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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "

If it's a meet for a coffee and a face to face chin wag... no harm

Obligated? No ... no one is obligated to do anything when it comes to meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "

God no and I hope nobody does feel they have to!

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London

Attraction comes in many ways!

I’ve yet to meet a woman that thinks I’m drop dead gorgeous and has that instant attraction to me!

Normally they like what they see, or think I’m ‘Alright’ but it’s my personality that wins them over...

But I’d only meet if I wanted to. Never obliged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't feel obligated to meet.

However if I say I'm going to meet, then even doubts and second thoughts wouldn't stop me turning up

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Real love in the home that I live in .

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We would never feel obligated. We're unlikely to chat to people for a long time if we didn't want to meet them, unless the chat was just about some mutual interest.

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"No"
oh that's good because I have been feeling lately like I have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "
not obligated but if I liked them I wouldn’t have any hesitation going on a meet

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while not obligated but if I liked them I wouldn’t have any hesitation going on a meet "
good to know

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Not obligated but I don't mind meeting people for a drink and as friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose it depends what you're here for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "
can I ask why you asked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No .... I don’t feel ‘obliged’

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Not obligated but I don't mind meeting people for a drink and as friends. "
I would like to meet for a drink as friends but it ain't happened yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not obligated but I don't mind meeting people for a drink and as friends. I would like to meet for a drink as friends but it ain't happened yet "
awwww well I'm sure many would love to meet you

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while can I ask why you asked? "
because of late I feel like I have to because been talking a while etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while can I ask why you asked? because of late I feel like I have to because been talking a while etc "
oh please don't feel obliged everything is what you want OK and if someone is uncomfortably persistent just delete them

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while can I ask why you asked? because of late I feel like I have to because been talking a while etc oh please don't feel obliged everything is what you want OK and if someone is uncomfortably persistent just delete them "
I do delete and block them but then is the next guy doing the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you're here for yourself. If you don't want to meet someone then don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while can I ask why you asked? because of late I feel like I have to because been talking a while etc oh please don't feel obliged everything is what you want OK and if someone is uncomfortably persistent just delete them I do delete and block them but then is the next guy doing the same thing "
ahhhh OK but it doesn't matter still it's always what you want to do, you're attractive and some guys are very persistent maybe tighten your filters Taylor them more to what you want and are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while can I ask why you asked? because of late I feel like I have to because been talking a while etc oh please don't feel obliged everything is what you want OK and if someone is uncomfortably persistent just delete them I do delete and block them but then is the next guy doing the same thing ahhhh OK but it doesn't matter still it's always what you want to do, you're attractive and some guys are very persistent maybe tighten your filters Taylor them more to what you want and are looking for "
tailor jeez

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"No you're here for yourself. If you don't want to meet someone then don't. "
thank you

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "

Did it once for a coffee meet but I won't do it again. He hassled me for a week after, reckoning because we met for a social I now owed him sex. So ye won't make that mistake again.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"No oh that's good because I have been feeling lately like I have to "

You don't have to do anything you don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while

Did it once for a coffee meet but I won't do it again. He hassled me for a week after, reckoning because we met for a social I now owed him sex. So ye won't make that mistake again. "

I won't do it again promise but you do owe me a kiss

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"No oh that's good because I have been feeling lately like I have to

You don't have to do anything you don't want to."

that's good because some of the guys on here are so creepy telling me they have wanked over my pictures that dont make me wanna meet you

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while

Did it once for a coffee meet but I won't do it again. He hassled me for a week after, reckoning because we met for a social I now owed him sex. So ye won't make that mistake again. I won't do it again promise but you do owe me a kiss "

Oh go on then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while

Did it once for a coffee meet but I won't do it again. He hassled me for a week after, reckoning because we met for a social I now owed him sex. So ye won't make that mistake again. I won't do it again promise but you do owe me a kiss

Oh go on then "

Ooooh fluttery eyelashes

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Absolutely not - just because I've been talking to someone doesn't mean I'd want to meet them

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Absolutely not - just because I've been talking to someone doesn't mean I'd want to meet them"
that's what I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look I've never talked to you ever but I feel obliged to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not - just because I've been talking to someone doesn't mean I'd want to meet them"
just this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not - just because I've been talking to someone doesn't mean I'd want to meet themjust this"
I want to meet your breasts kelly can I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I wouldn’t meet anyone I didn’t fancy unless it was a social. Even then a social without any chemistry is a bit weird. I’d hate someone to meet me just because they’d been chatting to me and felt obliged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual meet or friendly meet?

