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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi ,we quiet aware that ration of men to woman on fab is about 1000 to 1 ,but doesnt anyone else think it ironic female profiles with no pics insisting on face pic if you want a reply .If ratio was reversed not sure males would be so demanding and rude .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh puts me off messaging anyone like that. Cheeky fkrs.

Plus they'll never meet me if they see my face beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously ? If the ratio was reversed, men wouldn't insist on face photos, certain body shapes, must be available early morning til late at night, must worship cock sucking and swallowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously ? If the ratio was reversed, men wouldn't insist on face photos, certain body shapes, must be available early morning til late at night, must worship cock sucking and swallowing "

Ha ha so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never ask for a face pic without being prepared to send one back! Even if i do look like miss piggy

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think I've ever asked for one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In"

'In' what ?

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Hi ,we quiet aware that ration of men to woman on fab is about 1000 to 1 ,but doesnt anyone else think it ironic female profiles with no pics insisting on face pic if you want a reply .If ratio was reversed not sure males would be so demanding and rude ."

It may seem demanding but it’s certainly not rude. If you don’t like what they are asking then just move onto the next profile.? It’s obvious that you’re not compatible so why bother wasting your own time thinking about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ,we quiet aware that ration of men to woman on fab is about 1000 to 1 ,but doesnt anyone else think it ironic female profiles with no pics insisting on face pic if you want a reply .If ratio was reversed not sure males would be so demanding and rude ."

It may seem demanding and rude to you, but I’d rather not waste my time chatting to someone I don’t find attractive. Best get it out the way straight away so neither of us waste our time.

(Yes I have face pics public now but I sometimes don’t)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In

'In' what ?"

For the face pics

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They say you must send a face picture but they don't say you must message them. They're within their rights to ask for a picture and you're within your rights not to contact them.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"In

'In' what ?

For the face pics "

That will give you nightmares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In

'In' what ?

For the face pics

That will give you nightmares "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In

'In' what ?

For the face pics "

The thread is not suggesting people send face photos to people posting. It is asking why women insist on being sent them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In

'In' what ?

For the face pics

The thread is not suggesting people send face photos to people posting. It is asking why women insist on being sent them "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like knowing who I am chatting to, no I don’t have face pictures displayed but I always reply with one if I am sent one. I wouldn’t expect someone to keep chatting to me if I didn’t show myself. What’s the point? If the end game is to meet, then you’re gonna have to show your face...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes sense really as I don't know anyone who wants to end up in bed with the grinch

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If you don't want to send one, then just ignore the profile, quite simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever asked for one!"

Did you not ask me Sparky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't want to send one, then just ignore the profile, quite simple!"

Would you like on tho ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got no problems send my mug shot. It's nice to know who you are chatting to and also saves time if you don't like the look of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like knowing who I am chatting to, no I don’t have face pictures displayed but I always reply with one if I am sent one. I wouldn’t expect someone to keep chatting to me if I didn’t show myself. What’s the point? If the end game is to meet, then you’re gonna have to show your face..."

I’d love to see your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like sending them coz my face is beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They say you must send a face picture but they don't say you must message them. They're within their rights to ask for a picture and you're within your rights not to contact them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you cant send a face pick,yer a waste of time as far as im concerned man or women

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I don't think I've ever asked for one!

Did you not ask me Sparky lol"

Lol...shhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever asked for one!

Did you not ask me Sparky lol

Lol...shhh"

Sorry lol

I’m joking folks ....

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Maybe be, but everyone has the option to state their own terms and others if to take them terms or not. I'm sure a lot of people out there regardless of category would love to see others faces without having to reveal their face. It's just that for single women it's a buyers market and they are in a stronger position to set terms more favourable to them. Single men and couples don't have to play by those terms, that's their choice.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London


"Hi ,we quiet aware that ration of men to woman on fab is about 1000 to 1 ,but doesnt anyone else think it ironic female profiles with no pics insisting on face pic if you want a reply .If ratio was reversed not sure males would be so demanding and rude ."

I don't mind at all. I'm not rude nor demanding so just carry on with the mindset that we live an imperfect world here. Gotta see positives in the challenges.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I always send a face pic with a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always send a face pic with a message "

I wouldn't like to scare anyone without pre-warning lol.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Hi ,we quiet aware that ration of men to woman on fab is about 1000 to 1 ,but doesnt anyone else think it ironic female profiles with no pics insisting on face pic if you want a reply .If ratio was reversed not sure males would be so demanding and rude .

I don't mind at all. I'm not rude nor demanding so just carry on with the mindset that we live an imperfect world here. Gotta see positives in the challenges. "

You have a nice kit of stubble going on there just saying like.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Hi ,we quiet aware that ration of men to woman on fab is about 1000 to 1 ,but doesnt anyone else think it ironic female profiles with no pics insisting on face pic if you want a reply .If ratio was reversed not sure males would be so demanding and rude ."

I do, and my face pic is in my profile so I won't attach it, it just makes me think what they have to hide?

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By *adylydfordWoman
over a year ago

altinkum

Yes i demand a facepic with first message or i just wont answer. But i will send one back in my reply. I dont want to waste peoples time and there is just no point chatting if we are incompatable.

Im very very fussy. Im sorry i know im no oil painting myself by any stretch of the imagination but i just dont see the point in having sex just for the sake of it. I would rather go without full stop then have sex with someone i didnt find attractive.

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Seriously ? If the ratio was reversed, men wouldn't insist on face photos, certain body shapes, must be available early morning til late at night, must worship cock sucking and swallowing

Ha ha so true"

its the personality not looks, had a few couples ask me for my face pic when they sent the initial message with none of them..lol i said u do send them on a meet set up-job protection reasons only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you cant send a face pick,yer a waste of time as far as im concerned man or women"

I won't chat to them if they don't send a face pic. I don't ever send mine back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol . but so true

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm always getting asked for face pucs from blank couples and male profiles. Just to even things up as it's not gender specific.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I just think the one making first contact should send pic first.

Wouldn't necessarily do it first message but v early on, if theres no attraction then no point pursuing

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much hate over so trivial a thing.

Whether asked for or not, surely it's a good thing to attach a pic and establish an attraction from the beginning?

I'd hate to get on with someone via messaging then find out I didn't fancy him when picture swapping finally happened.

Some folk don't half over complicate this gig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know you don't HAVE to message them, right?

If you don't like something about someone's profile, ignore it. Pretend it's not there and move on. Don't understand why you'd be so bothered

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