or thongs and fleshlights. Our toys are better and more versatile haha maybe that’s the area to focus on, lack of variety.

And the jokes go both ways, battery operated boyfriend springs to mind. Everybody knows that everybody wanks and I think post school most sensible people don’t make fun of it. "

Well put!

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