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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A strange question but what breed dog would you recommend for two kids. They have wanted a dog for as long as they could talk. They are 12 and 9. My 9yr old suffers with anxiety and has other issues. He could really do with a friend. I'm looking for something that's easy train and not to wired by nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Collie, labs, retrievers

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Labrador x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for some pointers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any kind of working dog will be easy to train, collies, labs, spaniels, staffies all make fab family dogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my friends have young familys and have cock a poo's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you looking for some pointers ?"

Sett'er off in the right direction

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By *lipperyWhenWet1986Couple
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Labradors are best with kids, we have two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you looking for some pointers ?"

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"A few of my friends have young familys and have cock a poo's.

Those are absolutely lovely dogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a seperate note though, please rescue a dog, don't go to a breeder.

Adopt, don't shop

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"On a seperate note though, please rescue a dog, don't go to a breeder.

Adopt, don't shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few of my friends have young familys and have cock a poo's.

Those are absolutely lovely dogs

And apparently good for people with allergys as they don't really maults.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

We had a cocker spaniel when we grew up, best dog ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a seperate note though, please rescue a dog, don't go to a breeder.

Adopt, don't shop

Excellent advice!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Not wired by nature? You want a(as much as I hate to promote it) a cross breed designer dog like a cockapoo or cavachon.

Easy to train? You want a working breed.

The two attributes rarely truely coexist.

There are many other factors that you need to take in to account what you want in a dog.

Vocal?

Guard?

Dog hair shedding?

Cost of food?

Excercise needed?

Size?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"A strange question but what breed dog would you recommend for two kids. They have wanted a dog for as long as they could talk. They are 12 and 9. My 9yr old suffers with anxiety and has other issues. He could really do with a friend. I'm looking for something that's easy train and not to wired by nature."

Norwich terrier .... very family orientated only needs a little exercise ..perfect wee dogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always had German Shepherds as pets they are fantastic

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Bullmastiffs, amazing breed. Loyal, loving, obedient, protective of the family. Not the most energetic of dogs they love to be lazy but they do enjoy bursts of energy so playing with the kids, fetching ball and what not.

Takes a lot of work and patience they are puppies a lot longer than smaller breeds. But worth it. Training starts early but you'll get a whole load of love in return for your patience with them.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"A few of my friends have young familys and have cock a poo's.

Those are absolutely lovely dogs

And apparently good for people with allergys as they don't really maults."

Lively as fuck too

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By *hippy94Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Black lab mine is amazing with kids and so easy to train

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not wired by nature? You want a(as much as I hate to promote it) a cross breed designer dog like a cockapoo or cavachon.

Easy to train? You want a working breed.

The two attributes rarely truely coexist.

There are many other factors that you need to take in to account what you want in a dog.

Vocal?

Guard?

Dog hair shedding?

Cost of food?

Excercise needed?

Size? "

Vocal: Couldnt possibly be as loud as my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gentlest of dogs Labrador/golden retriever

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"We always had German Shepherds as pets they are fantastic "

Had them growing up ..easiest dog in the world to train and sooo loyal ..but need a lot of exercise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A few of my friends have young familys and have cock a poo's.

Those are absolutely lovely dogs

And apparently good for people with allergys as they don't really maults.

Lively as fuck too

My neoghbour had one and its wired to the moon. Never stops going

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"On a seperate note though, please rescue a dog, don't go to a breeder.

Adopt, don't shop

Excellent advice!"

Having worked in a rescue center it is good advice, however not always an option for some people.

There are rescues that won't rehome to families with children under a certain age. Won't rehome to people in certain accommodation. Won't rehome to people working certain hours (even with plans set in place for the dogs benefit). And all of that is before each dogs individual issues.

