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Is it ever acceptable to end a relationship with a text?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its you sending it, yes

If its you recieving it, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in my opinion....no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've been told to fuck off via text then it's acceptable to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course it is, if someone has been getting on your tits.

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Having been dumped by text valentines day last year, in my opinion dumping by text is a wimps way out.

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By *ellhatterMan
over a year ago

slough

v impolite imo. gut i guess tech wins lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ended my 16month "friendship" with my FB by text 2 weeks ago, i couldnt face going over to see him and to be frank.... didnt want to see him again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of yeses there.... really?

You would really not think it a cowards way out if someone couldn't even ring you up to say it?

I'm not talking about a meet here, I mean a relationship?

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I think if it's someone who has been getting 'grief' off the other partner, then yes absolutely. Normally it's hoped that people would be responsible enough to end a relationship face-to-face, but I do understand that people work in mysterious ways...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends i reckon, if its a fb / casual sort of relationship then it would be ok

If you were married / living together, might be a bit wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been dumped by text valentines day last year, in my opinion dumping by text is a wimps way out. "

i agree, my daughter got a text xmas day from her then boyfriend telling her he didnt want to see her any more, i just thought what kind of a man send a text for something like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it only once, to my sister, and I have not spoken to her since, except to send her a one-liner e-mail to congratulate on her forth-coming marriage nearly 10 years later.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Its cowardly,people deserve better whatever the type of relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By text is totally lacking in respect...as, frankly, is "dumping" anyone...

Horribly immature expression for an equally immature act..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done it once, dated a bloke for a few weeks who lived about an hour and a half away, didnt think it would be good to get him to meet me somewhere to dump him and did try to tell him on the phone but he cut me off mid sentence so I texted a very nice dear john.

Id rather be dumped by a phone conversation but wouldnt mind a text, if your being dumped theres not really much to say is there?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

its not acceptable to end a proper relationship by text unless you never had an ounce of respect for that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not acceptable to end a proper relationship by text unless you never had an ounce of respect for that person"

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Correct, I do not have much respect for my horrible sister!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

It depends on the quality, length and intensity of the relationship, I think. A proper relationship and friendship deserves more than a text, a short FB fabs type relationship could be ok with a text that said "sorry, I dont want to meet anymore" ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends on the quality, length and intensity of the relationship, I think. A proper relationship and friendship deserves more than a text, a short FB fabs type relationship could be ok with a text that said "sorry, I dont want to meet anymore" ?"

I still think its gutless, and shows a complete lack of decency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to clarify that after what I considered as an act of betrayal, my horrible sister contacted me first by text with some unpleasant words, and I responded in kind for the last time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to clarify that after what I considered as an act of betrayal, my horrible sister contacted me first by text with some unpleasant words, and I responded in kind for the last time.

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I would like to clarify, that I wasn't making a personal critisism, Pearl, I mean a romantic relationship where you see each other, speak regularly on the phone, and then bang, out of the blue- a "Dear John" text!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't a right or wrong way to end a relationship - there is only your way, and each of us do what we feel is appropriate under the circumstances.

For example, if you've simply gone off someone but they're basically a nice person you may want to keep the friendship but not the sex, so you end the sexual part of that relationship face to face. If however, you want to end a relationship with someone who has shown the beginnings of possessiveness or even someone who could turn nasty, you won't want to do that face to face for safety reasons.

What works for you is the right way. That may not be right for the person on the receiving end but you can't live their life for them and they have to deal with it with whatever self preservation mechanisms they have in place.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

i'll let you's know in a minute.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"There isn't a right or wrong way to end a relationship - there is only your way, and each of us do what we feel is appropriate under the circumstances.

For example, if you've simply gone off someone but they're basically a nice person you may want to keep the friendship but not the sex, so you end the sexual part of that relationship face to face. If however, you want to end a relationship with someone who has shown the beginnings of possessiveness or even someone who could turn nasty, you won't want to do that face to face for safety reasons.

What works for you is the right way. That may not be right for the person on the receiving end but you can't live their life for them and they have to deal with it with whatever self preservation mechanisms they have in place."

It's okay if it's quill on parchment sealed with wax, so I guess a text is just a quicker equivalent.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


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Must be, it's just been done on Benidorm lol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"i'll let you's know in a minute. "

this black eye,says no.

mrs saucy hit me with her phone.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"i'll let you's know in a minute.

this black eye,says no.

mrs saucy hit me with her phone. "

Should have black balled you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to clarify that after what I considered as an act of betrayal, my horrible sister contacted me first by text with some unpleasant words, and I responded in kind for the last time.

