FabSwingers.com forum: Friends with benefits

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are the benefits optional? Does it always have to be sex?

I'd like a friend who owns a gin distillery and likes giving foot rubs.

What would you like your benefits to be?

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

I have one and we've agreed the Friends part of the FWB comes first. Its not all about sex and there is not expectations that when we see each other we have to do anything at all.

We have great communication and are genuinely growing a friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Organising what I’m meant to do first so I don’t confuse myself.

Make tea

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Just sex for me. It’s the only thing i miss in my life at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have one and we've agreed the Friends part of the FWB comes first. Its not all about sex and there is not expectations that when we see each other we have to do anything at all.

We have great communication and are genuinely growing a friendship. "

Yessssss

The friends part is the best part.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Someone who I can go to dance festivals with .

Drink Red Wine together .

Loves Dogs.

Likes meandering along hilly walkways .

And doesn't care if I leave the toilet seat up

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

"I have one and we've agreed the Friends part of the FWB comes first. Its not all about sex and there is not expectations that when we see each other we have to do anything at all.

We have great communication and are genuinely growing a friendship.

Yessssss

The friends part is the best part. "

It definitely is, otherwise its not friends with benefits!

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

With mine, some times we just hang out, have breakfast, chat. All are benefits, but I can not lie. The sex is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one.

Her benefit is well...me.

My benefit is her and and easier work life.

It works pretty well

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Be good if they had a box at anfield, a holiday home somewhere hot and a Michelin star to there name but I'm open to offers

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By *easidegirlWoman
over a year ago

south shore

My FWB, friendship necessary, sex optional. We have the best time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have one and we've agreed the Friends part of the FWB comes first. Its not all about sex and there is not expectations that when we see each other we have to do anything at all.

We have great communication and are genuinely growing a friendship. "

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I have one and we've agreed the Friends part of the FWB comes first. Its not all about sex and there is not expectations that when we see each other we have to do anything at all.

We have great communication and are genuinely growing a friendship. "

The benefits don't always have to be sex based. My friend pushed me to apply for accreditation, he listens and sends me V photos when I need cheering up and tells me to not be a fanny. Being serious we do lots together that isn't sex based. And I like having an easy friendship with him. He also gives amazing shoulder massages.

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Would say both important. Sex and friendship. Depending on how you both get and knowing what each other wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like a friend who loves sex, rugby and cake eating.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I’d like a friend who loves sex, rugby and cake eating.

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Damn only 2 out of 3

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

A meal - in or out; a social over a glass of something; a long walk in the countryside; a massage...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I walk ,drink ,eat, laugh ,cry ,kayak and ice cream with my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

Just some hot steaming sex will do for me

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

"I have one and we've agreed the Friends part of the FWB comes first. Its not all about sex and there is not expectations that when we see each other we have to do anything at all.

We have great communication and are genuinely growing a friendship.

this!! We are supportive of each others life goals, and can discuss anything / everything. Feel low or had some good news, we give each other a call and share.

Kids driving us nuts... Have a rant!

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By *ocodoughnutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Sea of jelly and doughnuts

"I have one and we've agreed the Friends part of the FWB comes first. Its not all about sex and there is not expectations that when we see each other we have to do anything at all.

We have great communication and are genuinely growing a friendship.

I like this

Its great

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By *oxladMan
over a year ago

WORKSOP

I like the friends bit! I like to chat!

The benefits are great though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Combination of so many things, someone to laugh and cry with drink good wine with and have some fun times, be it sex or a massage or just curl up and hug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BTW the position is currently open due to my previous FWB having fucked off half way up the country and getting married to a guy who won’t share... we are still good friends though

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I reckon I've been incredibly lucky when it comes to people I've met, the relationships we've created.

Sex is great, but sharing it with someone who knows you, understands you, has seen you at your worst, supports & encourages you, lifts you up when you're down, laughs with you when you're happy

That makes things amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like a friend who loves sex, rugby and cake eating.

Playing or watching?

Lets do this.. where is the cake? Don't tell me i have to bake it again.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I think it more than just sex if you are truly friends you help each other help and support each other in good times and bad.

My FwB is helping me out with child care at this moment in time what with it being school holidays n all. If she need something fixed or transport somewhere I help her. We also do nights out cinema or drinks in town as any friends would.