As much as I urge people to try a rescue, quite often people get refused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always had German Shepherds as pets they are fantastic

Had them growing up ..easiest dog in the world to train and sooo loyal ..but need a lot of exercise

I agree they are on both counts... On the bright side exercise wise they will keep the kids fit and off their phones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are going down the rescue route, please tread carefully

My last two have been rescues and have come with deep set issues

It doesn't phase me, I have adapted but with kids you might not have that flexibility

Go to a rescue that wants to re-home the right dog with the right people - sadly, not all do

It is much cheaper than buying from a breeder and more rewarding, but it can be challenging

You could, of course, consider fostering - a chance to dip your toes in without the long term commitment

You need to know how you will adapt to having a dog as much as it will need to adapt to you

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"We always had German Shepherds as pets they are fantastic

Had them growing up ..easiest dog in the world to train and sooo loyal ..but need a lot of exercise

I agree they are on both counts... On the bright side exercise wise they will keep the kids fit and off their phones "

9/10 it's more a case of the kids don't bother so the dog ends up in a shelter these days.

Because people ask opinions on which dog is the best and get people's opinions instead of doing the research on to what each individual breed needs and fits their lifestyle.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"We always had German Shepherds as pets they are fantastic

Had them growing up ..easiest dog in the world to train and sooo loyal ..but need a lot of exercise

I agree they are on both counts... On the bright side exercise wise they will keep the kids fit and off their phones "

If you can get them to walk them once the novelty wears off

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"If you are going down the rescue route, please tread carefully

My last two have been rescues and have come with deep set issues

It doesn't phase me, I have adapted but with kids you might not have that flexibility

Go to a rescue that wants to re-home the right dog with the right people - sadly, not all do

It is much cheaper than buying from a breeder and more rewarding, but it can be challenging

You could, of course, consider fostering - a chance to dip your toes in without the long term commitment

You need to know how you will adapt to having a dog as much as it will need to adapt to you"

This is the fault of the rescue. Unfortunately another problem with some rescues is they rehome dogs to homes that fit their own guidelines and not homes that fit the dogs needs (that is not a dig at you).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are going down the rescue route, please tread carefully

My last two have been rescues and have come with deep set issues

It doesn't phase me, I have adapted but with kids you might not have that flexibility

Go to a rescue that wants to re-home the right dog with the right people - sadly, not all do

It is much cheaper than buying from a breeder and more rewarding, but it can be challenging

You could, of course, consider fostering - a chance to dip your toes in without the long term commitment

You need to know how you will adapt to having a dog as much as it will need to adapt to you"

Totally agree!

My pup had so many issues and wouldn't have been suitable for a young family.

But I do believe anyone can find their perfect dog in a shelter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you are going down the rescue route, please tread carefully

My last two have been rescues and have come with deep set issues

It doesn't phase me, I have adapted but with kids you might not have that flexibility

Go to a rescue that wants to re-home the right dog with the right people - sadly, not all do

It is much cheaper than buying from a breeder and more rewarding, but it can be challenging

You could, of course, consider fostering - a chance to dip your toes in without the long term commitment

You need to know how you will adapt to having a dog as much as it will need to adapt to you"

I've been a few times to different pounds but most say we aren't suitable because of the kids. We were told we were getting a puppy but that fell through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Labradors are best with kids, we have two"

Couldn't agree more but I've found the three colours seem to have distinct traits. Brown are manic and deranged, black are very boisterous but yellow are extremely child friendly and very placid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always had German Shepherds as pets they are fantastic

Had them growing up ..easiest dog in the world to train and sooo loyal ..but need a lot of exercise

I agree they are on both counts... On the bright side exercise wise they will keep the kids fit and off their phones

If you can get them to walk them once the novelty wears off

Ooooh im familiar with that story!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are going down the rescue route, please tread carefully

My last two have been rescues and have come with deep set issues

It doesn't phase me, I have adapted but with kids you might not have that flexibility

Go to a rescue that wants to re-home the right dog with the right people - sadly, not all do

It is much cheaper than buying from a breeder and more rewarding, but it can be challenging

You could, of course, consider fostering - a chance to dip your toes in without the long term commitment

You need to know how you will adapt to having a dog as much as it will need to adapt to you

Oh I know - hence the advice

Both mine came from council shelters (Dogs Home) - no home visits, just hand your £50 over and take a dog

