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Going to a club on your own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How weird?

I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it weird for guys to go alone?

Is it weird for women to go alone too? X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Plenty do. Not weird at all unless they're weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth would it be weird?

And why would you feel like that?!

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Plenty of perfectly pleasant single guys go to clubs

They're the exact ones we happen to be looking for.

Of course plenty of not so nice guys seem to turn up too.... We just don't interact with those.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it weird for guys to go alone?

Is it weird for women to go alone too? X"
I dont really know but I just feel it would be weird for me to go alone which is why I haven't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am weird though

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

I've been to several on my own... got up the courage to... ooo .. chat with random people about random things.. never been a problem

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Why is it weird for guys to go alone?

Is it weird for women to go alone too? X I dont really know but I just feel it would be weird for me to go alone which is why I haven't"

Loads of really nice/hot guys go to clubs alone. That's what alot of single ladies are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How weird?

I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive"

Not at all.

It's how you behave in the club that matters.

I go to to clubs alone, always someone to chat too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it just recently ... Just go dude. What's the worst that could happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it weird for guys to go alone?

Is it weird for women to go alone too? X I dont really know but I just feel it would be weird for me to go alone which is why I haven't"

It's not weird at all as long as you don't turn on stalker mode and follow people about. I go alone and just chat to people. Get to know members and go from there x

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I am weird though "

A little bit

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"How weird?

I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive"
ask yourself why you would feel that way. Many single guys and girls manage to go to clubs alone without feeling rapiest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How weird?

I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo aliveask yourself why you would feel that way. Many single guys and girls manage to go to clubs alone without feeling rapiest. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be going again next week and bringing a woman along this time because she was asking about the club and if I'd go with her.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Be polite and friendly and treat people as people. Don't be predatory and people won't think you're predatory.

Nice single guys make my club experience, more often than not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face "

You go up to them and talk to them...?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"How weird?

I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive"

I go on my own with no pre-arranged meets all the time.

Doesn't feel awkward at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face

You go up to them and talk to them...? "
absolutely not! Not unless I knew them already

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By *hocolate_HeavenMan
over a year ago

Birmingham and Dubai

It’s good to go on your own. I am always learning new things about other people and myself while learning to look out for the signs. You are able to focus on them completely.

Had some great compliments from a conversation today. Definitely put a big smile on my face

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face

You go up to them and talk to them...? absolutely not! Not unless I knew them already"

That's why I go to clubs. To talk to new people.

If you can't approach then you won't get far.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I love going to clubs, it’s definitely the best place to meet people xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face

You go up to them and talk to them...? absolutely not! Not unless I knew them already

That's why I go to clubs. To talk to new people.

If you can't approach then you won't get far. "
exactly the reason I havent gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t go to a club on my own, but each to there own...... if your comfy with it, then all good

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"You go up to them and talk to them...? absolutely not! Not unless I knew them already"

Why on earth not? That's how you get to know new people.

A lot of people go to clubs to meet new people. That's what they want. They're happy to have a friendly non-pushy person approach then.

I find it easiest to join a group that's having a conversation that I feel I have something to contribute to. The hot tub or sauna are good too - you've got a small group together for other reasons, and it's natural to chat.

It's only scary if you make it scary.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"How weird?

I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive"

if that is your attitude then may i suggest that clubs are not for you..... period!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"That's what I mean I wouldnt be able to approach someone in a swingers club I'd feel like i was violating them and I know they wpuldnt approach me as I have an unapproachable face

You go up to them and talk to them...? absolutely not! Not unless I knew them already"

But why though? Do you spend your life avoiding people you don't know?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

How would it be better if you went with someone, OP? Surely you'd want to deal with other people then, too?

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Just chat... it doesn't need to be any more... there are loads of guys who go to our local club who've simply said Hi in passing... one complimented me on my dress.. guess what? I didnt run away screaming.. I said thanks.. want a cuppa?

Treat people like humans.. we'll all get on ok x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Take your point Op, I mean some of those single guys go alone, head towards the changing rooms and pretend to be women, wearing makeup, lingerie, Wigs and heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do It!! Do it ! Do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it be weird to go to a pub alone?

Clubs are easier every one there is looking to chat and meet new people

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

As long as you don't transform into one of The Wanking Dead you'll be fine

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By *hoenix_PMan
over a year ago

Penkridge

I have to say I love going to clubs. I’ve always had a great time meeting new likeminded people. Socially way more friendly and interactive than vanilla venues.

If you think that way, probably not a place you should try!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The only way you'd be predatory is if you touched me without my consent.

Talking to me is fine. I'll talk to anyone.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

It's not wierd, I have been to clubs in my own and had a great time. You just need to be chilled respectful and chatty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its great, ive met some wonderful people going alone. The only down side is the cost. It ends up being extortionate. Especially if you dont earn a lot or are self employed like myself.

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

I'll hit my first club alone this Friday. Looking forward to it actually and since I have no problem hitting bars on my own in London and meeting/chatting with folk I'll have no problem with this one. I'll need to polish up the Spanish though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How weird?

I mean come on what single guys go to clubs alone? With no one to meet there? How awkward would it be? I'd feel like the most rapiest mofo alive"

With the mask you have maybe. But you will see you won’t be alone long

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