I would like to clarify, that I wasn't making a personal critisism, Pearl, I mean a romantic relationship where you see each other, speak regularly on the phone, and then bang, out of the blue- a "Dear John" text!"

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Oops, I forgot to add that I knew the original topic referred to a romantic relationship, sorry!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"i'll let you's know in a minute.

this black eye,says no.

mrs saucy hit me with her phone.

Should have black balled you"

she would probably have de-balled me,

but she still uses them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are reasons why sometimes its a better option, if there's likely to be violence etc, but generally I would say its a pretty gutless, disrespectful way to end a relationship.

Its better than ignoring the person and buggering off without any contact and blocking phones or communication though, or, like a guy friend of mine did, send a text to his girlfriend telling her he couldn't meet that night as he was working and then sending her another one a minute later, obviously mistakenly, which said that he couldn't wait to be holding 'her' naked in his arms in a few hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are relationships and relationships of course, but if it's someone you've been seeing regularly for a period of time, there's maybe been genuine friendship included, then firstly I would say that "dumping" them is indecent and disrespectful.

If one of the participants wants to end it, for whatever reason, then I'd say that if they're old enough to have a mature relationship, then they're old enough to end it in a mature way. And the other participant deserves more than a text!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ended my 16month "friendship" with my FB by text 2 weeks ago, i couldnt face going over to see him and to be frank.... didnt want to see him again"

in my defence... we had both left here and decided after much discusion to try a relationship, 2 weeks in and hes sending me "i dont know if i can do this" messages, so i said fair enough, lets just call it a day then, not heard from him since, didnt even get a reply to the text

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I dunno...I suppose if you were having a barney by text then saying ah stuff this I want out is acceptable.

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By *at n michaelCouple
over a year ago

AYRSHIRE


"If you've been told to fuck off via text then it's acceptable to do so. "
wishy dont know ur number lol cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its incredibly upsetting for the receiver and shows the sender to be a big fat enormous coward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not, thats a shitty way. If you want to end it be brave enough to do it to his/her face.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

as said its the easy option for the sender . saves any upset for sender but twice as much then for the recipient . very cold and cilincal and hardly adult behaviour .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you've been told to fuck off via text then it's acceptable to do so.

wishy dont know ur number lol cat"

0800 THICKSKIN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ex ended our 10 yr relationship last year by text after I called her out on using the kids' holiday savings for fag money.

Mind you, in hindsight, there was never much respect there anyway as peace only reigned when I did as I was told..

Every cloud, eh?

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

have been 3 times was sureal the first one second one a bit devastaing becuse we were an item third was was for loosing tel number on mobile phone

i think it much nicer to part as friends on fab rather than txt paul

i did watch wuthering heights lastnight

and dracula gary old man remake

paul i stilladore all you ladies xx

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

have been 3 times was sureal the first one second one a bit devastaing becuse we were an item third was was for loosing tel number on mobile phone

i think it much nicer to part as friends on fab rather than txt paul

i did watch wuthering heights lastnight

and dracula gary old man remake

paul i stilladore all you ladies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had an ex end a relationship by email ...i think that was worse .......im so glad i opened it in the morning and not 2 in the morning which was when he sent it ....... fucking coward !!!!!...but im well over it now ...i wouldnt want a man in my life who could do that to me anyway !!!!

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By *TUNNAWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

if ur in a relationship an want 2 end it

u should have the decency to end it

face to face if u cant face to face

its just a cowards way out an it's no

nice 2 treat someone in that manner

at least have the balls 2 confront

the person an give them some respect x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errr.. Hello?? Planet Earth??

If you dump someone they are likely to be upset. There is no nice way to upset someone. If you dump someone face to face do you really think they're going to say "Oh, ok. See you around" and walk off quietly?

No, they're going to want to know why and then you either get resentment and anger in which case it all kicks off, or hurt and on go the tears.

They want to see you. You don't want to see them, and on that basis however you do it will hurt them, so the means is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a despicable thing to do, it shows a lack of respect

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I just don't get why someone would want to do that if you are an adult.

Seems pathetic to me.