I wouldn't change this one snuggled into my belly right now for the world, he is my world, but he hasn't been an easy dog, in fact he's been bloody hard work

If I had 2 kids, he would have ended up back behind bars, there's nothing surer

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"We always had German Shepherds as pets they are fantastic

Had them growing up ..easiest dog in the world to train and sooo loyal ..but need a lot of exercise

I agree they are on both counts... On the bright side exercise wise they will keep the kids fit and off their phones

If you can get them to walk them once the novelty wears off

Ooooh im familiar with that story! "

Think we all are ..if you got kids n dogs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are going down the rescue route, please tread carefully

My last two have been rescues and have come with deep set issues

It doesn't phase me, I have adapted but with kids you might not have that flexibility

Go to a rescue that wants to re-home the right dog with the right people - sadly, not all do

It is much cheaper than buying from a breeder and more rewarding, but it can be challenging

You could, of course, consider fostering - a chance to dip your toes in without the long term commitment

You need to know how you will adapt to having a dog as much as it will need to adapt to you

Oh I know - hence the advice

Both mine came from council shelters (Dogs Home) - no home visits, just hand your £50 over and take a dog

I wouldn't change this one snuggled into my belly right now for the world, he is my world, but he hasn't been an easy dog, in fact he's been bloody hard work

If I had 2 kids, he would have ended up back behind bars, there's nothing surer

I'm glad you rescued him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staffordshire Bull Terrier. One of the most loyal and loving dogs around we think. They’re so much fun, and at times, hilarious. Not too bad to train either. They like a lot of attention though and love kids, they’ll join in the football games (probably burst the ball), run along side the bikes etc. Not great when left alone for long periods in the day, they can be destructive and chew though anything...but that really is only an issue when they have no company for long periods (4 hours or more). You’ll need to walk them a lot too, hence why they’re good for kids (parks etc). Sadly, plenty of them available in rescue centres and they’re usually always the last to go as people often choose to believe that they’re vicious fighting dogs. Not true. Any dog will be like that if it’s raised by animal owners. You won’t look back if you get a Bull Terrier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My youngest was scared of dogs after being knocked over by a very large dog when she was 4. We got a collie puppy just before she was 5 and he is the most laid back dog ever and he helped her get over her fear as he has always been very protective towards her. I couldn't even tickle her when she was younger as the dog would get between us and i had to stop then he would walk away

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"If you are going down the rescue route, please tread carefully

My last two have been rescues and have come with deep set issues

It doesn't phase me, I have adapted but with kids you might not have that flexibility

Go to a rescue that wants to re-home the right dog with the right people - sadly, not all do

It is much cheaper than buying from a breeder and more rewarding, but it can be challenging

You could, of course, consider fostering - a chance to dip your toes in without the long term commitment

You need to know how you will adapt to having a dog as much as it will need to adapt to you

Oh I know - hence the advice

Both mine came from council shelters (Dogs Home) - no home visits, just hand your £50 over and take a dog

I wouldn't change this one snuggled into my belly right now for the world, he is my world, but he hasn't been an easy dog, in fact he's been bloody hard work

If I had 2 kids, he would have ended up back behind bars, there's nothing surer

Indeed!

This is the thing though with the whole "don't by from a breeder" shaming, and yes it is shaming.

Families go to the lower end rescues, get given an dog with any issues. Shit goes down, dog gets sent back (or abandoned) then the family are put off from trying another rescue dog. Resulting in going to a breeder.

Which I might add, there is nothing wrong with reputable breeders. They don't churn out litters each season, they care for their dogs and go to great lengths to be sure that there are no hereditary diseases or other genetic disorders are passed on.

Backyard breeders should be avoided at all costs though. Those purely in it for money, and not the care of their dogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are going down the rescue route, please tread carefully

My last two have been rescues and have come with deep set issues

It doesn't phase me, I have adapted but with kids you might not have that flexibility

Go to a rescue that wants to re-home the right dog with the right people - sadly, not all do

It is much cheaper than buying from a breeder and more rewarding, but it can be challenging

You could, of course, consider fostering - a chance to dip your toes in without the long term commitment

You need to know how you will adapt to having a dog as much as it will need to adapt to you

Oh I know - hence the advice

Both mine came from council shelters (Dogs Home) - no home visits, just hand your £50 over and take a dog

I wouldn't change this one snuggled into my belly right now for the world, he is my world, but he hasn't been an easy dog, in fact he's been bloody hard work

If I had 2 kids, he would have ended up back behind bars, there's nothing surer

Indeed!