Sexual no way why would you?

Friendly meet? Its up to you.

For me i dont do 'friendly meets' if i dont find the person in question a 100% type of girl whats the point? I just dont want to put myself in that position.

If i meet they have to be the 100% to consider a first meet & beyond expectations to get a second meet, and have a mind blowing connection to get a third meet.

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Sexual meet or friendly meet?

Sexual no way why would you?

Friendly meet? Its up to you.

For me i dont do 'friendly meets' if i dont find the person in question a 100% type of girl whats the point? I just dont want to put myself in that position.

If i meet they have to be the 100% to consider a first meet & beyond expectations to get a second meet, and have a mind blowing connection to get a third meet."

that's what I thought but you get those men that just like take a no for answer and keep on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not - just because I've been talking to someone doesn't mean I'd want to meet themjust thisI want to meet your breasts kelly can I "
I'll cut them off and post them ...shall i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexual meet or friendly meet?

Sexual no way why would you?

Friendly meet? Its up to you.

For me i dont do 'friendly meets' if i dont find the person in question a 100% type of girl whats the point? I just dont want to put myself in that position.

If i meet they have to be the 100% to consider a first meet & beyond expectations to get a second meet, and have a mind blowing connection to get a third meet. that's what I thought but you get those men that just like take a no for answer and keep on "

Just block them. Ive had someone ive been chatting too for a while as mates, shes nice and asked to meet quite afew times, ive said im seeing someone and not meeting she still asks and says as friends but i just dont want to put myself in the position plus i respect who im seeing too much to consider a social meet even if it is just a meet.

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Sexual meet or friendly meet?

Sexual no way why would you?

Friendly meet? Its up to you.

For me i dont do 'friendly meets' if i dont find the person in question a 100% type of girl whats the point? I just dont want to put myself in that position.

If i meet they have to be the 100% to consider a first meet & beyond expectations to get a second meet, and have a mind blowing connection to get a third meet. that's what I thought but you get those men that just like take a no for answer and keep on

Just block them. Ive had someone ive been chatting too for a while as mates, shes nice and asked to meet quite afew times, ive said im seeing someone and not meeting she still asks and says as friends but i just dont want to put myself in the position plus i respect who im seeing too much to consider a social meet even if it is just a meet."

that's good you respect the person you are seeing and good dont go there

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By *osmicplusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "

Absolutely not...

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while

Absolutely not..."

guess it's just me then lol

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By *osmicplusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while

Absolutely not... guess it's just me then lol "

You turned me down

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while

Absolutely not... guess it's just me then lol

You turned me down "

when did I turn you down hmm

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I can't even get a social never mind a meet.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It wouldn't matter how I'd been talking to someone, sometimes life gets in the way and meeting isn't possible.

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"It wouldn't matter how I'd been talking to someone, sometimes life gets in the way and meeting isn't possible. "
yeah that is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope "

Please meet me

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope

Please meet me "

We will. We are. We shall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope

Please meet me

We will. We are. We shall "

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "

I never feel obligated to do anything i dont want to do. Its my life and my time so therefore my choice. I chat to loads of men on here but only meet the ones i find sexually attractive.x

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By *isslush OP   Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while

I never feel obligated to do anything i dont want to do. Its my life and my time so therefore my choice. I chat to loads of men on here but only meet the ones i find sexually attractive.x"

I wish I could find some one I find attractive I have been talking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not - just because I've been talking to someone doesn't mean I'd want to meet themjust thisI want to meet your breasts kelly can I I'll cut them off and post them ...shall i "
really....... OK

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while

I never feel obligated to do anything i dont want to do. Its my life and my time so therefore my choice. I chat to loads of men on here but only meet the ones i find sexually attractive.xI wish I could find some one I find attractive I have been talking lol "

Message men you find attractive yourself and start chatting. Dont just wait for men to message you. Plenty hot men on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "

Have they asked you for a meet?

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Do you feel obligated to go on a meet with someone even tho you dont find them attractive but you have been talking a while "

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't meet anyone I don't want to meet.

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