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By *kyblue2681Woman
over a year ago

manchester

if a serious relationship then no but a short term fling or fb relationship would be ok as not serious.

id been with this guy only a few months and was trying really hard to make it work as he was a lovely guy but he was sh*t in bed and was sorting a night out with friends for my bday. he was being funny about if he was coming or not so on the day i text asking if was coming or not and got a right shitty reply. saying no and if i had the cash to go out id go out with my friends not you. so my prompt reply was fine don't text or ring me ever again.

a few weeks later he started with the whole im soooo sorry blah blah

so yes text dumping is sometimes required lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"if a serious relationship then no but a short term fling or fb relationship would be ok as not serious.

id been with this guy only a few months and was trying really hard to make it work as he was a lovely guy but he was sh*t in bed and was sorting a night out with friends for my bday. he was being funny about if he was coming or not so on the day i text asking if was coming or not and got a right shitty reply. saying no and if i had the cash to go out id go out with my friends not you. so my prompt reply was fine don't text or ring me ever again.

a few weeks later he started with the whole im soooo sorry blah blah

so yes text dumping is sometimes required lol "

That is where I am coming from; a relationship no matter how short that involved genuine feelings deserves more than a text. A FB "relationship" that only focussed on meeting at a club or similar is different and a text may be appropriate. All in all, it just all depends on the circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

No luv its not acceptable at all I say x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

No luv its not acceptable at all I say x"
Which one is the luv?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Got dumped by txt 7 yrs ago after 8 yrs together (have plenty to say about that) not married, but now I am selling my house she wants 1/2 of it

NO CHANCE BITCH

Sorry just getting a little emotional...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

No luv its not acceptable at all I say xWhich one is the luv? "

My m8 the OP is the luv. And a nice little luv she is also

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Got dumped by txt 7 yrs ago after 8 yrs together (have plenty to say about that) not married, but now I am selling my house she wants 1/2 of it

NO CHANCE BITCH

Sorry just getting a little emotional...

"
That is truly awful and disrespectful! Sorry to hear that and I hope it does not put you off trying again some day! x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

No luv its not acceptable at all I say xWhich one is the luv?

My m8 the OP is the luv. And a nice little luv she is also "

Ah thats ok, cos I was not sure whether you were replying to one of us..

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

I am keeping quite I case Mrs New reads this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its ur last 10p credit...yes

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Maybe if it all started online and text and continued as such it's fitting... Sometimes it's easier to get out how you feel in a nice way without being interrupted. A fb shouldn't be an emotional relationship but only you can say how it was prob received in that form. Whats done is done. Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with alot of the comments on here...yes if you choose to spend/share friendship, emotional or physical intimacy let alone even be living together how could you end it over text? yes undermines the time you spent, shared and thought of the person..it is cowardly but then it shows your true character in the end and if they were ever sincere with you in the first place..either way at least you got to know as no point dwelling on ifs and hows but learn from it no matter how hard..lifes to short to be hung up and not let it affect any other future relationships..Nice to see decent honourable people on here..Rick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been dumped by text valentines day last year, in my opinion dumping by text is a wimps way out. "
YES i think your right .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its definitely for shitbags, ive definitely done it before though

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over a year ago

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"it depends i reckon, if its a fb / casual sort of relationship then it would be ok

If you were married / living together, might be a bit wrong "

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"[Removed by poster at 10/03/12 20:05:37]"

thats different, think i would do exactly the same thing xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 10/03/12 20:05:37]

thats different, think i would do exactly the same thing xxx"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes it is absolutely FINE to send a message by text to say that you dont' want to see someone anymore.

It seems clear to me that people have assumed that there is some deep, meaningful commited relationship going on on BOTH sides. Why ?

No indication has been given as to the length or depth of commitment.

What a relationship means to one is NOT what it necessarily means to the other. Only the other knows what the other is or was feeling.

It hurts when a relationship is one sided or even if it's incredibly passionate and loving for both and then the passion , love or both subside for one half of the couple. One of them feels as if they are alive with their sould in the grave.

We'd all be over the moon with a text that said ' I love you' No one would question the morality of sending that.

It is fine. It's a brief letter. Unpleasant to recieve yet love and relationships have always been fraught and painful.

Why blame the technology?

Is the pain lessened by perfumed vellum? I don't think so. All the why's and dont's in a face to face confrontation won't save a relationship that one side is finished with.

When something is dead it's dead. The injured party seeks comfort in any way they can. Calling the morality of the 'dumper' into public question is wound licking and little else.

Having said that. If I felt love , affection or friendship for another I would face them openly and at least allow them to question and vent but only if I knew they were reasonable people. At the end of the day..... it makes no difference.

Texts just give the reciever nothing to hit out at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur dmpd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dnt gv a fk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ur dmpd "

Can you say that in English please don't understand text talk

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

didju jst dmp me frk ff ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dnt gv a fk"

bovrd? Dnt finkso

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"dnt gv a fk"

u mn u dn't gt a fk !