This is the thing though with the whole "don't by from a breeder" shaming, and yes it is shaming.

Backyard breeders should be avoided at all costs though. Those purely in it for money, and not the care of their dogs. "

For the record, I'm not shaming anyone.

I'm sharing an opinion. All kinds of dogs need homes, I don't agree with buying puppies from breeders on Facebook when there are millions of dogs who desperately need homes. If you need a specific kind of dog, you can still find that in a shelter with some extra effort.

It's up to everyone individually what they do.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"On a seperate note though, please rescue a dog, don't go to a breeder.

Adopt, don't shop

This..

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Just remember that you'll be stuck with it long after they've lost interest so make sure it's a breed you like.

I would say Labradors take some beating, I'd forget spaniels they're a bit loopy (in a good way)

It's not so much the breed it's the upbringing, I got bit by a mates chihuahua yet another mates Rottweiler licks me to death !

Visit dogs trust but be prepared to put the work in and you'll just know which one is right as they'll choose you !

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

Trouble with asking a question like this is everyone will just list their own favourites!

We’ve always had at least 2 dogs, including 2 GSDs, Samoyed, English Mastiff and an Alaskan Malamute - all have been fine with our kids from babies to teens, most have been rescues with the exception of our current GSD, it’s more a case of letting the dog choose you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any dog is a good dog if its TRAINED,,my fave is a border collie,very very clever dogs,but need loads of exercise.

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By *dontbiteunlessuaskMan
over a year ago

maryport

Any dog is easy to train, it’s what you put into them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any dog is easy to train, it’s what you put into them"

jee I hope nothing to do with yer profile pic

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We have a welsh cocker spaniel, beautiful nature, not too big, actually quite calm most of the time, doesn't moult much.

Our kids are 12 and 15, the dog is 2 and a half.

Jo x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

See if you can get on the waiting list for guide dogs that have been withdrawn from training or retired.

They are usually well trained and already good with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One little shoutout for whippets. The placid and lovely little breed who just want a cuddle on the settee and a small run or two each day. So good with kids too.

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By *p2norfolkngoodMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Beagle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Husky they are great with kids ...least mine is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One little shoutout for whippets. The placid and lovely little breed who just want a cuddle on the settee and a small run or two each day. So good with kids too. "

grew up with whippets

my grandad bred them

beautiful beings x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pedigree Golden Retriever......all day long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a few have said already a labrador is probably your best bet. There easy to train as well

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

Its great you are looking at dogs for kids" also take on board the cost. Its not cheap to keep one dog let alone two. I spent over a thousand pounds in 2 days as my dog is in stage 3 liver failure, and its going to cost me alot more in a few days" you have to take the good with the bad" dogs are great friends to have in a family and i would recomend it, but remember the high vets costs as well. Hope you find the dogs your looking for and they bring great joy as my old boy has for years.

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

dont do it dogs need so much looking after time and love .but not as much as your kids op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One little shoutout for whippets. The placid and lovely little breed who just want a cuddle on the settee and a small run or two each day. So good with kids too. "

Hear hear x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"dont do it dogs need so much looking after time and love .but not as much as your kids op "

I know they woumd happy to help out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont do it dogs need so much looking after time and love .but not as much as your kids op "

disagree,think its a wonderful thing to to for kids,introduce them to dogs,,the best pal they,ll have n loads of fun memmories

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

We have a staff, he's so chilled & great with the kids as are gsd & rottys. shitzu are brilliant with kids too if you're after a smaller dog.

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By *nerealman100Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

A Labrador is good dog to own, gives plenty of love and as long as he is fed well and walked daily there always happy

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"For the record, I'm not shaming anyone.