If it was just sex she would not be a Friend with benefits she would be a Fuck buddy shag and forget about it until next time.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

First I'd need to find the lady friend.. that's proving very difficult... the added benefits.

Owned a fashion shop retailer type thingy so I could buy my little ladies clothes at christmas without the need to wandrr the shopping centres

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I think the usual benefits are all I require from him but I always rock up with sweets and beer - more bribery than a benefit but he hasn't realised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rockefeller's granddaughter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a friend who'll talk to me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'd like a friend who'll talk to me "

Awwwww retweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have friends

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Someone who I can go to dance festivals with .

Drink Red Wine together .

Loves Dogs.

Likes meandering along hilly walkways .

And doesn't care if I leave the toilet seat up

Christ.... are you my sister ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like a friend who'll talk to me

Awwwww retweet."
hey i would love to be your fwb lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Piss taking and moral support

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By *xmfrvnMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I'm the friend that drives. Nobody plays along when I offer them a ride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice female one with similar interests would be nice! Apply within

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Just a friend would be nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone that likes the interests I like to do for fun.

Wine tasting (never been but want to go), cocktail rooftop bars, 80’s music vibes, fine dining, spa breaks & anything else that relates to me not being at work and having good positive vibes haha

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'd like a training partner someone to cycle, swim, squash, spin go to the gym with. Not all at the same time sauna or steam rooms together. Someone who could teach me something new like surfing, diving etc.

Someone who could push my boundaries in more than one way.

So if you're reading this you know where I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone that likes the interests I like to do for fun.

Wine tasting (never been but want to go), cocktail rooftop bars, 80’s music vibes, fine dining, spa breaks & anything else that relates to me not being at work and having good positive vibes haha

I'm in for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone to chill out with and fun the same time.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I'd like someone who can have a laugh for drinks, maybe a bite to eat before going to a club & who's happy for cuddles at the end of the night. Also for vanilla fun when in free. Sex not essential. Preferably tall, stocky/bit of timber, hairy & inked, again not essential I can get my sharpies out & sort that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone that likes the interests I like to do for fun.

Wine tasting (never been but want to go), cocktail rooftop bars, 80’s music vibes, fine dining, spa breaks & anything else that relates to me not being at work and having good positive vibes haha

I'm in for that

Hey I tried to message you. But I can’t. Message me

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I’d like a friend who loves sex, rugby and cake eating.

Damn only 2 out of 3

aye and you leave the fecking loo seat up!!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reckon I've been incredibly lucky when it comes to people I've met, the relationships we've created.

Sex is great, but sharing it with someone who knows you, understands you, has seen you at your worst, supports & encourages you, lifts you up when you're down, laughs with you when you're happy

That makes things amazing

THIS...Every single day of the week!

Perfect!

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Would love a FWB who took me to dinner or flicks AFTER sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the benefits optional? Does it always have to be sex?

I'd like a friend who owns a gin distillery and likes giving foot rubs.

What would you like your benefits to be? "

'shall we' Gordon's. Gin. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love a FWB who took me to dinner or flicks AFTER sex"

Just too dam far away

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I have a friend that I have had little adventures with, theatre trips, comedy clubs, meals etc.

And another where we have walked and wild camped together as well as visited a sculpture park.

That’s as well as, not instead of, sex though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking in Sheffield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys I need to ask favour. Miss Gemini is super hot. Tried to message her but I can’t. Get her to see this message and drop me a little message please. And thanks

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

We started off as friends with benefits but then we ended up getting together.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Would love an FWB.... Meet, chat, meal now and again.... No harm in dreaming.!!

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

In the past I really wanted this but the guys just wanted sex only so to speak.. so I gave up... All your descriptions sound amazing though... Your very lucky xx

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Guys I need to ask favour. Miss Gemini is super hot. Tried to message her but I can’t. Get her to see this message and drop me a little message please. And thanks

Why can't you message her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys I need to ask favour. Miss Gemini is super hot. Tried to message her but I can’t. Get her to see this message and drop me a little message please. And thanks

Why can't you message her ?"

Currently out the age range

But said she was in for my FWB haha.

Let’s make a guys day

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Guys I need to ask favour. Miss Gemini is super hot. Tried to message her but I can’t. Get her to see this message and drop me a little message please. And thanks

Why can't you message her ?

Currently out the age range

But said she was in for my FWB haha.