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"dnt gv a fk

bovrd? Dnt finkso "

Lsr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dnt gv a fk

u mn u dn't gt a fk !"

tht 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"didju jst dmp me frk ff ?"

Nvr dmp u usin txt gran. Nuff luv n al dat x

ps. chck ur emails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ur dmpd

Can you say that in English please don't understand text talk "

Try goggle, myt hv trnslatr 4u

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"didju jst dmp me frk ff ?

Nvr dmp u usin txt gran. Nuff luv n al dat x

ps. chck ur emails "

iv u dmpd me bi e ml ope it ws in pnk ink. N e way stp bng mn dis is a sad fred.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Errr.. Hello?? Planet Earth??

If you dump someone they are likely to be upset. There is no nice way to upset someone. If you dump someone face to face do you really think they're going to say "Oh, ok. See you around" and walk off quietly?

No, they're going to want to know why and then you either get resentment and anger in which case it all kicks off, or hurt and on go the tears.

They want to see you. You don't want to see them, and on that basis however you do it will hurt them, so the means is irrelevant.

"

i think its very relivent how its ended .

i could tell a guy i was bored by the mear sight of him ,he was crap in bed and that i had found someone else who was far superior in bed than he was.OR i could tell him that things had changed and was best for both of us to move on and wish them well. still the same out come , but one done with out any tact and any empathy .

id always hope id treat others with same respect id like to be treated.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"I am keeping quite I case Mrs New reads this

"

Good Plan!

(Mrs New)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a cowardly shit way to end a relationship. It doesn't give closure, and is just one sided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am keeping quite I case Mrs New reads this

Good Plan!

(Mrs New)"

I'd talk to that bum all fookin day. I'd never shut up in fact. What a peach!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am keeping quite I case Mrs New reads this

Good Plan!

(Mrs New)

I'd talk to that bum all fookin day. I'd never shut up in fact. What a peach!! "

stop hi jacking the thread and flirting its a seri arse thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am keeping quite I case Mrs New reads this

Good Plan!

(Mrs New)

I'd talk to that bum all fookin day. I'd never shut up in fact. What a peach!!

stop hi jacking the thread and flirting its a seri arse thread "

I'd have quite a chat with your boobs too. Can I have a threeway convo with them and Mrs New's arse? Ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone don't have the respect for someone to tell them its over face to face then its a bit pathetic. A phone call is pushing it but by text is insensitive and lacks any respect for the other person.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I agree with all of those that say it's shitty , cowardly , disrespectful in some circumstances but it's still acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with all of those that say it's shitty , cowardly , disrespectful in some circumstances but it's still acceptable.

"

It wouldn't be accepted by me and many others so its not acceptable.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"I am keeping quite I case Mrs New reads this

Good Plan!

(Mrs New)

I'd talk to that bum all fookin day. I'd never shut up in fact. What a peach!! "

I now have serious boot envy....!

(Mrs New)

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

What about e mail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am keeping quite I case Mrs New reads this

Good Plan!

(Mrs New)

I'd talk to that bum all fookin day. I'd never shut up in fact. What a peach!!

I now have serious boot envy....!

(Mrs New)"

huh? it was your bum I was referring to!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I agree with all of those that say it's shitty , cowardly , disrespectful in some circumstances but it's still acceptable.

It wouldn't be accepted by me and many others so its not acceptable. "

You and many others might not accept it so it's not acceptable to you but it's still acceptable to the sender and many others.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"I am keeping quite I case Mrs New reads this

Good Plan!

(Mrs New)

I'd talk to that bum all fookin day. I'd never shut up in fact. What a peach!!

I now have serious boot envy....!

(Mrs New)

huh? it was your bum I was referring to! "

But looking at your gallery...I want dem boots..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am keeping quite I case Mrs New reads this

Good Plan!

(Mrs New)

I'd talk to that bum all fookin day. I'd never shut up in fact. What a peach!!

I now have serious boot envy....!

(Mrs New)

huh? it was your bum I was referring to!

But looking at your gallery...I want dem boots..!

"

Ah! lol.. Siren is working towards being able to get them on again. It's her benchmark for telling when she's back to her pre-pregnancy weight & figure. She's almost there, shall I ask her if you can borrow them? They've got 5" heels and she's 5'10 herself so you can imagine I wank furiously when she's wearing them - being a lover of long legs as I am.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"I am keeping quite I case Mrs New reads this

Good Plan!