It's up to everyone individually what they do."

Sorry, I didn't mean you specifically, but that phrase on a general level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a lab,,dead easy to train,,very good family dogs

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By *i1971Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

Another vote here for whippets or greyhounds. Some of the softest dogs I've known and despite their lean, sporty looks, like nothing more than a walk followed by a few hours kip.

Labs are great but they do need good amounts of exercise.

Collies can be great, but will do best with their mind continually stimulated, so that's walking and training. Great for obedience training & excel at agility and flyball. They could be troublesome if not kept occupied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I detest them for their promotion of breeding breed charaterisics into dogs. The kennel club has a very good website where you put in your type of family, how active you are, what space you have etc and it comes out with a number of breeds

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

A border collie, the dog will look after the kids brilliantly. On top of that the kids will try and tire the dog out, just let the dog get used to the kids and you will be laughing.

Just panic when all of them are quiet, trouble usually follows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labrador

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Labrador are the most likely dog to bite someone, in the world. They just never savage anyone.

The best dog on the planet for kids is the Irish WolfHound, however they are big and they are expensive, have a short lifespan.

You'll probably want something like a boxer, dalmation, mastiff.

However widen your criteria, loads and loads of dogs will be good with family, and children in a family. Most are roughly the same to train. So keep adding in criteria.

Size, exercise level, size of yard, guard dog, hunting instincts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Malamute

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By *adylydfordWoman
over a year ago

altinkum

"Are you looking for some pointers ?"

Lol! God we need a laughing emoj here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the info x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I know I'm biased but ( although rare) Norwich Terriers are great with kids , easy to train , love long walks ( but not running lol), and are soooooooo loving and love kisses and belly rubs .

What more could you need

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Do not get a Chihuahua!

Although mine is wonderful, and incredibly attuned to my son who has ASD/ADHD

She damn hard work at times.

I was conned, fooled into believing a TeenyTinyDoggo would be easy to manage.

My 14st Bill mastiff was less hard work.

Even the giant floppy earred house bunny was trained better!

I do love her, I'm glad we have her, I just wish she'd do as she's told occasionaly

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Bearded Collie. Soft & friendly, gorgeous to look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Westie, they hardly shed and have a great temprement.

Or border terrier, very bright but energetic too.

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over a year ago

"I know I'm biased but ( although rare) Norwich Terriers are great with kids , easy to train , love long walks ( but not running lol), and are soooooooo loving and love kisses and belly rubs .

What more could you need

Someone to clean the shit

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over a year ago

I'd recommend a lab and golden retriever. I found my boy so easy to train and they are known for being gentle and everyone's best friend!

You do have to remember that usually with bigger breeds, they need loads of exercise or they go crazy. Oh and they can be quite strong on the lead if not trained to walk well.

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over a year ago

Oh the downside of labs is they have massive poops and it is not fun cleaning up huge poop piles three times a day.

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Golden retriever. They are bombproof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boxer

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

What you have to remember is all dogs have their own personality and traits the same as people, even siblings.

Consider your lifestyle (and family lifestyle in general) and the time you will have to devote to the dog with training and exercise. This may give you a better handle on the breed that suits you.

Assume your kids will not take any part in the care - this way if/when they do it will be a bonus. The other way around is often why dogs end up in shelters.

A rescue can be rewarding but not all will fit in with your family/lifestyle so it could be time consuming (and with a lot of travel) to find the right one.

Good luck - it will be a positive thing for your family when the new family member arrives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staffordshire bull terrier.

Voted best breed in the UK. Truely are nanny dog's who love kids. Raised correctly, they will love , cherish and protect your kids for life!

I have one and 3 English bulldogs. My staffie is the best behaved out of them all. Adores kids and all people really. Even gave my new born nephew a kiss on the cheek during their introduction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your lifestyle. If you like to be outdoors a lot I recommend a spaniel. I’ve got a springer and the kids love him

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Oh the downside of labs is they have massive poops and it is not fun cleaning up huge poop piles three times a day. "

One of The many benefits of raw feeding. They shit out a lot less waste,and more "enjoyable" to pick up due to it being solid. Not to mention only pooping once a day (twice at most)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What you have to remember is all dogs have their own personality and traits the same as people, even siblings.