Let’s make a guys day

Ahhh lady sets preferences but your forum post trumps those.. respect her profile and her preferences.. sorry dude, I'll leave this now.

Have fun.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"Guys I need to ask favour. Miss Gemini is super hot. Tried to message her but I can’t. Get her to see this message and drop me a little message please. And thanks

Why can't you message her ?

Currently out the age range

But said she was in for my FWB haha.

Let’s make a guys day

Why don't you wait until she sees this thread & let her decide if she wants to message rather than asking others to get involved?

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

"Would love a FWB who took me to dinner or flicks AFTER sex"

if you were my fwb that would definitely happen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys I need to ask favour. Miss Gemini is super hot. Tried to message her but I can’t. Get her to see this message and drop me a little message please. And thanks

Why can't you message her ?

Currently out the age range

But said she was in for my FWB haha.

Let’s make a guys day

Why don't you wait until she sees this thread & let her decide if she wants to message rather than asking others to get involved? "

It’s a bit like my mate fancies you, you are too young, I am too old, afraid I can’t help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys I need to ask favour. Miss Gemini is super hot. Tried to message her but I can’t. Get her to see this message and drop me a little message please. And thanks

Why can't you message her ?

Currently out the age range

But said she was in for my FWB haha.

Let’s make a guys day

Ahhh lady sets preferences but your forum post trumps those.. respect her profile and her preferences.. sorry dude, I'll leave this now.

Have fun.

Haha always the way. Cheers anyways pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys I need to ask favour. Miss Gemini is super hot. Tried to message her but I can’t. Get her to see this message and drop me a little message please. And thanks

Why can't you message her ?

Currently out the age range

But said she was in for my FWB haha.

Let’s make a guys day

Why don't you wait until she sees this thread & let her decide if she wants to message rather than asking others to get involved? "

Sometimes in life you can’t sit back and let opportunities go missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A massage would be great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the benefits optional? Does it always have to be sex?

I'd like a friend who owns a gin distillery and likes giving foot rubs.

What would you like your benefits to be? "
I wouldnt mind having snuggle munch n netflix benefits

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"A massage would be great!"

If only I could massage I'd offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massage would be great!

If only I could massage I'd offer "

Happy to let you try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not all about the friendship first it's a fuck buddy! Though since being on fab realise FWB should actually be called a BWF sex but with a friend better than a FB but most on here aren't actually a FWB!!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"A massage would be great!

If only I could massage I'd offer

Happy to let you try

I have a friend in Cardiff I think I should look at a trip over soon then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massage would be great!

If only I could massage I'd offer

Happy to let you try

I have a friend in Cardiff I think I should look at a trip over soon then

;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have one and we've agreed the Friends part of the FWB comes first. Its not all about sex and there is not expectations that when we see each other we have to do anything at all.

We have great communication and are genuinely growing a friendship.

Yessssss

The friends part is the best part. "

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Free gym membership, panzerotti Wednesday and movie Friday

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Cuddle buddy, someone to watch a film with, laugh, drink wine, doss about in joggers with, the person who you want to speak to when you have good or bad news, along with the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A really close friendship

No agenda

Partnership

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would love someone who would like to have little trips around UK and possibly abroad, go out for meals and cinema and other things. Gin, wine or any other tasting sounds good too and end evening with cuddles and feet or back rub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love someone who would like to have little trips around UK and possibly abroad, go out for meals and cinema and other things. Gin, wine or any other tasting sounds good too and end evening with cuddles and feet or back rub

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Sounds good apart from the feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A really close friendship

No agenda

Partnership "

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Ooh gym buddy and sci fi geek

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Ooh gym buddy and sci fi geek"

Oh and who likes to travel

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

This thread has made me smile and if I'm honeys feel a bit sad all in one. There seem to e so many people on here who've found exactly the type of arrangement I've been to find. A couple of times I've thought I have but it's never worked out.

Anyway! For me... My benefits would be pizza, gin and Netflix. Lazy Sunday morning sex then heading out for dinner. And overnight trips to different places to try a few new clubs, including ones outside of the UK.

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

An fwb is exactly what i need right now

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’d like one that does the DIY help he promises to do. My friend promises and then I get it sorted after waiting ages. Shit, it’s a ruse isn’t it?!!

Still, he’s my bestest.

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