(Mrs New)

I'd talk to that bum all fookin day. I'd never shut up in fact. What a peach!!

I now have serious boot envy....!

(Mrs New)

huh? it was your bum I was referring to!

But looking at your gallery...I want dem boots..!

Ah! lol.. Siren is working towards being able to get them on again. It's her benchmark for telling when she's back to her pre-pregnancy weight & figure. She's almost there, shall I ask her if you can borrow them? They've got 5" heels and she's 5'10 herself so you can imagine I wank furiously when she's wearing them - being a lover of long legs as I am. "

Bugger it...I'm only 5'4 they'd finish way too near the peachiness to look at all flattering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on the quality, length and intensity of the relationship, I think. A proper relationship and friendship deserves more than a text, a short FB fabs type relationship could be ok with a text that said "sorry, I dont want to meet anymore" ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on the receiving end of this once, whilst at work which was really nice of him! At the time I was really upset, but a few months later when he came sniffing back round I had come to my senses and realised he was a douchebag to end things that way so I sent him on his merry way...in a round about way he did me a favour by being such a cowardly prick! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I suppose my Ex partner of nearly 3 years ended our relationship by text.......... he sent me a text meant for another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt modern technology make life so much easier, back in the old days it would have been face to face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bumped for Diamondgurly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol cant believe this has been brought back after like a month or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the person you were gonna break up with is a complete psycho with a knife collection?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"lol cant believe this has been brought back after like a month or so "

Does it matter if it has been brought up. We all go through things in life that we want other peoples _iew on.. Its bad enough that a relationship has ended and we seek comfort in other people's experiences.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"lol cant believe this has been brought back after like a month or so

Does it matter if it has been brought up. We all go through things in life that we want other peoples _iew on.. Its bad enough that a relationship has ended and we seek comfort in other people's experiences."

It's okay that this has been brought back and it's FINE to be dumped by text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

getting dumped by txt if your having a txt row is understandable ish but just getting dumped out of the blue when your totally oblivious is discusting and anyone doing so deserves all he/she gets

kev

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Cowards way out.. No I dont think so .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol cant believe this has been brought back after like a month or so

Does it matter if it has been brought up. We all go through things in life that we want other peoples _iew on.. Its bad enough that a relationship has ended and we seek comfort in other people's experiences."

lol so write to dear Dedrie then or something or txt instead. Sorry bad pun I no but couldnt help it

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Could have been worse, the guy could have just ignored you and left you wandering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting dumped is the problem for most not how the fuck you get it.

Guys dump by text cos women get emotional and do your head in.

Women dump by text to avoid potential violence.

Guess what! However you get the news your dumped!!!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"lol cant believe this has been brought back after like a month or so

Does it matter if it has been brought up. We all go through things in life that we want other peoples _iew on.. Its bad enough that a relationship has ended and we seek comfort in other people's experiences.

lol so write to dear Dedrie then or something or txt instead. Sorry bad pun I no but couldnt help it "
If anyone needs Dear Deidre Timbers you do hun...go fer it!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"getting dumped by txt if your having a txt row is understandable ish but just getting dumped out of the blue when your totally oblivious is discusting and anyone doing so deserves all he/she gets

kev"

Back to the Karma thread for you Kev....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got dumped many years ago by coming home to an empty flat. even the door mat had gone. I didn't even speak to her about it. i just went back to mum and dad.

she's single now and lives with 5 cats. fuck her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol cant believe this has been brought back after like a month or so

Does it matter if it has been brought up. We all go through things in life that we want other peoples _iew on.. Its bad enough that a relationship has ended and we seek comfort in other people's experiences.

lol so write to dear Dedrie then or something or txt instead. Sorry bad pun I no but couldnt help it If anyone needs Dear Deidre Timbers you do hun...go fer it! "

Whats Dedrie look like hmmmm im game for it perhaps,

Infact on second thought hang on I have another idea lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"lol cant believe this has been brought back after like a month or so

Does it matter if it has been brought up. We all go through things in life that we want other peoples _iew on.. Its bad enough that a relationship has ended and we seek comfort in other people's experiences.

lol so write to dear Dedrie then or something or txt instead. Sorry bad pun I no but couldnt help it If anyone needs Dear Deidre Timbers you do hun...go fer it!

Whats Dedrie look like hmmmm im game for it perhaps,

Infact on second thought hang on I have another idea lol"
Well you need counselling, that is obvious.....its it getting to ya eh? eh?

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