Consider your lifestyle (and family lifestyle in general) and the time you will have to devote to the dog with training and exercise. This may give you a better handle on the breed that suits you.

Assume your kids will not take any part in the care - this way if/when they do it will be a bonus. The other way around is often why dogs end up in shelters.

A rescue can be rewarding but not all will fit in with your family/lifestyle so it could be time consuming (and with a lot of travel) to find the right one.

Good luck - it will be a positive thing for your family when the new family member arrives."

That's where my problem is. I work difficult hours. I have a good deal of holidays to take so considering doing that when I do get a pup.

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over a year ago

my advice is any dog,I've had(when younger),breeds and mongrels.The most important part is respect,understanding and love.This also must come from your children.

I couldnt believe I'd just read a story yesterday about a bbc documentary in 2017 where a drug user's staffy killed him(bbc crew was present).Initially when I read the news articles(some were never followed up and they talked about the breed being legal etc),turns out the fucking dog had 8 times the drug limit of cocaine and some morphine during an autopsy as the poor thing was destroyed.

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By *ugass2104Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yorkiepoo there so loving and little but can cost a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"my advice is any dog,I've had(when younger),breeds and mongrels.The most important part is respect,understanding and love.This also must come from your children.

Sounds awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jen, honestly, having read some of your comments on this thread, please think twice about getting a dog

I'm not sure you're in the right place to invest in the commitment it brings

My friend has just got a puppy

She is struggling to cope despite the fact her kids are in their mid teens, she has a hubby at home, family support and the ability to work half days twice a week

Even with all that, she is finding it difficult not to leave the pup on its own for long periods (2-4 hours)

Aside from the mopping and picking up, she is also having sleepless nights, nights of broken sleep, complaints off the neighbours about barking when it is left on its own and issues that need training out eg chewing and nipping

She planned the pups arrival so she was home for a full week after they got it, her hubby was home for the week after, she booked half days off work the week after that, her kids are staying home over the summer break and sharing the responsibility, yet still it hasn't been easy

Dogs are joyous, they bring so much fun, happiness and love but they are bloody hard work, especially as pups

The guilt of feeling you can't give your kids what they want is nothing compared to giving a dog back or handing it over to a shelter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labrador brilliant dogs I miss mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a seperate note though, please rescue a dog, don't go to a breeder.

Adopt, don't shop

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By *reemindCoolMan
over a year ago

between Barnsley and Wakefield

Husky but cant let em off the lead or a malamute,

But again need to be kept on a lead,

If you want a small dog a bichon froze or a poodle, which are actually really nice energetic dogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a seperate note though, please rescue a dog, don't go to a breeder.

Adopt, don't shop

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Cocker Spaniel. Had them for over 50 years now, a well-behaved, eager to please, loving breed. They thrive on exercise and can be picked up too. And they look sweet, with those floppy ears.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I read the first few replies and already I see that people have recommended dogs that are 1. On the breed most likely to bite list. 2. Dogs that require hours of exercise every day twice a day. 3. Dogs that require a great deal of grooming. 4. Dogs that are likely to be highly strung. 5. Not to mention the expense for all dogs. Insurance, vets fees , food , bed, blankets etc....

Take some professional advice about suitability for families and make sure you are a stay at home family cos dogs shouldn't be alone all day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I read the first few replies and already I see that people have recommended dogs that are 1. On the breed most likely to bite list. 2. Dogs that require hours of exercise every day twice a day. 3. Dogs that require a great deal of grooming. 4. Dogs that are likely to be highly strung. 5. Not to mention the expense for all dogs. Insurance, vets fees , food , bed, blankets etc....

Take some professional advice about suitability for families and make sure you are a stay at home family cos dogs shouldn't be alone all day.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labradoodle x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Are you looking for some pointers ?"

*groans*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try fostering a dog before you commit x

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We have a Cocker Spaniel and he's great with kids.

They're a nice size, very playful and love lots of attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe try fostering a dog before you commit x"

I'm on Ireland and have been looking to foster a dog for over 2 years now and still no luck.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

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"A few of my friends have young familys and have cock a poo's.

Yes a friend of mine has one plays with the grandchildren all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be Border Collies....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has to be Border Collies...."

Had them when I was younger. They are lovely dog. Fill of energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

schnauzer

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

The type of dog isn't the issue, it's the type of owner you'd be.

No such thing as a bad dog, just bad owners

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over a year ago

"The type of dog isn't the issue, it's the type of owner you'd be.

No such thing as a bad dog, just bad owners

I don't agree with that.

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over a year ago

"The type of dog isn't the issue, it's the type of owner you'd be.

No such thing as a bad dog, just bad owners

Hmmm I think that’s true to be honest.

I used to be absolutely terrified of staffies, I was bitten by one as a child. But I’ve met so many lovely ones! And I’ve met horrendous ‘nice’ dogs. It’s all about the owner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family have a German Shepard/Staffordshire bull terrier cross. The softest dog ever and brilliant with kids. Was so easy to train too, and does all sorts of fancy tricks that the kids would love. However he’s massive.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"The type of dog isn't the issue, it's the type of owner you'd be.

No such thing as a bad dog, just bad owners

I don't agree with that. "
then I’m afraid you’re wrong.

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over a year ago

"The type of dog isn't the issue, it's the type of owner you'd be.

No such thing as a bad dog, just bad owners

I don't agree with that. then I’m afraid you’re wrong. "

Growing up we had a beautiful Lab. Most amazing dog ever. She was spoiled. She turned on my sister though one day for no reason what so ever.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"The type of dog isn't the issue, it's the type of owner you'd be.

No such thing as a bad dog, just bad owners

I don't agree with that. then I’m afraid you’re wrong.

Growing up we had a beautiful Lab. Most amazing dog ever. She was spoiled. She turned on my sister though one day for no reason what so ever. "
probably because she was spoiled. Didn’t know boundaries etc etc. My point is any dogs can be bad if brought up wrong, and any dogs can be good if brought up right. I have spaniels btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tibetan Terrier

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

wigan

You need to think about the dog too, how much space you have? How much time you have to walk it if it can’t roam free? Are you planning on keeping it in or out? How used to dogs are you?

I’m afraid it’s not just matter of saying, here’s a dog to play with to the kids..

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over a year ago

"The type of dog isn't the issue, it's the type of owner you'd be.

No such thing as a bad dog, just bad owners

I don't agree with that. then I’m afraid you’re wrong.

Growing up we had a beautiful Lab. Most amazing dog ever. She was spoiled. She turned on my sister though one day for no reason what so ever. probably because she was spoiled. Didn’t know boundaries etc etc. My point is any dogs can be bad if brought up wrong, and any dogs can be good if brought up right. I have spaniels btw. "

Whilst she was spoiled she did have boundaries. My mum spent a fortune in training her. She could do very trick in the book. Was heart breaking to have to put her down but after she attacked my sister that's what the vet had wanted.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Late to the thread. Probably already suggested but Staffordshire Pitbull Terrier.

'The Nursery Dog'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well the decision has been made. My friend dog had pups and they are almost ready to go.

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west

"On a seperate note though, please rescue a dog, don't go to a breeder.

Adopt, don't shop

This

We adopted a street dog from Crete, not sure what mix he is, but he’s definitely got collie in him. He’s wonderful, so loving, it’s almost like he knows he’s in a better place. He can be mischievous but in a funny way, and we’ve not seen an ounce of aggression in him.

Don’t fall into the trap of wanting a specific thoroughbred dog, they can come with health defects and in my opinion, a mutt is more resistant.

Contact a few rescue charities, and go meet various dogs, you’ll know when you find the one that fits.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

There is only 1 answer. A staff. There are no bad dogs only bad owners. Do the dog a favour to get a rescue staff. You'll never have a better friend for you or your kids.

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